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#1 Efielret
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I don't know if I keep getting involved. My sister is 12 and there's this 17 year old that says he likes her, my sister says she "loves" him, but I know she wouldn't know the slightest thing about love. This guy treats her bad, blaming her for stuff that she didn't do, even telling her that he wants to engage in sexual acts with her.. I feel like hurting him, but since I'm 18 now I could go to jail. I told my mom about this but my sister denies it. No one will believe what I'm telling them about him. I keep trying to explain this stuff to my sister about why she shouldn't be even friends with him, because he basically just swears, acts perverted, and blames stuff on her.. She won't listen. What are your thoughts on this?
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#2 xpmonster
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Tell the guy to back off. If he does anything either fight or call the police.
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#3 hormagaunt
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dude just beat him up, you gotta stand up for yourself and your sister

thats messed up

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#4 3eyedrazorback
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Shoot the guy and take his money Niko style.
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#5 Efielret
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I have told him, I told him to his face if he keeps doing that to her, I would call the cops, or do something myself. He just told me that he doesn't do anything. I'm just waiting until my sister gets home so I can tell her what I'm going to do, because well she's my sister and I'm just going to let her know so it won't be so much a suprise for her.
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#6 deactivated-5e836a855beb2
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Ew. Just ew.
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#7 Tykain
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That's so wrong, I'd beat him up if i was you. Not telling you to do that tho, but you should have a talk with the guy and make it clear you wont let him do that crap.
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#8 dschuhrke
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Dude shes 12? She souldnt be seeing ANYBODY let alone an 18 year old. Its kinda disturbing that this 18 year old kid would even be talking to her. Im 25 and would definitely kick his ass, jail or not. Or i would at least make it look like i was gonna kik his ass. A little intimidation goes a long way. get some of your boys together to scare him off.
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#9 mattyftm
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Call the police. That guy is a pedophile.
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#10 metallica_fan42
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Go and talk to this fellow. Tell him the situation. Fighting him should be the last option.
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#11 deactivated-5985f1128b98f
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Good for you for giving a damn about your little sister. You're going to have to hurt this a-hole. Be smart. Follow him a while and pick a good time and place to confront him. Somewhere/sometime with little chance for witnesses. Take a buddy if you have one you know you can count on. Don't talk, don't bargain, just jump him and beat his ass, bad. Then explain if he doesn't leave your sister alone, next time you'll kill him. Put the fear of God in him and make him believe that if you have to go to jail for protecting your sis, you'll do it. If he calls the cops afterwords, keep your mouth shut and get a lawyer. Again, if you have a friend you know you can count on, set up an aliby ahead of time.

Best of luck to you.

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#12 Rhazakna
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That's disgusting. Tell him to back off, and if he doesn't get a bat.
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#13 Raged-wolverine
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smack some sense into ur sis

or beat the crap out of the guy

or DO BOTH!!

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#14 Fortier
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I'd run up behind on the streets late one night and hit him in the back of the knee with a crowbar.

How that translates to your situation: Be agressive in letting this guy know that you are not ****ing around, in whatever way works best for you. You have to make him know you're more serious about her than he is. If that entails kicking his ass to you, go for it, though there's likely a better COA.

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Do you have access to any weapons?
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#16 Efielret
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The cops (one is my dad's friend.) said I can't do anything without damn proof of what's going on, I have like an hour til my sis gets here. Well if I need proof I'm going to turn the conversation saving thing on MSN on, so I can use that, to link other stuff with his name to that. I don't want to fight, because I want him to rot in jail.. I'm going to have to talk to him for the last time telling him to back off. I have to hold off the really bad urge I have of beating him down..
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I don't know if I keep getting involved. My sister is 12 and there's this 17 year old that says he likes her, my sister says she "loves" him, but I know she wouldn't know the slightest thing about love. This guy treats her bad, blaming her for stuff that she didn't do, even telling her that he wants to engage in sexual acts with her.. I feel like hurting him, but since I'm 18 now I could go to jail. I told my mom about this but my sister denies it. No one will believe what I'm telling them about him. I keep trying to explain this stuff to my sister about why she shouldn't be even friends with him, because he basically just swears, acts perverted, and blames stuff on her.. She won't listen. What are your thoughts on this?Efielret

i got a sis 12 y old , if i hear that 14 y old wants to date her.. ill beat the *** outa him so 17? are you crazy

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#18 dragon7x2k
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You must protect your sister, I think you should talk with her. If that guy search a 12 years girl must be because he can't get a girl with similar age
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#19 Nintendo-Nerd
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Sit them both down and talk about it together, and if it still goes on then bring out the bat.
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#20 Efielret
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[QUOTE="Efielret"]I don't know if I keep getting involved. My sister is 12 and there's this 17 year old that says he likes her, my sister says she "loves" him, but I know she wouldn't know the slightest thing about love. This guy treats her bad, blaming her for stuff that she didn't do, even telling her that he wants to engage in sexual acts with her.. I feel like hurting him, but since I'm 18 now I could go to jail. I told my mom about this but my sister denies it. No one will believe what I'm telling them about him. I keep trying to explain this stuff to my sister about why she shouldn't be even friends with him, because he basically just swears, acts perverted, and blames stuff on her.. She won't listen. What are your thoughts on this?KisukexD

i got a sis 12 y old , if i hear that 14 y old wants to date her.. ill beat the *** outa him so 17? are you crazy



I don't want to risk going to jail, no one really cares about my sister.. So, I'm pretty much most of the family she has. She's lives with her family. She's my step sister. I look after her and do all I can so she can be fine. She hardly has friends just about 3 or 4, and I don't want to leave her without someone to look after her...
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#21 dragon7x2k
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[QUOTE="KisukexD"]

[QUOTE="Efielret"]I don't know if I keep getting involved. My sister is 12 and there's this 17 year old that says he likes her, my sister says she "loves" him, but I know she wouldn't know the slightest thing about love. This guy treats her bad, blaming her for stuff that she didn't do, even telling her that he wants to engage in sexual acts with her.. I feel like hurting him, but since I'm 18 now I could go to jail. I told my mom about this but my sister denies it. No one will believe what I'm telling them about him. I keep trying to explain this stuff to my sister about why she shouldn't be even friends with him, because he basically just swears, acts perverted, and blames stuff on her.. She won't listen. What are your thoughts on this?Efielret

i got a sis 12 y old , if i hear that 14 y old wants to date her.. ill beat the *** outa him so 17? are you crazy



I don't want to risk going to jail, no one really cares about my sister.. So, I'm pretty much most of the family she has. She's lives with her family. She's my step sister. I look after her and do all I can so she can be fine. She hardly has friends just about 3 or 4, and I don't want to leave her without someone to look after her...

I can understand that but, a 12 years old girl isn't mature enough to get a serious relation, besides the guy is almost an adult , I can't believe you don't want to kill him, besides having 3-4 friends is not a bad thing if they are good friends, I mean why do you need houndreds of fake friends, you say almost nobody care for her but I assume her friends do

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#22 Efielret
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[QUOTE="Efielret"][QUOTE="KisukexD"]

[QUOTE="Efielret"]I don't know if I keep getting involved. My sister is 12 and there's this 17 year old that says he likes her, my sister says she "loves" him, but I know she wouldn't know the slightest thing about love. This guy treats her bad, blaming her for stuff that she didn't do, even telling her that he wants to engage in sexual acts with her.. I feel like hurting him, but since I'm 18 now I could go to jail. I told my mom about this but my sister denies it. No one will believe what I'm telling them about him. I keep trying to explain this stuff to my sister about why she shouldn't be even friends with him, because he basically just swears, acts perverted, and blames stuff on her.. She won't listen. What are your thoughts on this?dragon7x2k

i got a sis 12 y old , if i hear that 14 y old wants to date her.. ill beat the *** outa him so 17? are you crazy



I don't want to risk going to jail, no one really cares about my sister.. So, I'm pretty much most of the family she has. She's lives with her family. She's my step sister. I look after her and do all I can so she can be fine. She hardly has friends just about 3 or 4, and I don't want to leave her without someone to look after her...

I can understand that but, a 12 years old girl isn't mature enough to get a serious relation, besides the guy is almost an adult , I can't believe you don't want to kill him, besides having 3-4 friends is not a bad thing if they are good friends, I mean why do you need houndreds of fake friends, you say almost nobody care for her but I assume her friends do



I do want to.. Oh, how I want to.. I know she's not mature enough to be in a serious relationship. She doesn't really even talk to them, and "care for her" as in take care of her and see what she needs.
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#23 D3nnyCrane
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If you think you can take him, confront him where there are no witnesses and tell him to walk away while he's got the legs to carry him.

If he insists on hanging around, you need to get a mate and work him over. If he needs his joys outta the thought of emotionally abusing a 12 year old, he's gonna be wicked scared after being knocked the frick out...

I am dead serious - you need to stop this before he does permanent damage bro!

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#24 Kingdomkey33
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do what my dad always did when a guy follwed me home...take out a shot gun (click,click) point it at his head and say do you feel lucky? ill give you a 5 second head run...LOL it worked for me everytime haha never saw those guys again :D.

I love my dad haha!

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#25 KisukexD
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do what my dad always did when a guy follwed me home...take out a shot gun (click,click) point it at his head and say do you feel lucky? ill give you a 5 second head run...LOL it worked for me everytime haha never saw those guys again :D.

I love my dad haha!

Kingdomkey33

lol sounds nice , I want to meet your dad :D

btw efier , just go talk to this guy's dad, mom whatever , parents understand situations,show them that you're serious . .

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#26 D3nnyCrane
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[QUOTE="Kingdomkey33"]

do what my dad always did when a guy follwed me home...take out a shot gun (click,click) point it at his head and say do you feel lucky? ill give you a 5 second head run...LOL it worked for me everytime haha never saw those guys again :D.

I love my dad haha!

KisukexD

lol sounds nice , I want to meet your dad :D

Was your Dad in Deliverance? Haha just kidding that sounds awesome - me and Dad are both big ex-military guys, and by 18 year old bro is a built mechanic - we are fairly intimidating when our sisters bring a guy home. On the up side, Mum turns super nice...

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#27 SeanUD1
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do what my dad always did when a guy follwed me home...take out a shot gun (click,click) point it at his head and say do you feel lucky? ill give you a 5 second head run...LOL it worked for me everytime haha never saw those guys again :D.

I love my dad haha!

Kingdomkey33

Yeah um....gtfo.

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#28 solid_mario
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Shoot the guy and take his money Niko style.3eyedrazorback
And they sat GTA causes violence... :roll:
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Ask him to be your butt buddy.
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#30 legend26
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dude......shes 12! and hes 17?! call the friggen police!
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#31 Efielret
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Ask him to be your butt buddy. SaintBlaze


I actually laughed at that... But I want him to go to jail for that reason too. So he can be everyone's butt buddy.

Well thanks for the opinions everyone. I have to go because my sister is here.
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Run over him with a firetruck.

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#33 char1968
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if you do what im about to say its like you killing him:

get inside his mind, follow him stalk him and see evrything he does, then play mindjokes on him, go to his house a put notes on his window,scare the guy to death!

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#34 xscrapzx
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What I would just beat his ass because she is 12 years old! Are you kidding me why would your mother even allow such a thing??? :|
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love has no age maaaaaaaaan!
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#36 Efielret
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I was able to talk to my sister about it. I told her everything I would do and what would happen if she doesn't stop and how I'm still going to call the cops on him, but well, now she realized it and is going to give me proof of what he says. She's went to her mom's house now. This is a real relief.