This is Normal Right?

Is it normal for someone to like someone else who you just talk to at school so deeply that they are all you think about? Ever since I started liking this girl, I can't live like I used to. When she rejected me "i can't maybe some other time" I have not been able to function. I feel like she is the only person I could ever like, which is crazy and stupid.

The thing that drives me crazy is that I just want to be with her. I don't particularly like her in just physical attraction, and anyone else I see who I notice being really physically attrative just does nothing for me. Basically I feel like she is the only person I would ever want to be with.

I see my friends who have gfs checking out other girls and such. And supposedly that's accepted and normal? I'm not even with this girl and my interest in anyone else is simply dead.

I need to ask: Is this something special going on here, or is this normal for guys to be so focused on one person who they haven't even spent any serious time with.. and not just based on physical attraction? If you have gone through this how long did it take to get out of it? It's been like a year now and if anything it gets stronger, especially considering I talk to her like everyday.

It happens. Its just infatuation. Ask her out. She says yes, your golden. If not, it'll help you move on faster.

Oh, and touch her shoulder.

Christ, I'm in the same boat, but I haven't asked her out. TheArGaia

putting p***y on a pedestal was your first mistake. JPOBS

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Been there. When she rejected me, maybe about a month after she started dating a good friend of mine. Those first few months were hell. That was 3 years ago, and I feel so much better. Things will get better, trust me.awesomeface

It's not normal, unless you are a mature adult and you've found the one. So this is probably your future wife.Agent-Zero

I guess it's normal for people to stare at other people regardless of whether they're in a relationship if you're talking in terms of genetics. People are predisposed to look at things they find attractive. It's not knocking the girl they have or anything, or wishing they could have that girl instead of their own. It's science, everybody likes to stare at boobs.

Is it acceptable? Depends on your relationship. In mine it's not, and that goes both ways. Neither of us would tolerate the other gawking at somebody else, because we both feel the way you do, OP. We don't want to look at anybody else because we're content with each other. I think that's very normal as well.

It's a case-by-case basis. If their girlfriends are okay with it, then power to them both (but if the girlfriend gets mad yet she stares at guys, she's an idiot and needs to get off her high horse), the less jealousy the better in a relationship I guess.

Does she have awesome boobage?

If so, this totally reminds me of a South Park episode.

Hang in there man, we've all been there before :)

Its normal although you might wanna find something to destract you like taking up a new hobby oe something to get her off your mind a little