Ways to calm yourself down when you're extremely upset?

I've been extremely upset at work lately and I can't seem to find a way to calm myself down. The thing is, I have a crush on a boy who is a year older then me. He's so nice and someone who actually likes to listen to me. Unfortunately in my case, I work with a bunch of brain dead cashiers who only care about getting drunk and high and cheating on their boyfriends. I want a long term relationship with this boy, we've had lunch together so many times and we hang out a lot but the thing is...I think he would actually go for one of those cashiers if he had the chance (because he is single). All of these cashiers are planning on getting really drunk in a hotel room and they want to invite him and sleep with him.

I'm so furious about this because this is one of the very few guys I want to go out with. But yet...these STUPID cashiers only care about sex and alcohol and nothing more...It just makes me so upset because I really care about this boy and these cashiers are just going to...........:( I'm so upset about this but nobody really knows I have a crush on him and like, these girls are so rotten!!!!!! I really don't like them and they only care about sleeping with him!!!! What a waste! I honestly can't find a way to put up with how upset I am about this and I think I may lose my job. If anyone can please give me some advice dealing with the situation I would be more than grateful. Thank you!!!!!

Make it look like you're better than the other cashiers, if he wants a real relationship he will notice you... and that you don't want to have sex with him in a hotel room...

To calm down I usually go for a walk.

Just tell him how you feel

Just tell him how you feel and that you don't think he should go. I'm sure that if he hangs out with you so much it's for a good reason.

Goddamn sad girls and sincerity. Now I can't make a masturbation joke....

In my best Dr. Phil voice, if this guy wants to hang out with these other cashiers and not you, then he isn't the guy for you, end of story.

You could always talk to him about it. If he's a good enough guy or wants nothing to do with them, there's really nothing to worry about. And has he shown interests in the other girls? Sounds like you may be throwing this way out of proportion. And why this boy specifically? How do you know if he's wanting a serious, long term relationship to begin with? ayanami_rei

Ask him out next time you go to lunch with him...which means that you'd be going out with him right that second if he says yes.

We both love thrash metal and he said that he really liked me and rubbed my cheek. He's like super sweet and he's always like smiling at me but I have a feeling he would sleep wtih those other cashiers. I'm too shy to ask him out to a movie or something, I want him to ask me out. I just want more time so I can show him I really REALLY care about him but like...I don't know when this hotel thing is, it might even be tongiht. :(lexika

In my best Dr. Phil voice, if this guy wants to hang out with these other cashiers and not you, then he isn't the guy for you, end of story.

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I don't know when this hotel thing is, it might even be tongiht. :(lexika

he said that he really liked me and rubbed my cheek. lexika

Do you need landing light to his heart?

Of course he likes you, you should probably just ask if you can go along.

[QUOTE="lexika"]We both love thrash metal and he said that he really liked me and rubbed my cheek. He's like super sweet and he's always like smiling at me but I have a feeling he would sleep wtih those other cashiers. I'm too shy to ask him out to a movie or something, I want him to ask me out. I just want more time so I can show him I really REALLY care about him but like...I don't know when this hotel thing is, it might even be tongiht. :(ayanami_rei

Get over your shyness and ask him out. It's pretty obvious he likes you.

[QUOTE="lexika"]he said that he really liked me and rubbed my cheek. THE_DRUGGIE

Do you need landing light to his heart?

Of course he likes you, you should probably just ask if you can go along.

[QUOTE="THE_DRUGGIE"]

[QUOTE="lexika"]he said that he really liked me and rubbed my cheek. lexika

Do you need landing light to his heart?

Of course he likes you, you should probably just ask if you can go along.

he said that he really liked me and rubbed my cheek. lexika

That's a pretty good sign that he likes you. Probably the type of guy who waits for the girl to make the first move - which is why he'll be bedding one of those cashiers before you unless you make a move. If you don't tell him how you feel then he'll assume you don't have any interest in him.

you want to get with this guy even though hes the kind of guy whod get with those cashier girls ? :o ?

as ironic as this might sound, i calm myself with alcohol :|

[QUOTE="lexika"] I'm not concerned about if he truly likes me or not as much as I am with how upset I get when the other girls talk about him. You don't live my life, you don't know how I feel about this...I am not out of proportion with my own emotions, it's who I am. I always have tears of anger in my eyes because they don't have the same passion for him as I do. I get so furious I want to scream and knock over shelves and everything...ayanami_rei

I don't know how to pursue it further though and with those cashiers going on and on about it, it makes things really difficult for me.lexika

[QUOTE="lexika"][QUOTE="THE_DRUGGIE"]

Do you need landing light to his heart?

Of course he likes you, you should probably just ask if you can go along.

THE_DRUGGIE

Ohh I'm so sorry for being difficult. I'm just so overwhelmed and upset because I've never felt anything like this before. I wish I could ask him but I am so afraid of rejection. Thank you so much for taking the time to write this though, I'm really grateful. :)lexika

I work with a bunch of brain dead cashiers who only care about getting drunk and high and cheating on their boyfriends. lexika

I work with a bunch of brain dead cashiers who only care about getting drunk and high and cheating on their boyfriends. lexika

Based on your story here. Sounds like the guy likes you and waiting on you to make a move. I used to be the same way. Also you shouldn't blame him if he does bang one of those other girls, you didn't make that move. And the more time passes by, the more he'll put you in the "Friend zone", even if he might still like you. So if you made a move after he gets with one of those sluts, the less likely he'll want a serious thing with you.

Talk to him before its too late. Me personally, if I'm friends with a girl and she has any kind of feeling towards me, I would hope she tells me as soon as possible. That way I can make decision to give her a chance, keep her at a friend status or maybe, talk about a temporary "friends with benefits" thing if she was mature enough to handle it.

Tell him how you feel. If some chick I knew told me she really liked me I would be flatteredStanley09

This. 100% for sure.

play video games.

Tetris.

No, I'm not kidding. I'd assume any repetitive game would work.

If you are upset the best possible thing to do is actually be active into doing something... So anything that has some kind of exercise purpose may be able to calm your nerves.

Nice. :P Put in a little dance music.

All of these cashiers are planning on getting really drunk in a hotel room and they want to invite him and sleep with him.lexika