Take this word of advice, never be afraid to cry.

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#1 O_Rly_FTW
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All of this time emotional stress has been burdened upon me, but I always kept it all in. Now that I let myself become to hard (no penis joke), I cannot cry anymore. I cant even remember the last time that I dod cry. Whenever something exceptionally sad happens to me now, I just sit there with a blank expression. Because I cant even show my own sadness. So my advice to you all is this: never get to hard inside to be able to show softness on the outside.
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#2 SolidSnake_108
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Awwwww.....no penis joke? This thread sucks....:(
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#3 double_decker
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Real men don't cry:cry: I'm such a sissy:(
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#4 AmberFire
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pfft i only cry at sad movies :P or funerals or anything just sad
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#5 megagene
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:cry: double_decker, hold me. :cry:
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#6 Hinata237
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Nankurunaisa, Live today for tommorow

Maybe you can find out what that means, where it's from and what it has to do with this thread ^.^

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#7 double_decker
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:cry: double_decker, hold me. :cry:megagene
*holds you* :oops: It's ok, I'm here and brought the "fun bag" 8)
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#8 firebird23
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I'm not ashamed to admit that I cry when I am overwhelmed with emotion. Either happiness or sadness.
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#9 yoshi-lnex
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:cry:
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#10 LoG-Sacrament
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take it to dr. phil.
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#11 deactivated-5f9e3c6a83e51
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It's even more therapeutic to laugh.
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#13 ExiledHero
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I don't even remember the last time I cried as well.  Usually when an unfortunate event happens, my alter ego seems to come out and I start making jokes left and right until the emotion of sadness subsides.
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#14 Daytona_178
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Hey dude, i know how you feel! Its kinda hard when you have problems because it seems you body uses crying to help release stress.... so really my advice to anyone who cries is not to fight it because its a natural way of relieving stress or anxiety.
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#15 zeus_gb
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Crying is completely natural.  Loads of men say they don't but they do.

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#16 Snomel
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Haha, I cry at everything. I cry at sad things, I cry at particularly happy things, I cry at certain songs. I rarely cry at books or films, but that's about it.

I have a feeling one or two games have made me cry too.

My male friends make fun of me for being such a girl =(

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#17 BDM666
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I always get kind of hard at random moments. I wish there were an explanation for this. I'll cry if it keeps happening.
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#18 Articuno76
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It's even more therapeutic to laugh.sonicare

After a few minutes of crying people won't flinch, but after a few minutes of laughing people will think you're insane. 

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#19 O_Rly_FTW
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Crying is completely natural.  Loads of men say they don't but they do.

zeus_gb
I know, but for some reason every time I want to I cant. I havent cried in over a year. :(
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#20 sinistergoggles
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Everyone cries.
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#21 dnuggs40
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Crying in joy is cool, but crying becuase you are stressed is weak.  Suck it up wuss.

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#22 woody998
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Well im actually quite sensetive so I find myself doing it god knows how often, but never have I done it in public, very few people have seen me do it.
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#23 Articuno76
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On a more serious note, holding it in and putting up a falsley strong front doesn't seem healthy. It seems there is a high incidence a lack of emotional venting, particularly amongst men who have much high suicide rates and such. Put short, if you hold it in then what are the benefits?
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#24 zeus_gb
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[QUOTE="zeus_gb"]

Crying is completely natural.  Loads of men say they don't but they do.

O_Rly_FTW

I know, but for some reason every time I want to I cant. I havent cried in over a year. :(

Neither have I.  I didn't mean you, I meant these people who say men don't cry and all that kind of stuff.

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#25 Mr_Sams
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i ain't never cried in my life..........
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#26 Hinata237
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Crying in joy is cool, but crying becuase you are stressed is weak.  Suck it up wuss.

dnuggs40

Lol, trying to be a tough guy?
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#27 K4ss3r
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Real men don't cry:cry: I'm such a sissy:(double_decker
No, real men are not afraid of showing their emotions.
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#28 dnuggs40
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[QUOTE="dnuggs40"]

Crying in joy is cool, but crying becuase you are stressed is weak.  Suck it up wuss.

Hinata237


Lol, trying to be a tough guy?

Not about being tough.  Stress is no reason to cry.  there are other ways to deal with stress, like confronting and overcomming it.  Crying about it is a weak cop-out.

Crying in joy, or about death or other huge loss is normal, crying becuase you are "stressed" and just can't take it and break down is another.

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#29 double_decker
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No, real men are not afraid of showing their emotions.
K4ss3r
Thank you, you know all the right things to say :oops:
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#30 RamboSymbiot
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crying sucks,

so does getting hit in the head with a freshly made hotdog.

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#31 Articuno76
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[QUOTE="Hinata237"][QUOTE="dnuggs40"]

Crying in joy is cool, but crying becuase you are stressed is weak. Suck it up wuss.

dnuggs40


Lol, trying to be a tough guy?

Not about being tough. Stress is no reason to cry. there are other ways to deal with stress, like confronting and overcomming it. Crying about it is a weak cop-out.

Crying in joy, or about death or other huge loss is normal, crying becuase you are "stressed" and just can't take it and break down is another.

That doesn't actually sort out the problem it just removes the stressful stimulus, it doesn't help you wind down. You can both tackle the problem and cry about it (maybe before, maybe after).

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#32 metallica_fan42
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I don't even remember the last time I cried.
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#33 crazygamer1
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I've cried at the movies before but in my defense it was only because my girlfriend ate the last of my milk duds :cry: Just thinking about it has me teary eyed....:(

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#34 -Murdock-
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i ain't never cried in my life..........Mr_Sams

You're a liar. You were once a little little kid as opposed to being...12 now? We all cried as children; fell off a bike, didn't get what we wanted, and so on.

Now if you don't consider that as crying, then you must never have had anything tragic happen in your life; lost a loved one, had someone close to you move away, had a girl you love break up with you, or so on. Guess what, when that stuff happens and you pretend you're stronger than that, in reality you're just weak and stubborn and afraid to face the seriousness of what has occured. 

You don't cry over little things, but you don't ignore what you're feeling either. I think it's time to act like a man rather than a bad ''boy''. 

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#35 alex1889
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i dont cry, i am emotionless, otherwise i would be classed as a sence offender and they suck, oops no thats not an oppinion -blushes- ergh erm -flees-
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#36 alex1889
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i ain't never cried in my life..........Mr_Sams
you haven't effer used correct grammer either? :p
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#37 X360PS3AMD05
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already knew that :?
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#38 KrAzY_cHrIs
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[QUOTE="double_decker"]Real men don't cry:cry: I'm such a sissy:(K4ss3r
No, real men are not afraid of showing their emotions.

thats just what the sissy men say :P

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#39 double_decker
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thats just what the sissy men say :P

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I saw you crying at the ATM... don't even try to act tough with me:|:P
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#40 abattoir_blues
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I remember one time me and my girlfriend got in a fight and she really pissed me off, and I started crying and she never did.She said that I was the first boyfriend she had that ever cried and that scared her.Yea it was pretty embarrassing
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#41 Articuno76
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I remember one time me and my girlfriend got in a fight and she really pissed me off, and I started crying and she never did.She said that I was the first boyfriend she had that ever cried and that scared her.Yea it was pretty embarrassingabattoir_blues
Then don't cry in front of her :|

Emotional venting needs to happen to be healthy, you don't even have to cry for that to happen but get it out somehow.

 

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#42 gamerchris810
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i cry whenever my mums or dad try to say somthing serious cus i know its gonna be bad :( like when they got divorced
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#43 Samerzz
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All of this time emotional stress has been burdened upon me, but I always kept it all in. Now that I let myself become to hard (no penis joke), I cannot cry anymore. I cant even remember the last time that I dod cry. Whenever something exceptionally sad happens to me now, I just sit there with a blank expression. Because I cant even show my own sadness. So my advice to you all is this: never get to hard inside to be able to show softness on the outside.O_Rly_FTW
Actually I use to hold it all in,  and one I let it all out. IT WAS BAD! lol. Like insane bad.
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i ain't never cried in my life..........Mr_Sams
Nobody listen to this guy.I you need a reason to not trust him look at the thread in my sig
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#45 blooddemon666
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I've cried at the movies before but in my defense it was only because my girlfriend ate the last of my milk duds :cry: Just thinking about it has me teary eyed....:(

crazygamer1

:lol:

I can't remember the last time I turned on the waterworks, but I have gotten teary eyed in the past. I blame it on allergies >_> yes, i'm allergic to sadness...

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#46 Guiltfeeder566
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I will never cry
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#47 Kikouken
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I'm not afraid to cry.
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#48 Big_player
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i dont cry, i am emotionless, otherwise i would be classed as a sence offender and they suck, oops no thats not an oppinion -blushes- ergh erm -flees-alex1889

equilibrium FTW...................o god too much emotion:|
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#49 FrozeN__54
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I've never really had anything very sad to cry about lately... Except... yeah, that... :cry:
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#50 ElToRo_14
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I heard you can loose weight if you cry enough lol. But yeah, your manliness won't let you cry. lol