So what type of lover are you?

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#1 caribo2222
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Well when it comes to love i'm the nice guy, the romantic guy, the person who wants to find the one and be with forever. So i took a little test and will post the results, that aside all that you need to answer is, what type of lover are You? To start the test go to this site, i look forward to your results-http://quiz.ivillage.com/love/tests/luvtest.htm

You scored 58.3%Other-Directed or Thou-Focused Love

Other-Directed or a Thou-Focused love is a love that is centered on your partner's happiness, your respect for him or her, and your ability to endure and overcome obstacles in a relationship. The upside: Every relationship needs respect. The downside: You don't want to be a clingy lover or inspire someone to depend on you too much.

You scored 16.7%Friendship Love

Friendship love means that you put emphasis on friendship in a loving relationship and would probably find your lover to also be your closest friend. The upside: Every relationship needs good communication and moments of deep personal sharing. The downside: Even the best of friends have to keep the passion alive.

You scored 16.7%Romantic or Sensual Love

Romantic or Sensual love involves romance, passion and strong physical attraction. If you fall into this category, you are ruled more by your heart than your head. The upside:Every relationship needs a spark.The downside: When those red-hot flames die down, will you two have anything to talk about?

You scored 8.3%Logical or Sensible Love

Logical or Sensible love involves partners who see their relationship in a practical way and express their love in a commonsense manner. Led more by their heads than their hearts, they share interests and life goals. The upside: Every relationship needs common goals and commitments. The downside: In the long run, love is neither logical nor sensible.

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#2 mhh91
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I'm the kinda guy that runs away when he finds someone who loves him :|
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#3 rbreg7
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I've been in my current relationship three years and I don't need a test to tell me I'm the clingy type, haha.
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#4 THE_BRUTALIZER
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I used to be a very easy-going laid back lover,

but with my new girl, I am definitely obsessive, clingy, talking to her often, complimenting her often, leaving her love notes on myspace and in school, drawing her cheesy little love pictures, thinking about her all of the time...

I am the worst that I can be for myself....cause if we break up, i dont even wanna think about it.....

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#5 foxhound_fox
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An amazing one.

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#6 GTR2addict
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1st one, but not too afficionate or clingy
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#7 Sajedene
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A combination of affectionate, romantic, independent, and lustful.
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#8 LikeHaterade
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You forgot the "animal" option.

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#9 LJS9502_basic  Online
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Apparently I am romantic/sensual lover.....
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#10 Drakes_Fortune
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The best one
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#11 Teenaged
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Hm it says I am a Other-Directed or Thou-Focused Lover

By 50% that is. That was the highest.

Hm the link doesnt work so....

Other-Directed or a Thou-Focused love is a love that is centered on your partner's happiness, your respect for him or her, and your ability to endure and overcome obstacles in a relationship. The upside: Every relationship needs respect. The downside: You don't want to be a clingy lover or inspire someone to depend on you too much.

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#12 DJ_Lae
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Gotta be a bit of everything to keep women guessing and coming back for more.
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#13 blank33
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Romantic and affectionate

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#14 bobaban
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Gotta be a bit of everything to keep women guessing and coming back for more.DJ_Lae
True.
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[QUOTE="DJ_Lae"]Gotta be a bit of everything to keep women guessing and coming back for more.bobaban
True.

Depends on the woman......there is no one approach.;)
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#17 tofu-lion91
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I'm usually a friendship lover but recently I've changed this and have aimed for a bit more attraction when picking people. At 18 I shouldn't be 'settling down'
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#18 Sajedene
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I'm usually a friendship lover but recently I've changed this and have aimed for a bit more attraction when picking people. At 18 I shouldn't be 'settling down'tofu-lion91
How are you going to break that to Hero? :lol:
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#19 MetroidPrimePwn
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I am not one.

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Undercover lover 8)
You're my secret passion and I have no other!!

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#21 tofu-lion91
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[QUOTE="Sajedene"] How are you going to break that to Hero? :lol:

Have you not noticed the absence of "hearts hero" in my sig? I broke up with him yesterday :|
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#22 Lto_thaG
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[QUOTE="tofu-lion91"][QUOTE="Sajedene"] How are you going to break that to Hero? :lol:

Have you not noticed the absence of "hearts hero" in my sig? I broke up with him yesterday :|

Wow :| What was the reason,if you don't mind me asking.
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[QUOTE="tofu-lion91"][QUOTE="Sajedene"] How are you going to break that to Hero? :lol:

Have you not noticed the absence of "hearts hero" in my sig? I broke up with him yesterday :|

No I didnt. Sorry. My bad. :( But you're mighty young and it is exactly as you said. So if anything - good for you.
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[QUOTE="Lto_thaG"] Wow :| What was the reason,if you don't mind me asking.

Well we'd been going out 1 year 8 months and I loved him to bits...just it was in the same way that I love my best mates. I just didn't feel attracted to him anymore in the way I should be. I still really care about him and it's a shame that you can't just jump right into being friends again...I just hope he gets on ok
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#25 D_Battery
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I think I'm the non-existant type of lover, but they don't have that as an option, so I picked number 5.
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#26 tofu-lion91
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[QUOTE="Sajedene"] No I didnt. Sorry. My bad. :( But you're mighty young and it is exactly as you said. So if anything - good for you.

S'alright. Recently I've barely been at home; I've always been out round town or at work. I feel like my life has taken off and I'm ready for new things :) It's all good and although I'll miss him I think it was the right time to move on
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[QUOTE="tofu-lion91"][QUOTE="Lto_thaG"] Wow :| What was the reason,if you don't mind me asking.

Well we'd been going out 1 year 8 months and I loved him to bits...just it was in the same way that I love my best mates. I just didn't feel attracted to him anymore in the way I should be. I still really care about him and it's a shame that you can't just jump right into being friends again...I just hope he gets on ok

Hmm...It's for the best if you indeed don't love him anymore.Same thing happened with me.Sometimes it just stops working..
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#28 shoryuken_
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I'm a cornucopia................of love.

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#29 XilePrincess
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"Very romantic, likes a good kiss and cuddle" and the "very affectionate, always thinking about their partner" of option one, easily for me.
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#30 AirGuitarist87
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I'm very old fashioned and romantic. I believe in treating a lady like a lady.
Have you not noticed the absence of "hearts hero" in my sig? I broke up with him yesterday :|tofu-lion91
I'm sorry to hear that chuck. :(
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#31 tofu-lion91
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[QUOTE="AirGuitarist87"] I'm sorry to hear that chuck. :(

I'm sorry about it too. I've really missed him today. I love and care about him so much, I've just lost my best mate :(
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#32 AirGuitarist87
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[QUOTE="tofu-lion91"][QUOTE="AirGuitarist87"] I'm sorry to hear that chuck. :(

I'm sorry about it too. I've really missed him today. I love and care about him so much, I've just lost my best mate :(

These type of situations are never quick. After being so close to each other for so long it's natural to find it difficult to adjust to the new platonic environment. Just make sure you don't drift apart and you'll be fine. All the best, chuck.
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#33 Teenaged
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Undercover lover 8)
You're my secret passion and I have no other!!

Lto_thaG

You are the one, you're my number one, everything for you cause you're the one I love!!! yhh

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[QUOTE="Lto_thaG"]

Undercover lover 8)
You're my secret passion and I have no other!!

Teenaged

You are the one, you're my number one, everything for you cause you're the one I love!!! yhh

Yay,somebody got :D

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[QUOTE="Sajedene"] How are you going to break that to Hero? :lol:tofu-lion91
Have you not noticed the absence of "hearts hero" in my sig? I broke up with him yesterday :|

Oh, I had noticed you making posts implying that you are single but I wasnt sure.

Sorry to hear that.

At least I get the picture you didnt have a nasty break up right?

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#36 Teenaged
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[QUOTE="Teenaged"]

[QUOTE="Lto_thaG"]

Undercover lover 8)
You're my secret passion and I have no other!!

Lto_thaG

You are the one, you're my number one, everything for you cause you're the one I love!!! yhh

Yay,somebody got :D

Of course I got it! :D

Helena Paparizou is Greek! t4tr

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#37 Lto_thaG
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[QUOTE="Lto_thaG"]

[QUOTE="Teenaged"]You are the one, you're my number one, everything for you cause you're the one I love!!! yhh

Teenaged

Yay,somebody got :D

Of course I got it! :D

Helena Paparizou is Greek! t4tr

Aah,good point :P

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I'm so dense that I wouldn't recognize affection if it hit me in the face, knocked me to the ground and started beating me to death with a crowbar. And that, that is why I'm not destined for romance.
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I'm so dense that I wouldn't recognize affection if it hit me in the face, knocked me to the ground and started beating me to death with a crowbar. And that, that is why I'm not destined for romance. aaaaarrrrggggg
Never say never.......
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#40 pierst179
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"Very clingy, very affectionate, always thinking about their partner"

I would say this one, but without the two "very".

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#41 tofu-lion91
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Oh, I had noticed you making posts implying that you are single but I wasnt sure.

Sorry to hear that.

At least I get the picture you didnt have a nasty break up right?

Teenaged

No, it's painful but not nasty...

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[QUOTE="aaaaarrrrggggg"]I'm so dense that I wouldn't recognize affection if it hit me in the face, knocked me to the ground and started beating me to death with a crowbar. And that, that is why I'm not destined for romance. LJS9502_basic
Never say never.......

Well... maybe one day. Maybe when I understand emotions a little better. Thanks LJ, I shouldn't let my pessimist side win out this time.
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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][QUOTE="aaaaarrrrggggg"]I'm so dense that I wouldn't recognize affection if it hit me in the face, knocked me to the ground and started beating me to death with a crowbar. And that, that is why I'm not destined for romance. aaaaarrrrggggg
Never say never.......

Well... maybe one day. Maybe when I understand emotions a little better. Thanks LJ, I shouldn't let my pessimist side win out this time.

Relationships have a habit of sneaking up on you. It'll happen for you....
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I cling more than the dryer without fabric softener.