Should I transfer to an all boy's school? (Warning: Misery and Woe inside)

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#1 deactivated-5f4694ac412a8
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Hey, I go to a male/female High School right now. I'm a Freshman, and it's all been one absolutely horrible experience.

See, there's this female that I like, right? Well, she doesn't like me back because I'm ugly as hell, so I have no chance with her whatsoever. Now, there's this other kid that hot that she has "done stuff" with. I won't say what this "stuff" is, but I think you get it.

This just makes me uneasy. Yes, I know... I may be overreacting about this, but it hurts knowing what she does with this guy, for some odd reason. I used to think getting angry over this stuff was silly and just plain stupid, but that was when I wasn't in High School.

What sucks is my extreme obsession/attraction towards this female. I waste countless hours online waiting for this guy to come on, instead of actually doing my homework. It has really gotten out of hand. I tried to make up a reason to stop talking to her, but it failed. I'm afraid that I won't be able to get past all of this. I'll just continue thinking about her, even though nothing will ever happen.

You could say move on to another girl... Well, first of all, it's too hard to move on. Second of all, even if I did, it would be the same exact case because I am so goddamn ugly. Yes, it sucks immensly, esepcially when my older sister is so hot.

I think I am failing a few subjects right now, and there's a chance I may have to go to Summer School. I hate placing blame on people, but it's this damn girl's fault. No, it's my fault for getting so attached, but if she never existed, I would being just swell! My grades were never THAT bad in Grade School, and now I have a D in most classes, and an F in one.

I was thinking that maybe I should just go to an all boy's school. Yeah, kind of silly reason, but I think I might stop focusing on females so much. I don't know if I would see them that often on weekends. Maybe, but at least they'd be out of my head. I'm just wondering if it's okay for a human being to basically have no female contact outside family members. Would I be okay? Would I be able to function correctly?

If that's the case, then I think I might attend an all boy's school. That or I find a cure for my ugliness.

What say you?

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#2 mechwarrior_bob
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>.> fix your studies and ignore all useless objects/people they just get in the way; if you can't...transfer away
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#3 pridetwo
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or you could just chill out about the girl man... christ it's one girl, so she rejected you. so she likes another guy. what's it to you? she doesn't owe you anything and you need to get over all that. jeeesus!
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#4 -_MURS_-
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o......m.....g....:|

the quality of life here on OT has been decreasing so rapidly I think I may commit suicide in real life...

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#5 theflash118
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pathetic
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or you could just chill out about the girl man... christ it's one girl, so she rejected you. so she likes another guy. what's it to you? she doesn't owe you anything and you need to get over all that. jeeesus!pridetwo

See! That's exactly what I'd say. You know? But then it takes the whole "doing it" part, which sucks!

Grrr... Why is it so hard? I want to hate her. I wish I never met her. It's a girl. I used to make fun of people for this kind of nonsense. I feel like an idiot for posting this, but...

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#7 dangerd0g24
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what you need is to smoke some pot and chill.
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#8 deactivated-5f4694ac412a8
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what you need is to smoke some pot and chill.dangerd0g24

If I smoke pot, will I feel better?

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#9 silence790
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I don't think that you should move to an all guys school, I think you should definetly focus more on your schoolwork and let the girl go for a little bit. Even if she moves on then there's always another one just as good if not better for you. Don't worry.
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[QUOTE="pridetwo"]or you could just chill out about the girl man... christ it's one girl, so she rejected you. so she likes another guy. what's it to you? she doesn't owe you anything and you need to get over all that. jeeesus!DeathScape666

See! That's exactly what I'd say. You know? But then it takes the whole "doing it" part, which sucks!

Grrr... Why is it so hard? I want to hate her. I wish I never met her. It's a girl. I used to make fun of people for this kind of nonsense. I feel like an idiot for posting this, but...

but what? you dont want to? you cant? honestly your predicament is nothing special. there are thousands of guys who aren't liked back by the girls they like. you know what they do, rather than let their grades die from obsessing over the girl and her man? they grow a pair and move on. what's holding you back?

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I don't think that you should move to an all guys school, I think you should definetly focus more on your schoolwork and let the girl go for a little bit. Even if she moves on then there's always another one just as good if not better for you. Don't worry. silence790

If I went to an boy's school and had little to no contact with females, could I still function properly, if you know what I mean?

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#13 D3nnyCrane
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Become an hero...
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#14 sinistergoggles
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Don't worry about find a girlfriend; just focus on getting good grades and graduating. These high school relationship usually don't last anyways. Especially during your freshman year... just FOCUS ON YOUR GRADES!

And if you're worried you won't get any.. just be patient and you'll get laid in the futurerz.

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[QUOTE="DeathScape666"]

[QUOTE="pridetwo"]or you could just chill out about the girl man... christ it's one girl, so she rejected you. so she likes another guy. what's it to you? she doesn't owe you anything and you need to get over all that. jeeesus!pridetwo

See! That's exactly what I'd say. You know? But then it takes the whole "doing it" part, which sucks!

Grrr... Why is it so hard? I want to hate her. I wish I never met her. It's a girl. I used to make fun of people for this kind of nonsense. I feel like an idiot for posting this, but...

but what? you dont want to? you cant? honestly your predicament is nothing special. there are thousands of guys who aren't liked back by the girls they like. you know what they do, rather than let their grades die from obsessing over the girl and her man? they grow a pair and move on. what's holding you back?

That makes me feel better, knowing that there's other people with the same situation. Alright, I'll try to.

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[QUOTE="DeathScape666"]

[QUOTE="dangerd0g24"]what you need is to smoke some pot and chill.-_MURS_-

If I smoke pot, will I feel better?

Yes, thats what got me through a similar situation. I wasnt feeling as bad as you though...maybe you should try Heroin...it would work better in your case

or crack rocks....or meth....or potassium cyanide...

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[QUOTE="silence790"]I don't think that you should move to an all guys school, I think you should definetly focus more on your schoolwork and let the girl go for a little bit. Even if she moves on then there's always another one just as good if not better for you. Don't worry. DeathScape666

If I went to an boy's school and had little to no contact with females, could I still function properly, if you know what I mean?

its clear you will never "function properly"...your brain doesnt work...you have a better chance of being successful in a mental institution somewhere. An all boys school wont change a damn thing

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#18 Thiago26792
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No. Just stop thinking about that girl.
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[QUOTE="silence790"]I don't think that you should move to an all guys school, I think you should definetly focus more on your schoolwork and let the girl go for a little bit. Even if she moves on then there's always another one just as good if not better for you. Don't worry. DeathScape666

If I went to an boy's school and had little to no contact with females, could I still function properly, if you know what I mean?

Probably not, it would more than likely make you feel worse to be honest.
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#20 Sajo7
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Ugh...

You're overreacting in every possible way, just stop taking this so seriously. Trust me, you will forget about her.

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[QUOTE="DeathScape666"]

[QUOTE="silence790"]I don't think that you should move to an all guys school, I think you should definetly focus more on your schoolwork and let the girl go for a little bit. Even if she moves on then there's always another one just as good if not better for you. Don't worry. silence790

If I went to an boy's school and had little to no contact with females, could I still function properly, if you know what I mean?

Probably not, it would more than likely make you feel worse to be honest.

...Drugs it is then!

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#22 Robo_k_night
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What sucks is my extreme obsession/attraction towards this female. I waste countless hours online waiting for this guy to come on, instead of actually doing my homework

DeathScape666

That part was confusing :?

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[QUOTE="-_MURS_-"][QUOTE="DeathScape666"]

[QUOTE="dangerd0g24"]what you need is to smoke some pot and chill.pridetwo

If I smoke pot, will I feel better?

Yes, thats what got me through a similar situation. I wasnt feeling as bad as you though...maybe you should try Heroin...it would work better in your case

or crack rocks....or meth....or potassium cyanide...

Make sure you try them all at least once so you can find which is best for you.

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#24 deactivated-5f4694ac412a8
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Ugh...

You're overreacting in every possible way, just stop taking this so seriously. Trust me, you will forget about her.

Sajo7

Thing is, I know that. Which is why I feel like an IDIOT. I just hope she doesn't discover this thread, because I have showed her some of my topics on GameSpot before and if she's looking at OT, she'll see this.

But that probably won't happen.

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[QUOTE="silence790"][QUOTE="DeathScape666"]

[QUOTE="silence790"]I don't think that you should move to an all guys school, I think you should definetly focus more on your schoolwork and let the girl go for a little bit. Even if she moves on then there's always another one just as good if not better for you. Don't worry. DeathScape666

If I went to an boy's school and had little to no contact with females, could I still function properly, if you know what I mean?

Probably not, it would more than likely make you feel worse to be honest.

...Drugs it is then!

trust me...go with heroin

Its far and away the most potent and its not that addictive

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#26 Napster06
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See, getting girlfriends in High School is bad. Just ignore her.
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Suck it up and deal.
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#28 enjoi_your_day
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Forget that girl, you have put her on some magical podium even though she doesn't like you, it makes no sense. Get some more confidence, keep going to the same school and have fun.
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#29 jusmurph
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I think you need to look at moderating how much time you spend on Game Related Websites (3000 posts = wtf?) and get down to the gym, get a hair cut and chill the hell out.

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#30 pridetwo
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I think you need to look at moderating how much time you spend on Game Related Websites (3000 posts = wtf?) and get down to the gym, get a hair cut and chill the hell out.

jusmurph

you've never seen double_decker have you.... lol he broke the 100k record a while ago and he's awesome.

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#31 deactivated-5f4694ac412a8
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I think you need to look at moderating how much time you spend on Game Related Websites (3000 posts = wtf?) and get down to the gym, get a hair cut and chill the hell out.

jusmurph

First of all, I am very fit. I'm in excellent shape. I can run a mile under five minutes and was the fastest guy on my football team. I'm not some fat slob. If I was, I definitely would do something about it. It's just that, you know, I'm ugly. That doesn't necesarrily mean I'm fat! I'm fit.

I got a haircut last Saturday.

I've been going to this site for 3 years, but I do spend way too much time on here, admittedly.

Will do.

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#32 funnymario
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You're taking this far too seriously. Just forget about her and get your act together. And putting yourself down probably isn't helping either.
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#33 Sooshy
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Post a picture and let us decide if you're ugly.
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#34 deactivated-5f4694ac412a8
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Post a picture and let us decide if you're ugly.Sooshy

I don't want to. Even if I did want to, I can't, because I don't know how to.

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WTF? Female? Shes a chick. Nothing more. Don't put her on a pedastal, shes just a person like you. I doubt you know her personally and am almost positive its just lust, so get over it. If you think your ugly then too bad, you can't change that, and if someone can't accept that then you shouldn't be together anyways.

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o......m.....g....:|

the quality of life here on OT has been decreasing so rapidly I think I may commit suicide in real life...

-_MURS_-

An hero. The overflow of topics like this as of late has indeed been depressing.

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[QUOTE="Sooshy"]Post a picture and let us decide if you're ugly.DeathScape666

I don't want to. Even if I did want to, I can't, because I don't know how to.

You probably think you're uglier than you are, man.
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[QUOTE="DeathScape666"]

[QUOTE="Sooshy"]Post a picture and let us decide if you're ugly.Sooshy

I don't want to. Even if I did want to, I can't, because I don't know how to.

You probably think you're uglier than you are, man.

I hope that's the case.

Closing down for tonight. I need to finish studying for Finals.

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[QUOTE="Sooshy"][QUOTE="DeathScape666"]

[QUOTE="Sooshy"]Post a picture and let us decide if you're ugly.DeathScape666

I don't want to. Even if I did want to, I can't, because I don't know how to.

You probably think you're uglier than you are, man.

I hope that's the case.

Closing down for tonight. I need to finish studying for Finals.

Good luck. Just remember--it may hurt now, but five years from now you probably won't even give a crap.
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There's around 2-3 billion girls out there man.. she's not a lost. ^^
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[QUOTE="pridetwo"]or you could just chill out about the girl man... christ it's one girl, so she rejected you. so she likes another guy. what's it to you? she doesn't owe you anything and you need to get over all that. jeeesus!DeathScape666

See! That's exactly what I'd say. You know? But then it takes the whole "doing it" part, which sucks!

Grrr... Why is it so hard? I want to hate her. I wish I never met her. It's a girl. I used to make fun of people for this kind of nonsense. I feel like an idiot for posting this, but...

step back and take a breath. you have to look at the large picture here.its one girl...they come and go. you'll find someone else and its not gonna be easy at all to get over her...but you jsut gotta let things take their course and focus on your studies...disconnect your computer if you have to haha

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[QUOTE="-_MURS_-"][QUOTE="DeathScape666"]

[QUOTE="dangerd0g24"]what you need is to smoke some pot and chill.pridetwo

If I smoke pot, will I feel better?

Yes, thats what got me through a similar situation. I wasnt feeling as bad as you though...maybe you should try Heroin...it would work better in your case

or crack rocks....or meth....or potassium cyanide...

Don't do drugs u idiot. Ur gonna end up being addicted to that stuff and probably need medical help, and then die.

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Im in an all boy school, can't help you there.
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[QUOTE="pridetwo"][QUOTE="-_MURS_-"][QUOTE="DeathScape666"]

[QUOTE="dangerd0g24"]what you need is to smoke some pot and chill.xboxgamefx

If I smoke pot, will I feel better?

Yes, thats what got me through a similar situation. I wasnt feeling as bad as you though...maybe you should try Heroin...it would work better in your case

or crack rocks....or meth....or potassium cyanide...

Don't do drugs u idiot. Ur gonna end up being addicted to that stuff and probably need medical help, and then die.

Especially if your only using them as a crutch.

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#45 foxhound_fox
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Ah adolescence. Fun times to be had. Don't worry, move on and look forward to your actual life when it comes, if you make it rewarding you won't have to dwell on your experiences in high school and have your whole rest of your life to look forward to. Friendships come and go as do relationships, wait until after high school to get involved with someone seriously, it will pay off.
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[QUOTE="pridetwo"][QUOTE="-_MURS_-"][QUOTE="DeathScape666"]

[QUOTE="dangerd0g24"]what you need is to smoke some pot and chill.xboxgamefx

If I smoke pot, will I feel better?

Yes, thats what got me through a similar situation. I wasnt feeling as bad as you though...maybe you should try Heroin...it would work better in your case

or crack rocks....or meth....or potassium cyanide...

Don't do drugs u idiot. Ur gonna end up being addicted to that stuff and probably need medical help, and then die.

i was joking... potassium cyanide will kill you.

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#47 lukie_pie
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dude dont transfer to an all guy school. Trust me i go to one and it sucks. and believe me if she is doing stuff by freshman year, and you think that its weird, than you have no reason to think this girl is worth all the trouble she is worth. You can think about her all you want she will never be good for you.

No matter what you need to keep an eye out for yourself and trust me there is always another girl that is better for you

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#50 cheetah_TM
Member since 2003 • 7053 Posts
How can you be so damn obsessive, specially only in Grade 9. Heck I've been through similar situations. I was getting really close to this girl, and I found out she had a boyfriend. I told her I wanted to be with her anyways, then she just drifted herself away from me. It hurt, but I moved on. You have to do the same. You are so young, you will have so many more opportunities. Even if you're ugly, you may just end up looking good some day. If not, there will still be someone for you that loves you for who you are. If you screw up your grades, and start doing drugs for some girl that doesn't give a jack about you, you are only ruining yourself, and screwing up your chances in the future.