Why are some people on the Internet so rude and mean?

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#1 deactivated-58188738395f3
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In Brazzilbrief, a forum I used to hang on under the name X4D I asked a guy called Macunaima for some advice relating to a girl I was obsessing over. This Macunaima guy responded rudely to me and said that this girl is a rich kid and that she is not going to date me. This Macunaima guy also humiliated and belittled me further in public in several other threads where we had an argument. He also called me an Emo boy who digs the abuse after I responded back to him in the same rude manner.

You can see his whole argument here:

http://www.brazzilbrief.com/viewtopic.php?t=7963038&postdays=0&postorder=asc&highlight=emo&start=140

http://www.brazzilbrief.com/viewtopic.php?t=7963269&highlight=woods

My question is: Why are some people so mean on the Internet?

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#2 -Apathy-
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Anonymity. You're faceless on the internet.

Thread posted is epic.

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#3 C3Le5tiaL
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Because people feel invincible online and some show their true colors.

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#4 BiancaDK
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no real consequences they get off on it
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#5 MasterBolt360
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Because we can. I believe everyone does it sooner or later. We are faceless here, no one knows who we are.

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#6 Xx_Hopeless_xX
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Not sure...i try not to be...i act as i would face to face...or at least...i try to..

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#7 BiancaDK
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But to spend months of your life obsessing over someone you've never met, whose photo you've only seen on the internet, who sent you ONE e-mail politely telling you she wasn't interested...

That may be normal, healthy behavior in your neck of thewoodsover in Jersey, but it certainly isn't in mine.

Love? The kid's never even met the girl. He just started stalking her because he got a ***** watching her skinny ass on YouTube.

Macunaima

lawl.

Gotta´ hand it to him, the man does seem to have a point.

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#8 ramboturd72
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Think of it this way: if you had the chance to say mean things to someone you hate without the chance of you getting physically hurt, having people see your reactions, and a lesser risk of you getting in trouble, would you take it? A lot of people would, and that's exactly why they bash people over the internet. Anonymity is the security blanket of the internet, and it gives people the power to say things that they couldn't say to you in real life.

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#9 Euroshinobi
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Because its fun, infact i'm planning on making a flammatory youtube video =D

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#10 acidicadis
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Because over the internet, they have ballz

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#11 Dystopian-X
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Because ppl on the internet don't have feelings. : D
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#12 Deihjan
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Because we can. Also, I'd hate to say it, but your posts on that forum are pretty dumb... :?
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#13 Major_Commie
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Lack of body language, so people assume the worst also, anonymity
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#14 XD4NTESINF3RNOX
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Because we can :evil:
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#15 Snipes_2
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Because people feel invincible online and some show their true colors.

C3Le5tiaL

That's pretty much it.

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#16 clyde46
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Welcome to the internet.

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#17 michael_1234576
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The internet is a cruel place filled with cruel people, much like a room filled with cruel objects.

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#18 ariz3260
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I wouldn't take it so serious, it can only hurt you if you let it

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#19 SolidSnake35
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The internet is a cruel place filled with cruel people, much like a room filled with cruel objects.

michael_1234576
I think this analogy holds very true. But also, people can be just as mean in real life.
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#20 harashawn
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You can do anything you want on the internet without direct consequence.
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#21 CornerUncle
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Because its anonymous and the guy in that thread was totally right.
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#22 trenno2529
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some people do it because it's funny. some people do it so they can feel better about their pathetic failure of a life.

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#23 SolidSnake35
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Because its anonymous and the guy in that thread was totally right.CornerUncle
Don't be a meanie. Infatuations are a part of growing up. >.>
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#25 Nintendevil
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Better question: Why do you care?

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#28 Paladin_King
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Two words: "Keyboard Warriors." It's an environment where you can say anything you want completely anonymously and usually with no consequence whatsoever. Most of the dickheads you find online wouldn't voice half, if any, of the opinions they voice online. And even those that would would be much more easily cowed in real life. For instance, how often in life do you see one person say two sentences, only for another person to retort with a snivelling, essay-length tirade?
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#29 CornerUncle
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[QUOTE="CornerUncle"]Because its anonymous and the guy in that thread was totally right.X4D

Even if that guy is right and that's verydebatable, there is a nice and civilized way of saying things.PersonallyI think that Macunaima guy just made himself look like an ass.

Eh, best be saying what is on your mind than try and beat around the bush.Thats balls wording something different. Maybe the OP will wake up after that telling off.
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#30 SolidSnake35
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[QUOTE="CornerUncle"]Because its anonymous and the guy in that thread was totally right.X4D

Even if that guy is right and that's verydebatable, there is a nice and civilized way of saying things. I think that Macunaima guy just made himself look like an ass.

Having read a bit of the thread, he wasn't really being "mean", you know. I think you just don't like what he has to say about the issue. I can understand how you might feel but, if everyone pats your head throughout life when you're not happy, you'll never get anywhere.
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#31 Paladin_King
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I didn't read the OP. I actually think it's pretty funny that someone's come onto GS with links to complain about their poor treatment on another forum.
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#32 LJS9502_basic  Online
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Some people are that way in person as well....
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#33 SolidSnake35
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I didn't read the OP. I actually think it's pretty funny that someone's come onto GS with links to complain about their poor treatment on another forum.Paladin_King
He knows we on GameSpot welcome the bullied with open arms.
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#34 LJS9502_basic  Online
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[QUOTE="Paladin_King"]I didn't read the OP. I actually think it's pretty funny that someone's come onto GS with links to complain about their poor treatment on another forum.SolidSnake35
He knows we on GameSpot welcome the bullied with open arms.

How goes it Benjamin?
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#35 SolidSnake35
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[QUOTE="SolidSnake35"][QUOTE="Paladin_King"]I didn't read the OP. I actually think it's pretty funny that someone's come onto GS with links to complain about their poor treatment on another forum.LJS9502_basic
He knows we on GameSpot welcome the bullied with open arms.

How goes it Benjamin?

Very well thanks. How are things with you, Bob?
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#36 DabsTight703
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Because people feel invincible online and some show their true colors.

C3Le5tiaL
QQ is all I have to say. You can not honestly expect everyone on the internet to show sympathy for your "girl problems".
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#37 one_plum
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Either

1. Some sort of vengeance because they often face rude and mean people in their life outside the Internet

2. Their true personality

3. To gain e-cred (as opposed to street cred)

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#38 harashawn
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[QUOTE="SolidSnake35"][QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][QUOTE="SolidSnake35"] He knows we on GameSpot welcome the bullied with open arms.

How goes it Benjamin?

Very well thanks. How are things with you, Bob?

LJS's name is... Bob?! :shock:
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#39 htekemerald
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People on the internet are not mean, they are just honest.

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#40 BiancaDK
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[QUOTE="harashawn"]LJS's name is... Bob?! :shock:

I am equally as stoked as you are ^.^
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#41 pianist
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Because some people are rude and mean, period.

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#42 jherbach1222
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Because people can say things here that they would probably never in real life. I have a feeling if that guy met you in person he would look completly different from what you imagined. Plus its easy to get away with it on the internet you can be the most shy person in the real world and come here and have Kahonas of steel lol

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#43 ShuichiChamp24
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I found those post to be pretty funny.

Anyway, people are mean on the internet cause they can, be honest, who wouldn't be a little bad when you are invisible?

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#44 gamertylers
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anonymity makes people not care about what they say or who it affects because it will never get back them. I'll be honest, I've been a jerk online to people in a way that I would never do in real life. Was it fun at the time? Yes. Do I regret it now? Absolutely. Although many people would disagree, I think it is possible to be in love with someone even if you haven't met face to face.
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#45 Pvt_r3d
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Because they are big meanies.
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#46 Regent192
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because no one can punish us

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#47 Good-Apollo
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Meh, just remember that the vast majority of what is considered mean or rude online, is by people who would not have the stones to repeat it to someone's face in real life.
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#48 davinadarkstar
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They enjoy seeing other people get pissed off.

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#49 btaylor2404
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Anonymity brings out the worst in some people, some of us are our normal selves. With ups and downs, others take advantage of the fact the other person isn't in the same room with them and act like jerks, IMO.
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#50 coolkid93
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Listen here "Super Bagman" :P, Some people will do that. You wanna know why? Because THEY ARE BEHIND A COMPUTER SCREEN. They're all big and bad behind a screen but if you two were standing infront of each other, he probably wouldn't have done that. Some people can talk and back it up and some are all bark, no bite. And there's also other reasons why some people act like that. Like I said earlier, There are some people that can talk and back it up and then there's some that are all bark and no bite. Some people also like to just do it just for the heck of it also.