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#1 Evil_Saluki
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This actually reflects upon a real decision I had to make in my life. But I ask you mr off-topic people, which would you of picked?

The first is a girl who is very much capable of handling themselves. They have a good job, they know how to get around, they can travel anywhere they need to and by their own initiative. They are part of something you like, be it a culture you're fond of (a Goth, an asian girl for example) but she's not very attractive, that being her only downside. She's also a little older then you, very confident in themselves and experianced in life.

The second girl (respectively) is amazingly beautiful, she is a stunner, everything you can wish for for the girl of you're dreams to look like. She's young, much younger then yourself, and again, part of the culture you are most fond of. This girl thinks the world of you, she will love you very much and you're desires will be fulfilled. However, she is a liability. She can't get around very well, she has no job and is being sheltered by her family. Do you have what it takes to handle this girl? Would you be able to show her the ways of the world, and teach her what you know. Or will she eventually drag you down? That depends on the Gamespot user.

Someone might wonder who I chose, my blog might give that away. But what i'm interested in is, who would you choose?

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Pick one. I am too independent to deal with too many issues and bagagge right out the gate. In fact I did with my ex,and that is a big reason we are not together anymore.
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#3 raven_squad
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I pick the second. Those poor traits are easily fixed.
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#4 Deihjan
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I'd pick the one that I felt something for, like.. love... Possessions and money doesn't matter to me, if it means giving up a personality and looks I find attractive. Not saying I'd pick the stunningly beautiful girl, but I'm not saying I'd go with number one, either.
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#5 clembo1990
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I check their hooves and teeth before I buy, 4 cammels a good price for second one yes?
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I'd pick the one that I felt something for, like.. love... Possessions and money doesn't matter to me, if it means giving up a personality and looks I find attractive. Not saying I'd pick the stunningly beautiful girl, but I'm not saying I'd go with number one, either.Deihjan
Pick one of them or Dr Who gets it!
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#7 sam280992
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The 2nd one. :) , But I'm still young, :)
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#8 Deihjan
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[QUOTE="Deihjan"]I'd pick the one that I felt something for, like.. love... Possessions and money doesn't matter to me, if it means giving up a personality and looks I find attractive. Not saying I'd pick the stunningly beautiful girl, but I'm not saying I'd go with number one, either.Evil_Saluki
Pick one of them or Dr Who gets it!

The show itself? D: NOOOOO! RUSSEL T. DAVIES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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#9 czort666
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I'd pick number two.
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#10 Deihjan
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I'd pick the second girl, because she resembles me... lol.
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#11 kulmiye
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I check their hooves and teeth before I buy, 4 cammels a good price for second one yes?clembo1990
I can top that. I'll give two horses, a mule and 4 magic beans.
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milla jovovich.
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[QUOTE="clembo1990"]I check their hooves and teeth before I buy, 4 cammels a good price for second one yes?kulmiye
I can top that. I'll give two horses, a mule and 4 magic beans.

Keep the horses, they are too much work, and the mule, can't be bothered to get into the cattle industry. But give me 6 Magic beans and she's yours!
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I guess it depends on my situation. If I'm in the same situation in 10 years as I am now, then the first girl. If I'm well off enough to have enough time to help the second girl, then her. It would be interesting and rewarding in many ways.
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[QUOTE="Evil_Saluki"] Keep the horses, they are too much work, and the mule, can't be bothered to get into the cattle industry. But give me 6 Magic beans and she's yours!

6!!! Too much for my blood. You can keep the girl. All I wanted to do with the girl is lock her up in a tower.
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#16 Evil_Saluki
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I guess it depends on my situation. If I'm in the same situation in 10 years as I am now, then the first girl. If I'm well off enough to have enough time to help the second girl, then her. It would be interesting and rewarding in many ways.super_mario_128
Your responce makes a lot of sense to me. It's not how I looked on it however. for better or for worse.
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[QUOTE="Evil_Saluki"] Keep the horses, they are too much work, and the mule, can't be bothered to get into the cattle industry. But give me 6 Magic beans and she's yours!kulmiye
6!!! Too much for my blood. You can keep the girl. All I wanted to do with the girl is lock her up in a tower.

LOL! Continue, please! And by the way, you can write a nice book on this theme...

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[QUOTE="kulmiye"][QUOTE="Evil_Saluki"] Keep the horses, they are too much work, and the mule, can't be bothered to get into the cattle industry. But give me 6 Magic beans and she's yours!

6!!! Too much for my blood. You can keep the girl. All I wanted to do with the girl is lock her up in a tower.

I'd just put her to work in the kitchen, but you'd go all Rapunzel on her ass! Inventive misogyny rules!
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[QUOTE="Evil_Saluki"] Keep the horses, they are too much work, and the mule, can't be bothered to get into the cattle industry. But give me 6 Magic beans and she's yours!kulmiye
6!!! Too much for my blood. You can keep the girl. All I wanted to do with the girl is lock her up in a tower.

Ok 6 was asking too much, plus I only need five anyway. Trying to sell me out on 4 was total ludicrous. I'll trade her for 5 beans and I also want a rocket launcher with a reload, because I know what's up there, and you know what i'm talking about.
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[QUOTE="kulmiye"][QUOTE="Evil_Saluki"] Keep the horses, they are too much work, and the mule, can't be bothered to get into the cattle industry. But give me 6 Magic beans and she's yours!Slig0

6!!! Too much for my blood. You can keep the girl. All I wanted to do with the girl is lock her up in a tower.

LOL! Continue, please! And by the way, you can write a nice book on this theme...

Well you see the plan was to spread a message that a princess is trapped in tower and that only a prince charming can rescue her. However it won't go that easy for Mr Prince Charming as I intend to kidnap him, hold him hostage and demand a ransom from his father, The King. Once the plan succeeds I will take both women and the money and live happily ever after....
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#21 deactivated-5e836a855beb2
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How not very attractive?
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#22 kulmiye
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[QUOTE="clembo1990"] I'd just put her to work in the kitchen, but you'd go all Rapunzel on her ass! Inventive misogyny rules!

I was hoping to go Shrek on her ass, without the whole ogre part but that'll do. [QUOTE="Evil_Saluki"] Ok 6 was asking too much, plus I only need five anyway. Trying to sell me out on 4 was total ludicrous. I'll trade her for 5 beans and I also want a rocket launcher with a reload, because I know what's up there, and you know what i'm talking about.

I'll give you four and the schematics for a catapult.
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#23 Evil_Saluki
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How not very attractive?Jandurin
Like, she has a nice bum, you'll do her but you know your brothers will snicker behind your back kind of attractive.
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The second one. I don't really see her flaws as a huge problem.
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#25 mattykovax
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How not very attractive?Jandurin
Well I would think she would have to be attractive enough to date. I think he meant between plain jane and smoking hot,not gisele vs broomhilda.
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#26 Evil_Saluki
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The second one. I don't really see her flaws as a huge problem.lilasianwonder
That's why I said it depends on the Gamespot user. Some might know how reality can bite.

Edit: not saying you don't of course.

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#27 CuDDKiDD
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The second one because it'd be fun to mature and grow together.
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#28 Slig0
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Second. I like pretties.
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#29 Evil_Saluki
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[[QUOTE="Evil_Saluki"] Ok 6 was asking too much, plus I only need five anyway. Trying to sell me out on 4 was total ludicrous. I'll trade her for 5 beans and I also want a rocket launcher with a reload, because I know what's up there, and you know what i'm talking about.kulmiye
I'll give you four and the schematics for a catapult.

That's it, i'm not playing anymore.
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#30 kulmiye
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That's it, i'm not playing anymore.Evil_Saluki
Fine by me I get to keep my magic beans.
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#31 bean-with-bacon
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Ok I'm not a guy but I'd pick the first, constant devotion and constant dependance would annoy the **** out of me, I would want a partner who can think for themselves and do their own things on their own and be independent and leave me the **** alone once in a while.
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[QUOTE="Jandurin"]How not very attractive?Evil_Saluki
Like, she has a nice bum, you'll do her but you know your brothers will snicker behind your back kind of attractive.

Then, I dislike immaturity, it irritates me, so that's a huge mark against the second one. In the end, I'd just go with mah feelings, I suppose. The first one sounds nice, in that it's great to... not have to worry, or deal with stupid crap, you know? If the second one was a bit older and wasn't sheltered, she'd be more appealing. If the first didn't cause snickers, she'd be more.
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#33 Evil_Saluki
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[QUOTE="Evil_Saluki"][QUOTE="Jandurin"]How not very attractive?Jandurin
Like, she has a nice bum, you'll do her but you know your brothers will snicker behind your back kind of attractive.

Then, I dislike immaturity, it irritates me, so that's a huge mark against the second one. In the end, I'd just go with mah feelings, I suppose. The first one sounds nice, in that it's great to... not have to worry, or deal with stupid crap, you know? If the second one was a bit older and wasn't sheltered, she'd be more appealing. If the first didn't cause snickers, she'd be more.

I'm not sure if i made any sense with my metaphore as I didn't expect the likes of you to take it seriously :P But Yeah I understand your decision.
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#34 -DirtySanchez-
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their both gonna cheat on you anyway so fox it go with what youd get the most fun out of while it lasts
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#35 DarkKar
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Neither. And here's why. Keep shopping, and you'll find one who has both 1 & 2's good traits. Or better yet, everything you could ever want.
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#36 BumFluff122
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The first one look sbetter but I would probaby go for the second one because I am a dumb man.
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It depends. How young is the second girl? If its no younger than 3 years, then Id pick her. I have my license so I can get around, so it wouldnt matter that much. If its anymore than 3 years, then Id go with the first girl. But hey, theyre both Scene chicks so it doesnt matter to me XD
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Neither. And here's why. Keep shopping, and you'll find one who has both 1 & 2's good traits. Or better yet, everything you could ever want. DarkKar
You wont find a girl with everything you want, because that would imply she's perfect and nobody's perfect.
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#39 sukraj
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I'd pick number two.czort666
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Depends what you're after If you're looking for something lasting and meaningful where you'll grow as a human being and truly like the person you're with, go with number 1. If you just want something quick, primarily sexual, and meaningless, go with the last one. Though i guarantee it'll be more annoyance than what you get physically out of it. That said, with option 1, a lot of this depends not on how "not so good looking" she is, but whether or not you're physically attracted to her. If you are at all physically attracted to her, even a bit, than go for it. If you're not attracted to her at all on that level, don't bother. You'll be haunted by questions of "could i do better" which may even lead to infidelity, or at the very least, some kind of unhappiness. That said, if you ARE physically attracted to her, go for it.
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[QUOTE="Paladin_King"]Depends what you're after If you're looking for something lasting and meaningful where you'll grow as a human being and truly like the person you're with, go with number 1. If you just want something quick, primarily sexual, and meaningless, go with the last one. Though i guarantee it'll be more annoyance than what you get physically out of it. That said, with option 1, a lot of this depends not on how "not so good looking" she is, but whether or not you're physically attracted to her. If you are at all physically attracted to her, even a bit, than go for it. If you're not attracted to her at all on that level, don't bother. You'll be haunted by questions of "could i do better" which may even lead to infidelity, or at the very least, some kind of unhappiness. That said, if you ARE physically attracted to her, go for it.

I'd say the problem is not whether he's attracted to her, but whether he's attracted enough. What his friends think about his choice is completely pointless, other people (that aren't me) are generally idiots, in my experience :o
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[QUOTE="Jandurin"][QUOTE="Paladin_King"]Depends what you're after If you're looking for something lasting and meaningful where you'll grow as a human being and truly like the person you're with, go with number 1. If you just want something quick, primarily sexual, and meaningless, go with the last one. Though i guarantee it'll be more annoyance than what you get physically out of it. That said, with option 1, a lot of this depends not on how "not so good looking" she is, but whether or not you're physically attracted to her. If you are at all physically attracted to her, even a bit, than go for it. If you're not attracted to her at all on that level, don't bother. You'll be haunted by questions of "could i do better" which may even lead to infidelity, or at the very least, some kind of unhappiness. That said, if you ARE physically attracted to her, go for it.

I'd say the problem is not whether he's attracted to her, but whether he's attracted enough. What his friends think about his choice is completely pointless, other people (that aren't me) are generally idiots, in my experience :o

I agree with you on the point with his friends. That said...hmm...i suppose to me "attracted at all" and "attracted enough" are the same. Are you attracted enough to ever feel a strong urge to get in bed with her, is what I suppose I'm saying :P . Also, I'm also trying to say that he shouldn't try to compare how attracted he is to number 1 to how attracted he is to number 2. As you say, it's not a question of "am i attracted more" but rather one of "am i attracted enough?"
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I don't have any trouble taking care of someone, I don't get intimidated by girls that are more self-reliant than me either. I don't think any of that matters anyway... the optimal choice for me would be to have a girl that's my equal in every way.

So in this case ...not enough info. I can't decide who I'd rather be with based on occupation and age. I can't decide without more info about personality, interests, goals and sense of humor... these factors that you've counted up just sounds like a small piece in a bigger puzzle.

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Number 2 please
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I don't have any trouble taking care of someone, I don't get intimidated by girls that are more self-reliant than me either. I don't think any of that matters anyway... the optimal choice for me would be to have a girl that's my equal in every way.

So in this case ...not enough info. I can't decide who I'd rather be with based on occupation and age. I can't decide without more info about personality, interests, goals and sense of humor... these factors that you've counted up just sounds like a small piece in a bigger puzzle.

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Hmm, i do agree, but i'd rather be in a relationship, personally, where i know the person that i'm with has my back as much or even moreso than i've got theirs. You don't get that when you're primarily taking care of your significant other. Hell, I'd rather go for someone that's more self-reliant than me just because i'll probably learn more/grow more as a person, and that's what life's all about, and unless you're going to marry any girl you get involved with, it's also what relationships are about.
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#46 Serraph105
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I pick only the good bits from each girl

screw this overused scenario

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niether...
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[QUOTE="Hungry_bunny"]

I don't have any trouble taking care of someone, I don't get intimidated by girls that are more self-reliant than me either. I don't think any of that matters anyway... the optimal choice for me would be to have a girl that's my equal in every way.

So in this case ...not enough info. I can't decide who I'd rather be with based on occupation and age. I can't decide without more info about personality, interests, goals and sense of humor... these factors that you've counted up just sounds like a small piece in a bigger puzzle.

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Hmm, i do agree, but i'd rather be in a relationship, personally, where i know the person that i'm with has my back as much or even moreso than i've got theirs. You don't get that when you're primarily taking care of your significant other.

Hell, I'd rather go for someone that's more self-reliant than me just because i'll probably learn more/grow more as a person, and that's what life's all about, and unless you're going to marry any girl you get involved with, it's also what relationships are about.

Isn't there a risk that you end up depending too much on your partner? Putting yourself in situations where there aren't as many challenges could lead to fewer learning experiences and growing opportunities.

In other words, whether you grow as a person has very little to do with your girlfriend. I think it has everything to do with your own personality.

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Isn't there a risk that you end up depending too much on your partner? Putting yourself in situations where there aren't as many challenges could lead to fewer learning experiences and growing opportunities.

In other words, whether you grow as a person has very little to do with your girlfriend. I think it has everything to do with your own personality.Hungry_bunny
I don't think so. If you have someone else that you can rely on to handle themselves or even help you out, you get more willing to try new things.
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#50 ChiliDragon
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In addition to that, people can hold each other back, drag each other down... while a partner that is strong and confident enough not to feel threatened by it will allow you to grow more freely as a person. Basically, strong people need strong partners, or they are forced to lessen themselves to avoid becoming a tyrant within that relationship. Now if that's what the people involved want, that's fine, but the vast majority of healthy long-term relationships tend to be between equals.