why are people so threatened by shy people

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#1 kemar7856
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?any ideas

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#2 LJS9502_basic
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I've never known anyone threatened by a shy person. A shy person may be misunderstood...but that does not mean they are considered a threat. Perhaps if you elaborate more on your idea.....
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#3 unholymight
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They knew better than to underestimate the power of shyness.
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#4 MuddVader
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Because we are amassing an evil greater than any ever seen under our guise of inner and outer solitude.

Seriously though I have no clue what you are talking about. Ive never known anyone to feel threatened by a shy person unless they are smiling menacingly in a corner mumbling curses and so on at people they dont like.

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#5 cd_rom
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Elaborate? People might ignore shy people because shy people show no interest in meeting people. I don't see how that translates to fear or intimidation.
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#6 IRunNewYork
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i doubt anybody find shyness threating... maybe picking up girl wise cause chicks dig the shyness

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#7 perphekt
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I'm not threatened by people who are shy. It's more of, I'm a very confident open-ended person, I say what i want when I want to say it, without really thinking about what I'm saying. I'm very out-spoken, wild and hyper. So when i'm around shy individuals I purposely throw them into conversations, or get them to try to talk, when they don't that's when i get irritated.
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#8 tocool340
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Because the quiet shy ones are often the deadliest of people....
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#9 unholymight
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I'm not threatened by people who are shy. It's more of, I'm a very confident open-ended person, I say what i want when I want to say it, without really thinking about what I'm saying. I'm very out-spoken, wild and hyper. So when i'm around shy individuals I purposely throw them into conversations, or get them to try to talk, when they don't that's when i get irritated. perphekt
I think that's just going to get them deeper into their shyness.
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#10 Bedizen
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There must be more to the story

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#11 PlasmaBeam44
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I'm a shy person and I have no idea what your talking about.

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#12 trust_nobody
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There must be more to the story

Bedizen



Yeah you gotta elaborate.

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#13 perphekt
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[QUOTE="perphekt"]I'm not threatened by people who are shy. It's more of, I'm a very confident open-ended person, I say what i want when I want to say it, without really thinking about what I'm saying. I'm very out-spoken, wild and hyper. So when i'm around shy individuals I purposely throw them into conversations, or get them to try to talk, when they don't that's when i get irritated. unholymight
I think that's just going to get them deeper into their shyness.

Eh, for me though, it works 90% of the time.

I have a rough exterior, I'm kind of the girl that other girls/guys look at and aren't sure if i'm, nice... per say... I'm not mean (i can be, obviously) but i'm a very caring person, but i just come off as a hard ass i guess. So, when i'm around someone that's shy, i'm usually being myself and cracking jokes, goofing off... so they come out of it. Seeing that i'm not, a gigantic **** Ha. :)


But yeah, sometimes you're right, it just pushes them deeper into it and it's a lost cause... i don't stop what i do around them, but i think i might scare them.

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#14 1hit
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I've never known anyone threatened by a shy person. A shy person may be misunderstood...but that does not mean they are considered a threat. Perhaps if you elaborate more on your idea.....LJS9502_basic

Shy people are definitely misunderstood.

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#15 weezyfb
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i guess they are seen as secretive
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#16 MJ4040
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?any ideas

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because according to the girl that looked like a dude in the tv show Recess, "the quiet ones are always the ones who are up to the most trouble" lol
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#17 Brainkiller05
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if by shy you mean the exact opposite of shy then yes you might have a point
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#18 cornholio157
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i have no idea, people in high school were scared of me and i had never sayed a word to them. its probly something to do with the news media playing up everytime theres a shooting especialy in schools that the shooter was a loner.

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#19 one_plum
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Extraversion is the norm, so introverts are treated like outcasts who will do crazy things.

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#20 Never3ndingLife
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never heard of anyone being scared of shy people lol... i
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#21 DeadApeBladder
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C: Don't ask me I've never been scared of a shy person.

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#22 X360PS3AMD05
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They think we're plotting against them :evil:
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#23 Nifty_Shark
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Never felt threatened by a shy person. A shy person is wither known as a "weirdo" or "sweet and quiet" most of the time.

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#24 HitomiChan
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i dont get it.. :P.. people are threatened by shyness? .. really?

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#25 Neon-Tiger
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Never felt threatened by a shy person. A shy person is wither known as a "weirdo" or "sweet and quiet" most of the time.

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I'm mostly known as weirdo I guess... Not much of a threat to anyone, to shy too talk to strangers and girls. :(
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#26 tomo90
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I don't know...:?

I'm fairly shy, I like to think people aren't threatened by me...or are they?

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#27 deactivated-61d91d42c39df
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cause i'm the guy with the trenchcoat loading up the pump action shotgun quietly in the corner....

but seriously

i'm a shy/reserved person. I really don't talk much but people in the past have assumed i'm being unfriendly or rude, which is not the case.

People have become too afraid of silence.

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#28 jimmyjammer69
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Shyness doesn't bother me, but anxiety does. I get put on edge when I'm around somebody who's very nervous.
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#29 Pvt_r3d
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What do you mean exactly? The only thing that comes to my mind is this saying my P.E. teacher came up with in high school, "The ones you have to watch out for are the quiet ones."
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#30 DigitalExile
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Hm? When people realise I'm shy they make more of attempt to get me to talk, or they joke around saying there's nothing to be scared of etc.

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#31 Pvt_r3d
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Hm? When people realise I'm shy they make more of attempt to get me to talk, or they joke around saying there's nothing to be scared of etc.

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This is what happens to me ALL THE TIME in college! Especially my roomates when they want me to go somewhere.
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#32 Heretix_Aevum
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Threatened? Is that really the right word?

I'm not really sure what you are talking about. I'm not really shy, but I am introverted.

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#33 get-ka12
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They think the 'quiet ones' and the 'loners' are going to go on a shooting rampage, which is a dumb stereotype.
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#34 Heretix_Aevum
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They think the 'quiet ones' and the 'loners' are going to go on a shooting rampage, which is a dumb stereotype.get-ka12

Well yeah, anyone who thinks anything along those lines is obviously an idiotic moron :lol:.

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#35 Doctor-McNinja
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I agree; shy people do tend to be ostracized and treated with suspicion, but i guess they sort of put themselves in that position by being shy. I've noticed it at work. The ones who quickly made friends and started socialising outside of work haven't got a nice word to say about the ones who just show up and do their shift then go home.
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#36 LJS9502_basic
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They think the 'quiet ones' and the 'loners' are going to go on a shooting rampage, which is a dumb stereotype.get-ka12
Well no. It's an old saying. It's just that with the quiet ones...not shy but quiet...you don't know what they are up to doing. More than likely a joke anyway.....
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#37 deactivated-60678a6f9e4d4
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I don't think people are threatened by them... They don't understand what they're like, so people can be wary sometimes, I guess.

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#38 HydraRizlim
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I don't know is anyone threatened by me?? (I'm quite shy)

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#39 SunofVich
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Because they think that the quiet one is judging them and keeping quiet about his/her judgements. Makes people a bit uncomfortable.

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#40 WarEagle1357
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It's because we are plotting against them and they know it. They will never guess our plan for world domination, though!! HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!! /evil laugh
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#41 HydraRizlim
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It's because we are plotting against them and they know it. They will never guess our plan for world domination, though!! HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!! /evil laughWarEagle1357

one thing... o.O

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#42 LJS9502_basic
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It's because we are plotting against them and they know it. They will never guess our plan for world domination, though!! HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!! /evil laughWarEagle1357
We don't have to worry about that. Shy people don't plot together. They are too shy.:lol:
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#43 deactivated-57e5de5e137a4
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It's probably not the shyness that is scary. It's the body odor and Yeti-esque hairdo. At least that can be said about this one guy that went to my college.
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#44 vidplayer8
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Theoretically I would say that shy people are hard to read. If you don't know what they are thinking, you might irrationally think that they might go on a murderous rampage.

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#45 _Ben99_
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because they are secretly vampires and if they speak they may expose themselves
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#46 HydraRizlim
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because they are secretly vampires and if they speak they may expose themselves_Ben99_

yeah sounds like me o.O

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#47 KzJoe
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Umm, I'm more threatened of like gang members and p addicts