Should i do it with her...?

Hi guys...

i have a big problem ;(

i m in love with girl but she lives far away... ( other country) ..we met at school... but we never been together... well the things is

that now i live in another country,and i found a girl who likes me... i m 17 years old and virgin, never kiss, never a hug nothing 100% loser.. i m not that ugly tho, i just dont talk much...

ok.. the things is.. should i go out with this girl, forget about the other one?

or wait so i can be with the girl that i really love, and live happily ever after?

agh.. i dont wanna lose this chance, and then, the other girl, tell me she has a boyfriend.. and i end up all alone again

what do i do!?!??!

help please!

go for the one close and build some experience. Then u can really impress the other girl if you meet her again.strongbow540

mmm good idea.. but i will not feel good, i m the kind of person who thinks to much, and it would just kill me, i think that if go with the girl that lives here, i just wont be able to talk to the other again... thats my fear... maybe i choose what is easy.. but i lose something that could last forever..

or maybe i wait for the other girl, and the one day she calls me and say: hi.. i got a bf now..

that would just kill me...

sh,... i dont know what to do ;(

as far as I can tell, you're like me, I couldn't have sex with a person even if I wanted to, without loving that person, you just wait, and if it does comes along, that one special moment will beat all others

Do not, I repeat, Do not, do things with the girl you do not love, you will feel crappy afterwards

At least, that's the Idea I'm getting from your posts

as far as I can tell, you're like me, I couldn't have sex with a person even if I wanted to, without loving that person, you just wait, and if it does comes along, that one special moment will beat all others

Do not, I repeat, Do not, do things with the girl you do not love, you will feel crappy afterwards

At least, that's the Idea I'm getting from your posts

L_burna

yeah i know.... but i really wanna do something... you know.. atleast a kiss.. i dont wanna end up like that dude in the movie 40 yr old virgin.. but i dont wanna play with anyones heart ;(

i need to talk to the girl that lives far away... and ask her.. if she is going to wait for me.. and all that.

It sounds hard but why don't you have a little fun then forget about her.

[QUOTE="L_burna"]

as far as I can tell, you're like me, I couldn't have sex with a person even if I wanted to, without loving that person, you just wait, and if it does comes along, that one special moment will beat all others

Do not, I repeat, Do not, do things with the girl you do not love, you will feel crappy afterwards

At least, that's the Idea I'm getting from your posts

big_boss4life

yeah i know.... but i really wanna do something... you know.. atleast a kiss.. i dont wanna end up like that dude in the movie 40 yr old virgin.. but i dont wanna play with anyones heart ;(

i need to talk to the girl that lives far away... and ask her.. if she is going to wait for me.. and all that.

17 is a LONG way off 40 man. Just wait and you'll see what is right in time.

if you think that's best for you and her, you should

after all, I don't know you, so I don't know what's best for you

for all I know you could be a psycho killer clown

You live in another country now? Its time to forget about the other girl. You're only 17... As much as you think you might be in love with the first girl, theres a good chance that you're just mistaking something else for love. It happens a lot when people really like a girl for the first time. Who knows when you'll see her again? How long can you really wait? And even if you can wait a long time, can she? It isn't worth it. Forget about her and move on. New country, new girls. Enjoy it.Mumbles527

/agree, saving yourself for someone who might not be saving herself for you is not worth it, but still, do what you think is best

I honestly find it difficult to believe that someone can have very deep feelings for someone you probably don't even know that well, and lives in a different country. I mean, isn't understanding one of the key things of love?-kaz3-

the things is that i saw her in person at school 3 to 4 years ago, and friend game me her email we talked over the summer and when the classes started i had to move.. but we ve talk on the phone on skype, on msn, all night, all day.. i know everything about her,,, is something difficult to explain, but lately she hasnt been the same, thats why i think the worst ;(

but i find this girl that i dont like very much but she likes me.. and i can do things with her.. like someone say in this post..i can play a little and get some confidence, but idont wanna play with any one ;(

and i m not a killin psico,, i m just 17yrs whos confused...

[QUOTE="-kaz3-"]I honestly find it difficult to believe that someone can have very deep feelings for someone you probably don't even know that well, and lives in a different country. I mean, isn't understanding one of the key things of love?big_boss4life

the things is that i saw her in person at school 3 to 4 years ago, and friend game me her email we talked over the summer and when the classes started i had to move.. but we ve talk on the phone on skype, on msn, all night, all day.. i know everything about her,,, is something difficult to explain, but lately she hasnt been the same, thats why i think the worst ;(

but i find this girl that i dont like very much but she likes me.. and i can do things with her.. like someone say in this post..i can play a little and get some confidence, but idont wanna play with any one ;(

and i m not a killin psico,, i m just 17yrs whos confused...