What to do??

Well. lets see here. I'm a Jr. in high-school. I have a girlfriend that is easily one of the top 5 most beautiful girls in our school.

We have been dating about 7 months now and we are both pretty into eachother.

Here's the problem with a bit of a back-story:

Freshman and sophomore years for me weren't really...well let's just say i wasn't the most "desirable" guy for many different reasons. Toward the end of my sophomore year (march-ish) is when i "came out of my shell" so to speak, and acquired the girlfriend that i have now.

Earlier in the year though i was totally shut down by another one of the top 5 most beautiful girls in our school. shut down miserably. Well now it just so happens that this girl totally wants me.

So what should I do? Should I stay faithful and pass this opportunity up or should i just suck it up and go for it? I mean I'm not going to marry my current girlfriend but by no means do I want to break up with her.

Advice?

break up with her and stay single. you're not ready for a relationship.Jester070

I'm gonna have to agree with this.

Stay with the girl you're with, you said yourself that you're really into her and she's really into you, what more do you want you greedy bastard.Bloodaxe726

I don't know if I'll go through with it or not. But it's high school. Come on. Not like she's expecting a ring or anything. And no. She won't find out. AKA_Unreal05

She will find out, because you'll feel guilty, thus the way you act will change, she will begin to suspect, then you will do something that will give you away.

I don't know if I'll go through with it or not. But it's high school. Come on. Not like she's expecting a ring or anything. And no. She won't find out. AKA_Unreal05

Do you even need to ask? Stay with you girlfriend.harashawn

This and DO A BARREL ROLL :P

[QUOTE="Jester070"]break up with her and stay single. you're not ready for a relationship.harashawn

I'm gonna have to agree with this.

Took the words right out of my mouth. The fact that the thought even entered your mind should be enough for you to realize you shouldn't be in a relationship right now.

Stay with your current girlfriend if you enjoy being with her. You've been together for 7 months so you know she'll stick around for a while. the new girl could be a slut and throw you away in a week, leaving you with nothing.Big_player

Well I can have both. My girlfriend won't find out about the other girl. Both the girl and I realize that all it'll be is a one and done thing. She isn't girlfriend material.

I don't know if I'll go through with it or not. But it's high school. Come on. Not like she's expecting a ring or anything. And no. She won't find out. AKA_Unreal05

What the hell does it matter if you're in high school or if she won't find out? I've been with my high school girlfriend for almost 3 years now and I was dead-serious about the whole thing from the start, whatever school grade you're going to shouldn't matter in the slightest.

You say you're really "into her", whatever that actually means and you don't want to break up with her, then is there any REAL reason for not going past high school with her? Does "into her" mean you just want her for her good looks? If that is the case then you can pretty much do whatever you want, it doesn't really matter because it's not a real relationship, I'll just have to say you're incredibly shallow and I agree you're not ready for a relationship yet.

[QUOTE="Big_player"]Stay with your current girlfriend if you enjoy being with her. You've been together for 7 months so you know she'll stick around for a while. the new girl could be a slut and throw you away in a week, leaving you with nothing.AKA_Unreal05

Well I can have both. My girlfriend won't find out about the other girl. Both the girl and I realize that all it'll be is a one and done thing. She isn't girlfriend material.

[QUOTE="harashawn"]Do you even need to ask? Stay with you girlfriend.zlarg32

This and DO A BARREL ROLL :P

yeah, um... doing that was banned on gamespot.

My girlfriend won't find out about the other girl.

AKA_Unreal05

Yes, she probably will.

[QUOTE="Big_player"]Stay with your current girlfriend if you enjoy being with her. You've been together for 7 months so you know she'll stick around for a while. the new girl could be a slut and throw you away in a week, leaving you with nothing.AKA_Unreal05

Well I can have both. My girlfriend won't find out about the other girl. Both the girl and I realize that all it'll be is a one and done thing. She isn't girlfriend material.

[QUOTE="zlarg32"]

[QUOTE="harashawn"]Do you even need to ask? Stay with you girlfriend.Xeros606

This and DO A BARREL ROLL :P

yeah, um... doing that was banned on gamespot.

Oh well I don't care:P

Anyways after reading some more posts in this topic I realised the tc doesn't deserve a girlfriend in the first place:|

Well this is why the choice seems hard.

The way I see it is I have one chance with this one girl and it could be like the greatest night of my highschool life.

Then on the other hand I can pass it up and go through a relationship that will most likely end in a few months or if not inevitably in a year.

Well this is why the choice seems hard.

The way I see it is I have one chance with this one girl and it could be like the greatest night of my highschool life.

Then on the other hand I can pass it up and go through a relationship that will most likely end in a few months or if not inevitably in a year.

AKA_Unreal05

You are a horrible, horrible person.

I'm a horrible person for not passing up a great time in high school but also not wanting to pass up the other great times with my current girlfriend? I'm going to be 1600 miles away anyways by the end of next school year. Not like anything that I do now is gonna matter then

Well this is why the choice seems hard.

The way I see it is I have one chance with this one girl and it could be like the greatest night of my highschool life.

Then on the other hand I can pass it up and go through a relationship that will most likely end in a few months or if not inevitably in a year.

AKA_Unreal05

Well this is why the choice seems hard.

The way I see it is I have one chance with this one girl and it could be like the greatest night of my highschool life.

Then on the other hand I can pass it up and go through a relationship that will most likely end in a few months or if not inevitably in a year.

AKA_Unreal05

You clearly missed my post:

[QUOTE="AKA_Unreal05"]I don't know if I'll go through with it or not. But it's high school. Come on. Not like she's expecting a ring or anything. And no. She won't find out. black_cat19

What the hell does it matter if you're in high school or if she won't find out? I've been with my high school girlfriend for almost 3 years now and I was dead-serious about the whole thing from the start, whatever school grade you're going to shouldn't matter in the slightest.

You say you're really "into her", whatever that actually means and you don't want to break up with her, then is there any REAL reason for not going past high school with her? Does "into her" mean you just want her for her good looks? If that is the case then you can pretty much do whatever you want, it doesn't really matter because it's not a real relationship, I'll just have to say you're incredibly shallow and I agree you're not ready for a relationship yet.

But forget about "if", you ARE extremely shallow and you shouldn't have a girlfriend...

I'm a horrible person for not passing up a great time in high school but also not wanting to pass up the other great times with my current girlfriend? I'm going to be 1600 miles away anyways by the end of next school year. Not like anything that I do now is gonna matter then

AKA_Unreal05

You're a horrible person for betraying the trust of someone that loves you, I can't think of much that's worse you could do to your current girlfriend.

I'm a horrible person for not passing up a great time in high school but also not wanting to pass up the other great times with my current girlfriend? I'm going to be 1600 miles away anyways by the end of next school year. Not like anything that I do now is gonna matter then

AKA_Unreal05

Based on what I've read, I don't think you deserve a girlfriend. She cares about you and you just want to break up with her because you have a small chance with this other girl who already shut you down. Think about other people before yourself.harashawn

You guys aren't understanding. I'm not breaking up with anyone and I'm not gonna date the other girl. It's just a one and done thing. She won't say anything and I know I won't. It doesnt make me like my girlfriend any less. It's just one night. There's nothing to say she hasn't already done the same.

[QUOTE="harashawn"]Based on what I've read, I don't think you deserve a girlfriend. She cares about you and you just want to break up with her because you have a small chance with this other girl who already shut you down. Think about other people before yourself.AKA_Unreal05

You guys aren't understanding. I'm not breaking up with anyone and I'm not gonna date the other girl. It's just a one and done thing. She won't say anything and I know I won't. It doesnt make me like my girlfriend any less. It's just one night. There's nothing to say she hasn't already done the same.

If she's done the same than she is a horrible person for betraying your trust, it's an inexcusable thing to betray trust that another person has given you

[QUOTE="harashawn"]Based on what I've read, I don't think you deserve a girlfriend. She cares about you and you just want to break up with her because you have a small chance with this other girl who already shut you down. Think about other people before yourself.AKA_Unreal05

You guys aren't understanding. I'm not breaking up with anyone and I'm not gonna date the other girl. It's just a one and done thing. She won't say anything and I know I won't. It doesnt make me like my girlfriend any less. It's just one night. There's nothing to say she hasn't already done the same.

Dude seriously........ I really feel like flaming the **** out of you.

[QUOTE="AKA_Unreal05"]

[QUOTE="harashawn"]Based on what I've read, I don't think you deserve a girlfriend. She cares about you and you just want to break up with her because you have a small chance with this other girl who already shut you down. Think about other people before yourself.zlarg32

You guys aren't understanding. I'm not breaking up with anyone and I'm not gonna date the other girl. It's just a one and done thing. She won't say anything and I know I won't. It doesnt make me like my girlfriend any less. It's just one night. There's nothing to say she hasn't already done the same.

Dude seriously........ I really feel like flaming the **** out of you.

Way ahead of you, not good for him that he had to make this thread on a night I'm feeling incredibly lonely and depressed.

[QUOTE="AKA_Unreal05"]

[QUOTE="harashawn"]Based on what I've read, I don't think you deserve a girlfriend. She cares about you and you just want to break up with her because you have a small chance with this other girl who already shut you down. Think about other people before yourself.zlarg32

You guys aren't understanding. I'm not breaking up with anyone and I'm not gonna date the other girl. It's just a one and done thing. She won't say anything and I know I won't. It doesnt make me like my girlfriend any less. It's just one night. There's nothing to say she hasn't already done the same.

Dude seriously........ I really feel like flaming the **** out of you.

Do it.

I would suggest rejecting the other girl while you are standing with your current girlfriend. Why?

1. Never ever ever go out with a girl that previously turned you down. Forget about it. Nothing good comes from that. Why would you want to be with someone who initially told you no? You know whats going to happen? She is going to eventually say no again and dump you. So you come out the loser and you have no hand.

2. Turning down the other hot girl is basically saying "go **** yourself" to that other girl. Not only should this give you a massive ego boost, your girlfriend will like you that much more and make her feel better about herself. You get hand, you get revenge on the girl that previously told you no and you'll probably get something nice from your current girlfriend.

The only way I would go out with the other girl is if you feel like you are pretty much going nowhere with your current girlfriend. In that case, if the new girl is significantly more attractive, then yes go for it. However, shortly after going out with the new girl you must dump her before she does the same thing to you. Of course you are ultimately going to be without a girlfriend by doing this, but at that point you should have no problem finding another, although probably not one of the "top 5" as you put it.

[QUOTE="zlarg32"][QUOTE="AKA_Unreal05"]

[QUOTE="harashawn"]Based on what I've read, I don't think you deserve a girlfriend. She cares about you and you just want to break up with her because you have a small chance with this other girl who already shut you down. Think about other people before yourself.AKA_Unreal05

You guys aren't understanding. I'm not breaking up with anyone and I'm not gonna date the other girl. It's just a one and done thing. She won't say anything and I know I won't. It doesnt make me like my girlfriend any less. It's just one night. There's nothing to say she hasn't already done the same.

Dude seriously........ I really feel like flaming the **** out of you.

Do it.

No point wasting my breath. I really don't understand how people like you can think these type of things, and then fail to see how it's wrong to even think that stuff, let alone actually considering doing it........

Well. My girlfriend will NOT find out about this. Im 100% sure about this.AKA_Unreal05

Should that even matter?

Well. My girlfriend will NOT find out about this. Im 100% sure about this.AKA_Unreal05

No such thing as 100% What if you piss off the chick you are cheating on your girlfriend with and she tells your girlfriend?

[QUOTE="AKA_Unreal05"]Well. My girlfriend will NOT find out about this. Im 100% sure about this.harashawn

Should that even matter?

[QUOTE="harashawn"]

[QUOTE="AKA_Unreal05"]Well. My girlfriend will NOT find out about this. Im 100% sure about this.Notsogr8one

Should that even matter?

I want to spell that out for him SO BAD... ¬_¬'