Hi, iv kinda always been straight my entire life, but lately iv had this attraction to certain men (i still like girl btw) and i dont know if i am, and i also think that maybe i should keep it a secret and not tell my parents, nor any of my friends, idk what to do, theve always known me as straight my entire life (even thought they joke around alot) and im afraid there not going to accept me, and im also afraid the people at my school wont accept me, alot of the people there make fun of the homosexuals, bisexuals etc. Im asking you OT, what do you think i should do? (this thread sorta turned into a roll call around page 6 or 7 or so)
if their ur true friends..they won't care..and just be yourself, how old are you?... and its not really a big deal, you don't have to tell anyone, and just live your life..ur just finding some guys attractive right?.. if that's the case, your just over thinking this, :)..
I think you should wait to tell your parents until you are completely sure. Many people go through this stage in their lives when they question their own sexuality, many others don't. IT is just one of lives little quirks but I woudl wait until I was completely sure.
Hi, iv kinda always been straight my entire life, but lately iv had this attraction to certain men (i still like girl btw) and i dont know if i am, and i also think that maybe i should keep it a secret and not tell my parents, nor any of my friends, idk what to do, theve always known me as straight my entire life (even thought they joke around alot) and im afraid there not going to accept me, and im also afraid the people at my school wont accept me, alot of the people there make fun of the homosexuals, bisexuals etc. Im asking you OT, what do you think i should do?Unknown_guy42
i would not tell anyone who you did not trust.. and who would be understanding.... just keep it to your self... there is no need to tell friends and family...
Well i suggest you just carry on normal. Chances are you'll meet a pretty girl, get married, have kids and it'll never be an issue. Maybe if one day you find a guy and think you love him and he's your bf, THEN you tell your parents/friends. Until then it's just something that some people may feel awkward with, even tho they shouldn't. Theres no benefit to telling anyone. Also, if your young and/or haven't had a gf or sex in a while some guys can get a bit desperate or start experimenting or thinking about other things than girls. Not always, but could just be that. Hope things turn out well. But even if you are bi, absolutely nothing wrong with that, just doubles the chance you find the love of your life!
I would not tell those you do not trust. Just go with the flow...dont worry about making any declarations to anyone. When you meet the right individual (regardless of gender) you will know. It was the other way around for me...now I'm with a her. ;)
if their ur true friends..they won't care..and just be yourself, how old are you?... and its not really a big deal, you don't have to tell anyone, and just live your life..ur just finding some guys attractive right?.. if that's the case, your just over thinking this, :)..
Chris_Williams
13, the "middle school" thing should clear up why everyone is like that.
[QUOTE="super_mario_128"][QUOTE="harashawn"]Just because you find some guys good-looking doesn't necessarily mean you're bisexual.Unknown_guy42
I think we're supposed to assume he means he's sexually attracted to 'em... That is what i mean. Ask the guy for a romp through the daisies. If you enjoy it, congrats you're bisexual.
[QUOTE="harashawn"]Just because you find some guys good-looking doesn't necessarily mean you're bisexual.super_mario_128
I think we're supposed to assume he means he's sexually attracted to 'em... So? Honestly, There are a couple guys I've seen and thought "I could go gay for him". But that doesn't mean I like men. I have a feeling this post is going to come back to haunt me.
Just because you think another guy looks cool or nice does not mean your homosexual. If you are only talking about your friends, then you are just really close.
OT seems to have quite a reputation - this guy's made an account solely for the purpose of creating this thread. :P
Anyway, I think you'd know if you were bisexual.
scorch-62
LOL, like iv im going to put my real account in complete embarrassment. Embarrassment? What, do you have your school buddies as friends or something?
Yeah, and let's be honest here - we've recently had threads where people have openly admitted to paedophilia and incest. There's nothing wrong with bi-sexuality, now let's see your real face, TC!
So? Honestly, There are a couple guys I've seen and thought "I could go gay for him". But that doesn't mean I like men. I have a feeling this post is going to come back to haunt me. harashawn
By sexually attracted, I mean dere butts make him horneh. Which makes him either gay or bisexual, or in denial over being gay or bisexual.
[QUOTE="scorch-62"][QUOTE="Unknown_guy42"] LOL, like iv im going to put my real account in complete embarrassment. bangell99
Embarrassment? What, do you have your school buddies as friends or something?
Yeah, and let's be honest here - we've recently had threads where people have openly admitted to paedophilia and incest. There's nothing wrong with bi-sexuality, now let's see your real face, TC!
Sorry, i cant tell you who i am, i guess.......im a little scared how some people migth treat my main differently.
[QUOTE="scorch-62"] Embarrassment? What, do you have your school buddies as friends or something?Unknown_guy42
Yeah, and let's be honest here - we've recently had threads where people have openly admitted to paedophilia and incest. There's nothing wrong with bi-sexuality, now let's see your real face, TC!
Sorry, i cant tell you who i am, i guess.......im a little scared how some people migth treat my main differently. No one will treat your main differently.
Embarrassment? What, do you have your school buddies as friends or something?scorch-62
Yeah, and let's be honest here - we've recently had threads where people have openly admitted to paedophilia and incest. There's nothing wrong with bi-sexuality, now let's see your real face, TC!
Sorry, i cant tell you who i am, i guess.......im a little scared how some people migth treat my main differently. well i am a bit confused too but i don't care what people think of me here it's just the internet
[QUOTE="scorch-62"] Embarrassment? What, do you have your school buddies as friends or something?Unknown_guy42
Yeah, and let's be honest here - we've recently had threads where people have openly admitted to paedophilia and incest. There's nothing wrong with bi-sexuality, now let's see your real face, TC!
Sorry, i cant tell you who i am, i guess.......im a little scared how some people migth treat my main differently.I highly doubt anyone is going to treat you differently. It will, however, make you more popular.
Yeah, and let's be honest here - we've recently had threads where people have openly admitted to paedophilia and incest. There's nothing wrong with bi-sexuality, now let's see your real face, TC!
twilightpanda
Sorry, i cant tell you who i am, i guess.......im a little scared how some people migth treat my main differently. well i am a bit confused too but i don't care what people think of me here it's just the internet people will judge you :o
if their ur true friends..they won't care..and just be yourself, how old are you?... and its not really a big deal, you don't have to tell anyone, and just live your life..ur just finding some guys attractive right?.. if that's the case, your just over thinking this, :)..
Chris_Williams
ya, he probly just think's he's bi cause he can tell if a guy would seem hot to girls or not.... it's really just counting the bumps on somebody's stomach, the width of their upper arm, whether either of those parts jiggle when they walk, and a bit of what their face looks like. and how many red dots are on their face. not something only gay guys can do.
[QUOTE="Unknown_guy42"] Sorry, i cant tell you who i am, i guess.......im a little scared how some people migth treat my main differently. Why would we treat you differently? We're all friends here. Sort of. We're all friendly here. Well, most of us are. We're all here. Usually. I guess we're just all sometimes here, and when we are, we're all sort of friendly.
Yeah, and let's be honest here - we've recently had threads where people have openly admitted to paedophilia and incest. There's nothing wrong with bi-sexuality, now let's see your real face, TC!
BumFluff122
Sorry, i cant tell you who i am, i guess.......im a little scared how some people migth treat my main differently.I highly doubt anyone is going to treat you differently. It will, however, make you more popular. At least temporarily.
[QUOTE="twilightpanda"][QUOTE="Unknown_guy42"] Sorry, i cant tell you who i am, i guess.......im a little scared how some people migth treat my main differently.chAzN93
well i am a bit confused too but i don't care what people think of me here it's just the internet people will judge you :o well people did'nt judge me when i talked to people about my feelings on RC
well i am a bit confused too but i don't care what people think of me here it's just the internet twilightpanda
people will judge you :o well people did'nt judge me when i talked to people about my feelings on RC That's because RC's sole intention is to make BFF's. >_>
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