Today is my brithday and im sad

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#1 monkey2go
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I treated the day like it was any other day other than getting a big hug from a good friend(she made me cake) and 17 punches from the guys. I didnt ask for much this year other than a box to skate on and some shoes and maybe some money, but it feels like im missing something. That feeling when something is missing but you dont know what it is. Its probably because i dont have a girlfriend to make me happy or someone to hang out with or that hearing "happy birthday" doesnt sound that special anymore. I know its not good to be sad about it since its my birthday and all buy i cant help it.
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#2 Denjin_hadouken
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Birthdays are just a countdown to your death. Happy bday :D
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#3 CommanderShiro
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Seems like you want this to become a girl advice thread. Keep fishing, the sea is big enough.
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#4 Xeros606
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congradulations? idk what to say, ive had that feeling for the past few years as well.
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#5 Cerussite
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It could be worse. You could have ebola.
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#6 nickyb628
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You're getting older. Things like birthdays and Christmas won't seem as exciting anymore, well, at least that's what happened to me. It sucks, but hey, you're still livin' :). Happy Birthday!
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#7 KGB32
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yea like Denjin said, i dont really think of bdays much like O YAY PRESENTS AND CAKE, but more like, yay, one year closer to my death.
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#8 wallymartin
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It's your party, you can cry if you want to.
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#9 ice_radon
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Dude, I am 21, how depressing was that?
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#10 Overrated_Hero
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Seems like your growing up out of the happy birthday celebration and start to treat it like a normal day.
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#11 CommanderShiro
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It's your party, you can cry if you want to.wallymartin
*tempted to sing rest of lyrics, but will appear weird*
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#12 eo12601
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Look at it this way. Each birthday that goes by should make you reflect on your life. It should make yo consider all the less fortunate people who did not make it through the year, and ask yourself if you're happy/content with the way things are going. And most importantly, a birthday is a celebration of life, and how good it is to be alive. You don't need a cake. You don't need presents or money. Just invite some friends and family over, and enjoy it. It won't last forever.
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#13 linkin_guy109
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just have some self confidence man, itll help a lot, some random girl was giving me looks today while i was at work :shock:
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#14 Xeros606
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just have some self confidence man, itll help a lot, some random girl was giving me looks today while i was at work :shock:linkin_guy109

she was probably looking at that big*** pimple on your face.

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#15 monkey2go
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Look at it this way. Each birthday that goes by should make you reflect on your life. It should make yo consider all the less fortunate people who did not make it through the year, and ask yourself if you're happy/content with the way things are going. And most importantly, a birthday is a celebration of life, and how good it is to be alive. You don't need a cake. You don't need presents or money. Just invite some friends and family over, and enjoy it. It won't last forever.eo12601
yeah your right i shouldnt be so negative
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#16 linkin_guy109
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[QUOTE="linkin_guy109"]just have some self confidence man, itll help a lot, some random girl was giving me looks today while i was at work :shock:Xeros606

she was probably looking at that big*** pimple on your face.

lol i wouldnt be surprised...except i dont have pimples on my face :P

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#17 Hewkii
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I think this song applies here.
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#18 Cube_of_MooN
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Want to be even sadder? Your birthday is one day closer to the day you die. :P
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#19 Cerussite
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I think http://youtube.com/watch?v=TS9_ipu9GKw" title="http://youtube.com/watch?v=TS9_ipu9GKw">this song applies here.Hewkii
Creedence Clearwater Revival never applies to anything. Ever.
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#20 bbkd3b
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Anybody seen the episode of Seinfeld where he gives the depressing speech about birthdays? Couldn't find a vid, unfortunately. But if you kind find it, watch it.
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#21 monkey2go
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I think this song applies here.Hewkii
thanks man ive heard this song before. Me and my dad love this band

EDIT: I like this song too

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#22 ElArab
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Happy Birthday, and congrats on not bieng a spoiled brat that asks for everything under the sun, I hardly ever ask for stuff on my birthday too, one time I didn't ask for anything and just hung out with friends.

Call some people and just, have a party like the one in CommanderShiro's sig. Costumes optional.

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#23 loseittoo
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What you should do for your birthday is to do something different every year like invite some friends and go karaoke! And laugh at them singing!!!
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#24 monkey2go
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What you should do for your birthday is to do something different every year like invite some friends and go karaoke! And laugh at them singing!!!loseittoo
i wish i have rock band
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#25 rickyrickyricky
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You're young man, you'll find someone. I remember feeling like like a year ago, but my girl found me (lawl) but i might be on the verge of having girl problems...

i think a good friend who makes you a cake is thinking, "the closest way to a mans heart is through his stomach" =)

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#26 Helloiseeu
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My birthday sucked like yours. I go punched 4 times more than i was supposed to, didn't get anything I wanted.
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#27 monkey2go
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You're young man, you'll find someone. I remember feeling like like a year ago, but my girl found me (lawl) but i might be on the verge of having girl problems...

i think a good friend who makes you a cake is thinking, "the closest way to a mans heart is through his stomach" =)

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yeah it was pretty sweet of her to take actually take the time to bake me a cake
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#28 Raged-wolverine
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tht's strange...yesterday was mine....and i was happy...:D
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#29 martialbullet
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so you were expecting a girlfriend for your birthday? :shock: me tooo!

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#30 Myrkan
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Maybe you shouldnt have been as modest when you asked what you wanted? I dont know what to say, every birthday should be happy, and even though I'm growing old as well I can still find mounds of juicy joy in each birthday while everyone else keeps prattling on about how 'life is short' and, 'birthdays are depressing, I'm getting old' instead of enjoying the day, knowing your moving on in life, instead of looking at the fact that one day your going to be old and grey.

If your life is good, then you should be happy. But, if you have something you cant control, like depression, maybe get a therapist or visit a doctor. My opinion about your situation right now, is that you should just cheer up and be happy you have friends, and family (I'd assume) and if its a girlfriend thats missing, then try to talk to that girl and see if she likes you.

Happy Birthday.

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#31 Serraph105
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I treated the day like it was any other day other than getting a big hug from a good friend(she made me cake) and 17 punches from the guys. I didnt ask for much this year other than a box to skate on and some shoes and maybe some money, but it feels like im missing something. That feeling when something is missing but you dont know what it is. Its probably because i dont have a girlfriend to make me happy or someone to hang out with or that hearing "happy birthday" doesnt sound that special anymore. I know its not good to be sad about it since its my birthday and all buy i cant help it. monkey2go

throw a belated Bday party as soon as you can it will make you feel better trust me

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#32 IceAxe18
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Birthdays are just a countdown to your death. Happy bday :DDenjin_hadouken

I agree :)

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#33 DerkaDerkaJihad
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I had that same exact feeling when I turned 17, tis not fun.
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#34 Jawsh12
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The problem is the age you turned. 17 sucked when i turned 17 i was like great i get no new privelages 18 is almost everything so just wait one more year then you will be happy :)
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#35 monkey2go
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so you were expecting a girlfriend for your birthday? :shock: me tooo!

martialbullet
maybe but i was just feeling lonely
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#36 big_old_tom
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[QUOTE="Hewkii"]I think this song applies here.monkey2go

thanks man ive heard this song before. Me and my dad love this band

EDIT: I like this song too

i find that this video get's me through the tough times.

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#37 Ravirr
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Its all what you want it to be. I generally reflect on the year, and am thankful for what has happened.
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#38 The_Vampress
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maybe ye ought to do something bold and new, perhaps it's just a matter of spicing things up. If you've done the same thing before in previous years, it may just be a matter of doing something new. A change can be good.