Seriously need some advice. (relationship advice)

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#1 Deathxcore
Member since 2007 • 1786 Posts

Ok heres the deal.

My friend's girlfriend that he thinks he loves wants to break up with him, and go out with me.

I really like her but I dont want to partake because hes my best friend.

Shes really cool and shes really cute and I really wanna go out with her but I told him that I wouldnt if they broke up.

Should I go out with her anyway?

Should I let her cheat on him with me?

Should I tell him about it and tell him that I like her back?

Let me know.

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#2 quadraleap
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I would not let her get between your friendship. Let her break up and later on down the road maybe you can see her if there is still mutual attraction. If you get involved now then you will burn your friendship over this girl that will probably not be your girlfriend for very long...by the sounds of her.

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#3 Deathxcore
Member since 2007 • 1786 Posts

As someone once told me, bro's before ___'s.

quadraleap

but she isnt a h03 nor do i like the way he talks to her and treats her. he doest treat her bad. just not like i would. he thinks he loves her because she listens to his idiot sarcasm and trash talk about people.
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#4 K4ss3r
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Ask yourself if she's worth destroying a friendship for. But really, if she wants to break up with him and go out with you, then I don't see their relationship getting any futher..
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#5 SolidSnake35
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I wouldn't let her cheat on him, that's for sure.
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#6 Trippinskott
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Refer to this video man... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g34SRVCkm5I Kinda relates, but either way, it's funny as hell. Keep us posted though on whichever you do. You may also refer to Man Law: Your best friend is dumped by his girlfriend. How long before you can ask her out? It was suggested to be various short amounts of time, but the idea of dating a friend's ex was thought to be wholly unacceptable by Mr. Reynolds. However, when asked "What if she's drop-dead gorgeous?", Mr. Reynolds changed his answer to "Six months" and the motion was summarily accepted.
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#7 pinneyapple
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Just do it!
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#8 DatsClownin
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we need pics to tell you honestly
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#9 steeeeeeveperry
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Bros before Hoes.

Always.
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#10 thotoz
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we need pics to tell you honestlyDatsClownin
we always need pics ha
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#11 badaboom187
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dude you're a bad friend , you broken the man law!!!
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#12 LA_lakers_4life
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you cannot get with her....its against the rules of being a dude....dude-ity above anything else
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#13 jm4847
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Bros before Hoes.

Always.
steeeeeeveperry
Damn you beat me to it :D
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#14 Apenoot
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I wouldn't date with her... nor get involved at all in their relationship. They're gonna break up eventually, then perhaps after a while you can talk to him about it.
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#15 branketra
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Ahem.....buddies before bunnies.
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#16 xhellcatx
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Ahem.....buddies before bunnies.BranKetra
:shock: i actually appriciate that one lol Thanks for that Bran ;)

anyways, that situation...nothing but bad. Cheating = pathetic, wrong, stupid...f'd up...ect ect ect. You dont let her cheat on him...ESPECIALLY WITH YOU. Thats retarded. You should talk to her and tell her that if she doesnt want to be with you friend anymore, then yea, they should break up, cause cheatings a terrible alternative....BUT you arent going to go out with her, because your friend is your FRIEND and youve been friends longer then you have known her, thats for sure. You need to stick by your friend and stick up for him.  You stealin his girl = fisticuffs and hate between the two of you

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#17 Krigen89
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[QUOTE="quadraleap"]

As someone once told me, bro's before ___'s.

Deathxcore

but she isnt a h03 nor do i like the way he talks to her and treats her. he doest treat her bad. just not like i would. he thinks he loves her because she listens to his idiot sarcasm and trash talk about people.



Are you sure he's your best friend?

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#18 NavigatorsGhost
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I'm guessing your 12...
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#19 Big_Bad_Sad
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If you see him as a good friend then no. Girls will always come and go but your friends are for life.
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#20 andyxm
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Number 1 manlaw is never go out with your buddies sister or ex's, no matter what
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#21 coldfire447
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ur first mistake was telling him u wouldnt go out with her if they broke up
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#22 megagene
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Never let a woman come between you and a friend. Date someone else.
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#23 Apenoot
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Sister of best friend = fine with me :D

...if I'd be attracted to her. But generally, I wouldn't mind if my best friend would date my sis

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#24 Greenwhitegreen
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I would think that you would find your friendship more important than any fling...so I would guess that your decision would be easy...:wink:
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#25 TitusAndronicus
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The great thing is about friends and girlfriends is that they are a dime a dozen.  Get the girl, ditch the friendship, then drop her to the curb.  You'll be able to spend less time with others and more time playing with chainsaws and the like.
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#26 -Karayan-
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She's not property, she can make up her own damn mind. If she wants to go out with you I don't see any problem.