Why are girls so complicated?

Theres this girl that i like in my gym period. She says she only wants to be friends yet she keeps looking at me. Everytime i look in her direction, she satres at me for a couple of seconds then looks away really quick. I asked her why she keeps doing this and she says "It's nothing." But yet she keeps looking at me. Sometimes, some girls would come and flirt with me or sit on my lap. She would walk away when girls did this. Then when I see her in the hallway, she will look at me like I'd done something wrong. WTF? Are girls complicated like this? Why is she getting jealous when another girl flirts with me? I'm confused here. Help?

Who was the idiot that threw out the manual?

She probably likes the attention you give her. So gets jealous when you show it to someone else.

I think there's a lot of women who'd consider guys complex. I know a few who think that wayToriko42

Just take it slow andbe patient, i'm sure you can get that. Get her number and ask her on a date.

They're not that complicated, just go all out on her and ask if she wants to go out, if she says no again then tell her to **** off. Aha.jointed

Aha?

[QUOTE="jointed"]They're not that complicated, just go all out on her and ask if she wants to go out, if she says no again then tell her to **** off. Aha.JeM760soCAL

Aha?

ZuluEcho14

:lol:

You have to understand that a lot of the time, when a woman looks at you, they are observing the act of themselves being objectified. That is, they have very different motivations for looking at men, although obviously this is not a universal rule. Men are usually lusting after women and expressing desire when they look at them. A lot of women have multifarious reasons for checking out the opposite sex, and often they're just registering themselves as a sexual spectacle when they return a man's look. A lot of men place too much importance on the act of staring.

[QUOTE="jointed"]They're not that complicated, just go all out on her and ask if she wants to go out, if she says no again then tell her to **** off. Aha.JeM760soCAL

Aha?

Who was the idiot that threw out the manual?

ZuluEcho14

It's called reaction formation--doing the opposite of what you feel. In this case, she denies liking you even though according to your description it's quite apparent she does. Women are just complicated like that. :P

EDIT: It's also possible she's suffering from some kind of inferiority complex and just wants attention for the sake of attention, not to begin a romantic relationship. Or maybe you're just interpreting her staring as a sexual come on. Could be lots of things really.

You have to understand that a lot of the time, when a woman looks at you, they are observing the act of themselves being objectified. That is, they have very different motivations for looking at men, although obviously this is not a universal rule. Men are usually lusting after women and expressing desire when they look at them. A lot of women have multifarious reasons for checking out the opposite sex, and often they're just registering themselves as a sexual spectacle when they return a man's look. A lot of men place too much importance on the act of staring.

alexbaricco

Do you have any idea how difficult it is to construct a system that fuses not only sugar and spice, but also incorporates everything nice?xaos

Do you have any idea how difficult it is to construct a system that fuses not only sugar and spice, but also incorporates everything nice?xaos

[QUOTE="xaos"]Do you have any idea how difficult it is to construct a system that fuses not only sugar and spice, but also incorporates everything nice?super_mario_128

I found the following interesting:

I made a brilliant reference I didn't get myself? I have more skills than I knew! xaos

[QUOTE="alexbaricco"]

You have to understand that a lot of the time, when a woman looks at you, they are observing the act of themselves being objectified. That is, they have very different motivations for looking at men, although obviously this is not a universal rule. Men are usually lusting after women and expressing desire when they look at them. A lot of women have multifarious reasons for checking out the opposite sex, and often they're just registering themselves as a sexual spectacle when they return a man's look. A lot of men place too much importance on the act of staring.

JimCarreyForYou

This is true, but in my experience you'll still get more guys estimating their appeal to a woman on the basis of how much they return their stares than vice-versa.

Thousands of guys fall in love with women just because they shared a gaze once e.g. all the way across the lecture hall or something.

There's this girl I know with a kinky squint who I thought liked me, but when I approached her at a party she didn't even recognise me and it turns out I read her crossed eyes all wrong. She turned to be out a bit of a bore anyway.

[QUOTE="tofu-lion91"][QUOTE="thriteenthmonke"] But does he think about monkeys drinking beer?SmilingJack79

I found the following interesting:

thepwninator

It seems as if whenever a controversial/interesting thread is created, a few more that are shockingly similar are made.

[QUOTE="thepwninator"]

I found the following interesting:

BlueBirdTS

It seems as if whenever a controversial/interesting thread is created, a few more that are shockingly similar are made.

Explain THAT with your fancy logical, Mister Blue "Moral Nihilist" Bird! :P

[QUOTE="tofu-lion91"][QUOTE="thriteenthmonke"] But does he think about monkeys drinking beer?SmilingJack79

Personally I like it like that. Makes things much more enjoyable when you don't have to worry about silly petty crap. :P

This is true, but in my experience you'll still get more guys estimating their appeal to a woman on the basis of how much they return their stares than vice-versa.

Thousands of guys fall in love with women just because they shared a gaze once e.g. all the way across the lecture hall or something.

There's this girl I know with a kinky squint who I thought liked me, but when I approached her at a party she didn't even recognise me and it turns out I read her crossed eyes all wrong. She turned to be out a bit of a bore anyway.

Maybe she is interested in you, but not in that way.

She may want to harvest your brain to fuel some big machine to take over the world. It could happen.

[QUOTE="tofu-lion91"][QUOTE="thriteenthmonke"] But does he think about monkeys drinking beer?SmilingJack79

fail

maybe its their nature..

[QUOTE="Luncbox1"][QUOTE="SmilingJack79"] Not in reference to this thread: TOFU-LION, when will you quit your goddamn incessant whining about how men are oppressive pigs, you fu3king b1tch? Oh yes, we have a great deal of rights, such as having been a targeted majority in the event of any historical war, while your female ancestors were at home complaining about how much they're being oppressed. We get it already; you had a deadbeat dad who left you because of your manipulative wh0re of a mother, which you appear to resemble. As such, you grew up to hate men that you cannot manipulate, which would explain how you and your whimpy boyfriend became a couple. Now take a deep, tobacco-infected breath, have a wank - whatever. Just stop polluting the damn forums with your feminist bullsh1t. I bet you even think the signs on the women's washroom doors are sexist because they have skirts. Jesus Christ...SmilingJack79

Who was the idiot that threw out the manual?ZuluEcho14