Who's Fault Is This

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#1 Never_Fear
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OK, I loved a girl. She was my girlfriend, until she moved away, so I thought we were broken up. Later, I got another girlfriend, and that one girl came back to town for life. The girl who moved away thinks we were still dating. So, I had to tell my real girlfriend, and she got mad and dumped me. Did I do the wrong thing?
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#2 X360PS3AMD05
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Should have made things clear.
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#3 qetuo6
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Yes you did. You should have dated both of them. If you played your cards right, you could have gotten a both of them in bed with you at the same time.
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#4 TheShadowLord07
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Yes you did. You should have dated both of them. If you played your cards right, you could have gotten a both of them in bed with you at the same time.qetuo6

that would only work if one or both of them are bi

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#5 CrimsonMaverick
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yeah, you're the one who's in fault. You should've cleared things out with the two so we would'nt have this discussion.
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#6 Video_Game_King
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[QUOTE="qetuo6"]Yes you did. You should have dated both of them. If you played your cards right, you could have gotten a both of them in bed with you at the same time.TheShadowLord07

that would only work if one or both of them are bi

How come only one? Can you explain this to me? Do you imply girl-on-girl rape?

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#7 nirvana563
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No, just talk to the both about it.
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#8 VinnoT
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You should have cleared with your old GF that you were seeing other people.
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#9 sinistergoggles
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You need to explain this to them. After that, who knows.. GOOD LUCK! :D
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#10 MagnumPI
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OK, I loved a girl. She was my girlfriend, until she moved away, so I thought we were broken up. Later, I got another girlfriend, and that one girl came back to town for life. The girl who moved away thinks we were still dating. So, I had to tell my real girlfriend, and she got mad and dumped me. Did I do the wrong thing?Never_Fear

Life waits for nobody. Moving away pretty much declares a breakup because the initial plan was good bye. Nobody isgonna put their life on pause because he orshe might come back.

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#11 Guiltfeeder566
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Yours, confusing situation.
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#12 metallica_fan42
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Uhh, technically you never broke things off with your first girlfriend, so I guess she has the right to think you were still going out.
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#13 geodisicdome
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was there not some kind of massive thing when she moved away and you rang her every night and such?
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#14 branketra
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If you two didn't make things clear, it's definitely not the girl who moved away's fault.
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#15 greenleaflink
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[QUOTE="Never_Fear"]OK, I loved a girl. She was my girlfriend, until she moved away, so I thought we were broken up. Later, I got another girlfriend, and that one girl came back to town for life. The girl who moved away thinks we were still dating. So, I had to tell my real girlfriend, and she got mad and dumped me. Did I do the wrong thing?MagnumPI

Life waits for nobody. Moving away pretty much declares a breakup because the initial plan was good bye. Nobody isgonna put their life on pause because he orshe might come back.

Yupp! Life goes on with you whether or not you wait around. What if she moved on? and got a bf?

Dont stress about it, and let both of them go and move on!

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Me recommendation you ask? Menage a trois, I say.
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#17 greenleaflink
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Come too think about it, She moved away with intentions to come back, but you see you both had UNSPOKEN words and didnt clarify...

a. in her mind she would have thought he would be truthful and waited

b. you seen her as gone and didnt continue the relationship as before so you moved on

1. you both should have discussed the terms and such when she was moving so you had a understanding of somesort.

2. its all the past, damage is DONE...ALL YOU can do is NOW, approach them and or specifically just HER, and explain to her, maybe she willl understand and you can mend, , maybe not.

Let it be what it will, try not to let it dwell, on what could have been or what could have been, its all about what is, and move on.

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#18 Bourbons3
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And you didn't think to actually ask your first girlfriend if you were broken up or not? :|
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#19 needled24-7
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You probably should have cleared things up... but I think it's kind of implied that you and her should break up since she moved away.
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#20 MORBID98
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im on a situation like that,,, i declared to a girl..she was very undecided, its been a month now. im dating another girl which in fact i made my gf yesterday. and the one i declared too first is very jealous (along with another friend of both who also seems to be very jealous about it).so the first one got pwned hard.XD sorry guys my english sux hard:(
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#21 stevendiep_100
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you should have had a threesome
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#22 greenpyro33
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Sorry, but you weren't clear enough
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#23 firebreathing
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OK, I loved a girl. She was my girlfriend, until she moved away, so I thought we were broken up. Later, I got another girlfriend, and that one girl came back to town for life. The girl who moved away thinks we were still dating. So, I had to tell my real girlfriend, and she got mad and dumped me. Did I do the wrong thing?Never_Fear

communication helps............................

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#24 -Serpahim-
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[QUOTE="TheShadowLord07"]

[QUOTE="qetuo6"]Yes you did. You should have dated both of them. If you played your cards right, you could have gotten a both of them in bed with you at the same time.Video_Game_King

that would only work if one or both of them are bi

How come only one? Can you explain this to me? Do you imply girl-on-girl rape?

Like my exgirl friend once told me "If the girl is hot enough, im willing to try it atleast once."

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#25 moptopskate
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Yes you did. You should have dated both of them. If you played your cards right, you could have gotten a both of them in bed with you at the same time.qetuo6

lol true dat. YOu didnt do anything wrong at all.

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#26 moptopskate
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[QUOTE="Video_Game_King"][QUOTE="TheShadowLord07"]

[QUOTE="qetuo6"]Yes you did. You should have dated both of them. If you played your cards right, you could have gotten a both of them in bed with you at the same time.-Serpahim-

that would only work if one or both of them are bi

How come only one? Can you explain this to me? Do you imply girl-on-girl rape?

Like my exgirl friend once told me "If the girl is hot enough, im willing to try it atleast once."

you guys mustve tried it and thats why shes ur ex