The One That Got Away

Sounds like a weirdy. :?The_Zoid

what do you mean?

[QUOTE="The_Zoid"]Sounds like a weirdy. :?hoop_hard

what do you mean?

You posted this before...LJS9502_basic

[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]You posted this before...The_Zoid

You posted this before...LJS9502_basic

i know but i didnt post the story and Im bored.

Its funny, girls tend to be like fishermen, they catch ya, they reel ya in, then if they don;t want ya, they kiss ya and throw you back into the ocean.

But hey there are plent of fish in the sea, and from what I have read, there are alot more better fish than her.

Whats funny though, this is a bit off topic, but i am surprised how much people can remember something.

[QUOTE="The_Zoid"][QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]You posted this before...LJS9502_basic

I think I'm actually going to bed soon. :P

Well, perhaps you didn't like her originally because you felt you could do better and/or you already had her 'won'. Now that she doesn't dig you anymore, you want to try to win her 'back' simply because you don't/can't have her anymore. I'd move on dude, you'll be over it soon enough.anthonyActon

Well, I thought of that before. "You want what you can't have." But I also thought about it as "You never know what you have until you lose it."

And I know, I'll get over her but its been over a month and I could get to her if I want but I dont know if I should at THIS point.

Does it hurt? Or do you just think of her like a secondary thought everytime?Rhen_Var

It used to like the first few weeks, now she's sorta fading away. Not really though. I had trouble eating cause when I think about her my stomach would hurt and then I couldn't eat. I still have this problem.

[QUOTE="anthonyActon"]Well, perhaps you didn't like her originally because you felt you could do better and/or you already had her 'won'. Now that she doesn't dig you anymore, you want to try to win her 'back' simply because you don't/can't have her anymore. I'd move on dude, you'll be over it soon enough.hoop_hard

Well, I thought of that before. "You want what you can't have." But I also thought about it as "You never know what you have until you lose it."

And I know, I'll get over her but its been over a month and I could get to her if I want but I dont know if I should at THIS point.

I suggest giving it a shot. If you get rejected, move on. What have you got to lose, seems you don't see her much anyway?

[QUOTE="hoop_hard"]

[QUOTE="anthonyActon"]Well, perhaps you didn't like her originally because you felt you could do better and/or you already had her 'won'. Now that she doesn't dig you anymore, you want to try to win her 'back' simply because you don't/can't have her anymore. I'd move on dude, you'll be over it soon enough.anthonyActon

Well, I thought of that before. "You want what you can't have." But I also thought about it as "You never know what you have until you lose it."

And I know, I'll get over her but its been over a month and I could get to her if I want but I dont know if I should at THIS point.

I suggest giving it a shot. If you get rejected, move on. What have you got to lose, seems you don't see her much anyway?

nope, haven't seen her since & part of me just wants to move on but I dont know, it seems that theres another part of me that wants to go after her. I'm conflicted with myself. :( Im kinda mad at her though, If she didnt like me then none of this would have happened.

[QUOTE="anthonyActon"][QUOTE="hoop_hard"]

[QUOTE="anthonyActon"]Well, perhaps you didn't like her originally because you felt you could do better and/or you already had her 'won'. Now that she doesn't dig you anymore, you want to try to win her 'back' simply because you don't/can't have her anymore. I'd move on dude, you'll be over it soon enough.hoop_hard

Well, I thought of that before. "You want what you can't have." But I also thought about it as "You never know what you have until you lose it."

And I know, I'll get over her but its been over a month and I could get to her if I want but I dont know if I should at THIS point.

I suggest giving it a shot. If you get rejected, move on. What have you got to lose, seems you don't see her much anyway?

nope, haven't seen her since & part of me just wants to move on but I dont know, it seems that theres another part of me that wants to go after her. I'm conflicted with myself. :( Im kinda mad at her though, If she didnt like me then none of this would have happened.

[QUOTE="hoop_hard"][QUOTE="anthonyActon"][QUOTE="hoop_hard"]

[QUOTE="anthonyActon"]Well, perhaps you didn't like her originally because you felt you could do better and/or you already had her 'won'. Now that she doesn't dig you anymore, you want to try to win her 'back' simply because you don't/can't have her anymore. I'd move on dude, you'll be over it soon enough.anthonyActon

Well, I thought of that before. "You want what you can't have." But I also thought about it as "You never know what you have until you lose it."

And I know, I'll get over her but its been over a month and I could get to her if I want but I dont know if I should at THIS point.

I suggest giving it a shot. If you get rejected, move on. What have you got to lose, seems you don't see her much anyway?

nope, haven't seen her since & part of me just wants to move on but I dont know, it seems that theres another part of me that wants to go after her. I'm conflicted with myself. :( Im kinda mad at her though, If she didnt like me then none of this would have happened.

I guess that the only options guys have. Move on or go after her. Staying in the middle and conflicting isn't going to help yourself.

But I've also been in your situation before. I just told my friend how I felt about her and I guess it helped our friendship more than it hurt. We both agreed not to go after her but this was another girl and like 4 years ago.

I like you, you always make interesting threads. I dont know its just me I'm not very good at attaching but when I graduated I went into full time work the week after for three months then to university where I was the only one from my school attending there. I'm just not that attached to people or things, I suggest you either contact her or move on.Whicker89

Thanks, I try to keep them interesting. :D I dont remember you but I definitely remember your sig cause every time I see it I go damn she's hot.

I don't usually attach myself to things either & I still dont get how the hell I got so attached to this girl but I cant control. This is out of my reach. Im looking to move on but I guess I'll just call her but that would involve getting her number which would involve asking this other girl & I don't know if i want to do that.

I believe parts of the story but not all. Overall I'd give it about 78% on the entertainment level, few spelling mistakes which was good. For some reason I believe that you do think of her everyday, hence I say to you this, over time you will forget about her.slimdog363

well, whether you believe all of it or not, its 100%. There isn't anything that I wrote that wasnt true but I DO see where your coming from. The whole thing on the football field seems too set up, right? Well it did happen. Oh well, at least I entertained you at 78%. :D

Yea, Attachment is really strange like that. I hope I don't have to get over another girl every again.hoop_hard

You will, and it will be 1000 times harder if you actually had a relationship, but thats life, you have to take the good with the bad.

Have any idea where she hangs out? Maybe you can start going to the movies more often; you might encounter her there if that's the kind of thing she enjoys doing.DeeJayInphinity

so your idea is to stalk her? :lol:

[QUOTE="DeeJayInphinity"]Have any idea where she hangs out? Maybe you can start going to the movies more often; you might encounter her there if that's the kind of thing she enjoys doing.hoop_hard

so your idea is to stalk her? :lol:

That's not so much stalking as attempting to 'arrange' a meeting. Stalking has a negative connotation, and it IS negative... if she doesn't want to see you. But if she, like you, is bothered by this (and it stands to reason that she would be if what you write is true), then wouldn't it make sense to go about facing the emotions and dealing with them proactively?

Doesn't this girl have a name? Don't you have a phone? If you really want to know where this could go, you'd best do something about it before the end of the summer.

[QUOTE="hoop_hard"]

[QUOTE="DeeJayInphinity"]Have any idea where she hangs out? Maybe you can start going to the movies more often; you might encounter her there if that's the kind of thing she enjoys doing.pianist

so your idea is to stalk her? :lol:

That's not so much stalking as attempting to 'arrange' a meeting. Stalking has a negative connotation, and it IS negative... if she doesn't want to see you. But if she, like you, is bothered by this (and it stands to reason that she would be if what you write is true), then wouldn't it make sense to go about facing the emotions and dealing with them proactively?

Doesn't this girl have a name? Don't you have a phone? If you really want to know where this could go, you'd best do something about it before the end of the summer.

Yes I know, I got the option to CALL her but here is the problem. This happened a month ago and how would it make me appear if I call a month later? You see & I don't really think I want to see where it can go. I dont even know what I want. I was just bored last night and thought this situation from my personal experience could make a interesting story. Although, I wish I could change the ending. Technically I can but not in reality.

Yes I know, I got the option to CALL her but here is the problem. This happened a month ago and how would it make me appear if I call a month later? You see & I don't really think I want to see where it can go. I dont even know what I want. I was just bored last night and thought this situation from my personal experience could make a interesting story. Although, I wish I could change the ending. Technically I can but not in reality.

hoop_hard

Who cares if it happened a month ago. If you're still bothered by it - by interactions with a person with whom you had no relationship at all - then it is worth pursuing. At least, that's how I would feel about it. The thing is, you call this a story about the one that got away, but you are sitting there letting that become reality. The REAL title of this thread is 'the one I'm letting get away.' Now, if you really aren't sure that you want to contact her, and you don't think you want to see if a relationship would develop, then you aren't really letting anything get away and this is a dead issue.

If not, though, you're letting your fear of what could happen eliminate your opportunity with this girl, and you'll probably end up regretting it, if only because you DON'T KNOW how it would have turned out. Heck, it may have turned out awful, and not contacting her may be the right decision. But you'll never know for sure.

I don't want to see a relationship develop but at the same time I do. Its strange like that. My plan was to just train for basketball & go to college. Then bam, this girl pops out of no where and messes things up.

I guess the only logical thing to do is talk to her. Its bothering me. Its gotten to the point where its been bothering my sleeping & eating habbits. All this time, I've been waiting to get over her but it doesnt seem to be happening. There's only one thing left to do, call her. hoop_hard

So do it. Put it to rest. Good luck!

[QUOTE="Whicker89"]I like you, you always make interesting threads. I dont know its just me I'm not very good at attaching but when I graduated I went into full time work the week after for three months then to university where I was the only one from my school attending there. I'm just not that attached to people or things, I suggest you either contact her or move on.hoop_hard

Thanks, I try to keep them interesting. :D I dont remember you but I definitely remember your sig cause every time I see it I go damn she's hot.

I don't usually attach myself to things either & I still dont get how the hell I got so attached to this girl but I cant control. This is out of my reach. Im looking to move on but I guess I'll just call her but that would involve getting her number which would involve asking this other girl & I don't know if i want to do that.

You cant control your emotions, just your actions. First, just stop everything, sit down , and think bout what you truly want and what makes you happy. If your happy with what you have now, dont do anything. If you want her...well remember food, water, and a whole lot of music for your trip on finding her. good luck! may GOD be with you

find yourself a smart one man woman at collage, because the one you talked about sounded childish.

ps. i think your just saying it cuz you had a bad game of basketball :(