What to do.. losing all friends?

i always try to be nice and funny to my friends. i never be a dick unless im messing around on the internet. but i had like 7 good friends and now im down to like 1. just a kinda thing were they moved on and met new people but that has not happened to me. i had a best friend i knew since i was 2 years old but now its like we are not even friends. even more recently i had a good friend (he always got into arguements with me about stupid opinions, i should of just never fueled it) i never talk crap behind his back. i think i remember maybe telling someone that he might be way to serious and gets into arguements, but not trying to talk crap. but the dude he deleted me from everything and wont reply back to me. no reason or anything. this ones the worse because im afraid we would bump into each other and it would be WAY AWKWARD.

im not trying to get people to feel bad for me.. but i just dont know what to do. im done school in a year and im starting to get sad about this. im thinking that once i finally get my long awaited of unemployment ill get friends again. even my dad gets all dissapointed that i dont go to parties or anything or hanging out with friends. it has nothing to do with video games.

even at school now i hang out with people that im friendly with but not just FRIENDS. like we would never hang out with out of school. got any ideas? i have a feeling i might get flamed but i can always delete topic

thank you

trust me my dad has even made fun of me before. i remember i was at my friends house and he was telling everyone in the room how i do nothing all day and play video games (which is true now, but do you want me to sit at a blank wall?i just dont think he understands that i dont have many friends anymore. ive also applied to many places but appernatly my dad can get me a job at a popular groccery store chain because hes a boss in the warehouse.

I've lost mine over the years. I'm only social in periods, then I want to be alone and do whatever I want for a couple of weeks. Most people can't respect that. Now I don't even have one. Well, I have maybe 1 or 2 I can talk to once or twice a month, the rest are casual gaming connections which I have no idea who they are really.

The last ones disappeared after.. an incident recently. Lets just say I fought the law and the law won. Now they ignore me which makes no sence since they were doing the same thing basically. Social phobia doesn't help either. And well.. It's hard since you basically have to have some friends to make new ones, unless you're a good looking woman I guess. My tip.. befriend the neighbourhood cats! That's what I did. They're way cooler than people anyway.

It's going to happen eventually. People grow up and have careers and families. You just wont have enough time to spend with friends anymore. Most my friends have moved away or gotten married.

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man up and leave your house, just go to places and do whatever. get drunk in public

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I've never permantly lost a friend, some who I was closer to in the past are more distant now but not totally lost. I guess it's the amount of effort you put in to keep in contact and the amount of group events you attend with them that decides the length of the friendship. If you feel you're loosing them, get them together and just generally do something that you share a common interest in. Akward moments are less likely to occur when in a larger group. It requires a bit of work but it's worth it.

After all, friendship is magic! (Sorry I couldn't resist, just look at my avatar and sig :oops:...)

Quick advice ..Be yourself, speak out. If they are not nice to you, don't be nice to them. If they don't want to hang out with you, then thats fine, don't hang out with them. Screw them, why cry over someone who will not cry over you?

The way I see it, you just have a weak personality and they lead you. No one wants to hang out weak friendly people who can't form an opinion and take a stand.

If you be yourself, you will find friends out there. Just, in the meantime ... live your life.