So if your friend has a boyfriend.....

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#1 butteman12
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do you think it would be weird if i hugged the girl cuz i've known her for a very long time and imreally good friends with her.

Would it be awkward if i hugged her while she had a bf?

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#2 lucky326
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Been there done that, so long as he knows you are good friends there should be no problems whatsoever.

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#3 carrot-cake
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I dont see the problem with it.

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#4 LieutenantFeist
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*facepalm*....you can hug her if you want

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#5 bluezy
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No, as long as you aren't coppin' a feel you're just fine. If the boyfriend has a problem with it, your friend will probably side with you anyway.
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#6 markop2003
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Seems perfectly fine to me....
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#7 Wilfred_Owen
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Its not right. Its immoral and wrong. I just feel like going against the grain here.
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#8 battlefront23
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do you think it would be weird if i hugged the girl cuz i've known her for a very long time and imreally good friends with her.

Would it be awkward if i hugged her while she had a bf?

butteman12
Nope. I did and it was no biggie.
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#9 chAzN93
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its just a hug dude...
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#10 Maniacc1
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No problem here. Friends can hug friends you know. :P
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#11 dracula_16
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As long as you don't try to cop a feel or anything. Don't do it in front of the boyfriend, though; he may get jealous or angry.

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#12 butteman12
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its just a hug dude...chAzN93
some people become jealous dude...
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#13 carrot-cake
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[QUOTE="chAzN93"]its just a hug dude...butteman12
some people become jealous dude...


Which I find is extremely childish. I mean seriously, she isn't your property, she has the right to hug a friend and associate with other guys....

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#15 DrSponge
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Of course it's fine :| Just because she's a girl doesn't mean everything you do to her is sexual.
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#16 butteman12
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[QUOTE="butteman12"][QUOTE="chAzN93"]its just a hug dude...carrot-cake

some people become jealous dude...


Which I find is extremely childish. I mean seriously, she isn't your property, she has the right to hug a friend and associate with other guys....

i know what you mean.

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#17 Immortalica
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Nothing wrong with that.
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#18 mindstorm
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Within reason it's fine. If you're all over the girl, that's a no no. If it's a simple hug, that's fine.
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#19 SouL-Tak3R
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No, if you are friends hug. Who cares, he wants to start a fight about it, then knock him out. Don't take any bs.

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#20 Solid_Tango
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Yep, for both, u and ur friend.
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#21 OblivionGuy07
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Unless her boyfriend is some douche, I'd say it's ok.

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#22 ski11buzz
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dude. its a hug. not a big deal at all. lol

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#23 DJ-Lafleur
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Of course it's fine :| Just because she's a girl doesn't mean everything you do to her is sexual.DrSponge

Not unless you're me. 8)

GIGGITY-GIGGITY!

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#24 deactivated-5c8e4e07d5510
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Do it unless the boyfriend is an ass...

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#25 majoras_wrath
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Do it unless the boyfriend is an ass...

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In that case, most definitely do it.
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#26 Cathan
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There's a difference between a "friendly" hug and "romantic" hug. Just test it out on the Sims if you don't believe me.
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#27 Travo_basic
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Go for it. Friends hug too.
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#28 shaunk89
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its just a hug...

i do far more ridiculous things with my taken friends. one girl sucked my finger and i hit on another girl like its going out of fashion. all in jest, naturally :P

then again, im a dickhead :P

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#29 chAzN93
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i feel like you need to go out more..
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#30 _BlueDuck_
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Just keep it above the belt and you'll be okay.

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#31 jimmyjammer69
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As long as your chests don't make contact, it's all A-ok.
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#32 astiop
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Only if it leads to sex.
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#33 fubbal
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Have you guys ever ben involved?I just got too say that I don't think its wrong but some people take it that way, and some times you gotta let go and let people move on. I can't count the number of girls I have fond memories of and all live there own lives now.I never hugged any of them if they had boyfriends because I didn't want too get in between them.

You seem too care about her a lot, do you like her, if you do don't let some other guy take your gal with out a fight.Let her know how you feel, if your really just friends its not a big deal but if you had a girl friend and she was hugging some other guy would you get mad?

It would bother me I can't lie. I don't mind her having friends or even guy friends but she doesn't ever go hang out with the guys.I might get a little paranoid if she did.They say that's how affairs start lol!

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#34 Treflis
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Yes but only if you hold your hands out and have a disghusted look on your face. Afterwards you need to roll on your back and whimper infront of her Boyfriend until he accept your submission. This must be done every single time. I learned that on Animal Planet.
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#35 razgriz_101
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i dont see a problem with it, one of my friends is going out with another one of my friends but i have known her for years and he doesnt have a problem with it.

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#36 Listen_420
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As long as you're seriously just friends and the guy knows it. Hehe.. Are you? =D

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#37 xXMotoPsychoXx
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do you think it would be weird if i hugged the girl cuz i've known her for a very long time and imreally good friends with her.

Would it be awkward if i hugged her while she had a bf?

butteman12

If you hugged her infront of him he may feel a little awkard, but on the other hand if he is not able to get over it. I'm sure they won't be together to long.

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#38 MetallicaKings
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topics like these really make me wonder if Im too old to be here...