This guy Im in love with recieved this letter the day before today!

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#1 ZiggyStardust16
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Just a piece of advice: I send this letter to this guy im in love with( I don't know if he is gay or straight) but I have followed by intuition. He recieved is the day before todat(friday) I expect he did anyways and I haven't heard from him yet, even though I have written how he could find me on Facebook and written my email. Is this is natural reaction that it takes more than 24 hours before you hear something. Maybe he had a had a hard time coping with it, maybe he will send me a letter like I did to him(not by email).

The letter I wrote was this:

Love was just a glance away, a warm embracing dance away

Jeg beklager virkeligt hvis dette brev er for langt. Jeg udtrykker mig meget bedre gennem tale, but this will have to do. Hvis du falder i søvn efter de første 4 linjer - Er det sku okay. DU kan evt. tage 4 linjer ad gangen. Whatever you prefer*SS*.

Dear Mr. Emre

Tillad mig at præsentere mig selv som Ziggy Stardust eller Monsieur Verdoux - Det er selvfølgelig ikke mit rigtige navn men... Mit navn er ligegyldigt lige nu, i denne situation. Folk kalder mig som regel Ziggy Stardust. Hvad er det jeg har gang i?! Dette er ikke en kommerciel reklame for mit narcissistiske ego, så jeg kan tjene kassen, gå ud og drikke mig stiv og skrive kærlighedssange, til mit hjerte brister. Men mere noget som vedkommer dig. Jeg indrømmer gerne at jeg er på dybt vand, når jeg skriver dette brev og jeg vil prøve at gøre det så casual som muligt, fordi jeg vil for alt i verden ikke skræmme dig væk. Jeg vil gerne sige at du er fantastisk. Hmm er det for voldsomt. Du er sød så - Et af de sødeste mennesker jeg har mødt. Jeg fangede aldrig om du kom fra Norge eller Sverige, men det betyder intet. Du må forstå at jeg skriver dette brev, fordi jeg kan lide dig - Trods at jeg kun har mødt dig en gang. Jeg følte en sjælelig forståelse og en empati som er mig dybt vedkommende og jeg har tænkt på det siden. I forhold til at vi have en lille kommunikationsbrist, vil jeg udtrykke mig på engelsk i den ånd vi gjorde det i fra nu af. Dette brev må du ikke blive skræmt af - Nærmere smigret, det var tanken. Hvis det ikke siger dig noget, så riv det i stykker. Det forpligter ikke på nogen måder. Jeg er bare nød til at udtrykke mig og fortælle om mine følelser. Det er en konsekvent handling, som jeg erkender, balancerer på en knivspids, men jeg er paralyseret og må følge min intuition, fordi du er ganske enkelt fantastisk - Er det ikke "bra"*SS*?

I feel quite embarrassed writing this letter, because I have no idea, who you are, what you feel and what you think. I just know my own feelings - The subtle approach would be to offer you my friendship and that's what I am doing - Kind of. As I said, I don't know who you are. I barely even know your name (well part of it I do), even though I am sure it's something very sweet.. Myself - Well what can I say - I have academic skills, but it doesn't mean anything to me. I am a child, who will never grow up. I am but this generations Peter Pan. Childish, bordering on the line of being quite goofy in my sense of humour and then I am first and foremost a musician. Not just by nature. But my whole soul is in music. That is what I do and that is what I love - Well love and being in love. Two different things no? But enough about me, even though I am well Interesting in some ways (lets not overdue it) - Well no, I don't know what I am saying or writing. You have to forgive me. The words I am expressing to you are the purest and most honest words a boy (yes I am a guy that is 26 of age, but I feel as a boy right now) like me have ever said before. My meeting with you was well quite extraordinary and I have felt so sad ever since. Not that I usually feel sad, but sad because I thought to myself - I wonder if I'll ever see him again.

You have to realize that as a musician you also have to be a bit of a poet and heck I don't know if I can measure up to the standards of today's trends. I'll do my best though. I write poetry and if I should describe you and our meeting I would say this to you in this most honest, but also the most blunt way a person can express himself.

You are wonderful. Every look, tone, gesture, is engraved in my mind. You are so much more than one can possible dream of - Saint, sinner, snake, gazelle, angel all in one. I nearly cannot express it in words. Only a symphony could say it. The music of the spheres. I felt right at that moment, when I first met you, that there was a deep wordless understanding between us. It was in your eyes. They are beautiful - Like the loneliness of distant stars.

We are all alone in this world. It's quite often a sad and blundering world. But the kindest of gestures can make it beautiful. We don't have to be alone. I find passion in my music, but the day I met you, I did not feel alone. I felt sad, happy, confused, paralyzed all at the same time. Strange that a man can have that effect on another man. Whatever happens, I am grateful for those moments. Some shine in the dark. But in the darkness there must always come out a light. That day - Friday last week - you were that light - At least for me. I can honestly say that I have never had that feeling before in my life. Is it misguided? No I don't think so. What is it then? Well I can only offer you my undying friendship? By know you must realize that I am interested in getting to know you, or else you better bang you head against the wall a couple of times - I've heard that should help. Sorry for being so rude - it was a joke of course. Since I think you are wonderful - You just have to know that - Like strangers in the night something in your eyes was so inviting, something in you smile was so exciting, something in my heart, told me I must know you.

I have tried the suddle approach, even though Im not sure I succeeed*haha*. I think you are wonderful - Yes I realize I have used that word in abundance, but you just are. I hope we at least can be friends. By the way, I love my dog - You know, the little creature, we came with, that always call my attention. But that day - Well I neglected it - Sorry Aston (that's his name). My attention was elsewhere.

Of course I am on Facebook. Just search for Lars Mølgaard Hansen if you like to.

Well now I leave you in peace. I don't know if I've overstayed my welcome. If the letter was too long I am sorry(it properly was). If it were too short, well im sorry too!! Something's gotta give dammit! See you or not - but never forgot.

Of course my email: Herrx82@hotmail.com

Love is free - free is love - love is feeling - feeling love - love is wanting - to be loved.

Love

Lars

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#2 deactivated-60678a6f9e4d4
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Okay, I didn't read that... So whose letter is it?

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#3 ForsakenWicked
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Is that Finnish?
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#4 LZ71
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Do you know the guy? Because, honestly, if you didn't, that letter could scare him, especially if he's straight.
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#5 Mr_Leonis
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Okay. All I read was the Topic title and "Love Lars" and i'm sorry to say.... I cannot help you. :?
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#6 _en1gma_
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I'm sorry...but that is really creepy..

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#7 LLCoolKo
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How do you know his house address then?

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#8 tzar3
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Are you gay?

Not to offend or anything...

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#9 RedDraco66
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I think there is a high percentage he is straight. He is probably pretty weirded out about the whole thing. Unless if he is doing the "wait a whole week before you call thing", but i have a funny feeling that's not the case here.
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#10 KcurtorMas
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You came on too strong in my opinion. First impressions are everything...my first impression (had I recieved this letter...and were gay wouldve been a little wierded out. I wouldve kept it more simple, but too late for that I guess. Just roll with it. Wait for his response, if there will be one. Dont try and send him anything else because youd just make it creepy...er.

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#11 AxeStrangler
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that's kinda creepy, Love Letters in general are creepy when it's from someone you don't know intimately.
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#12 BumFluff122
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she did not write the letter herslf. The guy she is in love with recieved the letter from soemoen else.

Actually the title and the post say somethgin completely different... I'm not to sure what to believe.

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#13 cyberdarkkid
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OMG! Lars Ulrich is gay :shock:
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#14 megamadman5
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hmm maybe hes goin with that old, wait 2 days rule.

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#15 KcurtorMas
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So, I just looked you up on Facebook, and there's two people with your exact name on there. One is a tanned gentleman, with styled hair and a gray t-shirt...and the other...well, the other is a sad looking fellow with a red and white viking cap...so, you might have wanted to specify there...

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#16 KcurtorMas
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she did not write the letter herslf. The guy she is in love with recieved the letter from soemoen else.

Actually the title and the post say somethgin completely different... I'm not to sure what to believe.

BumFluff122

Well, for one there is no she involved. The TC...or HE...wrote the letter to the guyHE is in love with.

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#17 b1lal
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The day before today...? You mean yesterday?
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#18 RoCkStaR_EnGaGe
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He is freaked out dude I think you went way too far with that letter. WOW what the hell were you thinking?
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#19 fmacraze
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mkay. i tried reading it , but it's long
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#20 BumFluff122
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[QUOTE="BumFluff122"]

she did not write the letter herslf. The guy she is in love with recieved the letter from soemoen else.

Actually the title and the post say somethgin completely different... I'm not to sure what to believe.

KcurtorMas

Well, for one there is no she involved. The TC...or HE...wrote the letter to the guyHE is in love with.

well whatever. Even with the changing of she to he my point still stands.

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Is that Finnish?ForsakenWicked
Norwegian/Danish
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#22 KcurtorMas
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[QUOTE="KcurtorMas"]

[QUOTE="BumFluff122"]

she did not write the letter herslf. The guy she is in love with recieved the letter from soemoen else.

Actually the title and the post say somethgin completely different... I'm not to sure what to believe.

BumFluff122

Well, for one there is no she involved. The TC...or HE...wrote the letter to the guyHE is in love with.

well whatever. Even with the changing of she to he my point still stands.

Your point of not knowing what to believe? I just told you. The guy he's in love with recieved this letter yesterday...the letter that the TC wrote himself. He made a thread about a week ago talking about this. This is somewhat of an update.

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Is that Finnish?ForsakenWicked

It's danish

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#24 ZiggyStardust16
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Im the tanned gentleman in the grey shirtas you so wonderful describe me, although I have much longer hair today. Justwrite Lars Mølgaard Hansen and look for the tanned gentleman if you like too. Im not the viking

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#25 LJS9502_basic
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He's not interested or he'd have responded.

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#26 ZiggyStardust16
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This is breaking my heart you know. A statement like that. You properly never been in love so you don't know ho those heartless word feels like. ANy other, is it normal that I haven't heard anything over 24 hours after he recieved the letter. Could he do it the old fascioned way by sending me a letter?

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#27 UnsaidWarning
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I think your letter was really well written and beautiful. It really depends on the person, ignore all the people being haters. If you don't hear anything from him then it really isn't meant to be, because if he doesn't reply then what are the chances he will appreciate you later on? As hard as it is, try to get over him. I'm in a similar situation as you (Although different in a lot of ways) and I know how hard it is to be waiting, but just know lots of people are. Goodluck though.

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#28 LJS9502_basic
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This is breaking my heart you know. A statement like that. You properly never been in love so you don't know ho those heartless word feels like. ANy other, is it normal that I haven't heard anything over 24 hours after he recieved the letter. Could he do it the old fascioned way by sending me a letter?

ZiggyStardust16

Ah assumptions always bring a smile to my heart. In other words never assume. Let's be realistic....you sent a love letter to someone that you don't know. You aren't sure of his sexuality.....and wonder why he hasn't responded. Best to move on and take it slower next time. Start out by establishing a relationship first.

And my post was realistic. I'd not respond either to someone I didn't know professing love.

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#29 _en1gma_
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This is breaking my heart you know. A statement like that. You properly never been in love so you don't know ho those heartless word feels like. ANy other, is it normal that I haven't heard anything over 24 hours after he recieved the letter. Could he do it the old fascioned way by sending me a letter?

ZiggyStardust16
You can't just "love" someone you don't even know and he doesn't know you. Especially not in this sense.. Yes, it is perfectly normal that someone wouldn't respond to that.
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#30 Stesilaus
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This is breaking my heart you know. A statement like that. You properly never been in love so you don't know ho those heartless word feels like. ANy other, is it normal that I haven't heard anything over 24 hours after he recieved the letter. Could he do it the old fascioned way by sending me a letter?

ZiggyStardust16

Don't abandon hope just yet. It's possible that he received the letter well but doesn't quite know how best to respond to it.

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#31 jimmyjammer69
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Maybe he's not as sensitive or as spontaneous as you are. It was a bold and very romantic gesture. You took a gamble that many people wouldn't dare to take (and respect to you for that), but that doesn't mean things are going to turn out how you would like them to. You should accept that possibility and try to get on with your life.
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#32 revoscloud
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Poor guy, I told you not to send that letter...or atleast significantly summarize it. You most likely scared him away, or atleast showed him how needy and clingy you are when you're not even IN a relationship of ANY kind. I know it must hurt, but that's what happens when you act on emotions. You most likely do something you'll regret. Welcome to love-regret #1 buddy. I'm guessing you're 14-16, so there'll be plenty more dark clouds in your future, but they'll just make the good times all that more memorable. Trust me, been there, done that (literally, cept' with a girl + poetry + a 10-month friendship put to **** You'll live. Lesson learned ;).
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#33 Wilfred_Owen
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He's not interested or he'd have responded.

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Or creeped out. At least I'm creeped out.
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#34 Tauruslink
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Is this a joke?
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#35 -eddy-
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Is that Finnish?ForsakenWicked
No! :x It's either Swedish or Norweigan.
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#36 revoscloud
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[QUOTE="ForsakenWicked"]Is that Finnish?-eddy-
No! :x It's either Swedish or Norweigan.

Danish.
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#37 Fandangle
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I would say the guy is thinking stalker and arming up

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#38 cyberdarkkid
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That 24 hours thing is something people get from the movies if he was interested he would have responded by now, I think you should move on. And you probably messed up your friendship with this if he happens to be straight (which he probably is) because he's going to feel akward next time he sees you. Your intuitions can betray you, think things more deeply and try to be more realistic next time and be sure of things before making a move instead of assuming.

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#39 tofu-lion91
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Good luck with it. Weirdly enough I've actually seen every one of your threads and kind of followed it o_O
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#40 araksik
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Is that Finnish?ForsakenWicked


That's danish.

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#41 ParisHilton1Fan
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LOL! Clearly you didn't take everyone's advice and not send that love novel.

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#42 Yandere
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Good luck, remember to leave us an update.

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#43 Colin1192
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The day before today is commonly refered to as yesterday. Just thought I'd throw that out there
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#44 pvtdonut54
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If i got that letter i'd pop you in the face.

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#45 Chris_Williams
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..we're all lazy people here... can u just trim down the topic a "little" bit, anyway... just ask him and tell him how you feel

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#46 xxxAdvocatexxx
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I'm just shocked... If he is gay good for you man.... If not just ask for a friendship.