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#1 Space_Cowboy7
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Im talking to a couple of females who are really scared to tell their mothers that they lost there virginity. I have know idea why, i mean if you lost your virginity at 17, wouldnt not telling them and being dishonest hurt them even more then telling them when they're 26 or something? When is a good time to break that to them? They usually give me the answer, "i'll do it when im ready'. Thoughts? Any mothers or even fathers that have daughters out there?
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When your married. :?
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Its not really thier parents business anyway, so honestly, I don't think they should feel obligated to say anything.
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#4 GeForce2187
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Thats not really any of thier buisness.
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#5 LJS9502_basic
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Why do they have to tell their mom anything?

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#6 WildLIkeChild
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When they're pregnant.
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Two words. Death bed.
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#8 MeanQuestion
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I don't think that's really any of their parent's business. That's personal. Honestly, I can't even understand why they would feel compelled to report something like that to their parents.
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#9 Bryn5774
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Usually by the time women start having sex, they're old enough to make the decision on their own. In that case, it isn't their parent's business.
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#11 xboxdudeman800
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Why would they tell their mom?
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Once you're married with 5 kids.
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#13 smallcaplegend
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never.....
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Thats not really any of thier buisness.GeForce2187

Exactly, none of their business.

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#15 DSgamer64
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Its not really thier parents business anyway, so honestly, I don't think they should feel obligated to say anything.ProudLarry

It is if they are under age and did not get consent from their parents in the first place. Here in Canada the legal age with consent is 14, however 18 without consent or something like that. So if you go out and have sex with your girlfriend under the age of 18 without permission, then you could go to jail for rape (actually if you are over 18 and the girl happens to be under 18 then you would)

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#16 colonicjas2
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When you're pregnant?
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[QUOTE="ProudLarry"]Its not really thier parents business anyway, so honestly, I don't think they should feel obligated to say anything.DSgamer64

It is if they are under age and did not get consent from their parents in the first place. Here in Canada the legal age with consent is 14, however 18 without consent or something like that. So if you go out and have sex with your girlfriend under the age of 18 without permission, then you could go to jail for rape (actually if you are over 18 and the girl happens to be under 18 then you would)

were not talking about statutory rape. Let's assume both individuals were underage. And since when do you need a parent's permission to have sex...?

As for me, I've yet to tell my parents and I intend to keep it that way. They really don't need to know... It's not like I want to know when the last time they bumped uglies was >_>

Edit: And my sig is finally back XD

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#18 zero9167
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why dont you break it to them
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#19 Girl-Gamer777
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Hah! Never! I would never tell my mom that. All my family would do is most likely make jokes about me , and they wouldn't Believe it. Even though I also won't be 17 when i ...would...you know.

dang , that would be almost 3 years from now if i were to do that.

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#20 Serial-No_3404
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let them find out on their own
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#21 Bill900
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Its really none of the parents business anyway, I mean I don't go up to my parents and report everything that happens with my body.
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Its really none of the parents business anyway, I mean I don't go up to my parents and report everything that happens with my body.Bill900

"Mom, just lettin' you know: I masturbated earlier. It was pretty sweet... So what's for dinner?"

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#23 quiglythegreat
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Well. It's just not necessary to tell them. My parents kind of go on a 'don't ask, don't tell' policy with me.
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#24 Bill900
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[QUOTE="Bill900"]Its really none of the parents business anyway, I mean I don't go up to my parents and report everything that happens with my body.guitargoddess17

"Mom, just lettin' you know: I masturbated earlier. It was pretty sweet... So what's for dinner?"

:lol: epic win!

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#25 Aznsilvrboy
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Why would you tell that to anyone in the first place...
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[QUOTE="DSgamer64"]

[QUOTE="ProudLarry"]Its not really thier parents business anyway, so honestly, I don't think they should feel obligated to say anything.guitargoddess17

It is if they are under age and did not get consent from their parents in the first place. Here in Canada the legal age with consent is 14, however 18 without consent or something like that. So if you go out and have sex with your girlfriend under the age of 18 without permission, then you could go to jail for rape (actually if you are over 18 and the girl happens to be under 18 then you would)

were not talking about statutory rape. Let's assume both individuals were underage. And since when do you need a parent's permission to have sex...?

As for me, I've yet to tell my parents and I intend to keep it that way. They really don't need to know... It's not like I want to know when the last time they bumped uglies was >_>

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Haha yeah I guess so. Depends on the laws though, I think you need permission if one is older then the other (as in above the age of non consent which is generally 18 ). And yeah, my parents do not even know how many girls I was with while I was at college, nor do they need to know. I just don't have a girl friend, not that it matters cause right now for me one nighters are just fine.

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It is if they are under age and did not get consent from their parents in the first place. Here in Canada the legal age with consent is 14, however 18 without consent or something like that. So if you go out and have sex with your girlfriend under the age of 18 without permission, then you could go to jail for rape (actually if you are over 18 and the girl happens to be under 18 then you would)DSgamer64
I probably know that law better than you do, to be honest. There's no such thing as parental consent to have sex. It's 14 years of age right across the board. The House of Commons will soon pass a bill to raise the age to 16, but with a 5-year window for minors, IIRC. So under the upcoming law, if a 13 year old has sex with a 17 year old, it's fine, but anything above 5 years is illegal. Correct me if i'm wrong, but i believe that's right.
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#28 jacintos09
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hah me and my mom are NOT gonna have that conversation
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You tell your mom after you get married and get pregnant lol.
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[QUOTE="DSgamer64"]It is if they are under age and did not get consent from their parents in the first place. Here in Canada the legal age with consent is 14, however 18 without consent or something like that. So if you go out and have sex with your girlfriend under the age of 18 without permission, then you could go to jail for rape (actually if you are over 18 and the girl happens to be under 18 then you would)bluezy
I probably know that law better than you do, to be honest. There's no such thing as parental consent to have sex. It's 14 years of age right across the board. The House of Commons will soon pass a bill to raise the age to 16, but with a 5-year window for minors, IIRC. So under the upcoming law, if a 13 year old has sex with a 17 year old, it's fine, but anything above 5 years is illegal. Correct me if i'm wrong, but i believe that's right.

Hmm, you may be correct. I heard that the Conservatives were planning on raising the age, but I was unaware that they were putting the bill through the House, it was quite a while ago that they announced the plan though.

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[QUOTE="Bill900"]Its really none of the parents business anyway, I mean I don't go up to my parents and report everything that happens with my body.guitargoddess17

"Mom, just lettin' you know: I masturbated earlier. It was pretty sweet... So what's for dinner?"

D=

but also =D

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#32 bluezy
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[QUOTE="bluezy"][QUOTE="DSgamer64"]It is if they are under age and did not get consent from their parents in the first place. Here in Canada the legal age with consent is 14, however 18 without consent or something like that. So if you go out and have sex with your girlfriend under the age of 18 without permission, then you could go to jail for rape (actually if you are over 18 and the girl happens to be under 18 then you would)DSgamer64
I probably know that law better than you do, to be honest. There's no such thing as parental consent to have sex. It's 14 years of age right across the board. The House of Commons will soon pass a bill to raise the age to 16, but with a 5-year window for minors, IIRC. So under the upcoming law, if a 13 year old has sex with a 17 year old, it's fine, but anything above 5 years is illegal. Correct me if i'm wrong, but i believe that's right.

Hmm, you may be correct. I heard that the Conservatives were planning on raising the age, but I was unaware that they were putting the bill through the House, it was quite a while ago that they announced the plan though.

Well does it not go through the House first?:PI'm not sure abou the status of said bill, but it's a-comin'. I'd imagine a "grandfather rule" (nobody look too much into that... pervs) would be in effect for those already 14 and 15 as of the eventual signing of the bill, though.
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Didn't realize you had to announce such things to your family.
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#34 wemhim
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That's kind of the two people who had sex business.
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#35 deactivated-5a155dd59341e
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I don't see why they should need to.
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But what if it is interferring with the relationship of the two people cuz the mother is babying her? Is it good to tell her then? I know their are pros and cons....
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#37 Grouch0de
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If they feel they have to share their sex life with their parents, they should tell them as soon as possible. As long as they're being safe, I don't see any problem with not telling anyone about it.
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[QUOTE="DSgamer64"]

[QUOTE="ProudLarry"]Its not really thier parents business anyway, so honestly, I don't think they should feel obligated to say anything.guitargoddess17

It is if they are under age and did not get consent from their parents in the first place. Here in Canada the legal age with consent is 14, however 18 without consent or something like that. So if you go out and have sex with your girlfriend under the age of 18 without permission, then you could go to jail for rape (actually if you are over 18 and the girl happens to be under 18 then you would)

were not talking about statutory rape. Let's assume both individuals were underage. And since when do you need a parent's permission to have sex...?

As for me, I've yet to tell my parents and I intend to keep it that way. They really don't need to know... It's not like I want to know when the last time they bumped uglies was >_>

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Legally, minors aren't allowed to have sex.
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Im talking to a couple of females who are really scared to tell their mothers that they lost there virginity. I have know idea why, i mean if you lost your virginity at 17, wouldnt not telling them and being dishonest hurt them even more then telling them when they're 26 or something? When is a good time to break that to them? They usually give me the answer, "i'll do it when im ready'. Thoughts? Any mothers or even fathers that have daughters out there?Space_Cowboy7

Haha, well how can their parents be hurt? i mean, there are some things you cant really tell your parents, and hell, they should understand why they wouldnt tell them. you dont have to tell your parents everything...
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Psssht, I'm still trying to figure out how to tell the family I'm pregnant, but when I manage that...I'll let you know
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But what if it is interferring with the relationship of the two people cuz the mother is babying her? Is it good to tell her then? I know their are pros and cons....Space_Cowboy7

haha, thatd be agreat way to end an argument. shes like "Youre suffocating me mom" and the moms like "im just trying to protect you" "IM NOT A VIRGIN"
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Two words. Death bed.SaugaGames

Two words : exactly

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Psssht, I'm still trying to figure out how to tell the family I'm pregnant, but when I manage that...I'll let you know_Marisa_

Say it, and then really quickly follow it up with something much more shocking and out of your control.

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When your married. :?Hellraiser3899

qft
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[QUOTE="_Marisa_"]Psssht, I'm still trying to figure out how to tell the family I'm pregnant, but when I manage that...I'll let you knowguitargoddess17

Say it, and then really quickly follow it up with something much more shocking and out of your control.



:lol: Sounds like a plan ^_^
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[QUOTE="_Marisa_"]Psssht, I'm still trying to figure out how to tell the family I'm pregnant, but when I manage that...I'll let you knowguitargoddess17

Say it, and then really quickly follow it up wit"h something much more shocking and out of your control.

"...and it was him! :o" *points to grandfather*

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[QUOTE="_Marisa_"]Psssht, I'm still trying to figure out how to tell the family I'm pregnant, but when I manage that...I'll let you knowCleverResponse

****

Oh snap.
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#49 schoeffmaster
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When they had sex. Seriously though, its more of a personal matter.
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Marisa needs to come back to the chat and gives us the ****ing nudes she gave Fate_***line.