What is your stance on...

Well yeah I know there is a thread but my thread is not a response thread to that. Im just taking its title.

So I just watch this vid and people are all disgusted by it saying the father is a monster and all that.

http://www.i-am-bored.com/bored_link.cfm?link_id=83964

What is your stance on ass whoopings?

Im all for it. And I use to get the same type of belt whipping, the same way that father did (against the wall screaming for your life). I dont know why those girls were all screaming like they were dying tho, they had long pants for god's sake. I use to get hit with shorts on, in my undees, even naked while coming out the shower. Plus each one took like 6 licks at most. Thats nothing. 

Im glad the father beat them, wish more parents would beat their stupid kids for doing dumb ass sh*t.

Beating children means they will be damaged as adults.

Beating children means they will be damaged as adults.

DroidPhysX

Im alright.

and pretty much everyone else who was born since the beginning of time and up to the early 1990s turned out alright.

Beating children means they will be damaged as adults.

DroidPhysX

A lot of things that happen to children can damage them 

As long as it doesn't delve into abuse, then there's nothing wrong with it.Children these days are too spoiled, they need a good ass beating.

Just watched the video, the father has my respect. This twerking f*ckry needs to stop and I don't blame him for not condoning it.

I doubt they'll be twerking their asses again.

As long as it doesn't delve into abuse, then there's nothing wrong with it Children these days are too spoiled, they good a good ass beating.

 

Just watched the video, the father has my respect. This twerking f*ckry needs to stop and I don't blame him for not condoning it.

 

I doubt they'll be twerking their asses again.

Shottayouth13-

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As long as it doesn't delve into abuse, then there's nothing wrong with it Children these days are too spoiled, they good a good ass beating.

 

Just watched the video, the father has my respect. This twerking f*ckry needs to stop and I don't blame him for not condoning it.

 

I doubt they'll be twerking their asses again.

WhiteKnight77

those little plastic hotweels race tracks hurt like a b!tch.

i dont think its as acceptable now, than it was back then. people are too sensitive nowadays.

You risk them ending up like me.

The last time I got paddled was in 5th grade and went like this:

Me: (laughing) harder.

Teacher: Oh, you want more? You like it?

Me: Yeah. Sexually.

Never got paddled (at school) again. :(

Also, I wasn't lying. :cool:

There is a difference between discipline and beating. My parents spanked me when I was a kid, and that was for discipline. What the father in that video is doing is beating, and it is awful.harashawn

I had a slipper thrown at my feet a couple times by my mom....

im still mentally scarred to this day

..but yea, dont beat your kids

 people are too sensitive nowadays.

konvikt_17

I'm all for tough love but don't be stupid TC, that was clearly excessive force.PernicioEnigma

[QUOTE="PernicioEnigma"]I'm all for tough love but don't be stupid TC, that was clearly excessive force.Nengo_Flow

[QUOTE="Nengo_Flow"][QUOTE="PernicioEnigma"]I'm all for tough love but don't be stupid TC, that was clearly excessive force.PernicioEnigma

Completely against them. I still remember what it was like when my dad spanked me, all it did was make me afraid of him. Nothing against my dad though, he's an awesome guy.

He didn't beat them that bad. I've seen worse and got worse.MgamerBD

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 people are too sensitive nowadays.

mccoyca112

i admire OP's toughness and mental fortitudeVanHelsingBoA64

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 people are too sensitive nowadays.

chrisrooR

I don't think that was called for and was excessive. These kids are too old for this to be an effective punishment. 

I do think that there is a need for corporal punishment and is a good way to convey the consiquences of actions and prevent bad behavior in children, but you get to an age where you can understand actions to the point where physical punishment is not needed and not effective. 

study after study has shown that kids that are beaten or spanked do worse in life financially, are more likely to develop fetishes/mental disorders, are more prone to violence, ect.

So I'm opposed to it.

also, your dad sounds like a terrible parent.

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Nengo_Flow

Jesus, there are a lot of sociopaths in this thread.  The dad grabs an extension cord, whips the girl until she's crying on the ground, then keeps on whipping her all the while screaming profanities at her and you people are all "she deserves it, needs to stop crying, today's youth are spoiled, etc."  I seriously hope nobody who watches that video and is completely okay with it ever has kids.

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 people are too sensitive nowadays.

chrisrooR

I'm talking in general, and that is indisputable. In theory, or practice, it's subjective. Only thing that isn't subjective is the landslide of support towards time-outs. I've had my share of whippings. I had it worse. My cousin got it even worse than I did. And we both deserved them. I don't say that because I think kids should get what I got. I say that because getting grounded, or getting "the talk" didn't stop me. Whippings did. Most times.

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mccoyca112

I'm talking in general, and that is indisputable. In theory, or practice, it's subjective. Only thing that isn't subjective is the landslide of support towards time-outs. I've had my share of whippings. I had it worse. My cousin got it even worse than I did. And we both deserved them. I don't say that because I think kids should get what I got. I say that because getting grounded, or getting "the talk" didn't stop me. Whippings did. Most times.

States subjective opinion, posits it as indusputable, rofl.

Anecdotal evidence, more rofl.

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mccoyca112

I'm talking in general, and that is indisputable. In theory, or practice, it's subjective. Only thing that isn't subjective is the landslide of support towards time-outs. I've had my share of whippings. I had it worse. My cousin got it even worse than I did. And we both deserved them. I don't say that because I think kids should get what I got. I say that because getting grounded, or getting "the talk" didn't stop me. Whippings did. Most times.

You shouldn't hit your kids for ANY reason. It's only an extremely temporary solution, and you're teaching your children to fear you as a parent. Just because you were whipped as a child does not make it any more acceptable an action for parents to resort to. 

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[QUOTE="chrisrooR"] No, we just know more about neurological and social development in youth. You shouldn't hit your kids for any reason in theory....In practice, I'm sure the temptation is harder to control.

chrisrooR

I'm talking in general, and that is indisputable. In theory, or practice, it's subjective. Only thing that isn't subjective is the landslide of support towards time-outs. I've had my share of whippings. I had it worse. My cousin got it even worse than I did. And we both deserved them. I don't say that because I think kids should get what I got. I say that because getting grounded, or getting "the talk" didn't stop me. Whippings did. Most times.

You shouldn't hit your kids for ANY reason. It's only an extremely temporary solution, and you're teaching your children to fear you as a parent. Just because you were whipped as a child does not make it any more acceptable an action for parents to resort to. 

But your children should fear you. Not fear in a "I'm going to die way", but rather in a respectful "I don't want to cross them way." It makes them know that there's a line that must never be crossed.Shottayouth13-

[QUOTE="Shottayouth13-"]But your children should fear you. Not fear in a "I'm going to die way", but rather in a respectful "I don't want to cross them way." It makes them know that there's a line that must never be crossed.BuryMe

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[QUOTE="Shottayouth13-"]But your children should fear you. Not fear in a "I'm going to die way", but rather in a respectful "I don't want to cross them way." It makes them know that there's a line that must never be crossed.Shottayouth13-

There is a line that you souldn't cross, but it works both ways. What that guy did, and what your cousins apparently got from their parents, was WAY over the line.

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I'm talking in general, and that is indisputable. In theory, or practice, it's subjective. Only thing that isn't subjective is the landslide of support towards time-outs. I've had my share of whippings. I had it worse. My cousin got it even worse than I did. And we both deserved them. I don't say that because I think kids should get what I got. I say that because getting grounded, or getting "the talk" didn't stop me. Whippings did. Most times.

Shottayouth13-

You shouldn't hit your kids for ANY reason. It's only an extremely temporary solution, and you're teaching your children to fear you as a parent. Just because you were whipped as a child does not make it any more acceptable an action for parents to resort to. 

[QUOTE="Shottayouth13-"][QUOTE="BuryMe"]If you do what the guy in that video did, their fear will be the "I'm going to die" way.

BuryMe

There is a line that you souldn't cross, but it works both ways. What that guy did, and what your cousins apparently got from their parents, was WAY over the line.

Corporal punishment definitely isn't something that should be on video ever...

I wouldn't deny my bratty child a good smack or two.

[QUOTE="Shottayouth13-"][QUOTE="chrisrooR"] :roll: How is that indisputable? You wouldn't happen to have any empirically reviewed studies to support that claim, would you?

You shouldn't hit your kids for ANY reason. It's only an extremely temporary solution, and you're teaching your children to fear you as a parent. Just because you were whipped as a child does not make it any more acceptable an action for parents to resort to. 

chrisrooR

Holy hell child aid services should be called. I understand if you use a small stick on their hand or back but that was just sick.