Tips on breaking up

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#1 Mr_Satch
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The situation is delicate in the sense that I want to remain friends with her, but just don't see a future with her anymore. I think it has run it's course. I know we are both going to be hurt and I don't want to hurt her too much.

We have been together three years.

There isn't another girl (she's already taken) and I would just like to keep the friendship because we have been through a lot and I think that bond is strong enough to survive.

What do you do?

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#2 LJS9502_basic  Online
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You can't remain friends....doesn't work. Just end it and be done with it.
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#4 solidgamer
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text?

lol

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#5 Marty_McFly_
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Do it over the phone. You don't want to be there when the tears start flowing. Or if the tewrs dont come you dont want to be there when she gets upset. PHONE I TELL YOU.
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#6 skullkrusher13
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get a pic of an animal covering its eyes (like a monkey or koala or something) 'shop it to make it say "I don't wanna see you anymore" and send it to her via e-mail or myspace/facebook.

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#7 CRS98
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Step 1: Get the shovel

Step 2: You'll know what to do

Step 3: To The Choppa!

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#8 Denjin_hadouken
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Punch her in the face. Problem solved.
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#9 Fortier
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Do it in person and don't expect to remain friends.
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#10 tman93
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You can still be friends, but not if you just blantly break up with her. Just make her mad, be sarcastic, run over her cat, then say I dont think we will work, but I want to be friends still, ok.

This wont work if you dont go out with her best friend the day after you split up, this is a must if you want to stay friends.

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#11 darklyghter
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I have never understood the whole "wanting to stay friends" idea. I do not think that it could work, unless both peopledid not really care that much about the other in the first place.
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#12 blooddemon666
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The situation is delicate in the sense that I want to remain friends with her, but just don't see a future with her anymore. I think it has run it's course. I know we are both going to be hurt and I don't want to hurt her too much.

We have been together three years.

There isn't another girl (she's already taken) and I would just like to keep the friendship because we have been through a lot and I think that bond is strong enough to survive.

What do you do?

Mr_Satch

you answered your question in your first sentence. just tell her how you feel.

but I'm gonna agree ljs here...

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#13 xtn702
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Punch her in the face. Problem solved.Denjin_hadouken
:lol:
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#14 Masinai
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Tell her your breaking up with her but you still want to be friends, but do it in person, the phone is careless. but don't go out with anyone the next day, thats important.

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#15 tman93
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Tell her your breaking up with her but you still want to be friends, but do it in person, the phone is careless. but don't go out with anyone the next day, thats important.

Masinai
.... dont?....
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#16 NearTheEnd
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"You gross me out"

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#17 GeForce2187
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One of my history teachers used to give us dating tips. And tips on when to break up.

http://youtube.com/watch?v=3AngtSLU8Lw

http://youtube.com/watch?v=Z7qAYnanMrI

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#18 Mr_Satch
Member since 2007 • 148 Posts

I think you guys are right about not being friends after this. I can't lose her

friendship so I will stay with her and see what happens. She has no idea I feel this way.

Maybe it is just a funk or something that I'm going through.

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#19 BobbyTurkalino
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Its kind of the same for a job you dont want to be at anymore. Just stop showing up or calling, eventually she'll end it.
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#20 Drizzt13
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Seriously unless both of you have stopped having feelings for each other the likelyhood of you remaining friends is small. Also always do it in person. Anything else is just way too impersonal. Good Luck hope it works out for you.
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#21 garrett_duffman
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friends of for people who think it would eventually work out
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#22 YoungGun13
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here is the line you use ''you need a band-aid cause your cut'' ultimate killer rite there 8)
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#23 Devil_Huntress
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You can't remain friends....doesn't work. Just end it and be done with it.LJS9502_basic
What he said.
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#24 fax555241
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still be friends :lol:. Just say it too her and get it over with.
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#25 ultimaxer
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slap her in the face and run away

not really, just say how you feel and ask if you can still be friends