This girl is messin with my MIND!

Ok so this girl that I have realized I have the biggest crush on is driving me insane. I couldn't stop thinking about her when I went to bed at midnight and then I kept thinking about her till I finally fell asleep at 3:30 am. When I woke up this morning I of course had who else on my mind...her. Then in my boring class before I see her I was like getting all nervous because I was going to semi ask her out. So I did that and it went exactly as I planned it but at the same time it didn't really do anything because I doubt she knows that I like her anymore now than a week ago. So when I got home I was all depressed but I couldn't stop thinking about her and to make a long story a little bit shorter, I havn't stopped thinking about her since I woke up today. It is making me crazy and if I don't ask her out soon which I am so nervous to do I think im gonna go insane. Is this normal and what do I do?

Ok so this girl that I have realized I have the biggest crush on is driving me insane. I couldn't stop thinking about her when I went to bed at midnight and then I kept thinking about her till I finally fell asleep at 3:30 am. When I woke up this morning I of course had who else on my mind...her. Then in my boring class before I see her I was like getting all nervous because I was going to semi ask her out. So I did that and it went exactly as I planned it but at the same time it didn't really do anything because I doubt she knows that I like her anymore now than a week ago. So when I got home I was all depressed but I couldn't stop thinking about her and to make a long story a little bit shorter, I havn't stopped thinking about her since I woke up today. It is making me crazy and if I don't ask her out soon which I am so nervous to do I think im gonna go insane. Is this normal and what do I do?

Trickedoutps3

the best thing to do is delay.

the longer you wait, the more of an obsession you will build up, and if theres one thing i know about girls, its that they find obsession very flattering

Would "hey we should hang out sometime" qualify as asking someone out?

OMG is she skilled in telepathy? Foul witch.

If so summon a wizard to help you.

OMG is she skilled in telepathy? Foul witch.

If so summon a wizard to help you.

Would "hey we should hang out sometime" qualify as asking someone out?

Trickedoutps3

I almost have the same problem as you, I can't stop thinking about this girl at my school. We hold hands in the hallways and she sometimes acts like we are going out to her friends. Now believe me I want to ask this girl out, be according to my friends she likes some other guy. I don't get her at all, she flirts with me all the time I don't know how she doesn't like me. I guess women are just like that though.

So ask her out already.

I almost have the same problem as you, I can't stop thinking about this girl at my school. We hold hands in the hallways and she sometimes acts like we are going out to her friends. Now believe me I want to ask this girl out, be according to my friends she likes some other guy. I don't get her at all, she flirts with me all the time I don't know how she doesn't like me. I guess women are just like that though.

REA24409

Ask her our before you see someone else holding her hand. *goes off to yell into his pillow and cry himself to sleep*

Would "hey we should hang out sometime" qualify as asking someone out?

Trickedoutps3

I almost have the same problem as you, I can't stop thinking about this girl at my school. We hold hands in the hallways and she sometimes acts like we are going out to her friends. Now believe me I want to ask this girl out, be according to my friends she likes some other guy. I don't get her at all, she flirts with me all the time I don't know how she doesn't like me. I guess women are just like that though.

REA24409

Would "hey we should hang out sometime" qualify as asking someone out?

Trickedoutps3

Ask her our before you see someone else holding her hand. *goes off to yell into his pillow and cry himself to sleep*

CommanderShiro

[QUOTE="REA24409"]

I almost have the same problem as you, I can't stop thinking about this girl at my school. We hold hands in the hallways and she sometimes acts like we are going out to her friends. Now believe me I want to ask this girl out, be according to my friends she likes some other guy. I don't get her at all, she flirts with me all the time I don't know how she doesn't like me. I guess women are just like that though.

Trickedoutps3

So ask her out already.

LJSEXAY

I almost have the same problem as you, I can't stop thinking about this girl at my school. We hold hands in the hallways and she sometimes acts like we are going out to her friends. Now believe me I want to ask this girl out, be according to my friends she likes some other guy. I don't get her at all, she flirts with me all the time I don't know how she doesn't like me. I guess women are just like that though.

REA24409

you should ask her out. you are already holding hands and act like a couple. if shes holding your hand in the hall and acting that way then she probly likes you. i say go for it and ask her out.

and your friends could be wrong. have you heard her talking about another guy? your friends could also be jealous and just might be saying that to keep you from getting her. who knows. but the only way to find out is to ask her out.

[QUOTE="Trickedoutps3"][QUOTE="REA24409"]

I almost have the same problem as you, I can't stop thinking about this girl at my school. We hold hands in the hallways and she sometimes acts like we are going out to her friends. Now believe me I want to ask this girl out, be according to my friends she likes some other guy. I don't get her at all, she flirts with me all the time I don't know how she doesn't like me. I guess women are just like that though.

hamstergeddon

[QUOTE="CommanderShiro"]

Ask her our before you see someone else holding her hand. *goes off to yell into his pillow and cry himself to sleep*

hokies1313

[QUOTE="LJSEXAY"]

So ask her out already.

Trickedoutps3

I almost have the same problem as you, I can't stop thinking about this girl at my school. We hold hands in the hallways and she sometimes acts like we are going out to her friends. Now believe me I want to ask this girl out, be according to my friends she likes some other guy. I don't get her at all, she flirts with me all the time I don't know how she doesn't like me. I guess women are just like that though.

Ok so this girl that I have realized I have the biggest crush on is driving me insane. I couldn't stop thinking about her when I went to bed at midnight and then I kept thinking about her till I finally fell asleep at 3:30 am. When I woke up this morning I of course had who else on my mind...her. Then in my boring class before I see her I was like getting all nervous because I was going to semi ask her out. So I did that and it went exactly as I planned it but at the same time it didn't really do anything because I doubt she knows that I like her anymore now than a week ago. So when I got home I was all depressed but I couldn't stop thinking about her and to make a long story a little bit shorter, I havn't stopped thinking about her since I woke up today. It is making me crazy and if I don't ask her out soon which I am so nervous to do I think im gonna go insane. Is this normal and what do I do?

Trickedoutps3

I almost have the same problem as you, I can't stop thinking about this girl at my school. We hold hands in the hallways and she sometimes acts like we are going out to her friends. Now believe me I want to ask this girl out, be according to my friends she likes some other guy. I don't get her at all, she flirts with me all the time I don't know how she doesn't like me. I guess women are just like that though.

REA24409

If your as comfortable as holding hands with her in public, but yet can't ask her out, you have failed hard my friend.

I'd say ask her out before you start following her around and hiding in the garden outside her house.

You should ask her out but maybe keep in mind that you're not too vague. Asking "Would you like to go out sometime" may leave a lot of questions and sometimes may lead to never. Maybe you could be specific like "Would you like to go out this weekend?" because it gives her a specific time frame but leaves room to plan.

[QUOTE="LJSEXAY"]

So ask her out already.

Trickedoutps3

Meh, it won't be awkward unless you make it awkward. The worst thing that can happen is her saying no...

[QUOTE="REA24409"]

I almost have the same problem as you, I can't stop thinking about this girl at my school. We hold hands in the hallways and she sometimes acts like we are going out to her friends. Now believe me I want to ask this girl out, be according to my friends she likes some other guy. I don't get her at all, she flirts with me all the time I don't know how she doesn't like me. I guess women are just like that though.

ImaPirate0202

If your as comfortable as holding hands with her in public, but yet can't ask her out, you have failed hard my friend.

Haha, thanks for the encouragement :lol:

Ask her out and be smooth 8)

Oh you were there during that one blog I had awhile ago.:cry:CommanderShiro

Ask her out. She says yes, you're in. She says no, you move on and find someone else.

Just imagine what it is like to be in a reciprocative relationship and having to spend time apart from one another.

Ask her out on a date, you don't want to wonder what if until you find someone else, it's annoying and you might start writing emo songs.

Very normal especially for a first timer which you sound like. So when you see her next time maybe just simply ask her for her number and text her every once in awhile and then in school follow it up with a whats up and ask her something about the class. Do this for about two weeks and then in class on a friday just ask her whats she doing that weekend and shell probably say nothing then be like well if we both arnt busy we should catch a movie or something.

I think thats your best plan

[QUOTE="ImaPirate0202"]

[QUOTE="REA24409"]

I almost have the same problem as you, I can't stop thinking about this girl at my school. We hold hands in the hallways and she sometimes acts like we are going out to her friends. Now believe me I want to ask this girl out, be according to my friends she likes some other guy. I don't get her at all, she flirts with me all the time I don't know how she doesn't like me. I guess women are just like that though.

REA24409

If your as comfortable as holding hands with her in public, but yet can't ask her out, you have failed hard my friend.

Haha, thanks for the encouragement :lol:

yeah that is werid...but you should find out from the girl firsthand see what she says

Of course it's normal. Having a heart-wrenching crush on a girl is very normal. Here's my strategy. Don't ask her out. That's kind of like beating around the bush. Instead, go up to her, and let's say her name is Jane. You: Hey Jane? Jane: Yes? You: I think I'm crushing on you. It's safer to let her now how you feel than to ask her on a date. Saying you're crushing on her is safer than saying "you like her" or that "you love her" because crushes are so common and she'll understand.Utter-Hatred

That's actually pretty true, you tell a girl you are crushing on her she would think that is cute. But you say you like her she might think differently

[QUOTE="Utter-Hatred"]Of course it's normal. Having a heart-wrenching crush on a girl is very normal. Here's my strategy. Don't ask her out. That's kind of like beating around the bush. Instead, go up to her, and let's say her name is Jane. You: Hey Jane? Jane: Yes? You: I think I'm crushing on you. It's safer to let her now how you feel than to ask her on a date. Saying you're crushing on her is safer than saying "you like her" or that "you love her" because crushes are so common and she'll understand.REA24409

That's actually pretty true, you tell a girl you are crushing on her she would think that is cute. But you say you like her she might think differently

Ask her out.... That's the only way to stop it.cd_rom

Of course it's normal. Having a heart-wrenching crush on a girl is very normal. Here's my strategy. Don't ask her out. That's kind of like beating around the bush. Instead, go up to her, and let's say her name is Jane. You: Hey Jane? Jane: Yes? You: I think I'm crushing on you. It's safer to let her now how you feel than to ask her on a date. Saying you're crushing on her is safer than saying "you like her" or that "you love her" because crushes are so common and she'll understand.Utter-Hatred

I think asking her out on facebook FTW!

just go hide naked in her locker and suprise her

don't take no for an answer, if that fails then stalk her till she says yes.