This girl has put a spell on me

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#1 tjricardo089
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Ok guys, I liked this girl last year and we kissed once, but it was a mistake, she had a boyfriend and I had a girlfriend. However, when I get too intimate with her all those old feelings come back and they get hard to leave. She's in my class, and I have to see her and talk to her everyday.. I was starting to like another person, but she made a big coming yesterday on a field trip I made with my school.

Any suggestions or personal stories of yours would be good.

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#3 tjricardo089
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I've cursed a couple of people...

I know a few spells too.

Be careful.

Iszdope

That was helpful.. anyway, Expelliarmus.

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doesnt hurt to be her BFF.

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#5 sune_Gem
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Try getting a priest to de-buff you with dispel.

On a more serious note, there's nothing wrong with being good friends with someone of the opposite gender. You don't have to be in love to get along.

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MPw1i9dAJiQ.
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#7 TecmoGirl
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I see a sob story thread in your future. What exactly does 'big coming' mean anyways?

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#8 Davulao
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Does she still have a boyfriend? Because if she don't, make your move and hit dat sh!te

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We are good friends, but she is different from my other female good friends. I don't know, she just.. I don't know.

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What exactly does 'big coming' mean anyways?

TecmoGirl

It means we sat for about 2 hours just talking and talking about things we never really talked before and it was amazing.

Does she still have a boyfriend?

Davulao

Unfortunately, she does. And one that is ugly as f*ck may I state.

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'Cuse me *kisses this guy/the sky*.

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#12 Necrifer
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More sex?

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We are good friends, but she is different from my other female good friends. I don't know, she just.. I don't know.

tjricardo089

It's not wrong to go out, kiss and cuddle a liuttle without being serious... Yet. If she likes you she'll want to be with you if not then stay friends with benefits.

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Man, it really isn't that difficult. Decide which girl you would rather, and pursue her; and you should leave the other one alone so not to give her the wrong idea.
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#16 Franklinstein
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Her having a boyfriend definitely complicates things. I would personally never pursue someone in a relationship, because Karma would bite me back and she would leave me for someone else. However, if you like her, that should be the only thing that you are worried about. Let her make the decision between her boyfriend and you.
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Man, it really isn't that difficult. Decide which girl you would rather, and pursue her; and you should leave the other one alone so not to give her the wrong idea.Franklinstein

The girl that has put a spell on me is called Louise. The other one is called Rachel. (Just to make it easier to explain)

I have met Rachel since last summer and we really get along, however I only started to have feelings for her for about a month ago. Louise was always special to me, but as a friend, but since we kissed it's different, however I know that she has a boyfriend and I need to get off of them. This friday, I'm going to a bar to have a couple of drinks with Rachel, however if I like Louise, I don't think I should go because I don't want to give her the wrong idea, but I don't want to leave her aswell because Louise and I would never work as boyfriends. Screw the teen age and the emotional complications.

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so what ? give her dick if he want something like that. what can we do ?
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so what ? give her dick if he want something like that what can we do ? MDFIRAN

Wow, even I am not that immature.

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[QUOTE="Franklinstein"]Man, it really isn't that difficult. Decide which girl you would rather, and pursue her; and you should leave the other one alone so not to give her the wrong idea.tjricardo089

The girl that has put a spell on me is called Louise. The other one is called Rachel. (Just to make it easier to explain)

I have met Rachel since last summer and we really get along, however I only started to have feelings for her for about a month ago. Louise was always special to me, but as a friend, but since we kissed it's different, however I know that she has a boyfriend and I need to get off of them. This friday, I'm going to a bar to have a couple of drinks with Rachel, however if I like Louise, I don't think I should go because I don't want to give her the wrong idea, but I don't want to leave her aswell because Louise and I would never work as boyfriends. Screw the teen age and the emotional complications.

Look, I was being slightly facetious when I said it's an easy decision. There definitely are some complicated emotional feelings that you have to analyze. If it makes you feel any better, you should really just consider this all practice for when you get to college and after college. You need to just go to a quiet place and give yourself adequate time to sit down and figure this stuff out. Which one you are more interested in? If you feel like taking a chance with Louise is worth it? If you really do like Rachael and maybe you are just thinking about Louise because you are getting close to making a relationship commitment to Rachael, and that makes you nervous? The one thing you should absolutely try to avoid though is pursuing Rachael and then deciding you want Louise, or vice versa.
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[QUOTE="Franklinstein"]Man, it really isn't that difficult. Decide which girl you would rather, and pursue her; and you should leave the other one alone so not to give her the wrong idea.tjricardo089

The girl that has put a spell on me is called Louise. The other one is called Rachel. (Just to make it easier to explain)

I have met Rachel since last summer and we really get along, however I only started to have feelings for her for about a month ago. Louise was always special to me, but as a friend, but since we kissed it's different, however I know that she has a boyfriend and I need to get off of them. This friday, I'm going to a bar to have a couple of drinks with Rachel, however if I like Louise, I don't think I should go because I don't want to give her the wrong idea, but I don't want to leave her aswell because Louise and I would never work as boyfriends. Screw the teen age and the emotional complications.

Aaaaaahhh... I see. You want both and want to know what to do with each one without complicating both relationships...

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MPw1i9dAJiQ.CptJSparrow
FFS, I was too slow to seeing this topic, and my idea has been taken!
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[QUOTE="tjricardo089"]

[QUOTE="Franklinstein"]Man, it really isn't that difficult. Decide which girl you would rather, and pursue her; and you should leave the other one alone so not to give her the wrong idea.Franklinstein

The girl that has put a spell on me is called Louise. The other one is called Rachel. (Just to make it easier to explain)

I have met Rachel since last summer and we really get along, however I only started to have feelings for her for about a month ago. Louise was always special to me, but as a friend, but since we kissed it's different, however I know that she has a boyfriend and I need to get off of them. This friday, I'm going to a bar to have a couple of drinks with Rachel, however if I like Louise, I don't think I should go because I don't want to give her the wrong idea, but I don't want to leave her aswell because Louise and I would never work as boyfriends. Screw the teen age and the emotional complications.

Which one you are more interested in? If you feel like taking a chance with Louise is worth it? If you really do like Rachael and maybe you are just thinking about Louise because you are getting close to making a relationship commitment to Rachael, and that makes you nervous? The one thing you should absolutely try to avoid though is pursuing Rachael and then deciding you want Louise, or vice versa.

I think I do like Rachel, but this approach yesterday awakened some old memories of mine. Louise is really great, but only as a friend. As a girlfriend she is way complicated. Rachel is a more stable girl, Louise is a more wild girl. If I go after Louise, I will find only sadness and depression on my path because Louise has a boyfriend and that can really complicate stuff to me, on the other hand with Rachel it could be different, it could be way better.

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#24 punkpunker
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Unfortunately, she does. And one that is ugly as f*ck may I state.

tjricardo089

sounds like she has finally found the true meaning of love :?

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[QUOTE="tjricardo089"]

Unfortunately, she does. And one that is ugly as f*ck may I state.

punkpunker

sounds like she has finally found the true meaning of love :?

Maybe she did but the guy is a total d!ck, he treats her like crap and he already cheated on her a couple of times. Enough is enough, the guy is only looking for sex. That's why I don't get what the hell did she saw on him, he is not rich, not pretty, not polite, not funny.. He's an ass.

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#26 DeadMan1290
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[QUOTE="punkpunker"]

[QUOTE="tjricardo089"]

Unfortunately, she does. And one that is ugly as f*ck may I state.

tjricardo089

sounds like she has finally found the true meaning of love :?

Maybe she did but the guy is a total d!ck, he treats her like crap and he already cheated on her a couple of times. Enough is enough, the guy is only looking for sex. That's why I don't get what the hell did she saw on him, he is not rich, not pretty, not polite, not funny.. He's an ass.

Girls these days seem to like assclowns.

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[QUOTE="tjricardo089"]

[QUOTE="punkpunker"]

sounds like she has finally found the true meaning of love :?

DeadMan1290

Maybe she did but the guy is a total d!ck, he treats her like crap and he already cheated on her a couple of times. Enough is enough, the guy is only looking for sex. That's why I don't get what the hell did she saw on him, he is not rich, not pretty, not polite, not funny.. He's an ass.

Girls these days seem to like assclowns.

Indeed, I try really hard to give myself the best way I can, but they always fall for douches.

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#28 DeadMan1290
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Indeed, I try really hard to give myself the best way I can, but they always fall for douches.

tjricardo089

I'm really curious to know where this blindness comes from. Why are they attracted to these idiots with so many good guys out there who would appreciate them and treat them better.

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[QUOTE="Franklinstein"]Man, it really isn't that difficult. Decide which girl you would rather, and pursue her; and you should leave the other one alone so not to give her the wrong idea.tjricardo089

The girl that has put a spell on me is called Louise. The other one is called Rachel. (Just to make it easier to explain)

I have met Rachel since last summer and we really get along, however I only started to have feelings for her for about a month ago. Louise was always special to me, but as a friend, but since we kissed it's different, however I know that she has a boyfriend and I need to get off of them. This friday, I'm going to a bar to have a couple of drinks with Rachel, however if I like Louise, I don't think I should go because I don't want to give her the wrong idea, but I don't want to leave her aswell because Louise and I would never work as boyfriends. Screw the teen age and the emotional complications.

You may find this hard to believe, but this isn't the first time a kid in school is stuck trying to decide between two girls. This is simple dude. Leave Rachel cuz you obviously aren't enamored with her. Pursue Louise romantically and see where it goes. It MAKES ABSOLUTELY NO DIFFERENCE that she has a boyfriend. Louise and this dude aren't engaged, they aren't going to get married, and in 10 years they probably will not even remember each other.

That's how it works in HS/college. Spit game, put the mack down, and see where it goes.

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'Cuse me *kisses this guy/the sky*.

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[QUOTE="tjricardo089"]

Indeed, I try really hard to give myself the best way I can, but they always fall for douches.

DeadMan1290

I'm really curious to know where this blindness comes from. Why are they attracted to these idiots with so many good guys out there who would appreciate them and treat them better.

Because usually men like that are too simple. Many of us can't do simple; We need a challenge. A guy who can be funny and charming with a nice swag -- might have some @hole issues here and there, but he also has the balls to hang the phone up on us and not apologize. Everyone has good and bad qualities.

But the so called 'good guys' most people refer to are usually flat out boring because they don't know how to strike a balance -- and the end they lean towards the most just isn't that fun and desirable.

lol It's like they're good for nothing more than a little sideline attention when we're with someone else to fill in the gaps the so called douche doesn't. But I have a question, why do the good guys who hate on guys who get the girls they want, always seem to over exaggerate the bad looking from the outside in all the time?

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Can i have your girlfriend?

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She's put a spell on you? Call in Sam and Dean Winchester to either find the hex bag or sever the bloodline. Probably both. :P Friends, maybe?
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lol @ big coming...

anyways, this should help you out.

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Because usually men like that are too simple. Many of us can't do simple; We need a challenge. A guy who can be funny and charming with a nice swag -- might have some @hole issues here and there, but he also has the balls to hang the phone up on us and not apologize. Everyone has good and bad qualities.

But the so called 'good guys' most people refer to are usually flat out boring because they don't know how to strike a balance -- and the end they lean towards the most just isn't that fun and desirable.

lol It's like they're good for nothing more than a little sideline attention when we're with someone else to fill in the gaps the so called douche doesn't. But I have a question, why do the good guys who hate on guys who get the girls they want, always seem to over exaggerate the bad looking from the outside in all the time?

TecmoGirl

I don't consider it hate particularly. I think it's more of maybe envy? In my case, I used to be like, what do I need to do to get the girl I like. As I got older it all comes down to really being yourself. Most of the idiotic macho guys in High School are just acts, at home they cry to their moms and ask for permission to got to the park and play with their friends. I for one believe girls like a guy who is himself, there's a girl for every guy no matter how boring or bland he is.

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Get the girl that has a crush on you first, she sounds like she's DTF.
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You gotta hit it and quit it.
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[QUOTE="TecmoGirl"]

Because usually men like that are too simple. Many of us can't do simple; We need a challenge. A guy who can be funny and charming with a nice swag -- might have some @hole issues here and there, but he also has the balls to hang the phone up on us and not apologize. Everyone has good and bad qualities.

But the so called 'good guys' most people refer to are usually flat out boring because they don't know how to strike a balance -- and the end they lean towards the most just isn't that fun and desirable.

lol It's like they're good for nothing more than a little sideline attention when we're with someone else to fill in the gaps the so called douche doesn't. But I have a question, why do the good guys who hate on guys who get the girls they want, always seem to over exaggerate the bad looking from the outside in all the time?

DeadMan1290

I don't consider it hate particularly. I think it's more of maybe envy? In my case, I used to be like, what do I need to do to get the girl I like. As I got older it all comes down to really being yourself. Most of the idiotic macho guys in High School are just acts, at home they cry to their moms and ask for permission to got to the park and play with their friends. I for one believe girls like a guy who is himself, there's a girl for every guy no matter how boring or bland he is.

I agree. There is someone for everyone and being yourself is all that matters. And lol@your sig. I never get tired of seeing that. So disappointed the game wasn't real. :P

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Get the girl that has a crush on you first, she sounds like she's DTF.Fightingfan
This and....
You gotta hit it and quit it.APiranhaAteMyVa
...This.
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#41 DeadMan1290
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I agree. There is someone for everyone and being yourself is all that matters. And lol@your sig. I never get tired of seeing that. So disappointed the game wasn't real. :P

TecmoGirl

Me neither. Sometimes I just stare a it for a few minutes laughing lol.

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I've decided to go for Rachel, I was happy with Rachel until yesterday, so I'm not letting that day ruin everything up. Screw Louise, we had a good run.

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[QUOTE="Franklinstein"]Man, it really isn't that difficult. Decide which girl you would rather, and pursue her; and you should leave the other one alone so not to give her the wrong idea.tjricardo089

The girl that has put a spell on me is called Louise. The other one is called Rachel. (Just to make it easier to explain)

I have met Rachel since last summer and we really get along, however I only started to have feelings for her for about a month ago. Louise was always special to me, but as a friend, but since we kissed it's different, however I know that she has a boyfriend and I need to get off of them. This friday, I'm going to a bar to have a couple of drinks with Rachel, however if I like Louise, I don't think I should go because I don't want to give her the wrong idea, but I don't want to leave her aswell because Louise and I would never work as boyfriends. Screw the teen age and the emotional complications.

I think I just read the plot to Catherine.

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#44 DeadMan1290
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I've decided to go for Rachel, I was happy with Rachel until yesterday, so I'm not letting that day ruin everything up. Screw Louise, we had a good run.

tjricardo089

Good, make sure to post updates here.

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Maybe she did but the guy is a total d!ck, he treats her like crap and he already cheated on her a couple of times. Enough is enough, the guy is only looking for sex. That's why I don't get what the hell did she saw on him, he is not rich, not pretty, not polite, not funny.. He's an ass.

tjricardo089

It's the sex, dude.

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she made a big coming yesterday on a field trip I made with my school.

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