The first time you got with a girl properly.......

yes I was, but, make her sit on your lap, and eveything will go as suposed too

nuff said

One time, I had to let this girl borrow a pencil, and when I gave it to her, her finger touched mine, and I fainted. When I woke up I had a big round spot on my pants :(
Hope your experience isn't as bad as mine was.
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XD 

That was funny but i'm being serious and i've only got 1 or 2 serious answers any more?thanks

Yes, I was nervous.

 Does she have any experience? If so, let her lead. _Specifically_ ask her, "What do you want me to do?". If she doesn't have experience, the most important thing is to have fun. Make jokes. Laugh. Even if you two don't do it properly, at least it'll be fun. It gets better. By the 3rd or 5th time it'll be something natural (since, well, it is, everybody does it at some point ;))

Yes, I was nervous.

Does she have any experience? If so, let her lead. _Specifically_ ask her, "What do you want me to do?". If she doesn't have experience, the most important thing is to have fun. Make jokes. Laugh. Even if you two don't do it properly, at least it'll be fun. It gets better. By the 3rd or 5th time it'll be something natural (since, well, it is, everybody does it at some point ;))

inerte

Make jokes during sex?"
Like "Hey .....whats that....I think you left your keys up there :o"

Yer she does have some experience not a lot though, thanks for the help everyone its making me feel less nervous any more?Game_Lover70

If you cant keep it up, just act like its part o the plan to keep cool.  Think of the hottest woman alive and it will return. 

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Yes, I was nervous.

Does she have any experience? If so, let her lead. _Specifically_ ask her, "What do you want me to do?". If she doesn't have experience, the most important thing is to have fun. Make jokes. Laugh. Even if you two don't do it properly, at least it'll be fun. It gets better. By the 3rd or 5th time it'll be something natural (since, well, it is, everybody does it at some point ;))

Account_27

Make jokes during sex?"
Like "Hey .....whats that....I think you left your keys up there :o"

So that's where they went. 

Yer i'll try to be cool and normal and everything if I can any tips though? 

Yer i'll try to be cool and normal and everything if I can any tips though?

Game_Lover70

My advice is (ironically) don't listen to any advice.  She knows it's your first time and is going be mature about it.  If you really care for each other, your first time is irrelevant, you can only do the best you can and she should respect you for that.

The first time i ever "hooked up" with a girl was at my Eighth Grade Dance. I Slow Danced with the Hottest girl at my school. Now what came after...

Anyways, don't be scared, and just be yoself. That's what "they" wanna see.

i've never been that close to a girl before,but im guessing i would be kinda nervous.mlbslugger86

wait a sec, i looked at your profile and your 21 and your a guy. Most people get hooked up when they're 16-18, there are even kids that have done it at 13 years old. So whats up man, are you choosing not to do this? Or are you just having trouble getting a girl? Ask us for help if you need, im sure we can help Game_Lover and you at the same time.

[QUOTE="mlbslugger86"]i've never been that close to a girl before,but im guessing i would be kinda nervous.Srbanator

wait a sec, i looked at your profile and your 21 and your a guy. Most people get hooked up when they're 16-18, there are even kids that have done it at 13 years old. So whats up man, are you choosing not to do this? Or are you just having trouble getting a girl? Ask us for help if you need, im sure we can help Game_Lover and you at the same time.

It kinda depends on where you live.

Where I live I have nothing in common with people. only got a few friends.

Where I live, They are all gangsta pimp wannabes. ( those annoys me, ) and listen to rap and all that crap ( which i hate too, Rock ftw ). All the girl goes to the dangerous freaky guys, like someone who cant read, dont know what 10+2 is and always have to be so loud and annoying, like screaming I WANNA *'*'*'* you in the middle of a class...

Im not so confident either, not to mention my evil diabetes that stops me from getting drunk or going out partying.

I'm 16 btw :D

[QUOTE="mlbslugger86"]i've never been that close to a girl before,but im guessing i would be kinda nervous.Srbanator

wait a sec, i looked at your profile and your 21 and your a guy. Most people get hooked up when they're 16-18, there are even kids that have done it at 13 years old. So whats up man, are you choosing not to do this? Or are you just having trouble getting a girl? Ask us for help if you need, im sure we can help Game_Lover and you at the same time.

it's a long story,my problems with girls involve the fact that im way too shy to go up and talk to them

dun ask me cuz i never had a proper gf

just listen to these guys above me with "act natural" speech

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[QUOTE="mlbslugger86"]i've never been that close to a girl before,but im guessing i would be kinda nervous.mlbslugger86

wait a sec, i looked at your profile and your 21 and your a guy. Most people get hooked up when they're 16-18, there are even kids that have done it at 13 years old. So whats up man, are you choosing not to do this? Or are you just having trouble getting a girl? Ask us for help if you need, im sure we can help Game_Lover and you at the same time.

it's a long story,my problems with girls involve the fact that im way too shy to go up and talk to them

I had the same problem, that is until I got my first GF. Remember, if you ask her out she might say yes and she might say no. If she says no then go on to the next one, no big deal. You arnt looking for a lifetime relationship so dont get too worked up about it. Same thing with you Game_Lover, its just sex not a lifetime commitment. Oh and Game_Lover, since your so inexperienced your gonna go out very quick and leave her unhappy if you just unzip and start. Dont do that. Instead make sure you FOREPLAY! Kiss her and dont be afraid to touch her "down there" to get her a little stimulated before you start the main part. The worst thing that can ever happen is for you to get all worked up and climax, but hear your girl say " When are we gonna start?".

Yes, I was nervous.

Does she have any experience? If so, let her lead. _Specifically_ ask her, "What do you want me to do?". If she doesn't have experience, the most important thing is to have fun. Make jokes. Laugh. Even if you two don't do it properly, at least it'll be fun. It gets better. By the 3rd or 5th time it'll be something natural (since, well, it is, everybody does it at some point ;))

inerte

Best thing to do is just be yourself and if you do get intimate just tell her it's your first time and you're not sure what to do. She'll like that more than you just guessing what to do and having her be completely turned off by the time you do figure out what to do. Chicks like confidence, but that doesn't mena knowing how to do everything, it means being calm and knowing how to make decisions quickly :)  

Um. I had no effing clue what the hell she was trying to do at first.quiglythegreat

[QUOTE="mlbslugger86"][QUOTE="Srbanator"]

[QUOTE="mlbslugger86"]i've never been that close to a girl before,but im guessing i would be kinda nervous.Srbanator

wait a sec, i looked at your profile and your 21 and your a guy. Most people get hooked up when they're 16-18, there are even kids that have done it at 13 years old. So whats up man, are you choosing not to do this? Or are you just having trouble getting a girl? Ask us for help if you need, im sure we can help Game_Lover and you at the same time.

it's a long story,my problems with girls involve the fact that im way too shy to go up and talk to them

I had the same problem, that is until I got my first GF. Remember, if you ask her out she might say yes and she might say no. If she says no then go on to the next one, no big deal. You arnt looking for a lifetime relationship so dont get too worked up about it. Same thing with you Game_Lover, its just sex not a lifetime commitment. Oh and Game_Lover, since your so inexperienced your gonna go out very quick and leave her unhappy if you just unzip and start. Dont do that. Instead make sure you FOREPLAY! Kiss her and dont be afraid to touch her "down there" to get her a little stimulated before you start the main part. The worst thing that can ever happen is for you to get all worked up and climax, but hear your girl say " When are we gonna start?".

that's pretty good advice too, thing is even if you do go out quick and you know how to use your tounge and/or fingers it won't really matter. Pretty much just concentrate on pleasing her before yourself, even if she offers to do something with you first say "It's my first time so I'd like to play around with you first." or something >.>

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[QUOTE="mlbslugger86"]i've never been that close to a girl before,but im guessing i would be kinda nervous.mlbslugger86

wait a sec, i looked at your profile and your 21 and your a guy. Most people get hooked up when they're 16-18, there are even kids that have done it at 13 years old. So whats up man, are you choosing not to do this? Or are you just having trouble getting a girl? Ask us for help if you need, im sure we can help Game_Lover and you at the same time.

it's a long story,my problems with girls involve the fact that im way too shy to go up and talk to them

never gotten with a girl :?

never even had a gf

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I'm such a loser :( 

never gotten with a girl :?

never even had a gf

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I'm such a loser :(

blooddemon666

Not as much as I am. :Pfoxhound_fox

lol...as a girl, the first probably scares me more than any of you lot! we have the pain to put up with too :) Benice

We have to worry about not getting you pregnant. :P

I'm not sure about that :?
blooddemon666