This Friend I Like

So there is this girl i recently made friends with. I really started liking her a lot, like a lot it maybe love not sure but she has a boyfriend. I'm not sure if she likes me or not, because everytime she logs onto msn, as soon as her name pops up she says hey to me. Also, she always points out how we're so alike which we are. We also got matched up for valentines on this quiz thingy. We also seem to have this connection, where i know what she says before i say it and vice. We talk alot and i really like her, i'm not sure if it would be safe to ask her out because she already has a boyfriend, i'm pretty sure she'd say yes if she didn't, but i don't know anymore i really want her. So should i ask her out or not? metalsnake219

[QUOTE="metalsnake219"]So there is this girl i recently made friends with. I really started liking her a lot, like a lot it maybe love not sure but she has a boyfriend. I'm not sure if she likes me or not, because everytime she logs onto msn, as soon as her name pops up she says hey to me. Also, she always points out how we're so alike which we are. We also got matched up for valentines on this quiz thingy. We also seem to have this connection, where i know what she says before i say it and vice. We talk alot and i really like her, i'm not sure if it would be safe to ask her out because she already has a boyfriend, i'm pretty sure she'd say yes if she didn't, but i don't know anymore i really want her. So should i ask her out or not? ElZilcho90

lol... thats too funny

and for the tc jsut wait it out... you'll only screw things up and most likely lose a friend by asking her out...

So there is this girl i recently made friends with. I really started liking her a lot, like a lot it maybe love not sure but she has a boyfriend. I'm not sure if she likes me or not, because everytime she logs onto msn, as soon as her name pops up she says hey to me. Also, she always points out how we're so alike which we are. We also got matched up for valentines on this quiz thingy. We also seem to have this connection, where i know what she says before i say it and vice. We talk alot and i really like her, i'm not sure if it would be safe to ask her out because she already has a boyfriend, i'm pretty sure she'd say yes if she didn't, but i don't know anymore i really want her. So should i ask her out or not? metalsnake219

Do yourself a favor...cut bait and move on. There's no guarentee that the relationship she's currently in is going south. Besides, you're already in the "friend zone" with her...more than likely, sh'e gonna see you as a friend, and that's it. Save yourself the heartache. You're young, there's going to be plenty of chances to find someone new.

No, you shouldn't ask her out. You should not interfer with her boy friend.

If you value her as a person and her friendship.. you'd choose being her friend forever.. rather than wanting to have "her".

The best love you can have comes for caring about someone more than yourself. If she comes onto you.. that's one thing, but do not step between her and her current relationship. That's not fair to her. Especialy when she has not revealed anything that says she wants to be with you.

IF she was interested in you.. it would be wise on her part to break it off with her boy friend. But since she hasn't you should respect her space. IT's that simple. If you really want a long term reletionship with this person.. give them time, you don't know where it will go. Just care about her and be there for her.