What do you think about dating a woman older than you?

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#1 Lil_Dwayne
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I dunno but Im really thinkin about askin this one girl at my workplace out. She is 25 while Im 18, but I swear she likes me. She says hello to me whenever I see her. And everytime we are just standin around, she comes up and has this short little chat about random stuff, but it usually has to do with work. I found her on Myspace and Facebook and her status said single, what do you guys think, should I try? Or do you think she is too mature for me? This woman is sexy as heck too man. She might have experience while Im still struggling to get laid. So what do guys think???

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#2 Travo_basic
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Go for it.
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#3 Lil_Dwayne
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Go for it.Travo_basic

For real? You really think I have a chance?

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#4 linkin_guy109
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i have no problem with it, as long as shes in her 20s that is for me, if shes older then 29..it would just be strange
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#5 DragonfireXZ95
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Yeah, she totally wants you.
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#6 monkey2go
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[QUOTE="Travo_basic"]Go for it.Lil_Dwayne

For real? You really think I have a chance?

you wont know until you try and even if she turns you down its not like shes the last one of her kind
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#7 Moo-Moo-Milk
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[QUOTE="Travo_basic"]Go for it.Lil_Dwayne

For real? You really think I have a chance?

Yeah, go for it.

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#8 Spartan_385
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[QUOTE="Travo_basic"]Go for it.Lil_Dwayne

For real? You really think I have a chance?

Well she might still think of you as a kid but who knows...

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#9 gobo212
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What's the worst that could happen? She says no.
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#10 Lil_Dwayne
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[QUOTE="Lil_Dwayne"]

[QUOTE="Travo_basic"]Go for it.monkey2go

For real? You really think I have a chance?

you wont know until you try and even if she turns you down its not like shes the last one of her kind

But she's still a cool chick, and I dont want to feel awkward around her.

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#11 Proobie44
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If she's a year older then me, that's fine cause I'm a year younger then everybody in my classes, but if she's 2 or more years older I say "No, that's a crime"
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#12 Travo_basic
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[QUOTE="Lil_Dwayne"]

[QUOTE="Travo_basic"]Go for it.Moo-Moo-Milk

For real? You really think I have a chance?

Yeah, go for it.

What's the worst that can happen? She says no?

whoops. I just noticed Gobo beat me to it.

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#13 waelzleb
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Go for it all she can say is no
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#14 Rekunta
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If you work with her, ask her out and she says no, that's going to make working with her awkward and may create tension while you two are together. Not cool.....it's something you should take into consideration. In that situation, I would definitely only make a move if you're very confident that she's going to say yes. But even then, any relationship that goes through hard times is going to affect your work environment. What if something happens down the road? Do you want to go into work everyday dealing with that? Is she your boss? Etc, etc, etc. If this is a job that you wish to keep, I'd personally stay far away.

If you are not concerned about that......well then I'd just open up more and more to her, see what commonalities you have, and take it from there. If she's continually coming up to you and starting conversations, that's a good indicator that she's interested. Grabbing a cup of coffee with her can't hurt, and is not even really a date, more like a "feel her out" half an hour get together.

I can't give much more advice as only you know what the exact situation is like. Good luck!

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#15 LLCoolKo
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Post her myspace or facebook link :P

I dont have either but hey...

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#16 DoHo
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[QUOTE="Travo_basic"]Go for it.Lil_Dwayne

For real? You really think I have a chance?

He didn't say you had a chance. :p Try something subtle, like making a joke about the two of you going out, and see how she reacts. You can always cover it up by the fact that it was a joke.

If she says something like "Are you serious?" you could pretend to be taken aback, as if it really were a joke, and then you could pretend that that she suggested it.

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#17 Travo_basic
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[QUOTE="Lil_Dwayne"]

[QUOTE="Travo_basic"]Go for it.DoHo

For real? You really think I have a chance?

He didn't say you had a chance. :p Try something subtle, like making a joke about the two of you going out, and see how she reacts. You can always cover it up by the fact that it was a joke.

If she says something like "Are you serious?" you could pretend to be taken aback, as if it really were a joke, and then you could pretend that that she suggested it.

You don't even have to make it sound like a date. You can ask her if she wants to see a movie or go bowling sometime.
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#18 kylekatarn10
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Go for it. As for me, i am dating a woman older than me. xD
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#19 FreewayScruff
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Do it man, when I was 18 and dated a 25 year old and it ROCKED, you chill at their place all the time and they have no problem supporting you (atleast my ex didn't) and it really empowers their self esteem knowing that they still got the goods to keep the younger fellas attracted. Im sure she's starting to feel a bit old but wants something or someone to relive her younger years.

DO IT NOW!
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#20 Lorindol
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My wife is older than me, it isn't to bad
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#21 kdt55
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I want to bang an old chick...like Hillary Clintons age. Don't know why, but I do.
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#22 wired4stuff
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i agree, you should show us her face book :D
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#23 Travo_basic
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I want to bang an old chick...like Hillary Clintons age. Don't know why, but I do.kdt55
I have that desire sometimes. Can't tell you why.
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#24 a55assin
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15 years older max....