The only thing worse than when your girlfriend gets her period...

Is when she doesn't get her period. It really does suck. Your mind ends up splitting in two: Positive and Negative.

The positive side is telling me, "Hey champ, don't worry! She's on birth control, there's only a 0.12% to 1.8% chance that it fails. Hey, you got a better chance at hitting a bullzeye with a dart thrown in the dark at a moving target! Besides, sex and the pill do mess up the normal occurance of her period. You'll be fine!"

Then the negative side chimes in, "Hey, you know, it's been almost a week since she normally gets it. It does have to happen to somebody. Who says it can't be you?"

Does anyone else know how bad this can suck?

nope... im oly 15

hence oblivious to the joys(?)of serious relationships, and instead just experience groups of giggly girls telling me someone fancies me, but they wont tell me who etc etc

Maybe you shouldn't have sex when you're too immature to have a kid.:|ElZilcho90

There's a difference from being unable, and being unwilling. Hey, it's a risk you take.

i have 12 kids

[QUOTE="ElZilcho90"]Maybe you shouldn't have sex when you're too immature to have a kid.:|Franken_Berry

There's a difference from being unable, and being unwilling. Hey, it's a risk you take.

Unwilling has a direct correlation with unable. The fact is, if you don't want a kid, don't stick it in.

I have no sympathy for people who screw up their lives by knocking up their girlfriend solely because they couldn't keep it in their pants.

[QUOTE="Franken_Berry"]

[QUOTE="ElZilcho90"]Maybe you shouldn't have sex when you're too immature to have a kid.:|ElZilcho90

There's a difference from being unable, and being unwilling. Hey, it's a risk you take.

Unwilling has a direct correlation with unable. The fact is, if you don't want a kid, don't stick it in.

I have no sympathy for people who screw up their lives by knocking up their girlfriend solely because they couldn't keep it in their pants.

Also, that's quite the outlook on childbirth, as a "screw up".

did she start taking any other sort of meds. this happened to a buddy of mine but it turned out it was just a side effect oftaking birth control and allergy medication at the same timeor somethingg-unit248

[QUOTE="Franken_Berry"]

[QUOTE="ElZilcho90"]Maybe you shouldn't have sex when you're too immature to have a kid.:|ElZilcho90

There's a difference from being unable, and being unwilling. Hey, it's a risk you take.

Unwilling has a direct correlation with unable. The fact is, if you don't want a kid, don't stick it in.

I have no sympathy for people who screw up their lives by knocking up their girlfriend solely because they couldn't keep it in their pants.

You don't go out much do you.

So very true Mr. Berry.

I've been in a similar situation. Hope everything works out for the best.

[QUOTE="g-unit248"]did she start taking any other sort of meds. this happened to a buddy of mine but it turned out it was just a side effect oftaking birth control and allergy medication at the same timeor somethingFranken_Berry

Best way to make sure is have her take one of those first response preg test's.

You don't go out much do you.

MuSiC-pLaYeR

Nope. I just don't have to brag about sexual excapades to prove my manliness on an internet site. I know my opinions aren't popular among overly-horny 13 year olds on internet forums, and you know what? I'm ok with it.

Franken_berry, if you and your girlfriend have done all this preparing and feel you'd be able to take care of a kid if something went wrong, good for you. I just fail to have sympathy for someone being stressed out by a choice they made.

[QUOTE="MuSiC-pLaYeR"]

You don't go out much do you.

ElZilcho90

Nope. I just don't have to brag about sexual excapades to prove my manliness on an internet site. I know my opinions aren't popular among overly-horny 13 year olds on internet forums, and you know what? I'm ok with it.

Franken_berry, if you and your girlfriend have done all this preparing and feel you'd be able to take care of a kid if something went wrong, good for you. I just fail to have sympathy for someone being stressed out by a choice they made.

Yes it does suck and can be quite frightening although I'm sure more for her than you. Unfortunately it's not that uncommon for women taking the pill to have their period arrive late or not at all from time to time. This happened with my last girlfriend quite often and at first it was quite alarming but after the next half dozen times it occurred it just became more annoying then anything else. If you're in a long standing relationship you just have to come to terms that this is something that will probably eventually happen to you and keep a mental plan in your head of what steps you are going to take to deal with it. Lord_Daemon

Are you implying that I was bragging?
Franken_Berry

Alright, I'm going to try to post with some more civility this time. :D

If you, or anyone else for that matter, chooses to have sex before marriage, that's your thing. I personally don't believe it's the right thing to do, but that's just my personal beliefs. However, I can't feel sympathy for a person who knocks up their girlfriend/is worried about the possibility of pregnancy. Nothing personal, I just don't feel very sympathetic, due to the choice you/others made.

[QUOTE="Franken_Berry"]Are you implying that I was bragging?
ElZilcho90

Alright, I'm going to try to post with some more civility this time. :D

If you, or anyone else for that matter, chooses to have sex before marriage, that's your thing. I personally don't believe it's the right thing to do, but that's just my personal beliefs. However, I can't feel sympathy for a person who knocks up their girlfriend/is worried about the possibility of pregnancy. Nothing personal, I just don't feel very sympathetic, due to the choice you/others made.

A police officer dies in the line of duty. You don't feel bad for him? After all, he took the certain risk that his line of work is dangerous and could potentially end fatally.

A police officer dies in the line of duty. You don't feel bad for him? After all, he took the certain risk that his line of work is dangerous and could potentially end fatally.

Franken_Berry

Are you suggesting that getting your girlfriend pregnant is as heroic as a police officer dieing in the line of duty?

No, my girlfriend and I are waiting quite a while for sex.

[QUOTE="Franken_Berry"]Are you implying that I was bragging?
ElZilcho90

Alright, I'm going to try to post with some more civility this time. :D

If you, or anyone else for that matter, chooses to have sex before marriage, that's your thing. I personally don't believe it's the right thing to do, but that's just my personal beliefs. However, I can't feel sympathy for a person who knocks up their girlfriend/is worried about the possibility of pregnancy. Nothing personal, I just don't feel very sympathetic, due to the choice you/others made.

[QUOTE="Franken_Berry"]

A police officer dies in the line of duty. You don't feel bad for him? After all, he took the certain risk that his line of work is dangerous and could potentially end fatally.

ElZilcho90

Are you suggesting that getting your girlfriend pregnant is as heroic as a police officer dieing in the line of duty?

that would depend on the woman :P

[QUOTE="ElZilcho90"]

[QUOTE="Franken_Berry"]Are you implying that I was bragging?
drgrady

Alright, I'm going to try to post with some more civility this time. :D

If you, or anyone else for that matter, chooses to have sex before marriage, that's your thing. I personally don't believe it's the right thing to do, but that's just my personal beliefs. However, I can't feel sympathy for a person who knocks up their girlfriend/is worried about the possibility of pregnancy. Nothing personal, I just don't feel very sympathetic, due to the choice you/others made.

[QUOTE="Franken_Berry"]

[QUOTE="ElZilcho90"]Maybe you shouldn't have sex when you're too immature to have a kid.:|ElZilcho90

There's a difference from being unable, and being unwilling. Hey, it's a risk you take.

Unwilling has a direct correlation with unable. The fact is, if you don't want a kid, don't stick it in.

I have no sympathy for people who screw up their lives by knocking up their girlfriend solely because they couldn't keep it in their pants.

Something tells me you've never had a girlfriend before when you were a teenager.

[QUOTE="Franken_Berry"]Are you implying that I was bragging?
ElZilcho90

Alright, I'm going to try to post with some more civility this time. :D

If you, or anyone else for that matter, chooses to have sex before marriage, that's your thing. I personally don't believe it's the right thing to do, but that's just my personal beliefs. However, I can't feel sympathy for a person who knocks up their girlfriend/is worried about the possibility of pregnancy. Nothing personal, I just don't feel very sympathetic, due to the choice you/others made.

Ok I respect you beliefs but he didn't ask for your opinion he wants advice from prople who have been in the same situation. Sometimes it is inappropraite to voice your opinion and in your case be pretty nasty about it to. you should think before you speak. Ever heard the saying " if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all.".

No sex = no problem.

Life likes to throw a monkey wrench in itself sometimes.Grouchu

Word. And I also love the word "monkey-wrench." :D

[QUOTE="Franken_Berry"]Are you implying that I was bragging?
ElZilcho90

Alright, I'm going to try to post with some more civility this time. :D

If you, or anyone else for that matter, chooses to have sex before marriage, that's your thing. I personally don't believe it's the right thing to do, but that's just my personal beliefs. However, I can't feel sympathy for a person who knocks up their girlfriend/is worried about the possibility of pregnancy. Nothing personal, I just don't feel very sympathetic, due to the choice you/others made.

Don't be ignorant. They made a choice to use birth control so obviously they are making the choice to protect themselves, and everytime one has sex the goal is not to have a child, now if they didn't use any protection at all I can see not having sympathy for them. Say it is the same scenario with a married couple who also are using protection because they aren't finacially ready for a child, would you feel sympathy for them if they got pregnant by accident? If so, what is the difference here? Without bringing the religious implications into it please.

[QUOTE="ElZilcho90"]

[QUOTE="Franken_Berry"]Are you implying that I was bragging?
Gavin2232

Alright, I'm going to try to post with some more civility this time. :D

If you, or anyone else for that matter, chooses to have sex before marriage, that's your thing. I personally don't believe it's the right thing to do, but that's just my personal beliefs. However, I can't feel sympathy for a person who knocks up their girlfriend/is worried about the possibility of pregnancy. Nothing personal, I just don't feel very sympathetic, due to the choice you/others made.

Ok I respect you beliefs but he didn't ask for your opinion he wants advice from prople who have been in the same situation. Sometimes it is inappropraite to voice your opinion and in your case be pretty nasty about it to. you should think before you speak. Ever heard the saying " if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all.".

He never technically asked for advice. Stating that the situation sucks is merely an opinion of his own, so it suggests that he is looking for others opinions in the matter or simply stating something not to get feedback but to get it off his chest.

[QUOTE="ElZilcho90"]

[QUOTE="Franken_Berry"]Are you implying that I was bragging?
sutherland19

Alright, I'm going to try to post with some more civility this time. :D

If you, or anyone else for that matter, chooses to have sex before marriage, that's your thing. I personally don't believe it's the right thing to do, but that's just my personal beliefs. However, I can't feel sympathy for a person who knocks up their girlfriend/is worried about the possibility of pregnancy. Nothing personal, I just don't feel very sympathetic, due to the choice you/others made.

Don't be ignorant. They made a choice to use birth control so obviously they are making the choice to protect themselves, and everytime one has sex the goal is not to have a child, now if they didn't use any protection at all I can see not having sympathy for them. Say it is the same scenario with a married couple who also are using protection because they aren't finacially ready for a child, would you feel sympathy for them if they got pregnant by accident? If so, what is the difference here? Without bringing the religious implications into it please.

I do feel some sympathy for those who are married and not financially ready for a child but get pregnant anyway. For them the matter is simply financial, and family and friends are much more able to help them through their difficulties. However, my lack of sympathy for those who are unmarried comes from the fact that I think it is much better to not have sex at all before marriage. It effects relationships immensely, and of all of my friends who have had sexual relationships before marriage, they all either regret their previous sexual activity (even if they married that partner) or they do not have good relationships. Naturally, that does not mean that everyone will fit into these categories, but I don't think that the majority of people who have sexual relations before marriage realize the implications of what they are doing. Besides the physical problems that can arise (namely pregnancy and STDs), there are severe emotional problems that can also arise. I see it as immaturity when people do not fully consider such consequences. I feel very little sympathy for people just being immature, lacking the self control to wait, and not thinking of how such things will affect the other person involved. I see sex before marriage as being entirely self-fulfilling, and therefore it is centered on greed. I am not sympathetic towards people who are too busy fulfilling their own needs to worry about what is best for them and those around them.

I realize that this sounds incredibly insensitive, but it is an opinion that comes from seeing how such relationships and even pornography can hurt families years after the fact. Sexual relationships are not to be taken lightly.

People who have sex outside of marrige disgust me in so many ways.Splinter_Cell3

People who have sex outside of marrige disgust me in so many ways.Splinter_Cell3

Disgust is a strong word. I want to hear those reasons. You are very judgemental and stereotypical. A lot of people must disgust you then?