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#1 doomsday_selena
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To me, it seems like that a lot of students are under stress. Adults always tell them "oh your life isn't that hard" and such but I think that they're wrong about that. My reasons for that are that students have to worry about going to class every day, do well in every subject, and bring home homework. They have to worry about projects, assignments, and all things school related and they feel that they're pressured to do these things. Sometimes students are pressured because they have to read a book by a specific date or get a big assignment done by a specific date. They probably don't feel like they have a whole lot of time to themselves. I know a lot of classmates that don't have time for themselves, they have to worry about school every single day of the week and even at home they're extremely stressed out because it's a lot of work to keep up. Even sitting in a classroom paying attention is mind draining and it makes you tired. A lot of parents and adults don't really believe that but it's the truth! If you're focusing on something for a while, it can take a lot of energy out of you. I mean like, I understand that workers get tired from their job too but going to school does cause a lot of stress and most parents can't seem to see that. Does anyone else feel the same way as me? What are your thoughts? Thank you for your time. :)
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I have never met an adult that said that life was easy. However, at the same time, in a world that demands perfection, sometimes a student's best just isn't enough, which is a very sad thing.

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#3 bededog
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When you find out that most students goof off for most of class your sympathy towards them diminishes quickly.
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Are you going to a Public High School?
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#5 danmam2
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I've never found life as a student difficult. Granted, I'm lucky and was born smart, but I also think it has a lot to do with time management. Make good use of your time at school and you'll have time for yourself at home.
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Are you going to a Public High School?Locke562
Yes.
When you find out that most students goof off for most of class your sympathy towards them diminishes quickly.bededog
Obciously I'm not that dumb, I know that kids goof off, they have all the time in the world for themselves and they don't give a flying **** about school. They can drop out for all I care. I'm talking about REAL students. There are a pretty big chunk of students that spend a lot of time focusing on school and are very stressed out because of it.
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Wait until "Geez how am I going to get this paper done in time?" turns into "Man, how the hell am I supposed to pay back these student loans when nobody will hire me because they can't afford to pay me because I've double majored all the way through college?" Not implying that you're a double major, Just saying in this state, people with degrees are worth more than what some people can pay for.

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College students who refuse to consume booze (like myself) have it the worst, particularly if they go to institutions with especially rigorous curricula.
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#9 3ofClubs
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I always find that students are under stress.

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[QUOTE="Locke562"]Are you going to a Public High School?doomsday_selena
Yes.
When you find out that most students goof off for most of class your sympathy towards them diminishes quickly.bededog
Obciously I'm not that dumb, I know that kids goof off, they have all the time in the world for themselves and they don't give a flying **** about school. They can drop out for all I care. I'm talking about REAL students. There are a pretty big chunk of students that spend a lot of time focusing on school and are very stressed out because of it.

Have fun when you get to university :lol:
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yeah I'm a junior now and man I can tell you I have NO LIFE at all. there I said it. I have no life.
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#12 Splinter720
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[QUOTE="Luncbox1"][QUOTE="doomsday_selena"][QUOTE="Locke562"]Yes.
When you find out that most students goof off for most of class your sympathy towards them diminishes quickly.bededog
Obciously I'm not that dumb, I know that kids goof off, they have all the time in the world for themselves and they don't give a flying **** about school. They can drop out for all I care. I'm talking about REAL students. There are a pretty big chunk of students that spend a lot of time focusing on school and are very stressed out because of it.

Have fun when you get to university :lol:

Considering you choose a vocation you actually like, it will be less stresfull
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[QUOTE="Luncbox1"][QUOTE="doomsday_selena"]Obciously I'm not that dumb, I know that kids goof off, they have all the time in the world for themselves and they don't give a flying **** about school. They can drop out for all I care. I'm talking about REAL students. There are a pretty big chunk of students that spend a lot of time focusing on school and are very stressed out because of it.Splinter720
Have fun when you get to university :lol:

Considering you choose a vocation you actually like, it will be less stresfull

But the workload triples...
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I'm always stressed about school. It just sucks.
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I cracked on monday, I straight up slept through my o-chem test, because of the craziness of having 5 tests in 4 days.

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I was pretty stressed during High School. But, now that I look back on it, I could of made it a lot easier.

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#17 McJugga
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University and College can be hard, but anyone who complains about the difficulty of High School is just looking for pity.
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#18 ImaPirate0202
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University and College can be hard, but anyone who complains about the difficulty of High School is just looking for pity. McJugga

Uh, no. Constant pressure to do well to get into that University was stressful as ****.

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Exactly. High school (at least for me, and many of my friends) is an absolute breeze. The thing that sucks about it isn't the work, it's having to sit through 7 hours a day of boredom 5 days a week.
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[QUOTE="doomsday_selena"]To me, it seems like that a lot of students are under stress. Adults always tell them "oh your life isn't that hard" and such but I think that they're wrong about that. My reasons for that are that students have to worry about going to class every day, do well in every subject, and bring home homework. They have to worry about projects, assignments, and all things school related and they feel that they're pressured to do these things. Sometimes students are pressured because they have to read a book by a specific date or get a big assignment done by a specific date. They probably don't feel like they have a whole lot of time to themselves. I know a lot of classmates that don't have time for themselves, they have to worry about school every single day of the week and even at home they're extremely stressed out because it's a lot of work to keep up. Even sitting in a classroom paying attention is mind draining and it makes you tired. A lot of parents and adults don't really believe that but it's the truth! If you're focusing on something for a while, it can take a lot of energy out of you. I mean like, I understand that workers get tired from their job too but going to school does cause a lot of stress and most parents can't seem to see that. Does anyone else feel the same way as me? What are your thoughts? Thank you for your time. :)

YES SELENA i agree with you 100 percent...... i was starting to think that i was the only one who believed this
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#21 mindstorm
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Indeed a student can have a lot of stress but, as for me personally, the older I get the more reasons I have to be stressed. College has been a lot more stressful than high school. Granted, I rarely stress about anything. I guess that's why I'm on here as opposed to studying for my presentation I have at 8am in the morning... *goes back to studying the Iconoclast Controversy*
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#22 Optical_Order
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I don't goof off, but honestly I don't care that much about high school anymore. I'm completely fine with settling for the B instead of actually working hard to get the A.

I can understand the pressure. I get it too sometimes, just not to that extent. My suggestion; don't take school too seriously. I mean, yeah, work hard, get the grades you want, but remember it's just high school and you've still got a long way to go.

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Exactly. High school (at least for me, and many of my friends) is an absolute breeze. The thing that sucks about it isn't the work, it's having to sit through 7 hours a day of boredom 5 days a week.danmam2
thats my case, only in my school every class is advanced, the teachers have no personalities, there are only 35 people in the whole high school, we get tons of homework, tomorrow we have 3 tests.........but ill never get out so no point arguing....
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As you get older you realize things that you used to think are so hard aren't really that hard. As an adult who has been through it I can speak from example. I could relive those years over and over again compared to my life now. When your worry goes from man I don't have enough time to hang out to **** I haven't seen my family awake in 3 weeks. I have been working 18 hours every day and today I have to work 24 straight hours. If I don't get this done my company loses a big contract and I lose a job.

It makes things in high school trivial. One grade is not going to cost you college while one bad presentation can cost numerous jobs. Give adults credit. They understand that there is stress but you are asking the wrong people to empathize with

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Speaking of which I have an essay due tomorrow that I'm pretty stressed over, yet here I am on OT.
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As you get older you realize things that you used to think are so hard aren't really that hard. As an adult who has been through it I can speak from example. I could relive those years over and over again compared to my life now. When your worry goes from man I don't have enough time to hang out to **** I haven't seen my family awake in 3 weeks. I have been working 18 hours every day and today I have to work 24 straight hours. If I don't get this done my company loses a big contract and I lose a job.

It makes things in high school trivial. One grade is not going to cost you college while one bad presentation can cost numerous jobs. Give adults credit. They understand that there is stress but you are asking the wrong people to empathize with

kakkarott23

You just have a sucky job then.

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[QUOTE="Luncbox1"][QUOTE="doomsday_selena"]Obciously I'm not that dumb, I know that kids goof off, they have all the time in the world for themselves and they don't give a flying **** about school. They can drop out for all I care. I'm talking about REAL students. There are a pretty big chunk of students that spend a lot of time focusing on school and are very stressed out because of it.Splinter720
Have fun when you get to university :lol:

Considering you choose a vocation you actually like, it will be less stresfull

ya....no. I am doing a vocation that I like but it is 10 times as stressful as high school could have ever imagined to be. What they say is true about the 2 hours outside of class for every hour in class. Even more so for junior and senior level courses. Professors tend to be evil and u will have an exam for every class in the same week. Now those are stressful weeks.
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I agree completely, school has gotten harder for students these past few years. The world is a darker place now than it was in the 90's, and with the increase in unemployment, there is an increase in competition. High School Students must be extremely well-rounded to get into the college that they want, because most colleges that I know of don't accept someone who did well in school but did nothing else. Balancing all of these extra-curriculars and keeping a good GPA while doing well on the ACT and SAT is a pain, but I think I'm doing alright. It's not easy, but the best advice I can give is to have some fun. Don't stress out a lot, I stressed out freshman year and, while I didn't do bad per se, I did worse than I would have liked. I tried to keep things under control sophmore and junior year, and so far it's going really well. I'm halfway through Junior year and I've done better this year than any other year, so my strategy of not stressing too much has worked for me, but everyone's different. I agree with you completely though, things have changed since the 90's.
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When you find out that most students goof off for most of class your sympathy towards them diminishes quickly.bededog
Sir, that is simply not true.
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[QUOTE="ttobba07"][QUOTE="Splinter720"][QUOTE="Luncbox1"] Have fun when you get to university :lol:

Considering you choose a vocation you actually like, it will be less stresfull

ya....no. I am doing a vocation that I like but it is 10 times as stressful as high school could have ever imagined to be. What they say is true about the 2 hours outside of class for every hour in class. Even more so for junior and senior level courses. Professors tend to be evil and u will have an exam for every class in the same week. Now those are stressful weeks.

hmm...how about having 5 tests on the same day? (not finals). In high school, I've had days where 6 tests are scheduled on the same day...it's not that bad... I live.
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High school can be stressful if you're one of the unlucky kids who has extremely strict and demanding parents that ground you for the entire summer for anything less than an A and you're not smart enough to live up to those standards without submitting to 24/7 studying. Otherwise not really and most high school kids only say that it is because they haven't encountered anything more stressful than high school yet.

For me high school wasn't very stressful. I never studied in my life until a month before my junior year ended and I graduated with a 3.6 GPA. Often times I would have all my homework for the day completed before school let out, and when I didn't it usually didn't take me very long to finish at home. School didn't destroy my schedule with time requirements either. All in all, it was very easy. Probably the most stressful thing about high school was applying to colleges and even that wasn't too bad.

College, on the other hand, is much more demanding than high school, at least if you're planning on going to med/law/grad school.

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hell yeah we are. constant pressure to do good on tests, do homework, study, prep for college.
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[QUOTE="Optical_Order"]

[QUOTE="kakkarott23"]

As you get older you realize things that you used to think are so hard aren't really that hard. As an adult who has been through it I can speak from example. I could relive those years over and over again compared to my life now. When your worry goes from man I don't have enough time to hang out to **** I haven't seen my family awake in 3 weeks. I have been working 18 hours every day and today I have to work 24 straight hours. If I don't get this done my company loses a big contract and I lose a job.

It makes things in high school trivial. One grade is not going to cost you college while one bad presentation can cost numerous jobs. Give adults credit. They understand that there is stress but you are asking the wrong people to empathize with

You just have a sucky job then.

I have an awesome job that I love. You just can't help deadlines. The software business is not simple and easy especially when dealing with large retail chains. Jobs require a commitment for more demanding than school. That is just the way it is. If you are not busy at work than something is wrong
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#34 Optical_Order
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[QUOTE="Optical_Order"]

[QUOTE="kakkarott23"]

As you get older you realize things that you used to think are so hard aren't really that hard. As an adult who has been through it I can speak from example. I could relive those years over and over again compared to my life now. When your worry goes from man I don't have enough time to hang out to **** I haven't seen my family awake in 3 weeks. I have been working 18 hours every day and today I have to work 24 straight hours. If I don't get this done my company loses a big contract and I lose a job.

It makes things in high school trivial. One grade is not going to cost you college while one bad presentation can cost numerous jobs. Give adults credit. They understand that there is stress but you are asking the wrong people to empathize with

kakkarott23

You just have a sucky job then.

I have an awesome job that I love. You just can't help deadlines. The software business is not simple and easy especially when dealing with large retail chains. Jobs require a commitment for more demanding than school. That is just the way it is. If you are not busy at work than something is wrong

Well, if you like your job I'm not going to harp on you. I'm just saying your hours blow.

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I dunno about you guys but I am always stressed.

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It's definitely easy to get nostalgic as you get older, but looking at the length of school days, the length of holidays, the social life and the fact that performance at school has absolutely nothing to do with whether you'll have money for food and shelter next month does give adults reason to be jealous.
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[QUOTE="kakkarott23"][QUOTE="Optical_Order"]

You just have a sucky job then.

Optical_Order

I have an awesome job that I love. You just can't help deadlines. The software business is not simple and easy especially when dealing with large retail chains. Jobs require a commitment for more demanding than school. That is just the way it is. If you are not busy at work than something is wrong

Well, if you like your job I'm not going to harp on you. I'm just saying your hours blow.

If you work harder, you become more successful (in most cases.) I know people who seperate themselves from everyone else by worker harder and putting in more hours. Those people that put in the extra effort and time get the promotions, bonuses, etc. Those hours do suck btw :?.

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[QUOTE="jiggaloj"]

[QUOTE="Optical_Order"]

I have an awesome job that I love. You just can't help deadlines. The software business is not simple and easy especially when dealing with large retail chains. Jobs require a commitment for more demanding than school. That is just the way it is. If you are not busy at work than something is wrongkakkarott23

Well, if you like your job I'm not going to harp on you. I'm just saying your hours blow.

If you work harder, you become more successful (in most cases.) I know people who seperate themselves from everyone else by worker harder and putting in more hours. Those people that put in the extra effort and time get the promotions, bonuses, etc. Those hours do suck btw :?.

They do during the time but it all balances out. There are other periods when my job gets slow for a couple weeks and I have it easy. I show up late and leave early take long lunches. Sometimes I will go see a movie. The job is also very good to me. I get 5 weeks vacation plus two weeks sick time. I have traveled to some nice places. i get random bonuses. Like I remember getting a grand for working two days over a weekend. I am not stupid. I live by my grandfather's motto "Work Smarter not Harder? but every now and then it is smart to work harder.
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[QUOTE="ttobba07"]ya....no. I am doing a vocation that I like but it is 10 times as stressful as high school could have ever imagined to be. What they say is true about the 2 hours outside of class for every hour in class. Even more so for junior and senior level courses. Professors tend to be evil and u will have an exam for every class in the same week. Now those are stressful weeks.WINDWAKER1
hmm...how about having 5 tests on the same day? (not finals). In high school, I've had days where 6 tests are scheduled on the same day...it's not that bad... I live.

Those are high school....A college level test is in another galaxy vs a high school one. I had days like that to in high school. I never once studied in HS. The only times my books were open in HS were for homework or following along in class. I still got A's and B's in high school. Taking 4 college level exams in the same week would be a stress equivalent to 3 straight weeks of every day testing for every class in high school from my experience.

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#40 Optical_Order
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[QUOTE="jiggaloj"]

[QUOTE="Optical_Order"]

Well, if you like your job I'm not going to harp on you. I'm just saying your hours blow.

kakkarott23

If you work harder, you become more successful (in most cases.) I know people who seperate themselves from everyone else by worker harder and putting in more hours. Those people that put in the extra effort and time get the promotions, bonuses, etc. Those hours do suck btw :?.

They do during the time but it all balances out. There are other periods when my job gets slow for a couple weeks and I have it easy. I show up late and leave early take long lunches. Sometimes I will go see a movie. The job is also very good to me. I get 5 weeks vacation plus two weeks sick time. I have traveled to some nice places. i get random bonuses. Like I remember getting a grand for working two days over a weekend. I am not stupid. I live by my grandfather's motto "Work Smarter not Harder? but every now and then it is smart to work harder.

So... what the hell do you do? Something about the software business is all you said.

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#41 The_Solid
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No I was never stressed,I studyed one day before my tests and owned them. Homework=Something to do while listening to standup comedy. School is a breeze.The key is you gotta do well for yourself and nobody else.
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You think you have it hard? Do you wake up at 6am everyday, go to school for about 10-12 hours, then come home and do 3-41/2 hrs of HW EACH NIGHT? Do you also play a sport year round that you actually care about and do well in? Are you involved in other extra cirriculum activities? Do you do anything outside of school besides hang out with friends? Do you get 5-6 hours of sleep? Do you get straight-As?

If you answered No to any of those questions, then stop whining. Because I do all that and I don't whine. Just do it, kid.

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#43 kakkarott23
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Optical_Order: I work as a project manager for a company that does photographic software. We used to work with FujiFilm, Wal-Mart, Target, Costco, Longs Drugs, and some other places but now we are exclusive with Hewlett-Packard. I also did some of the QA, Support, and development when times called for it. I am a jack of all trades.
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#44 gameguy6700
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[QUOTE="kakkarott23"] ya....no. I am doing a vocation that I like but it is 10 times as stressful as high school could have ever imagined to be. What they say is true about the 2 hours outside of class for every hour in class. Even more so for junior and senior level courses. Professors tend to be evil and u will have an exam for every class in the same week. Now those are stressful weeks.Optical_Order

hmm...how about having 5 tests on the same day? (not finals). In high school, I've had days where 6 tests are scheduled on the same day...it's not that bad... I live.

High school tests are nothing like college tests. Back in high school I aced most of my exams by doing nothing more than taking notes and then reading over said notes about 2-5 minutes before the exam. I enjoyed taking tests back in K-12 because they saved me from the boredom of having to sit through class doing pointless assignments and listening to a teacher drone on and on about the same subject.

In college exams are much more difficult and thus far I have actually needed to study for them. For my hardest classes I have to study nonstop for days in order to get even a decent score. Add to that the fact that each exam in a class is equal to about 25-50% of your grade on average and there's really no room for error. In high school you can bomb tests left and right and still come out with an A. In college if you bomb a test you often lose a letter grade because of it. As a result, the stress factor for tests goes way up in college. If you've ever taken an AP exam you've probably found them to be the most stressful exams besides the SAT right? Well, in college every exam is as stressful as an AP exam.

I agree completely, school has gotten harder for students these past few years. The world is a darker place now than it was in the 90's, and with the increase in unemployment, there is an increase in competition. High School Students must be extremely well-rounded to get into the college that they want, because most colleges that I know of don't accept someone who did well in school but did nothing else. Balancing all of these extra-curriculars and keeping a good GPA while doing well on the ACT and SAT is a pain, but I think I'm doing alright. It's not easy, but the best advice I can give is to have some fun. Don't stress out a lot, I stressed out freshman year and, while I didn't do bad per se, I did worse than I would have liked. I tried to keep things under control sophmore and junior year, and so far it's going really well. I'm halfway through Junior year and I've done better this year than any other year, so my strategy of not stressing too much has worked for me, but everyone's different. I agree with you completely though, things have changed since the 90's. WINDWAKER1

Please, none of that is terribly difficult compared to their college counterparts. I mean, first of all, extracurriculars only matter if you're applying to a selective school. Even then they won't make or break your application unless you're trying to apply to a top 25 school. Furthermore, if you're complaining about "all of these extracurriculars" you're doing it wrong. Colleges only want to see you with a couple of EC's that you've really achieved something important in. Anyone can be a member of a few dozen clubs and activities.

Anyway, to give you an idea of why I'm not sympathetic, I'm a neuroscience major in college and I'm hoping to go to grad school for my Ph.D. after I get my B.S. All of my classes are upper level science classes, and in order to get into grad school (even the crappy ones) I need to have A's in all of them. Anything below a 3.7 makes life hard for applications and anything below a 3.5 is a kiss of death. I also work long hours in a research lab (we're talking 40-50 hour work weeks here, no pay, on top of my schedule as a full time student). And I also have to study for the GRE which is like the SAT on steroids (aside from having the difficulty ratched up for a college student, the test is also computerized and makes itself harder for every question you answer correctly).

See, unlike undergraduate college, grad and professional schools are all extremely selective. Your average med school, for example, is as selective as Harvard's undergrad admissions (ie an acceptance rate of 8-10%). This is because for a lot of grad and professional programs you have 400-800 people applying for only 6-12 slots. It's not uncommon for kids with 4.0 GPAs and high GRE scores to get rejected by every program they apply to. Contrast this to college where most universities have acceptance rates above 40%, there's hundreds if not thousands of openings, and there's plenty of schools for every caliber of student which means that if you want a college education you will get one.

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#45 Optical_Order
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Optical_Order: I work as a project manager for a company that does photographic software. We used to work with FujiFilm, Wal-Mart, Target, Costco, Longs Drugs, and some other places but now we are exclusive with Hewlett-Packard. I also did some of the QA, Support, and development when times called for it. I am a jack of all trades.kakkarott23

Well, being project manager for that would be pretty difficult I'd assume.

Still. I can't imagine liking my job if I had to work 18 hours in a day, let alone 24...

I'm sure you get paid very nicely though. :)

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#46 SegaGenesisfan
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Indeed a student can have a lot of stress but, as for me personally, the older I get the more reasons I have to be stressed. College has been a lot more stressful than high school. Granted, I rarely stress about anything. I guess that's why I'm on here as opposed to studying for my presentation I have at 8am in the morning... *goes back to studying the Iconoclast Controversy*mindstorm

I am in a similiar situation, I have a composition paper to turn in tomarrow, and I am not even done!:shock: Well I got past the page requirements, but not the revising...

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#47 REA24409
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I know exactly what you mean. Education is harder than it used to be, and yet parents think they know it all. Yet I took the same classes sophomore year in which they took in College. I got hours and hours of homework and I tried as hard as I could and it was still so freaking hard it was ridiculous, and if I do bad after I busted my ass to do good than they so I don't try. They say they have done it before, you know what I got to say to that... bull **** I would love for them to walk in my shoes for one day and see how hard everything actually is.

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#48 REA24409
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[QUOTE="mindstorm"]Indeed a student can have a lot of stress but, as for me personally, the older I get the more reasons I have to be stressed. College has been a lot more stressful than high school. Granted, I rarely stress about anything. I guess that's why I'm on here as opposed to studying for my presentation I have at 8am in the morning... *goes back to studying the Iconoclast Controversy*SegaGenesisfan

I am in a similiar situation, I have a composition paper to turn in tomarrow, and I am not even done!:shock: Well I got past the page requirements, but not the revising...

If you have a paper due tommorow than why are you posting this :lol: Start doing you home work

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#49 -_Canada_-
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Students are almost always stressed about school.

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#50 Gaming-Planet
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You forgot to mention that some students have to worry about the way they look.

It's true what students feel... I feel like that everyday. I even get nightmares about school.