What Do You Think This Girl is Thinking?

So basically we were just school friends. We didn't really have good conversations, but we talked and did our work together like classmates. We see eachother like two times outside of the classroom and we do our work togehter.

Then on Friday I asked her out to the movies at which point she said "I'm busy, maybe some other time."

The whole situation feels very surreal because I can't believe I actually said that. Anyways, I didn't bring it up again since then.

So I've seen her working in the library two times and I sat beside her and did some work. On Monday she seemed to be in a far place in the library so I don't know if she wanted me sitting there. It was kind of awkward but we just had more boring conversation. She acted differently though, she didn't make eye contact with me but otherwise acted fine. But today I noticed when I sat beside her that her hair looked better than it usually does and she was wearing maskera for the first time I've seen her. She avoided eye contact with me while we talked but she did glace at my really quickly for a split second.

I still can't believe I altered my reality so much, I honestly can't believe I asked her out.. It's so hard to believe this reality.

Anyways what do you guys think of the way she's acting or dressing? I'm going early to see if she will sit beside me. I'm not sure if she would just be to friends.. I reallly don't know. She could just not want anything to do with me but is being nice. Help? I'm fine with just being friends with her, but I'm just dying to know what she thinks of this. Bringing it up is risky. I feel different about this at different hours so it's really hard to think.

She thinks you're a creeper, but occasionally likes to tease you.

I feel like I've read this before. Anyways she doesn't want to go out with you. She said essentially said no. If she really did want to go out with you then instead of saying "some other time" she would have purposefully made a specific date, like "oh not this friday, how about next". Sorry TC.xTheExploited

She thinks you're a creeper, but occasionally likes to tease you.

Nude_Dude

Yeah, that's what I think too. :(

So basically we were just school friends. We didn't really have good conversations, but we talked and did our work together like classmates. We see eachother like two times outside of the classroom and we do our work togehter.

1.Then on Friday I asked her out to the movies at which point she said "I'm busy, maybe some other time."

The whole situation feels very surreal because I can't believe I actually said that. Anyways, I didn't bring it up again since then.

So I've seen her working in the library two times and I sat beside her and did some work.

2. On Monday she seemed to be in a far place in the library so I don't know if she wanted me sitting there. It was kind of awkward but we just had more boring conversation. She acted differently though, she didn't make eye contact with me but otherwise acted fine.

3. But today I noticed when I sat beside her that her hair looked better than it usually does and she was wearing maskera for the first time I've seen her. She avoided eye contact with me while we talked but she did glace at my really quickly for a split second.

bertainpp7

She did not want to go out on date
She tried to avoid an awkward situation
She got dressed up for someone else

Seems to me like she just wants to be friends. You asking her out probably caugt her off-guard.

Didn't someone post a topic the other day with the exact same thing she said?

She saw the sort of guy she was drawing, realized she needs to step her game up, and decided to try putting in a little more effort with hair and makeup to see if that works.

If she really did want to go out with you then instead of saying "some other time" she would have purposefully made a specific date, like "oh not this friday, how about next". Sorry TC.xTheExploited

Damn. This is really hard to process. This is just to much for me I don't know. Is it okay to just do homework with her or do you think she doesn't want to be with me at all?

She saw the sort of guy she was drawing, realized she needs to step her game up, and decided to try putting in a little more effort with hair and makeup to see if that works.

Oleg_Huzwog

post a picture of u or her so we can see the situation better :D

[QUOTE="Oleg_Huzwog"]

She saw the sort of guy she was drawing, realized she needs to step her game up, and decided to try putting in a little more effort with hair and makeup to see if that works.

bertainpp7

The pain of rejection will eventually pass. What doesn't pass, and sticks with you for years, is a reputation. You're at the classic post-rejection crossroad right now. One path leads to you being slapped with the creeper label (rightfully or not). The other path allows you to keep your dignity.

[QUOTE="bertainpp7"][QUOTE="Oleg_Huzwog"]

She saw the sort of guy she was drawing, realized she needs to step her game up, and decided to try putting in a little more effort with hair and makeup to see if that works.

Oleg_Huzwog

The pain of rejection will eventually pass. What doesn't pass, and sticks with you for years, is a reputation. You're at the classic post-rejection crossroad right now. One path leads to you being slapped with the creeper label (rightfully or not). The other path allows you to keep your dignity.

Hey, have you ever tried asking her?Agent-Zero

she is scared of you man

but take it easy she ll get over it :)

I think that she's into you, TC. (just try and play it more smoothly next time)

Ignore her. Then she might start to pay attention to you.

InEMplease

You're speaking like you just flipped a switch that changed humanity forever. Girls go through stages. They change how they look and it's just part of growing into themselves. Sometimes, girls just like makeup. I don't wear it to impress guys, I wear it because I like it. It likely hasn't got a single thing to do with you. If you still want to be friends with her and can do so without having little mental breakdowns every time you're near her, and can accept that she's not really interested in dating you, show her that. Act like a friend, speak to her as a friend. If you're pressure-free and she still doesn't warm up a bit, leave it. It's obvious then that it's not just a case of trying to let the waters settle.XilePrincess

DUDE!! Do you wear mascara? HOLY ****

[QUOTE="InEMplease"]

Ignore her. Then she might start to pay attention to you.

-Tish-

[QUOTE="bertainpp7"]

So basically we were just school friends. We didn't really have good conversations, but we talked and did our work together like classmates. We see eachother like two times outside of the classroom and we do our work togehter.

1.Then on Friday I asked her out to the movies at which point she said "I'm busy, maybe some other time."

The whole situation feels very surreal because I can't believe I actually said that. Anyways, I didn't bring it up again since then.

So I've seen her working in the library two times and I sat beside her and did some work.

2. On Monday she seemed to be in a far place in the library so I don't know if she wanted me sitting there. It was kind of awkward but we just had more boring conversation. She acted differently though, she didn't make eye contact with me but otherwise acted fine.

3. But today I noticed when I sat beside her that her hair looked better than it usually does and she was wearing maskera for the first time I've seen her. She avoided eye contact with me while we talked but she did glace at my really quickly for a split second.

rawsavon

She did not want to go out on date
She tried to avoid an awkward situation
She got dressed up for someone else

Ignore her. Then she might start to pay attention to you.

She wants space cause she just wants to be "friends" and thats it. She's probably avoiding you to send the message "get away from me".

She avoided eye contact with me while we talked but she did glace at my really quickly for a split second.

bertainpp7

She did not madeeye contact with you, you were most likely looking at her and YOU made eye contact with her and now are thinking she was secretly admiring you

I still can't believe I altered my reality so much, I honestly can't believe I asked her out..bertainpp7

And she said no, I think it doesn't get much cleared than that

She's thinking of sex.

I still can't believe I altered my reality so muchbertainpp7

You could not sound more pretentious than this.

I've been following your threads, and I had hope for you, but sorry bud, she's not into you. First of all, she didn't get dressed up for you. If she was that into you by taking the time to dress up for you, then she would have went on a date or set up a time for a date. I even felt ackward reading your comment about how she didn't make eye contact and sits far away. You are probably making her feel very uncomfortable. I would avoid her, give her some breathing space, but don't be mean to her - you're just not her type.

I've been following your threads, and I had hope for you, but sorry bud, she's not into you. First of all, she didn't get dressed up for you. If she was that into you by taking the time to dress up for you, then she would have went on a date or set up a time for a date. I even felt ackward reading your comment about how she didn't make eye contact and sits far away. You are probably making her feel very uncomfortable. I would avoid her, give her some breathing space, but don't be mean to her - you're just not her type.

Xbot_720

I've been following your threads, and I had hope for you, but sorry bud, she's not into you. First of all, she didn't get dressed up for you. If she was that into you by taking the time to dress up for you, then she would have went on a date or set up a time for a date. I even felt ackward reading your comment about how she didn't make eye contact and sits far away. You are probably making her feel very uncomfortable. I would avoid her, give her some breathing space, but don't be mean to her - you're just not her type.

[QUOTE="XilePrincess"]You're speaking like you just flipped a switch that changed humanity forever. Girls go through stages. They change how they look and it's just part of growing into themselves. Sometimes, girls just like makeup. I don't wear it to impress guys, I wear it because I like it. It likely hasn't got a single thing to do with you. If you still want to be friends with her and can do so without having little mental breakdowns every time you're near her, and can accept that she's not really interested in dating you, show her that. Act like a friend, speak to her as a friend. If you're pressure-free and she still doesn't warm up a bit, leave it. It's obvious then that it's not just a case of trying to let the waters settle.lasseeb

DUDE!! Do you wear mascara? HOLY ****

princess is probably female

I think that she's into you, TC. (just try and play it more smoothly next time)

coolbeans90

Yeah, I was going to say this. I don't usually post in these threads (you people sicken me [sarcasm]), but I feel like there's a huge possibility that's being missed, which is that she's into you but was unimpressed with your attempt. Granted, I'm only going by your interpretation and this is all hypothetical, but if she's still stealing glances at you and getting dressed up then it could just be that she's interested in you and was confused or put off by how casually you approached the situation. Of course, the solution in that case would be to make a bolder attempt, and if I'm wrong that's just going to make things worse. It's the kind of situation where you might benefit from talking to someone she knows about it to see if she likes you or if you are indeed misreading her.

Ask her if shed'd like to see your onix, guaranteed thats a game winner right there mate 8)

There was no clear "no". I'm pretty sure she wants you bro. Here's a protip for you troubled womanizers out there: If they don't say a clear "no" then they want it BAD.swoosh18