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#1 imaps3fanboy
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After reading about that 7 year old that raped, and hearing about literaly babies being raped in Africa (and some other things Im not going to state) I'm starting to feel depressed. My faith is now gone, and I'm having a hard time understanding things at the moment.

Just think about it. Right now there are probably so many bad things going on right now and theres basically nothing we can do about. It is a sickening feeling.

What is your perspective at the moment?

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#2 McJugga
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I love everyone.
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#3 mindstorm
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It needs Jesus. I'm not saying this to start a religious debate, I'm just giving my honest answer.
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#4 coolkid93
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It needs Jesus. I'm not saying this to start a religious debate, I'm just giving my honest answer.mindstorm
I'm with you on that one.
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#5 imaps3fanboy
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It needs Jesus. I'm not saying this to start a religious debate, I'm just giving my honest answer.mindstorm
Sorry, but I can't right now.

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#6 McJugga
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[QUOTE="imaps3fanboy"][QUOTE="mindstorm"]It needs Jesus. I'm not saying this to start a religious debate, I'm just giving my honest answer.

Sorry I dont want to believe in a God that lets babies and young children get raped

Congratulations. You've just hijacked your own thread.
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#7 DJ-Lafleur
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Some people are fine, some are messed up. Some people are cool, some are D-bags.

That's pretty much it.

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#8 imaps3fanboy
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[QUOTE="McJugga"][QUOTE="imaps3fanboy"][QUOTE="mindstorm"]It needs Jesus. I'm not saying this to start a religious debate, I'm just giving my honest answer.

Sorry I dont want to believe in a God that lets babies and young children get raped

Congratulations. You've just hijacked your own thread.

Yea, I probly shouldnt of said that.
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#9 mindstorm
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[QUOTE="mindstorm"]It needs Jesus. I'm not saying this to start a religious debate, I'm just giving my honest answer.imaps3fanboy
Sorry I dont want to believe in a God that lets babies and young children get raped

It's humanity doing the raping, not God. Also, he's not going to let crap like this happen forever. :wink:
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#10 Jaks_Publicity
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I hate everyone. Not because they rape children or the Holocaust or anything, I just don't like people.
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#11 Dylan_11
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[QUOTE="imaps3fanboy"][QUOTE="mindstorm"]It needs Jesus. I'm not saying this to start a religious debate, I'm just giving my honest answer.

Sorry I dont want to believe in a God that lets babies and young children get raped

He said he didn't want to start a debate. Cut him some slack. As for the OP I think there are about as many good things that happen everyday as the bad. The news just doesn't like to report the good things.
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#12 VENOM192
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Ugly. But there are people who aren't bad at all.

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#13 VENOM192
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It needs Jesus. I'm not saying this to start a religious debate, I'm just giving my honest answer.mindstorm
I agree 100%.

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#14 deactivated-6016e81e8e30f
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I hate everyone. Not because they rape children or the Holocaust or anything, I just don't like people.Jaks_Publicity
Though that probably doesn't help, right?
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#15 XD4NTESINF3RNOX
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My faith in humanity is still in the negatives
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#16 6_volts
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Some horrible things happen everyday in this world, but also some great things happen, so saying that I've lost my faith in humanity just because of some bad things happening seems a little extreme.
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#17 ATLBIinger
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We are going to hell in a handbasket.

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#18 8-Bitterness
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i think people are awesome, but theres also **** tons of really useless pathetic human beings =/ waaaaaay too many, and i dont only mean like killers or rapists or criminals, i mean liars, cowards, etcetera. but yeah, humanity is awesome
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#19 CRS98
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Optimistic if technology grows exponentially, pessimistic if things barely change. Otherwise, I wouldn't mind a mass genocide of homicidal rapists.
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#20 Jaks_Publicity
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[QUOTE="Jaks_Publicity"]I hate everyone. Not because they rape children or the Holocaust or anything, I just don't like people.SeraphimGoddess
Though that probably doesn't help, right?

I've never been raped, and I haven't been subjected to internment. I only hate people for what I experience, and most of the people I've ever encountered in my life I have strongly disliked.
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#21 Bluestorm-Kalas
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After reading about that 7 year old that raped, and hearing about literaly babies being raped in Africa (and some other things Im not going to state) I'm starting to feel depressed. My faith is now gone, and I'm having a hard time understanding things at the moment.

Just think about it. Right now there are probably so many bad things going on right now and theres basically nothing we can do about. It is a sickening feeling.

What is your perspective at the moment?

imaps3fanboy

At the moment, happy I just finished eating disgusting but tasty McDonalds and now i'm enjoying the Root Beer I got with it...As for how humanity is...

Uh, would that African thing happen to be that story about Cango or Congo or however it was spelt where the soldiers are like torturing/raping women of all ages? Because I heard about that and literally couldn't eat or sleep well for a few days knowing that was going on. I lost a lot of faith in humanity, I don't care if there is a war or not, raping is so wrong.

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#22 Gaming-Planet
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I've lost all faith in our youth.

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#23 one_plum
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I feel quite disconnected from people in general tbh.

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#24 Elephant_Couple
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[QUOTE="mindstorm"]It needs Jesus. I'm not saying this to start a religious debate, I'm just giving my honest answer.imaps3fanboy
Sorry I dont want to believe in a God that lets babies and young children get raped

Sigh...such ignorance. You've just descreased my faith in humanity to an even lower point than it was when I entered this thread.

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#25 deactivated-5f9e3c6a83e51
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Humanity is generally good. People get all bent out of shape when they hear these upsetting stories, but you are losing your perspective. The vast majority of people are good hearted and good willed people. Yet you don't hear stories about that because it's not going to generate ratings.

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#26 cyberdarkkid
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I'm not going to lose faith over all of humanity just because I read horrible stories about human atrocities, because I'm part of humanity. There are some sick people out there but there are a lot more good people out there as well. But obviously the world is not perfect, I do think many people need some sort of enlightenment.
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#27 UnknownElement4
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I am just going to say that there are good things in this world and there are bad things. It's just how it works.

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#28 imaps3fanboy
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[QUOTE="imaps3fanboy"]

After reading about that 7 year old that raped, and hearing about literaly babies being raped in Africa (and some other things Im not going to state) I'm starting to feel depressed. My faith is now gone, and I'm having a hard time understanding things at the moment.

Just think about it. Right now there are probably so many bad things going on right now and theres basically nothing we can do about. It is a sickening feeling.

What is your perspective at the moment?

Bluestorm-Kalas

At the moment, happy I just finished eating disgusting but tasty McDonalds and now i'm enjoying the Root Beer I got with it...As for how humanity is...

Uh, would that African thing happen to be that story about Cango or Congo or however it was spelt where the soldiers are like torturing/raping women of all ages? Because I heard about that and literally couldn't eat or sleep well for a few days knowing that was going on. I lost a lot of faith in humanity, I don't care if there is a war or not, raping is so wrong.

No, although that is bad, there are men in Africa raping babies because they think it will get rid of their aids.
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#29 tim22000
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It needs Jesus. I'm not saying this to start a religious debate, I'm just giving my honest answer.mindstorm

lol, you need to get out a bit more.

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#30 mindstorm
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I feel quite disconnected from people in general tbh.

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#31 Darth-Caedus
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Humanity is a pitiful, narcissistic, ignorant, vile species. Yet so entertaining :3
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#32 Puscifer_No1
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Right now, I could care less if 2012 were to happen and every living being on earth disintegratedinto ash and dust. It would solve the situation. But for now, I look out for #1, My family. Sure, I look out for close friends and my military "family", but at the end of the day, as long as I come home to a wife and kids who are happy to see me, I could care less what goes on.

And if that isn't enough to give a clue as to what my perspective is I don't know what is.

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#33 Bluestorm-Kalas
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No, although that is bad, there are men in Africa raping babies because they think it will get rid of their aids.imaps3fanboy
That's because a witch-doctor cure for AIDS is sex with a virgin, and those grown men think "a baby is a virgin." so not only do they rape a poor, defenseless innocent baby, they also give it AIDS and kill it. :(

Dammit, I'm so pissed off now. :( I have a friend who was a rape victim, so this is a near and dear topic.

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#34 VENOM192
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[QUOTE="mindstorm"]It needs Jesus. I'm not saying this to start a religious debate, I'm just giving my honest answer.tim22000

lol, you need to get out a bit more.

All he was doing was giving his honest answer. :|

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#35 Bluestorm-Kalas
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[QUOTE="one_plum"]

I feel quite disconnected from people in general tbh.

mindstorm

Will it help if we interlock arms for as long as it's not completely awkward?

*grabs mindstorm and one_plum by the arms and starts skipping down a yellow brick road* "Ohhh we're off to see the wiza-"

Okay, I'm done.

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#36 imaps3fanboy
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[QUOTE="imaps3fanboy"]No, although that is bad, there are men in Africa raping babies because they think it will get rid of their aids.Bluestorm-Kalas

That's because a witch-doctor cure for AIDS is sex with a virgin, and those grown men think "a baby is a virgin." so not only do they rape a poor, defenseless innocent baby, they also give it AIDS and kill it. :(

Dammit, I'm so pissed off now. :( I have a friend who was a rape victim, so this is a near and dear topic.

I know. The sad thing is there are people trolling on the other thread of that 7 year old that got raped. Some people really need to grow up. I'm only 16, and I see things like that all the time. People my age only care about themselves and don't even think about less fortunate, it's very depressing.
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#37 mindstorm
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[QUOTE="tim22000"]

[QUOTE="mindstorm"]It needs Jesus. I'm not saying this to start a religious debate, I'm just giving my honest answer.VENOM192

lol, you need to get out a bit more.

All he was doing was giving his honest answer. :|

Though, I may very well need to get out a bit more regardless. *as he says while picking his ear* :P
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#38 Puscifer_No1
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[QUOTE="VENOM192"]

[QUOTE="tim22000"]

lol, you need to get out a bit more.

mindstorm

All he was doing was giving his honest answer. :|

Though, I may very well need to get out a bit more regardless. *as he says while picking his ear* :P

You never cease to amaze me. I like having you around :)
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#39 one_plum
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[QUOTE="one_plum"]

I feel quite disconnected from people in general tbh.

mindstorm

Will it help if we interlock arms for as long as it's not completely awkward?

The only way to make it not awkward will be to engage in armwrestling :P

Perhaps I exaggerated what I meant: I feel disconnected from the extroverted party crowd from my university (it's like everyone's an extrovert these days), otherwise I get along fine with my old introverted friends and my family.

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#40 Bluestorm-Kalas
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[QUOTE="Bluestorm-Kalas"]

[QUOTE="imaps3fanboy"]No, although that is bad, there are men in Africa raping babies because they think it will get rid of their aids.imaps3fanboy

That's because a witch-doctor cure for AIDS is sex with a virgin, and those grown men think "a baby is a virgin." so not only do they rape a poor, defenseless innocent baby, they also give it AIDS and kill it. :(

Dammit, I'm so pissed off now. :( I have a friend who was a rape victim, so this is a near and dear topic.

I know. The sad thing is there are people trolling on the other thread of that 7 year old that got raped. Some people really need to grow up. I'm only 16, and I see things like that all the time. People my age only care about themselves and don't even think about less fortunate, it's very depressing.

I didn't even go into the other thread, because in all honesty I've come to expect tasteless jokes on the internet. I am guilty of it too, but rape/child molesting is one subject I don't like to joke about, but I am guilty of that too, but it's never at a certain story, more like the general topic of it.

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#41 deactivated-6016f2513d412
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There are good people and there are bad people. There are intelligent people and there are stupid people. I could go on and on, but you get the point. There are so many different kinds of people out there. I can't honestly come up with a generalization for humanity. For every person I like, there are many I don't like. There are also a lot of people I dislike but respect or like but disrespect.

There are some sick, disgusting people out there. There are some real morons out there. There are also some really intelligent, hard-working, interesting, friendly, etc. people out there as well. Sometimes you just have to dig for them.

I have no opinion on humanity overall.

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#42 imaps3fanboy
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[QUOTE="imaps3fanboy"][QUOTE="Bluestorm-Kalas"] That's because a witch-doctor cure for AIDS is sex with a virgin, and those grown men think "a baby is a virgin." so not only do they rape a poor, defenseless innocent baby, they also give it AIDS and kill it. :(

Dammit, I'm so pissed off now. :( I have a friend who was a rape victim, so this is a near and dear topic.

Bluestorm-Kalas

I know. The sad thing is there are people trolling on the other thread of that 7 year old that got raped. Some people really need to grow up. I'm only 16, and I see things like that all the time. People my age only care about themselves and don't even think about less fortunate, it's very depressing.

I didn't even go into the other thread, because in all honesty I've come to expect tasteless jokes on the internet. I am guilty of it too, but rape/child molesting is one subject I don't like to joke about, but I am guilty of that too, but it's never at a certain story, more like the general topic of it.

I've never seen nor even really known anyone that has been assaulted, but I have enough common sense and compassion that I take it seriously and count my blessings.
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#43 Bluestorm-Kalas
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I've never seen nor even really known anyone that has been assaulted, but I have enough common sense and compassion that I take it seriously and count my blessings.imaps3fanboy
You are fortunate, I won't go into details about my friend who was a victim, but be damn sure I wanted to kick her boyfriends ass, and then after the "big thing" happened when she broke up with him, I wanted to murder him, I was ready to go to his house and burn it down, and if he was still alive I would have...I don't even know...He's actually lucky I have yet to see him again, because if I do I'm positive I would snap.

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#44 imaps3fanboy
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[QUOTE="imaps3fanboy"] I've never seen nor even really known anyone that has been assaulted, but I have enough common sense and compassion that I take it seriously and count my blessings.Bluestorm-Kalas

You are fortunate, I won't go into details about my friend who was a victim, but be damn sure I wanted to kick her boyfriends ass, and then after the "big thing" happened when she broke up with him, I wanted to murder him, I was ready to go to his house and burn it down, and if he was still alive I would have...I don't even know...He's actually lucky I have yet to see him again, because if I do I'm positive I would snap.

Yea, I would have felt the same way. I just don't get how people could do that? Is it a mental issue or are those people just evil?
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#45 poptart
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Having just bit my tongue, I was wondering if there are any other animals out there that occasionally bites its own tongue, and couldn't think of any.

I think that sums up my view on humanity perfectly.

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#46 Bluestorm-Kalas
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[QUOTE="Bluestorm-Kalas"]

[QUOTE="imaps3fanboy"] I've never seen nor even really known anyone that has been assaulted, but I have enough common sense and compassion that I take it seriously and count my blessings.imaps3fanboy

You are fortunate, I won't go into details about my friend who was a victim, but be damn sure I wanted to kick her boyfriends ass, and then after the "big thing" happened when she broke up with him, I wanted to murder him, I was ready to go to his house and burn it down, and if he was still alive I would have...I don't even know...He's actually lucky I have yet to see him again, because if I do I'm positive I would snap.

Yea, I would have felt the same way. I just don't get how people could do that? Is it a mental issue or are those people just evil?

I don't know, I refuse to talk to him and ask why he did it.

I can tell you that the victim (her words) was that after she was treated so bad, she actually thought she was a horrible person and deserved it, and that's why she stayed with him thinking she was a detriment to society and all that, it took a lot of convincing on my part to have her dump him...She's happy now though, she has a restraining order and that was a few years ago. Her last boyfriend was another ass, but at least he never laid a hand on her.

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#47 imaps3fanboy
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[QUOTE="imaps3fanboy"][QUOTE="Bluestorm-Kalas"] You are fortunate, I won't go into details about my friend who was a victim, but be damn sure I wanted to kick her boyfriends ass, and then after the "big thing" happened when she broke up with him, I wanted to murder him, I was ready to go to his house and burn it down, and if he was still alive I would have...I don't even know...He's actually lucky I have yet to see him again, because if I do I'm positive I would snap.

Bluestorm-Kalas

Yea, I would have felt the same way. I just don't get how people could do that? Is it a mental issue or are those people just evil?

I don't know, I refuse to talk to him and ask why he did it.

I can tell you that the victim (her words) was that after she was treated so bad, she actually thought she was a horrible person and deserved it, and that's why she stayed with him thinking she was a detriment to society and all that, it took a lot of convincing on my part to have her dump him...She's happy now though, she has a restraining order and that was a few years ago. Her last boyfriend was another ass, but at least he never laid a hand on her.

Wow.. thats tough. I've heard of things like that before. Women stay w/ abusive boyfriends because they feel useless, thats pretty common in those types of relationships I think. Does your friend go through any counseling or such?
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#48 Bluestorm-Kalas
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Wow.. thats tough. I've heard of things like that before. Women stay w/ abusive boyfriends because they feel useless, thats pretty common in those types of relationships I think. Does your friend go through any counseling or such?imaps3fanboy
Actually, she is a beautiful person, she realized (on her own) that it wasn't her fault, that he was an ass and doesn't even dwell on it anymore or think about it, she is basically unaffected by it now. She was a wreck for about 10 months and then came to that realization and is now one of the most confident/happy people I know.

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#49 imaps3fanboy
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[QUOTE="imaps3fanboy"]Wow.. thats tough. I've heard of things like that before. Women stay w/ abusive boyfriends because they feel useless, thats pretty common in those types of relationships I think. Does your friend go through any counseling or such?Bluestorm-Kalas

Actually, she is a beautiful person, she realized (on her own) that it wasn't her fault, that he was an ass and doesn't even dwell on it anymore or think about it, she is basically unaffected by it now. She was a wreck for about 10 months and then came to that realization and is now one of the most confident/happy people I know.

Great. Good thing she got out. A lot of other people aren't as lucky.
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for every tragedy we are nearly-forced to hear about on the news...

...there are a million beautiful things we do not hear about.

Life, and humanity, is as beautiful as you want it to be.

But yes, there are some really ugly things out there too, unfortunately