And you plan to tell her you like her.. Is it normal to you feel like you could never be interested in anyone else? Do you feel like it's destiny in a sense? Or is it just me that feels this way? I don't know, I can't control the way I feel. I missed out on telling her I like her on Friday and after that I had never felt so depressed in my entire life. Is it normal to feel this strongly?
Aww, I thought maybe it was meant to be or something. I guess I was stupid to think like that. The thing is I'm not even interested in anything sexual anymore, not even with her, nor am I interested in anything I used to like. I feel so bad right now emotionally...
Ok then.. I guess there is no destiny.. just a bunch of normalness. She probably doesn't like me the same way. I'm going to tell her anyways, if I don't I'll go insane. I'm not even going to ask her out, just tell her the way I feel and see how she reacts and leave it at that.
[QUOTE="SolidSnake35"]I would say it's normal.bertainpp7
Aww, I thought maybe it was meant to be or something. I guess I was stupid to think like that. The thing is I'm not even interested in anything sexual anymore, not even with her, nor am I interested in anything I used to like. I feel so bad right now emotionally... I'm sure you do like her a lot. I mean it's normal insofar as I've felt that way before too. But it doesn't mean she's not special to you, though... so go for it. Don't miss another chance.
And you plan to tell her you like her.. Is it normal to you feel like you could never be interested in anyone else? Do you feel like it's destiny in a sense? Or is it just me that feels this way? I don't know, I can't control the way I feel. I missed out on telling her I like her on Friday and after that I had never felt so depressed in my entire life. Is it normal to feel this strongly?bertainpp7
[QUOTE="bertainpp7"][QUOTE="SolidSnake35"]I would say it's normal.SolidSnake35
Aww, I thought maybe it was meant to be or something. I guess I was stupid to think like that. The thing is I'm not even interested in anything sexual anymore, not even with her, nor am I interested in anything I used to like. I feel so bad right now emotionally... I'm sure you do like her a lot. I mean it's normal insofar as I've felt that way before too. But it doesn't mean she's not special to you, though... so go for it. Don't miss another chance.The chance I missed seemed perfect, what I was going to do... Anyways, it is weird that you tell someone you like them but not ask them out? I want to ask her out, but I just don't think she's interested. I'm just going to say "hey want to know something? I like you a lot. I know you probably don't feel the same way but i just needed to tell you." and see where it goes from there, is that seem acceptable?
[QUOTE="SolidSnake35"]I would say it's normal.bertainpp7
Aww, I thought maybe it was meant to be or something. I guess I was stupid to think like that. The thing is I'm not even interested in anything sexual anymore, not even with her, nor am I interested in anything I used to like. I feel so bad right now emotionally...
[QUOTE="bertainpp7"]And you plan to tell her you like her.. Is it normal to you feel like you could never be interested in anyone else? Do you feel like it's destiny in a sense? Or is it just me that feels this way? I don't know, I can't control the way I feel. I missed out on telling her I like her on Friday and after that I had never felt so depressed in my entire life. Is it normal to feel this strongly?Thessassin
you'll eventually grow out of it, don't worryI figured that I would eventually, even though it really doesn't feel like it.
[QUOTE="SolidSnake35"][QUOTE="bertainpp7"]Aww, I thought maybe it was meant to be or something. I guess I was stupid to think like that. The thing is I'm not even interested in anything sexual anymore, not even with her, nor am I interested in anything I used to like. I feel so bad right now emotionally...bertainpp7
I'm sure you do like her a lot. I mean it's normal insofar as I've felt that way before too. But it doesn't mean she's not special to you, though... so go for it. Don't miss another chance.The chance I missed seemed perfect, what I was going to do... Anyways, it is weird that you tell someone you like them but not ask them out? I want to ask her out, but I just don't think she's interested. I'm just going to say "hey want to know something? I like you a lot. I know you probably don't feel the same way but i just needed to tell you." and see where it goes from there, is that seem acceptable? Sounds fine to me. Leave out the "... but you probably don't like me" part, though. Just tell her you like her and wanted to tell her. See what she says.
[QUOTE="SolidSnake35"][QUOTE="bertainpp7"][QUOTE="SolidSnake35"] I'm sure you do like her a lot. I mean it's normal insofar as I've felt that way before too. But it doesn't mean she's not special to you, though... so go for it. Don't miss another chance.The chance I missed seemed perfect, what I was going to do... Anyways, it is weird that you tell someone you like them but not ask them out? I want to ask her out, but I just don't think she's interested. I'm just going to say "hey want to know something? I like you a lot. I know you probably don't feel the same way but i just needed to tell you." and see where it goes from there, is that seem acceptable? Sounds fine to me. Leave out the "... but you probably don't like me" part, though. Just tell her you like her and wanted to tell her. See what she says.Cool, thanks for your input.
Ok then.. I guess there is no destiny.. just a bunch of normalness. She probably doesn't like me the same way. I'm going to tell her anyways, if I don't I'll go insane. I'm not even going to ask her out, just tell her the way I feel and see how she reacts and leave it at that.bertainpp7
Don't sell yourself short. You seem to think it's a crimethat you like her. Don't treat it that way. It's a blessingthat you like her; she should be glad you like her. So ask her out. Trust me you will feel so much better afterward because you will be proud of yourself.
Ok then.. I guess there is no destiny.. just a bunch of normalness. She probably doesn't like me the same way. I'm going to tell her anyways, if I don't I'll go insane. I'm not even going to ask her out, just tell her the way I feel and see how she reacts and leave it at that.bertainpp7
Don't question destiny. And do ask her as soon as possible. If you don't you will regret it for a long time. Not saying you are supposed to be together for ever but trust that you would rather be denied than hang on for the what if for years.
It happens. During the time I really liked this girl and nothing in the world seemed to matter as long as I could go out with her. However now after I have thought clearly about it, it's all an illusion. You'll get over it and it's normal.
Yeah it's normal, and it sucks. Make sure you tell her how you feel, because if you don't it'll be 100x harder to get over her if she's not interested.
yea man i feel u, i had a similar problem and it didnt work out, she wasnt interested. but yea dude tell her how you feel and then tell us what happened :)
I felt this way once. It was last year when I first fell in love. I couldn't think about anything else,she was all I wanted,all of my thought. As we spent more time this feeling became less for me but now she tells me that she really loves me!
Wow, thanks for all your responses guys. The thing is, I don't know of place to tell her this. We ride on the same bus and talk at the bus stop, so what? I tell her at the bus stop and then endure awkward silence if it doesn't work? On Friday I was so close... so close to just saying I like you inside the packed bus. Then when she got out I was going to get out of the bus just to tell her. We didn't talk a lot because I was constantly thinking ways to tell her and I couldn't hold a conversation. The weird part is, both of us didn't say bye. I didn't say bye because it was an intensive decision making moment and I wasn't thinking clearly, I don't know why she didn't. Maybe she isn't interested. I'm not confident or anything other than ordinary in our conversations.... I'm also thinking about the repercussions of telling her, like what other people in the school will think or if will become a well known thing because I hate that sort of stuff. I've never done anything like this.
And you plan to tell her you like her.. Is it normal to you feel like you could never be interested in anyone else? Do you feel like it's destiny in a sense? Or is it just me that feels this way? I don't know, I can't control the way I feel. I missed out on telling her I like her on Friday and after that I had never felt so depressed in my entire life. Is it normal to feel this strongly?bertainpp7
That's pretty much what being in love is about. I've had that feeling with multiple girls now, and even though you know it's gonna fade away eventually, you still fall for it every time. It's just a dirty little trick of the mind. I know from experience this is not gonna help much, but you'll get over it.
Guys guys, I found out she's never had a boyfriend before. That could be either really good or really bad lol, but it gives me some hope. Before I ask her I feel as though I need to make her laugh or have a good convo or something like that. I don't know when I'm going to ask her out!
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