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#1 kevin1gamer
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This is a continuation of the following:

About a month ago my best friend and I got into a bit of a fight (not a fist fight, but rather an argument). We kind of said some things we didn't mean and went our separate ways.

|I apologized after the incident (not immediately after, but I think I waited like a day or two, because she was still very upset), for I realized how much I screwed up almost immediately after the argument, but she said she hated me.

She then removed me as a friend on Facebook, wouldn't return my phone calls, removed me as a friend on Xbox Live, removed me as a friend on MySpace, blocked me on Facebook, and got two of our mutual friends to think less of me (which is understandable, since they were there and I was totally out of line).



And a continuation of:

I finally messaged her saying "hello" and she then sent me a party chat invite on Xbox Live. I joined, but there was this one kid there (this kid kept messaging me yesterday saying "hello" like 800 times, I didn't reply and blocked him). He was like "why didn't you accept my friend request, I only want to be your friend" and kept saying that in the party chat (it was just me, him, and the girl I was referring to in my other thread). I don't know who he is.

I then muted him and tried to talk to her, but she didn't reply, I then left to avoid that one weird stalker kid who has been pestering me. Did I screw up, or was it not my fault? I take it the stalker kid might be a online friend of her's, but then again, he could have followed me into the party, I'm not sure which).




And so it continues:
So, I was invited again to the party, in which tabby1gamer (the girl) and the Caboose1691 (some random guy on the Internet who is an online friend of tabby1gamer). I accepted the invite under the condition that Caboose1691 introduce himself. He claims to be an online friend of tabby1gamer's. The entire conversation was a big heap of nothingness. It appears that tabby1gamer now hates that caboose guy a lot more than she ever hated me. Caboose kept saying some rather inappropriate things about tabby and I, including making fun of her and myself. He even went so far as to harass our former romance. He did it in a joking manner though, but some of the things he said were going to far, even if only joking. He claims he wants to "help" tabby and I get back together. He then told me that she still loves me and that I broke her heart, which he said in front of her, so now she knows that I know and that is most upsetting. I suppose he did help us though, even if indirectly. Atleast now we have a common enemy, and we did laugh at some of the things he said (they weren't all bad, most of it was just random, he only criticized us a few times, after which he would append "jk"). tabby and myself didn't speak much, since he wouldn't give us a chance too and we couldn't do a party without him because he would just follow us around. So, does it seem like things are working out good or not?

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#2 nimatoad2000
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can you give us a TLDR version?
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#3 Dragon23
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can you give us a TLDR version?nimatoad2000
and try to throw in a dragon somewhere in the story so im not bored again
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#4 BumFluff122
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yeah it seems it's workign out. She more than likely wants to get back together with you and this guy was probably the guy she turned to after the breakup because you hurt her bad. I would do some major buttkissing though if you want her back.

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#5 Solid-CELL
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[QUOTE="nimatoad2000"]can you give us a TLDR version?Dragon23
and try to throw in a dragon somewhere in the story so im not bored again

and maybe some LSD?
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#6 Viper-Inc
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maybe another thread is needed here...

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#7 Deadly_Fatalis
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Keep it slow, things seem to have gotten better, but don't rush things, or they will once again fall back out of place.
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#8 POPEYE1716
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and a Knight with a shinny sword

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#9 kevin1gamer
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[QUOTE="nimatoad2000"]can you give us a TLDR version?Dragon23
and try to throw in a dragon somewhere in the story so im not bored again

Tabby and I met online, there was a third party. The third party was a f**king d****e bag, he f**ked things up between us. Then a dragon came and ate the the d****e bag, and so tabby and I became friends again.

p.s.

The dragon part is not true.

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#10 binpink
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I think this should be kept to a blog at this point.

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#12 RedDraco66
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Am I the only only one getting the feeling that you don't even know her IRL? Strange how you consider an online friend a "best friend" (if that is the case). Best end result in my opinion - Go outside. Get some fresh air. Go find a real girl. [or one in which you converse face-to-face and not on a gaming console]
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#13 kevin1gamer
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maybe another thread is needed here...

Viper-Inc

Now, let's get ahead of ourselves. All in good time, all in good time.

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#14 kevin1gamer
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Am I the only only one getting the feeling that you don't even know her IRL? Strange how you consider an online friend a "best friend" (if that is the case). Best end result in my opinion - Go outside. Get some fresh air. Go find a real girl. [or one in which you converse face-to-face and not on a gaming console]RedDraco66

No, we know each other in real life. We used to hang out all the time.

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#16 Mario2007
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Trying adding her on a social network site again and see how she responds. Or do you two go to the same school? Try just saying hi to her every once and while. Show her you still care about her, and you didn't mean the things you said. This may take a while and that's OK. Just don't be desperate, because then she'll have complete control over you. I wouldn't worry too much about the guy, I don't think he's much of a threat, especially since she hates him now. Oh, and did this girl say some things that were out of line as well? Because you could use that to your advantage, saying something like, "I think we both said some things that we didn't really mean, blah blah blah." Hope some of this information helps at least.
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#17 kevin1gamer
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maybe another thread is needed here...

Viper-Inc

maybe....maybe...

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#18 kevin1gamer
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Trying adding her on a social network site again and see how she responds. Or do you two go to the same school? Try just saying hi to her every once and while. Show her you still care about her, and you didn't mean the things you said. This may take a while and that's OK. Just don't be desperate, because then she'll have complete control over you. I wouldn't worry too much about the guy, I don't think he's much of a threat, especially since she hates him now. Oh, and did this girl say some things that were out of line as well? Because you could use that to your advantage, saying something like, "I think we both said some things that we didn't really mean, blah blah blah." Hope some of this information helps at least. Mario2007

She did say **** off" at one point in the conversation.

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Can you also add Clint Eastwood riding a hobby horse yelling "CHARGE!" ?
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#20 Mario2007
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[QUOTE="Mario2007"]Trying adding her on a social network site again and see how she responds. Or do you two go to the same school? Try just saying hi to her every once and while. Show her you still care about her, and you didn't mean the things you said. This may take a while and that's OK. Just don't be desperate, because then she'll have complete control over you. I wouldn't worry too much about the guy, I don't think he's much of a threat, especially since she hates him now. Oh, and did this girl say some things that were out of line as well? Because you could use that to your advantage, saying something like, "I think we both said some things that we didn't really mean, blah blah blah." Hope some of this information helps at least. kevin1gamer

She did say **** off" at one point in the conversation.

Was this after you went out of line?
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There is an invite only option, you know.
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#22 kevin1gamer
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[QUOTE="kevin1gamer"]

[QUOTE="Mario2007"]Trying adding her on a social network site again and see how she responds. Or do you two go to the same school? Try just saying hi to her every once and while. Show her you still care about her, and you didn't mean the things you said. This may take a while and that's OK. Just don't be desperate, because then she'll have complete control over you. I wouldn't worry too much about the guy, I don't think he's much of a threat, especially since she hates him now. Oh, and did this girl say some things that were out of line as well? Because you could use that to your advantage, saying something like, "I think we both said some things that we didn't really mean, blah blah blah." Hope some of this information helps at least. Mario2007

She did say **** off" at one point in the conversation.

Was this after you went out of line?

yes

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This is going to end in Bel-Air... I can see it now.

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#24 needled24-7
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by the way things sound, looks like you and her are going to be fine.

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#25 supa_badman
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Oh dude you're in.

She's gonna be all over your **** pretty soon now.