so I've never been in a fight......

does this make me a chicken/not a real man? i've never even been close, i don't live in a rough area, none of my friends have been in fights.

are we all little girls??

I find it hard to imagine someone not goingw/o a fight through childhood...but ehh....It doesn'y make you a little girl.

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does this make me a chicken/not a real man? i've never even been close, i don't live in a rough area, none of my friends have been in fights.

are we all little girls??

jpph

Is it now a requirement to engage in fights to be considered a man?

[QUOTE="jpph"]

does this make me a chicken/not a real man? i've never even been close, i don't live in a rough area, none of my friends have been in fights.

are we all little girls??

Teenaged

Is it now a requirement to engage in fights to be considered a man?

well i didnt think so, but i'm just wondering what y'all think.

No, that probably makes you mature.blackngold29

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[QUOTE="jpph"]

does this make me a chicken/not a real man? i've never even been close, i don't live in a rough area, none of my friends have been in fights.

are we all little girls??

jpph

Is it now a requirement to engage in fights to be considered a man?

well i didnt think so, but i'm just wondering what y'all think.

does this make me a chicken/not a real man? i've never even been close, i don't live in a rough area, none of my friends have been in fights.

are we all little girls??

jpph

No, that probably makes you mature.blackngold29

maybe, the opportunity hasn't come up, so it's not like i've ever really had to walk away. except the odd time when i was at at discos and some "tough nut" people might walk up and accuse you of insulting them or saying htat you pushed them or whatnot, but they always ALWAYS had a crowd behind them so i always just said it's cool kinda thing, defused it a bit, and then walked away. or maybe i was a baby

You should only fight if you have to....Now if your being picked on...and u don't fight back. That's a different story...MgamerBD

group of older teenagers (17ish) at least 5 of them, try and start on a few of us younger, smaller ones, is it pathetic to not fight back? in case it sounds like im being sarcastic, im not, should honour and stuff come first?

You should only fight if you have to....Now if your being picked on...and u don't fight back. That's a different story...MgamerBD

It's pretty stupid if you attack the bully. The bully wants that reaction. You should just ignore him.

[QUOTE="blackngold29"]No, that probably makes you mature.jpph

maybe, the opportunity hasn't come up, so it's not like i've ever really had to walk away. except the odd time when i was at at discos and some "tough nut" people might walk up and accuse you of insulting them or saying htat you pushed them or whatnot, but they always ALWAYS had a crowd behind them so i always just said it's cool kinda thing, defused it a bit, and then walked away. or maybe i was a baby

No matter the absurdity of the person that is attacking you or provoking you for a fight what is the shame in not wanting to engage in a fight even if it is out of fear?

Its one thing being brave and something else being stupid by not being sensible.

to those of you who have been in a fight, and you lost, what did you do then? hide in shame?

to those of you who have been in a fight, and you lost, what did you do then? hide in shame?

jpph

[QUOTE="MgamerBD"]You should only fight if you have to....Now if your being picked on...and u don't fight back. That's a different story...SgtKevali

It's pretty stupid if you attack the bully. The bully wants that reaction. You should just ignore him.

Real men fight now hurry up and go start one.

to those of you who have been in a fight, and you lost, what did you do then? hide in shame?

jpph

[QUOTE="MgamerBD"]You should only fight if you have to....Now if your being picked on...and u don't fight back. That's a different story...jpph

group of older teenagers (17ish) at least 5 of them, try and start on a few of us younger, smaller ones, is it pathetic to not fight back? in case it sounds like im being sarcastic, im not, should honour and stuff come first?

Seventeen? Are you serious? Still so insecure that they need to pick on vastly inferior (no offense) people? They should have grown out of that when they were fourteen...

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to those of you who have been in a fight, and you lost, what did you do then? hide in shame?

grape_of_wrath

i dont know, i was wondering if it is shameful. i guess not, someone has to lose.

I've never fought anyone either. I get along with most people. The ones I don't I just don't talk to.

to those of you who have been in a fight, and you lost, what did you do then? hide in shame?

jpph

No.The ability to control yourself is a talent. Kudos to you if you can simply walk away from apotential fight. It shows that you don't need to prove anything to anyone, and you're much morementally and intellectually maturethan the idiot trying to pick the fight.

That means that you are intelligent, and that no one has tried to kill you. :P

to those of you who have been in a fight, and you lost, what did you do then? hide in shame?

jpph

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[QUOTE="MgamerBD"]You should only fight if you have to....Now if your being picked on...and u don't fight back. That's a different story...ex-mortis

group of older teenagers (17ish) at least 5 of them, try and start on a few of us younger, smaller ones, is it pathetic to not fight back? in case it sounds like im being sarcastic, im not, should honour and stuff come first?

Seventeen? Are you serious? Still so insecure that they need to pick on vastly inferior (no offense) people? They should have grown out of that when they were fourteen...

yeah, members of the travelling community i think they were. some are very tough, some not so much.

No.The ability to control yourself is a talent. Kudos to you if you can simply walk away from apotential fight. It shows that you don't need to prove anything to anyone, and you're much morementally and intellectually maturethan the idiot trying to pick the fight.

Bowlercapguy

or else chickens tell themselves that, to help them sleep. i dont know.

tbh, i think i would fight if the situation really called for it, i don't think i could live with myself if i thought i had been a massive coward. i've never had a reason yet.

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to those of you who have been in a fight, and you lost, what did you do then? hide in shame?

tsduv21

have you been in many fights?

[QUOTE="grape_of_wrath"][QUOTE="jpph"]

to those of you who have been in a fight, and you lost, what did you do then? hide in shame?

i dont know, i was wondering if it is shameful. i guess not, someone has to lose.

[QUOTE="SgtKevali"]

[QUOTE="MgamerBD"]You should only fight if you have to....Now if your being picked on...and u don't fight back. That's a different story...Gallion-Beast

It's pretty stupid if you attack the bully. The bully wants that reaction. You should just ignore him.

Nah, they're not worth it. You should never attack someone, unless it's in pure self defense.

No, that probably makes you mature.blackngold29

does this make me a chicken/not a real man? i've never even been close, i don't live in a rough area, none of my friends have been in fights.

are we all little girls??

jpph

[QUOTE="MgamerBD"]You should only fight if you have to....Now if your being picked on...and u don't fight back. That's a different story...jpph

group of older teenagers (17ish) at least 5 of them, try and start on a few of us younger, smaller ones, is it pathetic to not fight back? in case it sounds like im being sarcastic, im not, should honour and stuff come first?

[QUOTE="tsduv21"][QUOTE="jpph"]

to those of you who have been in a fight, and you lost, what did you do then? hide in shame?

jpph

have you been in many fights?

[QUOTE="jpph"]

[QUOTE="MgamerBD"]You should only fight if you have to....Now if your being picked on...and u don't fight back. That's a different story...MgamerBD

group of older teenagers (17ish) at least 5 of them, try and start on a few of us younger, smaller ones, is it pathetic to not fight back? in case it sounds like im being sarcastic, im not, should honour and stuff come first?

this is a few years ago now, but you're saying i should have retaliated?

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[QUOTE="tsduv21"] I've never lost a fight. Anyway, like someone said you shouldn't get into fights just for the sake of fighting.tsduv21

have you been in many fights?

what started them?

[QUOTE="tsduv21"][QUOTE="jpph"]

have you been in many fights?

jpph

what started them?

I've only really fought my brother and exchanged a few punches with some of my friends over the years, but I've never been in a full out fight either. I don't really think anything of it. I mean I'm 20 now. If I was in a fight and injured the other person I would have a lot to deal with. It's not really worth it

[QUOTE="MgamerBD"][QUOTE="jpph"]

group of older teenagers (17ish) at least 5 of them, try and start on a few of us younger, smaller ones, is it pathetic to not fight back? in case it sounds like im being sarcastic, im not, should honour and stuff come first?

jpph

this is a few years ago now, but you're saying i should have retaliated?

I try to avoid fights.

Though I have made it clear the results of instigating a fight with me.

I've only really fought my brother and exchanged a few punches with some of my friends over the years, but I've never been in a full out fight either. I don't really think anything of it. I mean I'm 20 now. If I was in a fight and injured the other person I would have a lot to deal with. It's not really worth it

BPoole96

ya, being 17 myself now, it's quite a concern, the charges can be really tough, i guess it really ain't worth it now.

I haven't either, and I played hockey for 5 years :lol:hockey73

haha same here but for 3 years :P

Real men fight now hurry up and go start one.

TecmoGirl

:lol: I found this funny!

Lol you's aren't little girls. Probably means a circumstance hasn't come up where you NEED to fight.

no, and it doesnt really matters

No, don't fight unless you have to. 95% of fights are completely unnecessary. I'm tired of people thinking they should fight over the littlest things.

Just punch the next person you see as hard as you can.

That'll solve your problem.