this is killing me i NEED other opinions on this

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Basically, she wants to break up with you and is gradually sending you indirect signals.

It is nothing. NOTHING. She was honest with you about it, which means she still cares about you. You need not worry, just be happy to have a girl you care about. If you let something this small ruin your relationship, you will regret it forever. Let it go and move on.

First fail: Admitting your girlfriend loves you more than you love her. WTF dude.

Secondly, IMO, your girlfriend is just stupid (no offense) and has a guilty conscious. This is a bad mix. I'm sure most people have had dreams where they did something they wouldn't do in real life. Only stupid people can't deal with the fact that it was a DREAM, means NOTHING, and not go around telling your boyfriend that you cheated on him in a dream.

She's a glutton for punishment, why would you ever tell somebody that? I'm sure it makes her feel gross inside to think that she dreamed that even though you can't control your dreams, but why suck you down with her and make YOU feel gross and terrible? She should have kept her mouth shut, realized it was a dream, and not gone out of her way to share it with you and possibly stir up some problems with it.

It doesn't mean anything besides that your girlfriend has a few screws loose and needs some friends to share these things with.

Don't listen to the other people, they're just trying to make you feel better.

She's 20, you're 19, and older women tend to get tired of younger men. More importantly, this woman is subconsciously attracted to another guy that she finds more attractive to you to the degree that this guy replaces you in sex dreams.

The fact that she told you about this dream clinches it. If she wanted to stay with you, she probably wouldn't tell you something that would potentially damage your relationship with her.

I'm afraid it's only a matter of time before things get worse. You might as well stop wasting time and dump her now. Get her before she gets you, and you'll get the last laugh.

Don't listen to the other people, they're just trying to make you feel better.

She's 20, you're 19, and older women tend to get tired of younger men. More importantly, this woman is subconsciously attracted to another guy that she finds more attractive to you to the degree that this guy replaces you in sex dreams.

The fact that she told you about this dream clinches it. If she wanted to stay with you, she probably wouldn't tell you something that would potentially damage your relationship with her.

I'm afraid it's only a matter of time before things get worse. You might as well stop wasting time and dump her now. Get her before she gets you, and you'll get the last laugh.

ilikedrit

My but aren't you a fountain of horrible advice? Dreams ar the subconcious' way of sorting out the day, nothing more. Do NOT break up with her over this. IT WOULD BE A TERRIBLE MISTAKE.

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If you haven't see her in a while, maybe she just want a little bit of attention, show yourself jealous and have sex with other girl...ok, maybe don't go that far, but yeah, show her that you are a bit jealous and call her regulary and overall, pay attention to her, specially since you can't see each other that often this days, i don't think it means anything.

It's just a dream, so relax. You should probably feel happy that she trusts you enough to even tell you about something like that.

two things, first, she didn't have to tell you about the dream so that's a good sign. Second, dreams are rarely ever about who's envisioned.

Bonus: she's probably tense from the stress of exams and not being together. I don't condone it but that's most likely the cause of her dream.

My gf is really cute and sometimes shows more skin that she realizes so she gets hit on a lot at the office. deluxemando

people will always fantasise about other people. you just need to let it go.

Let it go. I've had girls tell me they've had dreams about other guys and usually both of us can blow it off since it means nothing. I've definitely had dreams about other girls when I'm in a relationship too, it's not a big deal. You can't control what DMT does to your brain when you sleep.

However if she starts sending you other signals, get worried.

Dreams don't mean anything, it's nothing. You should be happy that you two are close enough that she'll confide these things in you.

First fail: Admitting your girlfriend loves you more than you love her. WTF dude.

Secondly, IMO, your girlfriend is just stupid (no offense) and has a guilty conscious. This is a bad mix. I'm sure most people have had dreams where they did something they wouldn't do in real life. Only stupid people can't deal with the fact that it was a DREAM, means NOTHING, and not go around telling your boyfriend that you cheated on him in a dream.

She's a glutton for punishment, why would you ever tell somebody that? I'm sure it makes her feel gross inside to think that she dreamed that even though you can't control your dreams, but why suck you down with her and make YOU feel gross and terrible? She should have kept her mouth shut, realized it was a dream, and not gone out of her way to share it with you and possibly stir up some problems with it.

It doesn't mean anything besides that your girlfriend has a few screws loose and needs some friends to share these things with.

XilePrincess

You always give the best relationship advice :P

On topic. It's just a dream, it means nothing. We've all had some pretty messed up dreams, but they don't reflect on the person we are. Even if she subconciously finds this guy attractive, that doesn't mean she wants to be with him or even likes him. Part of what defines us is our choices, and in a dream, there is no choice, it's just random subconcious information trying to work it's self out.

Really, just go spend some time with her, this is preobably just an attempt by her to get you to be jeleous or somthing so you'll notice her.

it's going to be fine just follow these steps.

1. break up

2. meet her mom

3.????????

4.profit

She's a glutton for punishment, why would you ever tell somebody that? I'm sure it makes her feel gross inside to think that she dreamed that even though you can't control your dreams, but why suck you down with her and make YOU feel gross and terrible? She should have kept her mouth shut, realized it was a dream, and not gone out of her way to share it with you and possibly stir up some problems with it.

It doesn't mean anything besides that your girlfriend has a few screws loose and needs some friends to share these things with.

XilePrincess

She spelled 'Okay' with three 'y's? First chink in the armour, TC.