so this lecturer hates me for sure

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#1 GazaAli
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at the beginning of the semester, he was cheerful with me and cool. all of a sudden he gives me those wild stares, threats me with marks loss, i cheer him and he does not cheer me back...etc

ive sent him an email for a project relating issue and he didnt reply me yet. really strange ****. he didnt praise me for the getting the highest mark in the midterm exam, and he intentionally gave me low marks on the first two phases of the project. and when i went to his office demanding an explanation, he literally snapped and started shaking like crazy. now im not really bothered by him, i just find it really pathetic for a lecturer to be this pathetic with a mere student.

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#2 galbi_tang
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That's really strange. No explanation at all for his weird behavior? I would go to the department chair and explain your situation.
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Well, assuming that a personality disorder or something like that is out of the question, you must have done something.
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at the beginning of the semester, he was cheerful with me and cool. all of a sudden he gives me those wild stares, threats me with marks loss, i cheer him and he does not cheer me back...etc

ive sent him an email for a project relating issue and he didnt reply me yet. really strange ****. he didnt praise me for the getting the highest mark in the midterm exam, and he intentionally gave me low marks on the first two phases of the project. and when i went to his office demanding an explanation, he literally snapped and started shaking like crazy. now im not really bothered by him, i just find it really pathetic for a lecturer to be this pathetic with a mere student.

GazaAli

Do two things:

  1. Determine if you had any fault in his behavior. Did you disrespect him or slight him in some way? If so apologize, it may help.
  2. If you did the above and he's still acting like an a-hole, report em.
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#5 GazaAli
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Well, assuming that a personality disorder or something like that is out of the question, you must have done something.tsduv21
the truth is, the personality disorder thing keeps popping into my mind. the department chair will tell me to relax and not take it seriously.
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#6 GazaAli
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[QUOTE="GazaAli"]

at the beginning of the semester, he was cheerful with me and cool. all of a sudden he gives me those wild stares, threats me with marks loss, i cheer him and he does not cheer me back...etc

ive sent him an email for a project relating issue and he didnt reply me yet. really strange ****. he didnt praise me for the getting the highest mark in the midterm exam, and he intentionally gave me low marks on the first two phases of the project. and when i went to his office demanding an explanation, he literally snapped and started shaking like crazy. now im not really bothered by him, i just find it really pathetic for a lecturer to be this pathetic with a mere student.

my_mortal_coil

Do two things:

  1. Determine if you had any fault in his behavior. Did you disrespect him or slight him in some way? If so apologize, it may help.
  2. If you did the above and he's still acting like an a-hole, report em.

i tried to soften things with him, but im telling you, he is weird, really weird.
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what subject is it

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#8 Lab392
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Just leave him alone. He isn't obligated to love you.

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#9 GazaAli
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what subject is it

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Databases, he really ruined the subject for me :(
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#10 GazaAli
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Just leave him alone. He isn't obligated to love you.

Lab392
he is obligated to treat me equally and give me the marks i deserve.
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If it hurts you academically. dump his class, if possible. i don't think complaining about him will get you anywhere.they'd obviously take his word over your's.
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#12 galbi_tang
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out of curiosity, what school is this at?
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[QUOTE="GazaAli"][QUOTE="Unknownmuncher"]

what subject is it

Databases, he really ruined the subject for me :(

hhhmmm odd, the only reason i ask is if it was course that is very subjective like philosophy, where he might disagree with what you wrote
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#14 GazaAli
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If it hurts you academically. dump his class, if possible. i don't think complaining about him will get you anywhere.they'd obviously take his word over your's.grape_of_wrath
im on my final year, thats why im putting up with it. i cant post bond this subject. the semester is nearly over. his exam is on the 28th of Jan, so 2 weeks to go.
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You're probably going to disagree with what I say, and say I don't know what I'm talking about, but it seems to me that you're just paranoid. I'm sure that if you lost marks for your projects, then you probably lost them for a reason. Also, demanding answers from a prof is one of the dumbest things you could do. You should have done the smart thing, and talked to him politely in his office, and if that didn't work, THEN go to your dean or department head. Also, what do you mean "cheer" him? and that he didn't "cheer" you when you got your midterm mark back? That's extremely childish. If I were you I would just suck it up, and write his final exam and forget about the entire semester, but if you ask me, I think you're the one with the issues, not your lecturer.