Yes, hello, im new to all of this.. I don't want to come off as a deseperate dude.. asking a person out is not the time right now, but I have a person in mind and I was wondering how can I approach her?
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Touch her shoulder.
But seriously, just casually walk up to her and engage in causal conversation. Just ask small things like "how was your day?" or bring up something weird that happened that day or whatever, just anything that can easily get a conversation started (no need to worry about afterwards, if you guys click, the conversation will naturally flow). Aaand just let things naturally go from there on, if you feel comfortable with each other, get her number and just escalate from there on out, if not, go for the next girl.
Worry about casual flirting later, 9 times out of 10 it'll just naturally happen anyway, unless you're as blind as a bat and can't read a signal even if it smacks you in the face.
Are you in a big city? On the subway or bus, especially in big cities, there's bound to be someone attractive nearby because they're usually crowded and cities like New York, Chicago, and LA are pretty much flooded with beauty. If you see someone, try and sit near them if you can. If there's a weird dude around, you can glance over at her and make a casual joke about the weird guy in front of you, it works ALL the time. You'll get a laugh out of her and a conversation will ensue, I guarantee it. It's a neat little trick, it may sound mean, but poking fun at someone who's a little off the wall can make it to be a great flirtatious aquaintance.Â
I think you should explain to her how/why she would benefit from having relations with you.Laihendi
Haha even better, just give her a hand-written list of the reasons!
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