What would you do in my situation?

I never usually do this, but I thought the internet could help here. I take a class at a college nearby with mostly older women 30+. The one exception is this girl who looks about 20 or so who is one of the cooler girls I have met in a while. Problem is I only have 3 classes left, aka 3 weeks. I don't know her very well but I would like to, and I know I sound like a wuss here but I have never done something like this before, my old high school only had 7 high schoolers so Im kinda new to this.

I never usually do this, but I thought the internet could help here. I take a class at a college nearby with mostly older women 30+. The one exception is this girl who looks about 20 or so who is one of the cooler girls I have met in a while. Problem is I only have 3 classes left, aka 3 weeks. I don't know her very well but I would like to, and I know I sound like a wuss here but I have never done something like this before, my old high school only had 7 high schoolers so Im kinda new to this.

Film-Guy

Maybe this will help you.

lol

Just talk to her before or after class - don't know if there's really any trick to it. What class is it? If you need something to lead into a conversation, discussing a topic from that day's lecture will work (so it's not original, it works). It will be a bit awkward by virtue of it being the first time you've really talked to her despite having an opportunity all semester, but better late than never. Is the class small enough that everyone has set seating arrangements, or can you sneak a spot by her?DJ_Lae

Its a pretty small writing class, only about 10 people there. She usually gets in a couple of minutes late and everyone tends to sit in the same place. The seats aren't assigned but everyone just tends to drift toward a general area. She is also a songwriter and loves music, so that could help since I am into music too.

I thought the internet could help hereFilm-Guy

You´re so wrong it´s funny.

try again; insert new coin

Do you ever expect to see her again?

If so, then stay cool and build up a relationship slowly. She's in your class, so I imagine that you can think up some excuse to at least get contact with her and initiate that contact.

And if you don't expect to ever see her again, then what are you worried about? You can make an ass out of yourself. But it's not like you'll ever see her again, so what do you care?

[QUOTE="Film-Guy"]I thought the internet could help hereBiancaDK

try again; insert new coin

I wish there were such a thing as a "slut machine", but this one will do...

Three weeks is more than enough to get your point across, so don't worry about the time frame.

My advice is start off small, conversations here and there. Later on ask her out, as in a date not

a relationship. Somewhere not too fancy, and not too raunchy. The rest is really up to you, just be

yourself. Stay calm, cool, collective, and most of all make sure she's comfortable around you.

[QUOTE="DJ_Lae"]Just talk to her before or after class - don't know if there's really any trick to it. What class is it? If you need something to lead into a conversation, discussing a topic from that day's lecture will work (so it's not original, it works). It will be a bit awkward by virtue of it being the first time you've really talked to her despite having an opportunity all semester, but better late than never. Is the class small enough that everyone has set seating arrangements, or can you sneak a spot by her?Film-Guy

Its a pretty small writing class, only about 10 people there. She usually gets in a couple of minutes late and everyone tends to sit in the same place. The seats aren't assigned but everyone just tends to drift toward a general area. She is also a songwriter and loves music, so that could help since I am into music too.

Oh jesus. I didn't notice that before.

In that case, you're better off without her. It's one thing to be late twice, but being late CONSTANTLY is a sign of an unreliable person who doesn't give a damn. She might be cool, but you're probably better off without her. Forget about her and find someone else.

[QUOTE="Film-Guy"]

Just talk to her before or after class - don't know if there's really any trick to it. What class is it? If you need something to lead into a conversation, discussing a topic from that day's lecture will work (so it's not original, it works). It will be a bit awkward by virtue of it being the first time you've really talked to her despite having an opportunity all semester, but better late than never. Is the class small enough that everyone has set seating arrangements, or can you sneak a spot by her?DJ_Lae

Its a pretty small writing class, only about 10 people there. She usually gets in a couple of minutes late and everyone tends to sit in the same place. The seats aren't assigned but everyone just tends to drift toward a general area. She is also a songwriter and loves music, so that could help since I am into music too.

Oh jesus. I didn't notice that before.

In that case, you're better off without her. It's one thing to be late twice, but being late CONSTANTLY is a sign of an unreliable person who doesn't give a damn. She might be cool, but you're probably better off without her. Forget about her and find someone else.

Write you number down on a piece of paper walk up to her and say "Call me"Ugalde-

That reminds me of a funny story, a friend of mine did the same thing but he made a mistake. He had just bought a porn magazine and saw her walking past, he panicked when he couldnt find any paper, and tore off a page from the porn mag and wrote on it. He ran up to her and gave her the paper, she stared at it and looked shocked and he noticed he gave he a pic of a girl spreading her butt cheeks. He went red and said look at the other side, and it was his number. Thankfully she laughed and said she would call him sometime.

[QUOTE="MrGeezer"]

[QUOTE="Film-Guy"]

Its a pretty small writing class, only about 10 people there. She usually gets in a couple of minutes late and everyone tends to sit in the same place. The seats aren't assigned but everyone just tends to drift toward a general area. She is also a songwriter and loves music, so that could help since I am into music too.

MJ4040

Oh jesus. I didn't notice that before.

In that case, you're better off without her. It's one thing to be late twice, but being late CONSTANTLY is a sign of an unreliable person who doesn't give a damn. She might be cool, but you're probably better off without her. Forget about her and find someone else.

Its not like she is 30 minutes late. Usually only 5 minutes at most. She has to drive a long way too. I understand what you mean though, its just that my almost total isolation from any social life is starting to get deoressing so I am trying to establish some social links. Most of my friends are either in college far away, dont call me for some reason, or live too far away to be seen very often since i cant drive yet.

Three weeks is more than enough to get your point across, so don't worry about the time frame.

My advice is start off small, conversations here and there. Later on ask her out, as in a date not

a relationship. Somewhere not too fancy, and not too raunchy. The rest is really up to you, just be

yourself. Stay calm, cool, collective, and most of all make sure she's comfortable around you.

Im-not-normal

The only thing I am kinda worried about about is whether she has a boyfriend or not. Its kinda hard to tell unless she says she has one, and I have seen some girls act almost crazy when they have a boyfriend and get asked out by a guy who doesnt know.

What would *I* do? Try to look down her top as often as possible and have no guts to talk to her/ask her out.

[QUOTE="Film-Guy"]I thought the internet could help hereBiancaDK

You´re so wrong it´s funny.

try again; insert new coin

But I thought the holy internet never lies?

[QUOTE="MrGeezer"]

[QUOTE="Film-Guy"]

Its a pretty small writing class, only about 10 people there. She usually gets in a couple of minutes late and everyone tends to sit in the same place. The seats aren't assigned but everyone just tends to drift toward a general area. She is also a songwriter and loves music, so that could help since I am into music too.

MJ4040

Oh jesus. I didn't notice that before.

In that case, you're better off without her. It's one thing to be late twice, but being late CONSTANTLY is a sign of an unreliable person who doesn't give a damn. She might be cool, but you're probably better off without her. Forget about her and find someone else.

[QUOTE="Im-not-normal"]

Three weeks is more than enough to get your point across, so don't worry about the time frame.

My advice is start off small, conversations here and there. Later on ask her out, as in a date not

a relationship. Somewhere not too fancy, and not too raunchy. The rest is really up to you, just be

yourself. Stay calm, cool, collective, and most of all make sure she's comfortable around you.

Film-Guy

The only thing I am kinda worried about about is whether she has a boyfriend or not. Its kinda hard to tell unless she says she has one, and I have seen some girls act almost crazy when they have a boyfriend and get asked out by a guy who doesnt know.

I understand what you mean though, its just that my almost total isolation from any social life is starting to get deoressing so I am trying to establish some social links.

Film-Guy

I understand what you mean. Hell, I used to be the same way. But then I got so socially isolated that it became a habit, and now I don't even think about it any more.

Nothing to sweat about. It might feel bad NOW, but give it a bit more time and you'll be happy just like me.

[QUOTE="BiancaDK"]

[QUOTE="Film-Guy"]I thought the internet could help hereFilm-Guy

You´re so wrong it´s funny.

try again; insert new coin

But I thought the holy internet never lies?

The interwebz is plotting against us I tell you. You'll find out...

[QUOTE="Im-not-normal"]

Three weeks is more than enough to get your point across, so don't worry about the time frame.

My advice is start off small, conversations here and there. Later on ask her out, as in a date not

a relationship. Somewhere not too fancy, and not too raunchy. The rest is really up to you, just be

yourself. Stay calm, cool, collective, and most of all make sure she's comfortable around you.

Film-Guy

The only thing I am kinda worried about about is whether she has a boyfriend or not. Its kinda hard to tell unless she says she has one, and I have seen some girls act almost crazy when they have a boyfriend and get asked out by a guy who doesnt know.

Ask her anyway, no need to make the situation so strenuous. She's only human.

[QUOTE="Im-not-normal"]

Three weeks is more than enough to get your point across, so don't worry about the time frame.

My advice is start off small, conversations here and there. Later on ask her out, as in a date not

a relationship. Somewhere not too fancy, and not too raunchy. The rest is really up to you, just be

yourself. Stay calm, cool, collective, and most of all make sure she's comfortable around you.

Film-Guy

The only thing I am kinda worried about about is whether she has a boyfriend or not. Its kinda hard to tell unless she says she has one, and I have seen some girls act almost crazy when they have a boyfriend and get asked out by a guy who doesnt know.

[QUOTE="BiancaDK"]

I thought the internet could help hereFilm-Guy

You´re so wrong it´s funny.

try again; insert new coin

But I thought the holy internet never lies?

I never usually do this, but I thought the internet could help here. I take a class at a college nearby with mostly older women 30+. The one exception is this girl who looks about 20 or so who is one of the cooler girls I have met in a while. Problem is I only have 3 classes left, aka 3 weeks. I don't know her very well but I would like to, and I know I sound like a wuss here but I have never done something like this before, my old high school only had 7 high schoolers so Im kinda new to this.

Film-Guy

Dude, its easy. Trust me i've been in your shoes. I went for it and thats how im with my current girlfriend. How often do you talk to her? First, this is very important, be confident....yea i know easier said then done and cheesy but hey it really helps. Just ask if she would like to HANG OUT with you pure and simple. i dont know where you live so i dont know what you can do for fun. Dont go to the theaters because you wont communicate much with her there. Dont feel bad if she declines. Do you really want to go thinking for a very long time, WHAT IF? Dont, it sucks. Go for it, you wont die if she turns you down.

[QUOTE="BiancaDK"]

[QUOTE="Film-Guy"]I thought the internet could help hereFilm-Guy

You´re so wrong it´s funny.

try again; insert new coin

But I thought the holy internet never lies?

[QUOTE="BiancaDK"]

You´re so wrong it´s funny.

try again; insert new coin

But I thought the holy internet never lies?

... Just ask for her number, dude. It´s really that simple. :3BiancaDK

But that's boring....

Chasing her down the hallways, refreshing her facebook (or other interwebs accounts) to check her status, pretend to be someone else on IM. He's gonna miss out on all the fun =\

You speak blasphemy!_en1gma_

But that's boring....Dystopian-X

[QUOTE="_en1gma_"]You speak blasphemy!BiancaDK

But that's boring....Dystopian-X

Makes me question if there's ever been a guy help thread.

[QUOTE="BiancaDK"][QUOTE="_en1gma_"] my bad D: i hereby officially retract my absurd postulation D::: [QUOTE="Dystopian-X"]But that's boring....Im-not-normal

Makes me question if there's ever been a guy help thread.

Probably not. :?

[QUOTE="Im-not-normal"]

[QUOTE="BiancaDK"] so are girl help threads D::: *hides*izmickey

Makes me question if there's ever been a guy help thread.

Probably not. :?

[QUOTE="Film-Guy"]I understand what you mean though, its just that my almost total isolation from any social life is starting to get deoressing so I am trying to establish some social links.

MrGeezer

I understand what you mean. Hell, I used to be the same way. But then I got so socially isolated that it became a habit, and now I don't even think about it any more.

Nothing to sweat about. It might feel bad NOW, but give it a bit more time and you'll be happy just like me.

Its funny all my friends are the type who go to raves and such and love big crowds. I am fine with those things and I guess I would try them, but after a while I almost narrow down the people I know to those who are actually interesting and dont want to constantly party. Plus I like to spend time by myself working on my writing, I cant write if I am at a party. Well I'm sure I could try but i probably wouldn't go well.

[QUOTE="MrGeezer"]

[QUOTE="Film-Guy"]I understand what you mean though, its just that my almost total isolation from any social life is starting to get deoressing so I am trying to establish some social links.

Film-Guy

I understand what you mean. Hell, I used to be the same way. But then I got so socially isolated that it became a habit, and now I don't even think about it any more.

Nothing to sweat about. It might feel bad NOW, but give it a bit more time and you'll be happy just like me.

Its funny all my friends are the type who go to raves and such and love big crowds. I am fine with those things and I guess I would try them, but after a while I almost narrow down the people I know to those who are actually interesting and dont want to constantly party. Plus I like to spend time by myself working on my writing, I cant write if I am at a party. Well I'm sure I could try but i probably wouldn't go well.

Dude just try it, remember you dont want to ask yourself WHAT IF? Let out the inner beast.

[QUOTE="izmickey"]

[QUOTE="Im-not-normal"]

Makes me question if there's ever been a guy help thread.

DigitalExile

Probably not. :?

Really? When was this?

Really? When was this?

izmickey

[QUOTE="izmickey"]

Really? When was this?

DigitalExile

I remember one a while ago, someone asked about why guys act like this or something like that. But how do you know its a girl asking the question:P

[QUOTE="DigitalExile"]

[QUOTE="izmickey"]

Really? When was this?

Film-Guy

I remember one a while ago, someone asked about why guys act like this or something like that. But how do you know its a girl asking the question:P

Lol, indeed. That is the question.

Try to lure her with honey and gum.dave123321

I think you are thinking of how to seduce a bear. But I couldn't bear to do that:P

[QUOTE="dave123321"]Try to lure her with honey and gum.Film-Guy

I think you are thinking of how to seduce a bear. But I couldn't bear to do that:P

Well I am pleasantly surprised. The internet prevails again, I will try out these suggestions and if something goes horribly wrong then I will tell her I got the idea from Gamespot OT:P

Well I am pleasantly surprised. The internet prevails again, I will try out these suggestions and if something goes horribly wrong then I will tell her I got the idea from Gamespot OT:P

Film-Guy

Whoa whoa whoa!! That wasn't part of the deal, johnny. *grabs bat*

[QUOTE="Film-Guy"]

Well I am pleasantly surprised. The internet prevails again, I will try out these suggestions and if something goes horribly wrong then I will tell her I got the idea from Gamespot OT:P

Im-not-normal

Whoa whoa whoa!! That wasn't part of the deal, johnny. *grabs bat*

What kind of bat species? Fruit bat? Vampire bat? Batman?

[QUOTE="Im-not-normal"]

[QUOTE="Film-Guy"]

Well I am pleasantly surprised. The internet prevails again, I will try out these suggestions and if something goes horribly wrong then I will tell her I got the idea from Gamespot OT:P

Film-Guy

Whoa whoa whoa!! That wasn't part of the deal, johnny. *grabs bat*

What kind of bat species? Fruit bat? Vampire bat? Batman?

Preferably, this one.

[QUOTE="Film-Guy"]

[QUOTE="Im-not-normal"]

Whoa whoa whoa!! That wasn't part of the deal, johnny. *grabs bat*

Im-not-normal

What kind of bat species? Fruit bat? Vampire bat? Batman?

Preferably, this one.

That is a batter idea than mine:P