Things you do because your girlfriend/wife wants to?

Yah my wife has been wanting to move into a newer apartment and I don't really want to. The location of our place is better and cheaper. The apartment complex we live in now is a bit old but not that bad. She just wants nice newer stuff. I guess it is alright I just don't want to deal with moving and pay more for rent when we can be saving that money. Oh well I guess I am doing it anyways because I love her.

What have you done that you really didn't want to but do because your girl wants to?

weird sex acts....moptopskate

well... what kind of sex acts?

nowhere compared to the horrible lifetime movies every night and tyra banks show :(TXDRiPpA

I am so so sorry

[QUOTE="moptopskate"]weird sex acts....Rodneyzz

well... what kind of sex acts?

...involving broomsticks

69Jenova_Flare

Why would that take any convincing?

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[QUOTE="moptopskate"]weird sex acts....moptopskate

well... what kind of sex acts?

...involving broomsticks

i dont want to know where this is going :O

F'in Dr. Phil. Canvas_Of_Flesh

LOL! That made me mad... Or when she'd turn off my music because «She couldn't concentrate», no permissions asked, and then she just stays there doing nothing... uh, what are you concentrating about again?

Just talk to her about how you feel and try to come to a compromise.mattyftm

What? Are you married?!?! There is no real compromise in a marriage. If you "win" an argument it's only because she's letting you think you won. Let her have what she wants, you'll be happier in the long run.

Compromise or kill it before it grows.

[QUOTE="mattyftm"]Just talk to her about how you feel and try to come to a compromise.Canvas_Of_Flesh

What? Are you married?!?! There is no real compromise in a marriage. If you "win" an argument it's only because she's letting you think you won. Let her have what she wants, you'll be happier in the long run.

IMO you got it wrong... The thing is, with woman, if you let them decide about everything, they'll complain that you don't decide about anything and don't do anything... You're not manly enough... BUT, if you do decide and do what you want, they'll complain that you don't respect them, you're to independant, etc.

In the end, you're always wrong... they play the culpability card perfectly.

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[QUOTE="mattyftm"]Just talk to her about how you feel and try to come to a compromise.Krigen89

What? Are you married?!?! There is no real compromise in a marriage. If you "win" an argument it's only because she's letting you think you won. Let her have what she wants, you'll be happier in the long run.

IMO you got it wrong... The thing is, with woman, if you let them decide about everything, they'll complain that you don't decide about anything and don't do anything... You're not manly enough... BUT, if you do decide and do what you want, they'll complain that you don't respect them, you're to independant, etc.

In the end, you're always wrong... they play the culpability card perfectly.

Well, the fact that you're always wrong when it comes to women is a given. I think it might be in the Bible somewhere but it's as much a physical law as gravity. I'm just saying it's best to kind of let go of your dignity before you get married so you're not so disappointed when she crushes it.

I don't see the point of moving from one rental unit to another to pay higher rent. If the place you are living in is fine I suggest you convince her to stay. The money you save can be used to invest in a property that you both own. There is no benefit in paying rent.

If you really love the girl, you would do anything(within reason that is:P).The_Last_Ride

I know the stereotype is shopping.... But it is true. I hate it because Right when I think she's done, she said's oh wait hold on one more thing. It's the most boring thing there is too do! :(xSIZEMATTER

its always funny to go to a store with my chick and see other guys in the same situation.. walking around, bored to death... :)

Well I am married. And it is about compromise. If you BOTH dont compromise, the relationship is as good as dead within a few years (if you lucky to even last THAT long). I like listening to what my husband wants, I want to know. I also tell him what I want. Then we discuss the best way to go about it. Like recently, for an example, we needed to buy drapes cause our projector was too washed out during the day. He said what kind he wanted, I said what we needed, AND what I wanted. We both kept that in mind when we shopped and found drapes we both liked, and they work like we need them to. What could have been a huge fight ended up in a great working compromise. Sometimes, no it doesnt work like that, but we have found that its worked most of the time for us. I have compromised a lot with him. I have sacrificed a lot for him, and he for me. And though sacrifices can hurt sometimes, we are both happy in the long run. xhellcatx

Wow I didn't think there were still people like you. I guess there is hope for this world.

[QUOTE="xSIZEMATTER"]I know the stereotype is shopping.... But it is true. I hate it because Right when I think she's done, she said's oh wait hold on one more thing. It's the most boring thing there is too do! :(comp_atkins

its always funny to go to a store with my chick and see other guys in the same situation.. walking around, bored to death... :)

lmao Yeah buying a handheld or something works great. Just don't let her see you playing.

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[QUOTE="moptopskate"]weird sex acts....Rodneyzz

well... what kind of sex acts?

...involving broomsticks

i dont want to know where this is going :O

I do...;)

Basically anything I do outside of gaming and music is done because my girlfriend wants to :P

I never went to church in my life and I had to go with her when we were visiting her family. I didn't burst into flames while walking in, which was unexpected. However...I really wanted to flame the priestly guy because he was a dumb dumb. Saying things like Bhuto was an assassinated Palenstinian leader and that Palenstianians are crazy like that.

She was Pakistani.

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[QUOTE="xSIZEMATTER"]I know the stereotype is shopping.... But it is true. I hate it because Right when I think she's done, she said's oh wait hold on one more thing. It's the most boring thing there is too do! :(xSIZEMATTER

its always funny to go to a store with my chick and see other guys in the same situation.. walking around, bored to death... :)

lmao Yeah buying a handheld or something works great. Just don't let her see you playing.

I actually encourage my BF to bring along his handheld when we have to go shopping together. Most times I try to be merciful and do it with my GF's instead. If I know he hates it why drag him along, it won't be fun for either of us. Most other situations, like this one, usually have a compromise if you take the time to look for it. I am not a big fan or country music, and he is. We went to see Garth Brooks, and as a compromise he took me to see Korn. :)

Playing World of Warcraft with him.

I do enjoy it, but only for an hour or two a day. He could go on all day if he wanted to, and I suspect he has at some point.

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[QUOTE="moptopskate"]weird sex acts....Shiggums

well... what kind of sex acts?

...involving broomsticks

i dont want to know where this is going :O

I do...;)

he wont tell us anyways :(

Chick flicks.

And the broomstick thing aswell. I thought i was the only one!