Should I feel guilty/bad or not? I call upon OT for opinions!

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#1 Wasdie  Moderator
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Ok I never ever make OT threads yet I have been here since 2003, so I figured its about time. I also believe I have something that's very OT appropriate. :P

For the past week I visted my hometown and stayed with my parents to catch up and relax before my fourth year at college. Last night I went out with a few of my highschool buddies for a bunch of drinks. I had quite a few.

Anyways after hopping between a few bars (I am 21) I met up with an old high-school classmate that I haven't seen since I graduated in 2006. Heres where it got wierd, I remembered her but I couldn't remember her name. In my drunken-ness I told her I forgot her name and she was happy to tell me. Throughout the rest of the night we drank and talked.

As it got late, and my drunken level got higher and higher, I somehow ended up making out with her in the bar. She then proceeded to escort me back home where I proceeded to make out with her still in her car. We said goodnight, and she threw her number in my phone for me to call her.

The worst part about this whole thing was the fact that I threw up a bunch at the bar (in the bathroom) before I started making out with her. I got a drink of water before so there wasnt fresh throwup in my mouth. (See kids this is why you should not drink so much). When we were back at my place, we made out, she dropped me off, then I proceeded to throw up again, this time quite a bit.

The funny thing is the whole kissing thing was very mutual the entire time. Thus I wonder if I should feel horribly guilty or I should just throw it under my drunken memories and get on with my life. That is what I need your opinion on.

To make things right I am going to give her a call and apologize for being so stupidly drunk. I've never gotten drunk and made out with anybody but my previous girlfriends while we were dateing.

I need your thoughts, feelings, and comments. I figured you all could use a good laugh.

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#2 queen_vee
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"Just throw it under my drunken memories and get on with my life." This, there isnt anything wrong with what you did. The kissing was mutual.
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#3 FragStains
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If she came back for seconds, I only blame her if she got a few granules of vomit off your teeth.
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#4 Razor-Lazor
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Maybe you were throwing up because you kissed her! :o Then you might have a problem.
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#6 pvtdonut54
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Don't drink, problem solved.

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#7 Razor-Lazor
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Don't drink, problem solved.

pvtdonut54
Not drinking doesn't get rid of the guilt that he puked and then proceeded to kiss the girl. :| I mean, I don't think there's too much wrong with that, but not drinking isn't going to fix anything.
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#8 pvtdonut54
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[QUOTE="pvtdonut54"]

Don't drink, problem solved.

Razor-Lazor

Not drinking doesn't get rid of the guilt that he puked and then proceeded to kiss the girl. :| I mean, I don't think there's too much wrong with that, but not drinking isn't going to fix anything.


If he stops going over board he won't have this problem. Sounds to me though he doesn't drink much.

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#9 British_Azimio
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You obviously can't handle alcohol that well if you puke like that, so I suggest you try to limit your consumption.
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#10 stupid4
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What's the big deal? Get on with your life.

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#11 Wasdie  Moderator
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Was she drunk too?

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Oh yeah she was. Probably shouldn't have driven... oh well.
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#12 Deadly_Fatalis
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She was probably drunk too. I'd apologize, but don't be too specific :P, if she remembers, that's fine, but I would just file it under drunken memories.
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#13 Wasdie  Moderator
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You obviously can't handle alcohol that well if you puke like that, so I suggest you try to limit your consumption.British_Azimio
I usually can handle my alcohol, I just had a TON more than I usually do. I was being crazy apparently. I never drink that much.
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#14 British_Azimio
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[QUOTE="British_Azimio"]You obviously can't handle alcohol that well if you puke like that, so I suggest you try to limit your consumption.Wasdie
I usually can handle my alcohol, I just had a TON more than I usually do. I was being crazy apparently. I never drink that much.

This is why you should never underestimate booze. ;)

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#15 Second_Rook
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I wouldn't even bother to call her if I wasn't interested, unless of course she seemed likely to have sex with me next time.

Do you feel guilty? If not/so, you have your answer.

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#16 Derek42
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mabye she was throwing up to at times and made out with you.

Mabye she is having this same question with other people.

"should i feel bad about puking then making out with him?"

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#17 Chris_Williams
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that's the sickest thing i heard.... ewww

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#18 dave123321
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It would be wise to not drink to the point of drunkenness . As for what occurred , I would not feel too bad. Calling her and explaining is probably a good plan. Other then thatI would not worry or feel guilty. Should have taken a cab though.
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#19 JustPlainLucas
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Well... you only drank/rinsed with water. I'm sure she knew you threw up before she kissed you, and then gave you her number anyway. Dude, you've got it made. 8)
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#20 Mordraneth
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Here is my advice, take it or leave it:

Give her a call and semi-apologize for being drunk while it happened. Ask her if now that you two are sober if she would like to go out for dinner or something. Make sure to specify that there is no pressure or expectations, despite the night before. While out with her (and alchohol free) if things move towards where they did the night before, you are assured that it was mutual, was not due to the booze AND it may go further. If things stay friendly you can rest well knowing that you two resolved it and can start building a friendship together.

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#21 LostProphetFLCL
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[QUOTE="Wasdie"][QUOTE="British_Azimio"]You obviously can't handle alcohol that well if you puke like that, so I suggest you try to limit your consumption.British_Azimio

I usually can handle my alcohol, I just had a TON more than I usually do. I was being crazy apparently. I never drink that much.

This is why you should never underestimate booze. ;)

Yeah, alcohol can have you groping a girl you had recently rejected and at the same time insisting her name is different and that you only call her by hernormal name "somtimes".....

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#22 D3nnyCrane
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No way should you feel guilty. Like Wayne said in Wayne's World "If you hurl, and the girl stays, it was meant to be".
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#23 Serraph105
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uh unless you don't like her or it just wouldnt work or something try and get a girlfriend out of the deal. Not to mention you dopn't need us to tell you how you should be feeling you just feel the way you do regardless.