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#1 THE-TRAP-CARD
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So i'm in Grade 10 in high school, and there's this girl in my English class i REALLY like, she's on my Facebook freinds and i'm talking to her on MSN right now, but i'm kind of a shy and also nervous guy. What should i do to show her i like her without coming off like a creep. And please keep the jokes out, i respect that you might be funny, but i;m actually serious. Thanks.
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#2 vgm007
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All I can say is take it slow. I have little experience in this, but I do know that if you come on too strong, she'll be turned off. Find the right moment to ask her out and swallow your fears.
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#3 FingerSub
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Don't say anything yet make sure you are friends before you make your move dude. Trust me
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So i'm in Grade 10 in high school, and there's this girl in my English class i REALLY like, she's on my Facebook freinds and i'm talking to her on MSN right now, but i'm kind of a shy and also nervous guy. What should i do to show her i like her without coming off like a creep. And please keep the jokes out, i respect that you might be funny, but i;m actually serious. Thanks.THE-TRAP-CARD

Put up her facebook profile and we will judge her hotness.

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#5 Hinata237
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Be her friend and just do what your heart tells you to do.
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#6 FingerSub
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[QUOTE="THE-TRAP-CARD"]So i'm in Grade 10 in high school, and there's this girl in my English class i REALLY like, she's on my Facebook freinds and i'm talking to her on MSN right now, but i'm kind of a shy and also nervous guy. What should i do to show her i like her without coming off like a creep. And please keep the jokes out, i respect that you might be funny, but i;m actually serious. Thanks.Ay_Boo_Boo

Put up her facebook profile and we will judge her hotness.

Dam right
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So i'm in Grade 10 in high school, and there's this girl in my English class i REALLY like, she's on my Facebook freinds and i'm talking to her on MSN right now, but i'm kind of a shy and also nervous guy. What should i do to show her i like her without coming off like a creep. And please keep the jokes out, i respect that you might be funny, but i;m actually serious. Thanks.THE-TRAP-CARD

1: Approach with caution in real life

2: As you walk by in english class, drop pencil/other object

3: When she retrevies said object, put your hand on her shoulder and say "Thanks"

4: Slow ramp up the shoulder touchings both online and off, pokes on facebook, t-sh for msn (t-ouch sh-oulder)

5: Chill and have fun. (serious part) Be calm and relaxed. Its not the end of the world either way, life goes on good and bad...

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#8 FingerSub
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[QUOTE="THE-TRAP-CARD"]So i'm in Grade 10 in high school, and there's this girl in my English class i REALLY like, she's on my Facebook freinds and i'm talking to her on MSN right now, but i'm kind of a shy and also nervous guy. What should i do to show her i like her without coming off like a creep. And please keep the jokes out, i respect that you might be funny, but i;m actually serious. Thanks.methree15

1: Approach with caution in real life

2: As you walk by in english class, drop pencil/other object

3: When she retrevies said object, put your hand on her shoulder and say "Thanks"

4: Slow ramp up the shoulder touchings both online and off, pokes on facebook, t-sh for msn (t-ouch sh-oulder)

5: Chill and have fun. (serious part) Be calm and relaxed. Its not the end of the world either way, life goes on good and bad...

Sounds a little creepyand if it doesnt work your screwed
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#9 AfroJedii
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[QUOTE="Ay_Boo_Boo"]

[QUOTE="THE-TRAP-CARD"]So i'm in Grade 10 in high school, and there's this girl in my English class i REALLY like, she's on my Facebook freinds and i'm talking to her on MSN right now, but i'm kind of a shy and also nervous guy. What should i do to show her i like her without coming off like a creep. And please keep the jokes out, i respect that you might be funny, but i;m actually serious. Thanks.FingerSub

Put up her facebook profile and we will judge her hotness.

Dam right

All in motion for having her Facebook profile posted so we can judge her hotness, say 'aye'!

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[QUOTE="FingerSub"][QUOTE="Ay_Boo_Boo"]

[QUOTE="THE-TRAP-CARD"]So i'm in Grade 10 in high school, and there's this girl in my English class i REALLY like, she's on my Facebook freinds and i'm talking to her on MSN right now, but i'm kind of a shy and also nervous guy. What should i do to show her i like her without coming off like a creep. And please keep the jokes out, i respect that you might be funny, but i;m actually serious. Thanks.AfroJedii

Put up her facebook profile and we will judge her hotness.

Dam right

All in motion for having her Facebook profile posted so we can judge her hotness, say 'aye'!

AYE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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#11 Siofen
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Do not tell her that you like her, she already knows that, talk to her as you would any other friend, and the pieces will fall into place on their own. But take my advice with a grain a salt, I've never had any success in this department. :P
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#12 methree15
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[QUOTE="methree15"]

[QUOTE="THE-TRAP-CARD"]So i'm in Grade 10 in high school, and there's this girl in my English class i REALLY like, she's on my Facebook freinds and i'm talking to her on MSN right now, but i'm kind of a shy and also nervous guy. What should i do to show her i like her without coming off like a creep. And please keep the jokes out, i respect that you might be funny, but i;m actually serious. Thanks.FingerSub

1: Approach with caution in real life

2: As you walk by in english class, drop pencil/other object

3: When she retrevies said object, put your hand on her shoulder and say "Thanks"

4: Slow ramp up the shoulder touchings both online and off, pokes on facebook, t-sh for msn (t-ouch sh-oulder)

5: Chill and have fun. (serious part) Be calm and relaxed. Its not the end of the world either way, life goes on good and bad...

Sounds a little creepyand if it doesnt work your screwed

lol internet. (i need a gif file of that)

only 5 is serious

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Don't say anything yet make sure you are friends before you make your move dude. Trust meFingerSub

This is so so so wrong.

The best relationships are when you are just getting to know the person. You become her friend and you never get out, you fall into the friends zone. Do not take this advice.

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#15 THE-TRAP-CARD
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[QUOTE="FingerSub"][QUOTE="Ay_Boo_Boo"]

[QUOTE="THE-TRAP-CARD"]So i'm in Grade 10 in high school, and there's this girl in my English class i REALLY like, she's on my Facebook freinds and i'm talking to her on MSN right now, but i'm kind of a shy and also nervous guy. What should i do to show her i like her without coming off like a creep. And please keep the jokes out, i respect that you might be funny, but i;m actually serious. Thanks.AfroJedii

Put up her facebook profile and we will judge her hotness.

Dam right

All in motion for having her Facebook profile posted so we can judge her hotness, say 'aye'!

I'm only putting a picture up, cause putting up her whole profile would be weird.
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#16 KimLenon
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just take it easy, don't rush it, relax, enjoy things going on, always be there for her.
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#17 Killfox
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Dude just ask her to hang out. If she is even slightly interested she will say yes. My rule usually is 2 base on first date. I dont know thats just me and it will tell you if shes gunna put out or not. (joke part) - if she smokes, she pokes.
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wise man say...

FORTUNE FAVORS THE BOLD!!!

pursue without hesitation, take what is yours or it will never be...yours.

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#19 WildLIkeChild
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Well no, I'm pretty sure that's illegal if she says yes.

You never want to fall into the friends zone with someone you want to date. You don't do it instantly, but you make it known you're interested in them, and just feel out the situation. You don't wait until you're friends or there's a good chance it won't happen, and then you won't even have her as a friend afterwards. If she makes it obvious that she doesn't want a relationship either drop her, or become her friend, but it probably won't happen.

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#20 FingerSub
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wise man say...

FORTUNE FAVORS THE BOLD!!!

pursue without hesitation, take what is yours or it will never be...yours.

OneWingedAngeI
Dude that hit me right in the heart man ;_; jk but its kinda true i guess
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#21 kaim_i
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look her in the eye and say "i really like you"
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#23 IrishPunk
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So i'm in Grade 10 in high school, and there's this girl in my English class i REALLY like, she's on my Facebook freinds and i'm talking to her on MSN right now, but i'm kind of a shy and also nervous guy. What should i do to show her i like her without coming off like a creep. And please keep the jokes out, i respect that you might be funny, but i;m actually serious. Thanks.THE-TRAP-CARD

If you're worried about her as a romantic interest only, figure out what her interests are or skip that whole part and just ask if she wants to go out and do something. This is really the easiest way because you will find out if she has interest in you or if she doesn't. My last girl friend asked me out, and I already knew she liked me, so it made it pretty easy to start the relationship romanticaly.

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Oh and girls don't like their pictures on the internet by people who they may or may not like. Especially ones where most of the people on the board haven't come close to losing their virginity. I would take it down.

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#26 Killfox
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[QUOTE="THE-TRAP-CARD"]So i'm in Grade 10 in high school, and there's this girl in my English class i REALLY like, she's on my Facebook freinds and i'm talking to her on MSN right now, but i'm kind of a shy and also nervous guy. What should i do to show her i like her without coming off like a creep. And please keep the jokes out, i respect that you might be funny, but i;m actually serious. Thanks.IrishPunk

If you're worried about her as a romantic interest only, figure out what her interests are or skip that whole part and just ask if she wants to go out and do something. This is really the easiest way because you will find out if she has interest in you or if she doesn't. My last girl friend asked me out, and I already knew she liked me, so it made it pretty easy to start the relationship romanticaly.

Thats how my last girlfriend was. I need to find more woman like that. Honestly its always the guy doing all the work. Why cant more woman ask me out insteead of me asking them out???

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Oh and girls don't like their pictures on the internet by people who they may or may not like. Especially ones where most of the people on the board haven't come close to losing their virginity. I would take it down.

IrishPunk
I already saved the pic for later lol. JK shes not my style
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[QUOTE="IrishPunk"]

[QUOTE="THE-TRAP-CARD"]So i'm in Grade 10 in high school, and there's this girl in my English class i REALLY like, she's on my Facebook freinds and i'm talking to her on MSN right now, but i'm kind of a shy and also nervous guy. What should i do to show her i like her without coming off like a creep. And please keep the jokes out, i respect that you might be funny, but i;m actually serious. Thanks.Killfox

If you're worried about her as a romantic interest only, figure out what her interests are or skip that whole part and just ask if she wants to go out and do something. This is really the easiest way because you will find out if she has interest in you or if she doesn't. My last girl friend asked me out, and I already knew she liked me, so it made it pretty easy to start the relationship romanticaly.

Thats how my last girlfriend was. I need to find more woman like that. Honestly its always the guy doing all the work. Why cant more woman ask me out insteead of me asking them out???

That was my only relationship where my girlfriend initiated it. All my other ones I had to do all the chasing.

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Talk to her and hang out with her as much as you can. Be confident in the things you say and make sure you always look her in the eye when talking. Make sure she likes you before you ask her out. And, if she's hot, do NOT take it TOO slow. You obviously don't want another guy to start hitting on her and ask her out before you have the chance (this has happened to me and it sucks).
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meh...from the pic...5/10, dont even bother.
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[QUOTE="Killfox"][QUOTE="IrishPunk"]

[QUOTE="THE-TRAP-CARD"]So i'm in Grade 10 in high school, and there's this girl in my English class i REALLY like, she's on my Facebook freinds and i'm talking to her on MSN right now, but i'm kind of a shy and also nervous guy. What should i do to show her i like her without coming off like a creep. And please keep the jokes out, i respect that you might be funny, but i;m actually serious. Thanks.IrishPunk

If you're worried about her as a romantic interest only, figure out what her interests are or skip that whole part and just ask if she wants to go out and do something. This is really the easiest way because you will find out if she has interest in you or if she doesn't. My last girl friend asked me out, and I already knew she liked me, so it made it pretty easy to start the relationship romanticaly.

Thats how my last girlfriend was. I need to find more woman like that. Honestly its always the guy doing all the work. Why cant more woman ask me out insteead of me asking them out???

That was my only relationship where my girlfriend initiated it. All my other ones I had to do all the chasing.

Sometimes the chase is good though.

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#32 IrishPunk
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meh...from the pic...5/10, dont even bother.cheez-it_kid

Haha, are you serious? Don't some of you get that sometimes its not about the looks all the time, especially when some of you need to take a look in the mirror

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#33 THE-TRAP-CARD
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meh...from the pic...5/10, dont even bother.cheez-it_kid
It's not all about looks, she's really nice and smart.
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meh...from the pic...5/10, dont even bother.cheez-it_kid

It's not all about looks... :roll:

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Get four of your best friends in suits, practice your singing skills, and then sing "For the longest time" by Billy Joel with your friends doing cool dance moves and doing the backup a-capella. Then, ask her out to the third finest restaurant in town (first if it is a small town). Then, tell us what happened, as we will be all dieing to know.

Oh, and for the love of all that is OT, open the doors for her. Girls really appreciate proper etiquette. Not that I would know, as the closest I have ever gotten to a girl was when I bought Kyrandia 2: the hand of Fate.

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#36 Fortier
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OneWingedAngel has it right. Throw all your retsraints and fears aside, and just go for it. I know this a a good COA through personal experience.

You're only in grade 10; you have nothing to lose.

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#37 AfroJedii
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Oh and girls don't like their pictures on the internet by people who they may or may not like. Especially ones where most of the people on the board haven't come close to losing their virginity. I would take it down.

IrishPunk

Ohh! Did we just get burned? Now you just had to go and say something like that? I'm hurt...

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#39 IrishPunk
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[QUOTE="IrishPunk"]

Oh and girls don't like their pictures on the internet by people who they may or may not like. Especially ones where most of the people on the board haven't come close to losing their virginity. I would take it down.

AfroJedii

Ohh! Did we just get burned? Now you just had to go and say something like that? I'm hurt...

Not trying to burn anyone, just posting a fact.

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[QUOTE="FingerSub"]Don't say anything yet make sure you are friends before you make your move dude. Trust meWildLIkeChild

This is so so so wrong.

The best relationships are when you are just getting to know the person. You become her friend and you never get out, you fall into the friends zone. Do not take this advice.

Not necessarily, if you guys end up becoming friends, maybe it just wasn't meant to be any more than that.

Just talk to her for a while and then maybe hint at hanging out, then eventually actually asking to for example the movies. Don't go too fast but don't take too long or she will lose interest. If you're not a smooth talker just do what I suggested over msn.

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#41 Hom3_Pwn3r
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Poke her. I'm not talking about on facebook either.
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[QUOTE="cheez-it_kid"]meh...from the pic...5/10, dont even bother.Hinata237

It's not all about looks... :roll:

Yah but the thing is he is 16, which means everything about the looks, this relationship is most likely because their hormones are going off chances are by the time their both seniors they won't even care about each other, if they even remember the other.

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#43 Manutebecker
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go slow, dont flirt too much and dont be overly friendly with her, also treat her like a friend, not like a girl you like... this honestly is the best advice I can give from past experience... just dont show so much interest in her, Women have achieved (in my books) the high status of most complicated science...
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Send mixed signals. Girls find it interesting. But don't be really weird about it. Don't become a friend then all of a sudden start flirting and try to make a move. It might work, but usually doesn't.
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Send mixed signals. Girls find it interesting. But don't be really weird about it. Don't become a friend then all of a sudden start flirting and try to make a move. It might work, but usually doesn't.The_Mac_Daddy

I have to wholeheartedly disagree, mixed signals are simply mixed signals, i don't know of any girls who like you more because you suddenly change your mind about being interested in them.
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Pimp slap her
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#47 THE-TRAP-CARD
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Get four of your best friends in suits, practice your singing skills, and then sing "For the longest time" by Billy Joel with your friends doing cool dance moves and doing the backup a-capella. Then, ask her out to the third finest restaurant in town (first if it is a small town). Then, tell us what happened, as we will be all dieing to know.

Oh, and for the love of all that is OT, open the doors for her. Girls really appreciate proper etiquette. Not that I would know, as the closest I have ever gotten to a girl was when I bought Kyrandia 2: the hand of Fate.

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#48 The_Mac_Daddy
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[QUOTE="The_Mac_Daddy"]Send mixed signals. Girls find it interesting. But don't be really weird about it. Don't become a friend then all of a sudden start flirting and try to make a move. It might work, but usually doesn't.Hom3_Pwn3r

I have to wholeheartedly disagree, mixed signals are simply mixed signals, i don't know of any girls who like you more because you suddenly change your mind about being interested in them.

Not necessarily change your mind about them, or even make them completely think that. But it makes them want to be with you more. It's mind games. It makes them question things if they can't figure you out. It will turn into them trying to attract you, instead of the other way around. It works, I do it all the time.

I don't know if you are talking about being their friend then all of a sudden flipping the script and try to date them, because thats not what i'm saying at all. You DON'T want to be friends with them first. I'm talking about if you just met her and she's new..

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#49 MetallicaKings
Member since 2004 • 4781 Posts
try not to talk on msn more then you talk to her in real life. Soon, it will be awkward talking and seeing her in real life. Try to get her phone number and physically speak to her.
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#50 Pvt_r3d
Member since 2006 • 7901 Posts

Well no, I'm pretty sure that's illegal if she says yes.

You never want to fall into the friends zone with someone you want to date. You don't do it instantly, but you make it known you're interested in them, and just feel out the situation. You don't wait until you're friends or there's a good chance it won't happen, and then you won't even have her as a friend afterwards. If she makes it obvious that she doesn't want a relationship either drop her, or become her friend, but it probably won't happen.

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This guy got it spot on, ive had a hell of alot of girls do this exact thing. The key is, finding out if there interested in you or not.