So I went out with the Ex last night...

We went out for over a year and a half and we've been split up for almost a year and a half.

Well the other night she just messaged me out of nowhere and said that she realizes she was being messed up and that she wanted to patch things up with me.

I reluctantly agreed to hang out with her and last night we ended up getting pretty drunk and we slept together. During that whole time she kept saying i love you and missed you blah blah blah. I have no idea what to think because I dont think we're "together" . I love her, but I dont know if I even want to be with her.

Has anyone else experienced something similar?

Well the other night she just messaged me out of nowhere and said that she realizes she was being messed up and that she wanted to patch things up with me.

SVTCobra006

Out of the blue? Sounds like something happened...

Sex?

hi-fiiiiiive!!!!

by slept with her you mean....? :? NYiVtec

How is this not clear?

[QUOTE="NYiVtec"]by slept with her you mean....? :? megagene

How is this not clear?

well they could have slept together or they could have "slept" together

[QUOTE="megagene"]

[QUOTE="NYiVtec"]by slept with her you mean....? :? NYiVtec

How is this not clear?

well they could have slept together or they could have "slept" together

Or they could have 'spelt' together!

:o

[QUOTE="NYiVtec"][QUOTE="megagene"]

[QUOTE="NYiVtec"]by slept with her you mean....? :? bradleybhoy

How is this not clear?

well they could have slept together or they could have "slept" together

Or they could have 'spelt' together!

:o

or the could have (made) pelts together!

[QUOTE="megagene"]

[QUOTE="NYiVtec"]by slept with her you mean....? :? NYiVtec

How is this not clear?

well they could have slept together or they could have "slept" together

Getting pretty drunk sounds like "slept"

dude if u get back with her that would be dumb its obvious she just came to u bc

1. her current boyfriend had just left her

2. she was just horny

dude if u get back with her that would be dumb its obvious she just came to u bc

1. her current boyfriend had just left her

2. she was just horny

feli453

still, that means no responsibility/obligations.

It sounds to me like your her backup guy.

Unless your totally whipped, get out of there.

and when I say "slept" I mean we had hot sex.. SVTCobra006

mibi she gave you revenge claps.

Answer this for OT first, how old are you?Raged_Soulja

Whats that matter?

Wonder why you aren't responding to the important questions...SaugaGames

Huh? Like what? The only questions I saw were "what does slept with mean" and "how old are you"

and I answered, so how am I not responding?

[QUOTE="SaugaGames"]Wonder why you aren't responding to the important questions...SVTCobra006

Huh? Like what? The only questions I saw were "what does slept with mean" and "how old are you"

and I answered, so how am I not responding?

I'm sorry to be the one to point this out TC but, kissing with tongues =/= sexual intercourse.

Huh? Like what? The only questions I saw were "what does slept with mean" and "how old are you"

and I answered, so how am I not responding?

SVTCobra006

I'm wondering what your responses are to these...

Out of the blue? Sounds like something happened...

SaugaGames

dude if u get back with her that would be dumb its obvious she just came to u bc

1. her current boyfriend had just left her

2. she was just horny

feli453

It sounds to me like your her backup guy.

Unless your totally whipped, get out of there.

efrucht

[QUOTE="SVTCobra006"]

Huh? Like what? The only questions I saw were "what does slept with mean" and "how old are you"

and I answered, so how am I not responding?

SaugaGames

I'm wondering what your responses are to these...

Out of the blue? Sounds like something happened...

SaugaGames

dude if u get back with her that would be dumb its obvious she just came to u bc

1. her current boyfriend had just left her

2. she was just horny

feli453

It sounds to me like your her backup guy.

Unless your totally whipped, get out of there.

efrucht

Alright. Out of the blue. Sounds like something happened....How am I supposed to resond to that?

And these are peoples opinions. Im not ruling them out, I just dont know if they are fact because she hasnt mentioned anything about breaking up with someone( I know she was going out with this scumbag eric for a while, but I think they broke up a couple months ago, so I guess that could mean Im the fall back guy, but its been a while so maybe not). Doesnt mean they cant be true. I just want to know if anyone else has had a SIMILAR experience.

[QUOTE="SuperVegeta518"]It sounds like you're an idiot.SVTCobra006

Whys that? ass

We went out for over a year and a half and we've been split up for almost a year and a half.

Well the other night she just messaged me out of nowhere and said that she realizes she was being messed up and that she wanted to patch things up with me.

I reluctantly agreed to hang out with her and last night we ended up getting pretty drunk and we slept together. During that whole time she kept saying i love you and missed you blah blah blah. I have no idea what to think because I dont think we're "together" . I love her, but I dont know if I even want to be with her.

Has anyone else experienced something similar?

SVTCobra006

you need to sit down with her and have a serious talk about it because the Sex you had could have been a one time thing like pure lust or you could find she really does still feel something for you people just don't say they love you especially when there drunk but you have to talk to her people sometimes get confused about what they really want best of luck to you i hope it works out for the best .

[QUOTE="SVTCobra006"]

[QUOTE="SuperVegeta518"]It sounds like you're an idiot.SuperVegeta518

Whys that? ass

It wasnt really a one night stand. It just happened last night. And we hung out together all day and Im talking to her right now, I dont consider that a one night stand.

[QUOTE="SVTCobra006"]

[QUOTE="SuperVegeta518"]It sounds like you're an idiot.SuperVegeta518

Whys that? ass

SuperVegeta is right; what you did with that girl was not healthy.

[QUOTE="SVTCobra006"]

We went out for over a year and a half and we've been split up for almost a year and a half.

Well the other night she just messaged me out of nowhere and said that she realizes she was being messed up and that she wanted to patch things up with me.

I reluctantly agreed to hang out with her and last night we ended up getting pretty drunk and we slept together. During that whole time she kept saying i love you and missed you blah blah blah. I have no idea what to think because I dont think we're "together" . I love her, but I dont know if I even want to be with her.

Has anyone else experienced something similar?

snakes_codec

you need to sit down with her and have a serious talk about it because the Sex you had could have been a one time thing like pure lust or you could find she really does still feel something for you people just don't say they love you especially when there drunk but you have to talk to her people sometimes get confused about what they really want best of luck to you i hope it works out for the best .

Thanks man. I know I need to talk to her, Im actually talking to her right now about it. When we were together I really did love her, and that obviously diminished a bit over a year and a half, but I found that it seemed like we still had the same passion and everything. I dunno, this is weird and complicated.

[QUOTE="SuperVegeta518"][QUOTE="SVTCobra006"]

[QUOTE="SuperVegeta518"]It sounds like you're an idiot.SVTCobra006

Whys that? ass

It wasnt really a one night stand. It just happened last night. And we hung out together all day and Im talking to her right now, I dont consider that a one night stand.

[QUOTE="SVTCobra006"][QUOTE="SuperVegeta518"][QUOTE="SVTCobra006"]

[QUOTE="SuperVegeta518"]It sounds like you're an idiot.SuperVegeta518

Whys that? ass

It wasnt really a one night stand. It just happened last night. And we hung out together all day and Im talking to her right now, I dont consider that a one night stand.

I know, thats true. I guess I can only talk for myself but I know that I felt the same for her last night as I did when we were going out, and that was before any sex was involved.

well i seriously think it would be a dumb move to get back with her but its ur life follow your heart and i hope it works out for the bestfeli453

Im not disagreeing with you, but why do you think itd be dumb?

i would try to tuck and roll out of there.

i mean, a year and a half, then a random message of "lets hang out buddy!"? doesnt sound "safe" to me. i mean, you could tell yourself its all good and dandy, but your probably just going to get hurt again.

[QUOTE="SuperVegeta518"][QUOTE="SVTCobra006"][QUOTE="SuperVegeta518"][QUOTE="SVTCobra006"]

[QUOTE="SuperVegeta518"]It sounds like you're an idiot.SVTCobra006

Whys that? ass

It wasnt really a one night stand. It just happened last night. And we hung out together all day and Im talking to her right now, I dont consider that a one night stand.

I know, thats true. I guess I can only talk for myself but I know that I felt the same for her last night as I did when we were going out, and that was before any sex was involved.

and when I say "slept" I mean we had hot sex.. SVTCobra006

And when you say 'hot sex', you mean...??

[QUOTE="SVTCobra006"][QUOTE="SuperVegeta518"][QUOTE="SVTCobra006"][QUOTE="SuperVegeta518"][QUOTE="SVTCobra006"]

[QUOTE="SuperVegeta518"]It sounds like you're an idiot.SuperVegeta518

Whys that? ass

It wasnt really a one night stand. It just happened last night. And we hung out together all day and Im talking to her right now, I dont consider that a one night stand.

I know, thats true. I guess I can only talk for myself but I know that I felt the same for her last night as I did when we were going out, and that was before any sex was involved.

Yeah Ive thought about that. Trust me, I have about a million questions running though my head. I know people that have gotten back together and ended up being together for a very long time, but theres also a bigger chance that itll fail again. I guess I just gotta see what happens and how I feel in a few days.

And Im definitely trying to not just jump into the whole thing, I have my doubts and everything.

[QUOTE="SVTCobra006"]and when I say "slept" I mean we had hot sex.. Optical_Order

And when you say 'hot sex', you mean...??

I mean we had sex on a hot plate. :P

[QUOTE="feli453"]well i seriously think it would be a dumb move to get back with her but its ur life follow your heart and i hope it works out for the bestSVTCobra006

Im not disagreeing with you, but why do you think itd be dumb?

lets see u guys havent dated for a year and a half and god only knows what shs been doing durin that time then someday outta the blue she sends u a message and next thing u know you guys are having sex sorry to break it to u but i seriously doubt that she loves u and get yourself away from her bc u might get involved wit her again and might get ur feelins hurt again or worse she could have been messing around wit sum guy who probably was a a** hole and wont except the fact that she left him for u and u could but ur life in danger for this plus she seems kinda easy idk bout u but i dont like easy chicks

[QUOTE="Optical_Order"]

[QUOTE="SVTCobra006"]and when I say "slept" I mean we had hot sex.. SVTCobra006

And when you say 'hot sex', you mean...??

I mean we had sex on a hot plate. :P

lol that was a good one

We went out for over a year and a half and we've been split up for almost a year and a half.

Well the other night she just messaged me out of nowhere and said that she realizes she was being messed up and that she wanted to patch things up with me.

I reluctantly agreed to hang out with her and last night we ended up getting pretty drunk and we slept together. During that whole time she kept saying i love you and missed you blah blah blah. I have no idea what to think because I dont think we're "together" . I love her, but I dont know if I even want to be with her.

Has anyone else experienced something similar?

SVTCobra006

ya lol man last time my ex called me it was for a booty call...

Guess she was having bad times