What's going on and what should I do???

The other day I was having an AIM conversation with a girl I am close friends with. It started off as a normal conversation, and was going on rather peacefully with nothing out of the ordinary: The two of us making jokes and rather sarcastic remarks at each other like we normally always do, and laughing and generally being nice to each other. So everything was going great until she suddenly stopped talking, I started asking her if she was there but she didn't respond. So for an hour or so, I started sending her random messages to see if she was there, but she just wouldn't respond, so I gave up after a few minutes. Finally, after an hour or so of silence, she said "I really can't talk right now." Then I said "Why, what's wrong?" and then she said "Seriously, I can't talk right now." She then signed off, and I haven't spoken to her since. I'm really worried about what may be going on, but my biggest regret is not asking her if everything was all right. This regret has really depressed me since then, because I just really want her to know that I care about her right now and however she is doing.

So I would just like to know, what do you think is going on with her, and what should I do?

The other day I was having an AIM conversation with a girl I am close friends with. It started off as a normal conversation, and was going on just fine with nothing out of the ordinary: The two of us making jokes and rather sarcastic remarks at each other like we normally always do, and generally being nice to each other. So everything was going great until she suddenly stopped talking, I started asking her if she was there but she didn't respond. So for an hour or so, I started sending her random messages to see if she was there, but she just wouldn't respond, so I gave up after a few minutes. Finally, after an hour or so of silence, she said "I really can't talk right now." Then I said "Why, what's wrong?" and then she said "Seriously, I can't talk right now." She then signed off, and I haven't spoken to her since. I'm really worried about what may be going on, but my biggest regret is not asking her if everything was all right. This regret has really depressed me since then, because I just really want her to know that I care about her right now and however she is doing.

So I would just like to know, what do you think is going on with her, and what should I do?

Tigerman950

Who knows, it sounds like it could have been anything. Have you tried texting/calling her?

Sometimes things happen that prevent people from responding. I guarantee you nothing bad happened. Something came up and she had to leave. I wouldn't worry.Maniacc1

Yes but she has signed on every night before that, but tonight she didn't. That's what worries me even more.

[QUOTE="Maniacc1"]Sometimes things happen that prevent people from responding. I guarantee you nothing bad happened. Something came up and she had to leave. I wouldn't worry.Tigerman950

Yes but she has signed on every night before that, but tonight she didn't. That's what worries me even more.

I hate to say it but she might of had a family tragedy, accident maybe. Or it might not have been something so serious, maybe she dropped something big and made a huge mess. I don't know, hope she's okay though.ThunderChunkier

This ^, I've had to do that before in the past when things have come up. Keep yourself logged in and your phone on, she'll probably contact you soon and let you know what's up, in the meantime I wouldn't stress much.

No one here will know. Obviously something is up and she'll tell you when she's ready.

Well I just sent her a text message, asking if everything's all right.

Do you think that was a good idea?

Well I just sent her a text message, asking if everything's all right.

Do you think that was a good idea?

Tigerman950