So there is this girl i recently made friends with. I really started liking her a lot, like a lot it maybe love not sure but she has a boyfriend. I'm not sure if she likes me or not, because everytime she logs onto msn, as soon as her name pops up she says hey to me. Also, she always points out how we're so alike which we are. We also got matched up for valentines on this quiz thingy. We also seem to have this connection, where i know what she says before i say it and vice. We talk alot and i really like her, i'm not sure if it would be safe to ask her out because she already has a boyfriend, i'm pretty sure she'd say yes if she didn't, but i don't know anymore i really want her. So should i ask her out or not?
Just tell her what you think about her. Girls like sweetness. Or she might be different from me. But just pick out the right time to tellher how you feel about her. I'm sure she'll understand. =)
Just if you do anything, do not try to break them up.
Trust me, it really sucks to be the guy who has to watch some kid try and break him up with his girlfriend. Although if she really does love him she wouldn't leave him.
Just tell her what you think about her. Girls like sweetness. Or she might be different from me. But just pick out the right time to tellher how you feel about her. I'm sure she'll understand. =)Masinai
[QUOTE="Masinai"]Just tell her what you think about her. Girls like sweetness. Or she might be different from me. But just pick out the right time to tellher how you feel about her. I'm sure she'll understand. =)blooddemon666
yeah.... sure.... you're a female :roll:
Well duh, don't you see! Look at her Avatar, it's Etna! Only girls have Etna as their avatars.
So there is this girl i recently made friends with. I really started liking her a lot, like a lot it maybe love not sure but she has a boyfriend. I'm not sure if she likes me or not, because everytime she logs onto msn, as soon as her name pops up she says hey to me. Also, she always points out how we're so alike which we are. We also got matched up for valentines on this quiz thingy. We also seem to have this connection, where i know what she says before i say it and vice. We talk alot and i really like her, i'm not sure if it would be safe to ask her out because she already has a boyfriend, i'm pretty sure she'd say yes if she didn't, but i don't know anymore i really want her. So should i ask her out or not?metalsnake219
You're in what I've heard referred to as "the friend zone".
This means that she will never have sex with you. Never. Not a chance in hell. You know how some women have that one male friend who they think is the **** because they know that they that dude will never try to *** them? Well, that's you.
So...do what you want. I'm just saying to not get your hopes up. Because you're never gonna **** her. I know that's what you want, but it's not happening.
Well right now she probably just thinks of you as a friend, so I think you should talk to her about other girls. If she does like you she probably doesn't know it yet, so this will make her jealous and she'll realise that she likes you. Then depending on how she reacts you can decide to move in or back off.
Two possibilities here, she likes you as a friend or she likes you as more then a friend but has a boyfriend. I went through the same situation not to long ago but the girl did not have a bf at the time. We would talk on the phone for at least an hour every night, she would come see me at my college and i would go see her at work and we went out about everyday or every other day for about 2 months. We were very close, we had alot in common and some things not in common. I really liked her she really like me, but she liked me as a friend not as anything more. As this went on she got a bf, he dumped her she called me back but again just staying friends and things were just not the same. To end the story we no longer talk, she stopped talking to me out of the blue for no reason and I stopped trying to talk to her. We went from being very close, to the best of friends to nothing. Sometimes its better to just be friends and see if things could work in the future when she is single, and sometimes its better to just stick yourself out there and go for it. The thing is though, she may just really like you as a friend and be talking to you because thats what you are to her, a very good friend, you have to be willing to give up the friendship if you are going to tell her the truth because often once a girl finds out it will become akward if she does not have fellings for you. So decide if you are willing to give up your friendship that could eventually turn into something or if you want to stick yourself out there and risk losing her. I wish ya the best of luck man, and sorry for the very long read, hope it helped a bit though. Later gamespot, peace. Yea.
Ummm, that's how I was, and I didn't see her flaws ahead of time... make sure you know what her flaws are, and DON'T try to break up the relationship. You are likely to get jumped by the current BF and Company... Good Luck. ;)
Two possibilities here, she likes you as a friend or she likes you as more then a friend but has a boyfriend. I went through the same situation not to long ago but the girl did not have a bf at the time. We would talk on the phone for at least an hour every night, she would come see me at my college and i would go see her at work and we went out about everyday or every other day for about 2 months. We were very close, we had alot in common and some things not in common. I really liked her she really like me, but she liked me as a friend not as anything more. As this went on she got a bf, he dumped her she called me back but again just staying friends and things were just not the same. To end the story we no longer talk, she stopped talking to me out of the blue for no reason and I stopped trying to talk to her. We went from being very close, to the best of friends to nothing. Sometimes its better to just be friends and see if things could work in the future when she is single, and sometimes its better to just stick yourself out there and go for it. The thing is though, she may just really like you as a friend and be talking to you because thats what you are to her, a very good friend, you have to be willing to give up the friendship if you are going to tell her the truth because often once a girl finds out it will become akward if she does not have fellings for you. So decide if you are willing to give up your friendship that could eventually turn into something or if you want to stick yourself out there and risk losing her. I wish ya the best of luck man, and sorry for the very long read, hope it helped a bit though. Later gamespot, peace. Yea.zeldafan00013
thanks it was very helpful, kind of like what i have with her.
no i don't, she has a boyfriend so i don't know what she'd say and i asked her friend and she said she loves him a lot
metalsnake219
~-~I wouldn't even try it then... For now. Try and get her to tell you how she feels about her bf. Her friend might be wrong or lying. Bt for now assume she's right.~-~
no i don't, she has a boyfriend so i don't know what she'd say and i asked her friend and she said she loves him a lot
The_PirateKing
~-~I wouldn't even try it then... For now. Try and get her to tell you how she feels about her bf. Her friend might be wrong or lying. Bt for now assume she's right.~-~
funny story, her friend likes me and i told her friend i'm not interested...:P
I don't think you'd have a chance, she has a boyfriend, plus you are in the "friend zone"
That's not to say you don't have a chance if she ever breaks up with him, but still, if you risked it and she said "no," then she might feel awkward around you, in fact, if you've already told her friend you like her, then most likely she already knows and it could be happening already.
HELLO?! I'm a girl, girls know more about sweetness than boys, we know what happens and what we like, WE ARE GIRLS for goodness sake! Im a girl! I know what will happen: shes a girl too, I know what she'll expect. Just be honest, nothings better advice to girls than a girl saying it!!! god, you people.
I don't think you'd have a chance, she has a boyfriend, plus you are in the "friend zone"
That's not to say you don't have a chance if she ever breaks up with him, but still, if you risked it and she said "no," then she might feel awkward around you, in fact, if you've already told her friend you like her, then most likely she already knows and it could be happening already.
pwnmaster
no, her friend said i'm her best friend and she'd never tell
Why can't people just be friends these days without someone having deeper feelings than just a friendship?
Seriously dude just be close friends with her and support her current relationship. If something happens and they break up then there's your chance to tell her that you like her.
I don't think you'd have a chance, she has a boyfriend, plus you are in the "friend zone"
That's not to say you don't have a chance if she ever breaks up with him, but still, if you risked it and she said "no," then she might feel awkward around you, in fact, if you've already told her friend you like her, then most likely she already knows and it could be happening already.
metalsnake219
no, her friend said i'm her best friend and she'd never tell
girls always tell, lol. They always do even when they say they dont. Never talk to the friend of a girl you like it just digs you into a hole expecially if the girl you like does not like you that way. Had many experiences with that too, lol. Girls
Telling her how you feel is a double edged sword, but from im hearing she does like you and more than likely will respond appropriately. Also if she is coming this much onto you she may be considering letting go of her current bf, either that or cheating on him. Nevertheless there is a moral problem here.
HELLO?! I'm a girl, girls know more about sweetness than boys, we know what happens and what we like, WE ARE GIRLS for goodness sake! Im a girl! I know what will happen: shes a girl too, I know what she'll expect. Just be honest, nothings better advice to girls than a girl saying it!!! god, you people.
Masinai
~-~Not to seam rude, but just because you're a girl doesn't mean your generalizations are right. All girls are different and like different things. Sure some of them might like guys to be sweet to them, maybe a lot. But that doesn't mean they all do.~-~
HELLO?! I'm a girl, girls know more about sweetness than boys, we know what happens and what we like, WE ARE GIRLS for goodness sake! Im a girl! I know what will happen: shes a girl too, I know what she'll expect. Just be honest, nothings better advice to girls than a girl saying it!!! god, you people.
The_PirateKing
~-~Not to seam rude, but just because you're a girl doesn't mean your generalizations are right. All girls are different and like different things. Sure some of them might like guys to be sweet to them, maybe a lot. But that doesn't mean they all do.~-~
For real. I've met girls whio smoked crack, called teir own children mother******, and had sex with random men while their own children were in the same room watching.
HELLO?! I'm a girl, girls know more about sweetness than boys, we know what happens and what we like, WE ARE GIRLS for goodness sake! Im a girl! I know what will happen: shes a girl too, I know what she'll expect. Just be honest, nothings better advice to girls than a girl saying it!!! god, you people.
MrGeezer
~-~Not to seam rude, but just because you're a girl doesn't mean your generalizations are right. All girls are different and like different things. Sure some of them might like guys to be sweet to them, maybe a lot. But that doesn't mean they all do.~-~
For real. I've met girls whio smoked crack, called teir own children mother******, and had sex with random men while their own children were in the same room watching.
Man you are definatley giving off the wrong signal then.
[QUOTE="metalsnake219"]So there is this girl i recently made friends with. I really started liking her a lot, like a lot it maybe love not sure but she has a boyfriend. I'm not sure if she likes me or not, because everytime she logs onto msn, as soon as her name pops up she says hey to me. Also, she always points out how we're so alike which we are. We also got matched up for valentines on this quiz thingy. We also seem to have this connection, where i know what she says before i say it and vice. We talk alot and i really like her, i'm not sure if it would be safe to ask her out because she already has a boyfriend, i'm pretty sure she'd say yes if she didn't, but i don't know anymore i really want her. So should i ask her out or not?MrGeezer
You're in what I've heard referred to as "the friend zone".
This means that she will never have sex with you. Never. Not a chance in hell. You know how some women have that one male friend who they think is the **** because they know that they that dude will never try to *** them? Well, that's you.
So...do what you want. I'm just saying to not get your hopes up. Because you're never gonna **** her. I know that's what you want, but it's not happening.
Ahhh, MrGeezer, I always enjoy reading your posts.
women are basically like monkeys they won't let go of one branch until they've got ahold of another.
This basically means that women won't let go of one boyfriend until they are sure they can get another guy just like that. If you want this girl basically ensure that you are in position to be the next likely boyfriend and let nature take it's course.
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