sorry for another girl help thread, but...

here's what you do:

you gotta make it so that her boyfriend does something so bad that it will make her break up with him. i would say you should just talk her into breaking up with him, that might actually work but she will probably be thinking about her decision and maybe she will change her mind and decide she didn't want to break up with him. that's why he has to do something terrible enough for her to not want him anymore. that's where you come in. arrange a scenario (i'm not gonna tell you how, that's for you to figure out, i'm sure you're smart enough) where you get the boyfriend to make out with another girl and make sure your girlfriend sees it. she'll break up with him, and she's definitely going to want some rebound sex, so you make sure you're the guy she goes to, and she definitely won't regret that afterwards.

needled24-7

Rebound is easy sex but if you like the girl and want more, this is a horrible plan lol

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To back up what I just said, this is what happens when you stay friends with her. She knows she can have you whenever she wants.

cheese_game619

This can be averted if you find a different girlfriend while remaining friends with her.

Nope, because if he got a decent girlfriend he wouldn't need to be friends with this crush. Getting some beta girl to follow him around will hardly make this girl jealous, and he is still spending time with his crush anyway so she knows she is still important. She doesn't fear losing him yet. I mean it's better than sitting around and just being her friend but it isn't going to work as well as just manning up and leaving her alone.

Girls get jealous easily. This would only work if she has a crush on him too, and isn't just a dirty slut who said she'd bang him.

I know what you're saying though. I still think he should be there to hit that once they break up. In the mean time scout for other chicks...

Do you want to date a girl that flirts with other guys while she's in a relationship with someone?MichBelle

She may well be flirting with you because you've been friends a long time and she sees it as 'safe', i.e., she knows she can flirt with you and have fun since you're friends and it thus doesn't actually mean anything and you are also very aware that she is with and likes her boyfriend.

If you can't go on with things as they are without thinking there might or sould be more to it then it'd probably be best to tell her how you feel so she can either get with you (unlikely imo) or cut back on the flirting. You'll probably find that such a conversation will make things awkward and ruin your friendship though. Otherwise just accept the friendzone and find someone else to crush on.

Don't tell her or those "several years" could end up right thereDarthkaiser

>several years

so friendzoned you don't even know

She may well be flirting with you because you've been friends a long time and she sees it as 'safe', i.e., she knows she can flirt with you and have fun since you're friends and it thus doesn't actually mean anything and you are also very aware that she is with and likes her boyfriend.

If you can't go on with things as they are without thinking there might or sould be more to it then it'd probably be best to tell her how you feel so she can either get with you (unlikely imo) or cut back on the flirting. You'll probably find that such a conversation will make things awkward and ruin your friendship though. Otherwise just accept the friendzone and find someone else to crush on.

MissLibrarian

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