what would you choose? friends? or the girl you love?

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#1 leafs_ducks
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what would you do when your friend has been dating this girl for 5 years. you and the girl have been hanging out almost everyday for the past year, and have became really close friends. then feelings starts to develop. you like her, and she says she likes you also. then one drunken night, lines have been crossed... and you fall for this girl even more. she says she loves you and you love her also. now this whole situation is really complicated since her bf is a friend of mine. call me a jerk if you will. but i really love this girl. but this is morally wrong. what should i do? keep my friend and forget about this girl? or ....
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#2 deactivated-5901ac91d8e33
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Doesn't the fact that she is unfaithful to her current boyfriend ring a bell...at all?

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If she likes you so much she would dump your friend......
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#4 Alter_Echo
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If you leave the girl she will get mad and ruin it with your friend by telling him.

This leaves you losing the girl and the friend. Left with nothing.

If you keep the girl you at least get the girl.

Conclusion : Keep the girl. Ditch the friend.

And yeah, if she cheated on the other dude she will cheat on you.

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#5 Hinata237
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The girl I love is my best friend.
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#6 Mercedes
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Cmon...you have to know this answer, if the girl that was with your friend is so easily able to say she is in "love" with you then she can damn straight say it to any other guy...do you even trust that. Pick your friend b4 this girl...I am sure your friend has been there longer...and sometimes girls just come and go...is it really worth losing a friend?
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#7 soren008
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i made that mistake with a girl i didnt even love..

true love - then leave those sorry ass monkeys

a crush - stick with your freinds

"What is a friend? A single soul dwelling in two bodies". Aristotle

"Friendship is the finest balm for the pangs of despised love." Jane Austen

you will need your friends to fall back whe she leaves you

trust me:cry:

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#8 MissRiotmaker
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Neither. My life consists of everything and everyone close to me living in harmony.
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#9 Mercedes
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"What is a friend? A single soul dwelling in two bodies". Aristotle

"Friendship is the finest balm for the pangs of despised love." Jane Austen

you will need your friends to fall back whe she leaves you

trust me:cry:

soren008

Yea I full agree with you, were not saying that she will leave you...but it's a possible...it's REALITY...Life is not a FAIRYTALE...

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#10 CIoud_S
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1. You don't love her and she doesn't love you. 2. You dumped your freind the moment you "crossed the line with her" 3. Be a real friend. Tell him what you did and what kind of wortless ***** he's got. Sure he's going to boot you. But at least you did the right thing for him.
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#11 Hinata237
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i made that mistake with a girl i didnt even love..

true love - then leave those sorry ass monkeys

a crush - stick with your freinds

"What is a friend? A single soul dwelling in two bodies". Aristotle

"Friendship is the finest balm for the pangs of despised love." Jane Austen

you will need your friends to fall back whe she leaves you

trust me:cry:

soren008

Yep.

"Life without friendship is like the sky without sun."

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#12 DrCoCoPiMp
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what would you do when your friend has been dating this girl for 5 years. you and the girl have been hanging out almost everyday for the past year, and have became really close friends. then feelings starts to develop. you like her, and she says she likes you also. then one drunken night, lines have been crossed... and you fall for this girl even more. she says she loves you and you love her also. now this whole situation is really complicated since her bf is a friend of mine. call me a jerk if you will. but i really love this girl. but this is morally wrong. what should i do? keep my friend and forget about this girl? or ....leafs_ducks

DUDE, ITS BROS BEFORE HOZ

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#13 DJ-PRIME90
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when you're almost 18 and are still a virgin and have never had a gf...it goes from Bro's before Ho's to Ho's before Bro's.8)

so convince her to dump your friend and then snatch that prize8)
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#14 MissRiotmaker
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[QUOTE="leafs_ducks"]what would you do when your friend has been dating this girl for 5 years. you and the girl have been hanging out almost everyday for the past year, and have became really close friends. then feelings starts to develop. you like her, and she says she likes you also. then one drunken night, lines have been crossed... and you fall for this girl even more. she says she loves you and you love her also. now this whole situation is really complicated since her bf is a friend of mine. call me a jerk if you will. but i really love this girl. but this is morally wrong. what should i do? keep my friend and forget about this girl? or ....DrCoCoPiMp

DUDE, ITS BROS BEFORE HOZ

That concept is very effing weak in my mind. Quit trying to be from the hood, you're failing. :|

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#15 insane956dv
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just have a fling with the girl then you'll know what to do
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#16 EA_1990
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Bros before hos buddy. And you just crossed the line in your friendship man. Either way it goes you're most likely gonna lose a friend.
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#17 SearchBomber
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I'd never be in the situation in the first place. >_>

However, answering hypothetically, I'd probably ditch the girl and take my chances with the friend.

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#18 Mr_Leonis
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[QUOTE="leafs_ducks"]what would you do when your friend has been dating this girl for 5 years. you and the girl have been hanging out almost everyday for the past year, and have became really close friends. then feelings starts to develop. you like her, and she says she likes you also. then one drunken night, lines have been crossed... and you fall for this girl even more. she says she loves you and you love her also. now this whole situation is really complicated since her bf is a friend of mine. call me a jerk if you will. but i really love this girl. but this is morally wrong. what should i do? keep my friend and forget about this girl? or ....DrCoCoPiMp

DUDE, ITS BROS BEFORE HOZ

umm.....no thanks. :|

and to TC, I'd leave it to the girl. If she wants to leave him she will. Wait for her actions.

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#19 deadmeat59
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somthing like that happen to be long story short my heart was broken . But hey its your life walk into the mine field of love but watch your step could be the last one your heart makes.