So I broke up with her and I feel worse than her

If you guys saw my thread yesterday you know I was going to break up with my girlfriend. I went to her home and she was normal but I could see in her eyes she had been crying, I sat with her on the couch and we just shared a comfortable silence looking at each other. When she couldn't handle it anymore and she knew she was going to burst in tears she told me to leave and so I did. But when I left I stood for about 10 minutes looking at her door trying to figure out what had happened and I had tears in my eyes. We had a big relationship and she was just great, so why didn't it worked?

I have a letter from her from our first days, yesterday I thought on burning it but I just can't. It is my only reminder of her. I've been finding myself with wet eyes a lot. Why is this? Why did I got so sad if this is what I wanted? Maybe I was wrong? Have you ever been in this place?

Please trolls, don't make fun of this.

Crying is fine, it gets better with time. Time heals. But, you went to her home and she "had been crying", why? Did you tell her over the phone or did she kind of "knew" already what was about to happen? Master_Live

I called her before telling I was going to her home and that we needed to talk. She told me that she was already expecting that to happen.

If you had a great relationship then its normal to feel like crap. Honestly, it proves that you both care for each other and it shows how big of a man you truly are. Congrats man, that's very admirable. Like someone said above though, time will heal the pain. I don't know exactly why you broke up so I can't really advise you on anything but, if you both still feel very strongly for each other in a few months time then I think you both should probably think very hard about it and see if another run together is worth it.

But, if you both still feel very strongly for each other in a few months time then I think you both should probably think very hard about it and see if another run together is worth it.

norm41x

We already did that. This is our 2nd run. But I just don't want to give up on her, she might be the best girl I've ever get.

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But, if you both still feel very strongly for each other in a few months time then I think you both should probably think very hard about it and see if another run together is worth it.

Ricardomz

We already did that. This is our 2nd run. But I just don't want to give up on her, she might be the best girl I've ever get.

A nice drunken fapis in order!

If you guys saw my thread yesterday you know I was going to break up with my girlfriend. I went to her home and she was normal but I could see in her eyes she had been crying, I sat with her on the couch and we just shared a comfortable silence looking at each other. When she couldn't handle it anymore and she knew she was going to burst in tears she told me to leave and so I did. But when I left I stood for about 10 minutes looking at her door trying to figure out what had happened and I had tears in my eyes. We had a big relationship and she was just great, so why didn't it worked?

I have a letter from her from our first days, yesterday I thought on burning it but I just can't. It is my only reminder of her. I've been finding myself with wet eyes a lot. Why is this? Why did I got so sad if this is what I wanted? Maybe I was wrong? Have you ever been in this place?

Please trolls, don't make fun of this.

Ricardomz

  You do not know what you want, do you?  Sounds like you are confused or something.  So you like her but were expecting it to be better and better and better or something.  If it is not broke, why fix it?

Sorry dude but I also felt that way when I broke up with my ex.

Just give yourself some time and see how you feel after a few weeks.

A question you have to ask yourself is why do you want it to last forever? Can't you just be satisfied with the fact that you had a good time together and will always have those memories? Isn't that enough? 

Think of it as though you left on a high note and that you don't hate each other like some over-extended relationships. 

Don't think that what you did was wrong. It's completely normal to feel sadness, especially for having a long relationship with someone who was special. If you felt like it wasn't working, then it wasn't working. But you did what you had to do even though you knew you'd wished it could have worked. Don't question yourself, give yourself time and keep up your confidence level. Tears will go away, no worries mate. Hope you feel better very soon.