teenage girl problems(it's long)

yup. I made an account to get advice. oh and sorry if it's too long

ok. im 14 years old. ive never gotten a girl before, and most people have. im pretty flawed. my acne is pretty bad, im a bit tubby(was fat then i actually started to watch what i eat), i have a lisp, and i can be pretty shy. Well since im not much of a "playa", haha, ive sat and watched some things. I feel like i have changed my view on love at a very young age. The guys jus talk bout how nice a girl's behind looks and such, and they show em off. I want a real relationship tho.

(might not have to read dis paragraph)I used to be like all the other guys... you should kno how teenagers act. they have fantasies bout the bed and the girl. So bout a year ago thers this girl. I wouldn't say she's hot, but she's cute. I've had some crushes before that lasted few months, and i'd jus hav fantasies like all the other teenage boys bout the bed and the girl. But this time was different. The girl i met in 7TH GRADE was nice. she had a goofy laugh. asian with braces :). I was jus like all the other teenage boys at the time i met her. i jus wanted one wit the nice bod and features. Then comes 8th grade. im down. i got my friends, but i want more. I'm close to my cousins, and i've watched them. they're a lot older than me and they've gotten lots of guys. they pretty mature bout it. so i guess 8th grade was when i realized "wait u gotta think bout the actual girl instead of the appearence."

(might not have to read dis paragraph)Thas how it happened. I thought of some girls i knew, and she popped up ther. ive talked to her before, and spent some time with her. She's a great person. She's goofy, but she's calm. The guys never gave her a chance, i've heard some bad comments on her too. I dint care. So I spent a lot of my time in 8th grade imagin little love movies. Like i would magically be some kinda singer and go on a stage to sing love songs to her. Then i would ask her out while on stage in front of people XD

So 9th grade, first year of high school. the current year. I've been thinkin of her for so long now. She stands out the most out of the other 1000 girls. I want an actual relationship. jus talkin, expressin feelings, buyin gifts, goin to movies, goin to dances, and all that stuff. Not all tha junk the guys talk bout. "OOH DUDDE I FREAKIN FELT HER LEFT BREAST AREA IT WAS LIKE OMG". not tha crap. so i ask her friend if she single :( dnt think it was a good thing to do. So her friend tells the girl, then the girl MSG'S ME ON MYSPACE. she rejects me on myspace? wats tha supposed to mean? well anyway she says "im sorry blah blah i jus dnt feel same way stuffed fish yup sry i jus dnt really "like" you. SO IMZ THINKIN... ok she don't like me... it's not like i can't change tha. i confess to some of my friends and cousins and they're all like "dude jus forget bout it blah"

BUT WAIT? what if it jus so happens tha this is the girl im supposed to be with? WHY THE HECK SHOULD I GIVE UP? but now im havin thoughts... god how will a relationship end up later anyway? i'd stay with her for years, but wat whould she do? wat'll happen when we graduate? what if we do get married? we are still pretty young. the divorce rate is so high now. but why am i thinkin bout marriage? so many questions. i need examples, especially from people who are currently in a good relationship/ are married. srry for long story...

dumb 9th grader 13 and 14 yearolds think theyre so cool, if u went into the UFC octagon 1 minute with me u would be toasted and roastedqwertyu

haha im in cali. the spoiled kids are over here XD people actually think im around 16 because of how deep my voice is. ppl who talked to me on PSN think i'm like 20 :O

haha im in cali. the spoiled kids are over here XD people actually think im around 16 because of how deep my voice is. ppl who talked to me on PSN think i'm like 20 :O

lolwotrickroll

"Don't try to find love, love will simply find you"

Why can't people follow the damn quote! :cry:

Just wait silly! Theres 2.5 people for everyone in the world something like that >_>.

-ily :oops:

thanks for the quick responses guys. im new here as you can tell XD

ive been thinkin bout her a lot now, and i'd stay with her for years. I wasn't actually plannin on doin anythin this year honestly. She found out too early, which is most likely why i got rejected. She barely got to know ME. i've gotten to kno her... ok heres a question. how do you get close to the girl? i have no classes with her, and she's always with her friends.

dumb 9th grader 13 and 14 yearolds think theyre so cool, if u went into the UFC octagon 1 minute with me u would be toasted and roastedqwertyu

...WHEN DID THIS BECOME A COMPETITION?!

^gettin her attention by touching her shoulder...

OFFFFF COOOURSE!!! tho u gotta admit that just walkin up to her group of friends, and tapping her shoulder to say hi is kinda weird... i mean i'd think it was weird too lol and worst of all... i suck at making conversation

Your young. Really, really young. Your just starting in high school and all you need to be worrying about is having fun. It does suck though that she turned you down, but thats ok, i have too. Move on man, talk to some other cute girls, have fun with your friends and never, NEVER take anything personally from a girl. She doesn't like you like that, its ok, you can still be friends and who knows you two might end up dating down the road. Point is, get over it, your just starting out.

^gettin her attention by touching her shoulder...

OFFFFF COOOURSE!!! tho u gotta admit that just walkin up to her group of friends, and tapping her shoulder to say hi is kinda weird... i mean i'd think it was weird too lol and worst of all... i suck at making conversation

lolwotrickroll

don't try to make a conversation yet, because I know your heart is beat 10 frame per second when you near her... opp sorry I mean 10 beat per second...

Just try to do it slowly, say hii or how are you, well something like that...and try to joke (as long is not a bad or stupid joke) it's good for growing conversation...

You like a girl? Ewww, that's gross. Cootie alert!

yup. I made an account to get advice. oh and sorry if it's too long

ok. im 14 years old. ive never gotten a girl before, and most people have. im pretty flawed. my acne is pretty bad, im a bit tubby(was fat then i actually started to watch what i eat), i have a lisp, and i can be pretty shy. Well since im not much of a "playa", haha, ive sat and watched some things. I feel like i have changed my view on love at a very young age. The guys jus talk bout how nice a girl's behind looks and such, and they show em off. I want a real relationship tho.

(might not have to read dis paragraph)I used to be like all the other guys... you should kno how teenagers act. they have fantasies bout the bed and the girl. So bout a year ago thers this girl. I wouldn't say she's hot, but she's cute. I've had some crushes before that lasted few months, and i'd jus hav fantasies like all the other teenage boys bout the bed and the girl. But this time was different. The girl i met in 7TH GRADE was nice. she had a goofy laugh. asian with braces :). I was jus like all the other teenage boys at the time i met her. i jus wanted one wit the nice bod and features. Then comes 8th grade. im down. i got my friends, but i want more. I'm close to my cousins, and i've watched them. they're a lot older than me and they've gotten lots of guys. they pretty mature bout it. so i guess 8th grade was when i realized "wait u gotta think bout the actual girl instead of the appearence."

(might not have to read dis paragraph)Thas how it happened. I thought of some girls i knew, and she popped up ther. ive talked to her before, and spent some time with her. She's a great person. She's goofy, but she's calm. The guys never gave her a chance, i've heard some bad comments on her too. I dint care. So I spent a lot of my time in 8th grade imagin little love movies. Like i would magically be some kinda singer and go on a stage to sing love songs to her. Then i would ask her out while on stage in front of people XD

So 9th grade, first year of high school. the current year. I've been thinkin of her for so long now. She stands out the most out of the other 1000 girls. I want an actual relationship. jus talkin, expressin feelings, buyin gifts, goin to movies, goin to dances, and all that stuff. Not all tha junk the guys talk bout. "OOH DUDDE I FREAKIN FELT HER LEFT BREAST AREA IT WAS LIKE OMG". not tha crap. so i ask her friend if she single :( dnt think it was a good thing to do. So her friend tells the girl, then the girl MSG'S ME ON MYSPACE. she rejects me on myspace? wats tha supposed to mean? well anyway she says "im sorry blah blah i jus dnt feel same way stuffed fish yup sry i jus dnt really "like" you. SO IMZ THINKIN... ok she don't like me... it's not like i can't change tha. i confess to some of my friends and cousins and they're all like "dude jus forget bout it blah"

BUT WAIT? what if it jus so happens tha this is the girl im supposed to be with? WHY THE HECK SHOULD I GIVE UP? but now im havin thoughts... god how will a relationship end up later anyway? i'd stay with her for years, but wat whould she do? wat'll happen when we graduate? what if we do get married? we are still pretty young. the divorce rate is so high now. but why am i thinkin bout marriage? so many questions. i need examples, especially from people who are currently in a good relationship/ are married. srry for long story...

lolwotrickroll

you want a RELATIONSHIP at 14, wanna know what a 14 year old girl wants? didnt think so

dumb 9th grader 13 and 14 yearolds think theyre so cool, if u went into the UFC octagon 1 minute with me u would be toasted and roastedqwertyu

most pointless post in thread.

dumb 9th grader 13 and 14 yearolds think theyre so cool, if u went into the UFC octagon 1 minute with me u would be toasted and roastedqwertyu

I stopped reading at "I'm 14". God, why do you care?Vfanek

Instead of stopping there, you should continue to the part where he worries about divorce.

[QUOTE="Vfanek"]I stopped reading at "I'm 14". God, why do you care?Oleg_Huzwog

Instead of stopping there, you should continue to the part where he worries about divorce.

[QUOTE="Oleg_Huzwog"]

[QUOTE="Vfanek"]I stopped reading at "I'm 14". God, why do you care?Jandurin

Instead of stopping there, you should continue to the part where he worries about divorce.

You mean "might not have to read dis paragraph"? No, it's in a paragraph that doesn't have that disclaimer.

You mean "might not have to read dis paragraph"? No, it's in a paragraph that doesn't have that disclaimer.

Oleg_Huzwog

She doesn't like you. End.DrSponge

This^^ if you dont realise this, your going to end up stalking her, nd she''ll get a restraining order on you.

You're 14. Be patient for a couple more years. Your situation is not uncommon.3DayFinisher

I'm 17 and I never had a relationship, and left 2 girls astray because I *bleeped* up.

There are always people who are doing worse so you don't have to feel ashamed. :P

I think the most worrying thing in all of this is that OT has become internet-famous for girl advice.

If this is the first of the influx of 14 year old lotharios then God save us all...

[QUOTE="lolwotrickroll"]

^gettin her attention by touching her shoulder...

OFFFFF COOOURSE!!! tho u gotta admit that just walkin up to her group of friends, and tapping her shoulder to say hi is kinda weird... i mean i'd think it was weird too lol and worst of all... i suck at making conversation

Aldouz

don't try to make a conversation yet, because I know your heart is beat 10 frame per second when you near her... opp sorry I mean 10 beat per second...

Just try to do it slowly, say hii or how are you, well something like that...and try to joke (as long is not a bad or stupid joke) it's good for growing conversation...

10 fps? That's pretty slow. Lol jk it made me laugh though.

[QUOTE="Aldouz"][QUOTE="lolwotrickroll"]

^gettin her attention by touching her shoulder...

OFFFFF COOOURSE!!! tho u gotta admit that just walkin up to her group of friends, and tapping her shoulder to say hi is kinda weird... i mean i'd think it was weird too lol and worst of all... i suck at making conversation

Nills

don't try to make a conversation yet, because I know your heart is beat 10 frame per second when you near her... opp sorry I mean 10 beat per second...

Just try to do it slowly, say hii or how are you, well something like that...and try to joke (as long is not a bad or stupid joke) it's good for growing conversation...

10 fps? That's pretty slow. Lol jk it made me laugh though.

deg-deg deg-deg deg-deg deg-deg deg-deg... click (stopwatch)

Wow new record... 0.9998 second (but i don't know what kinda record is this lol)

You don't want a serious relationship. You are not different from the other guys who ogle at women. You are lying to yourself and its your first step into a slippery road of elitism. If you want to have a serious relationship for the sake of companionship, your looking for a friend and not a girlfriend. You have spent most of your life with the same people, and it is understandable that you might think you have formed some great bond, but you haven't seen the world long enough to have matured to the point where you should worry about a commitment. There's millions of girls out there.

But wait no, this one girl showed a faint interest, once, so that is definately your only shot at love ever.

P.S. While your doing your "longterm" philosophical thinking on who you want to spend your life with, why dont you spend some effort into planning on HOW your going to spend the rest of your life (I.E. What college are you going to, which career do you plan to pursue? Do you have plans in case your career gets replaced by robots?) The time between now and your junior year are probably going to define whether you become Nuclear Physicist, or the manager (if your lucky) at your local McDonalds.

I apologize if I sound rude, but its the truth.

Ya dude, at 14 just worry about your friends and bein a kid. Love is not something you want to delve in till your older man. I'm 19 and some of my ex's have driven me nuts to the point of not even giving a crap about relatonships anymore haha...and about that myspace crap...she might need a **** slap for that =pp

Rofl at UFC comment =] ahaha

[QUOTE="lolwotrickroll"]

haha im in cali. the spoiled kids are over here XD people actually think im around 16 because of how deep my voice is. ppl who talked to me on PSN think i'm like 20 :O

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I win! People tell me I sound like Russel Crowe, especially when I quote Gladiator!