why do girlfriends like to be treated badly??

Not mine. My wife's ex-boyfriend was a lawyer and had a pompous attitude to go with his profession....a total prick. She didn't like it one bit which is why she hooked up with me.

I can be a total prick too. But, it's usually directed at someone else and not my wife.

I had a girlfriend in highschool that was really into me when we first started dating. Then six months later i let the "i love you" slip out. About a week after that she broke up with me. What's funny to me is i wasn't into her when we first started dating and i kind of treated her not as good as i did later on, so why would she like me the most at a time when i treated her rather poorly??

P.s. she creeped on my facebook to see if i was talking to other girls in the begining, then 6 months later after me saying i love you she split and didn't want to have anything to do with me???

This i just don't understand. Some insight please.

Some girls never grow out of being drawn to poor relationships, I think it stems from them having father issues or just having a crappy childhood.CursedChamp

Often times its a result of abuse (usually sexual) or having a VERY strict upbringing, these kinds of gals subconsciously seek out abusers to form unhealthy, sick relationships. Guys that are abused will usually take the role of abusers as adults, women will generally take the role of victims. It is important to find a way to break this cycle because this can go on their entire life.

See, I got something out of Abnormal Psychology class ;)

High school relationship.Zeviander

cause people are brought up with the"if something is hard,its much more worth it" mentality.so when people,especially women,find something,a man or generally a situation that unfolds very well they dont appreciate it cause its easy.

Says "I Love You" to a Girl after being with her for 6 months

Gets dumped a week later 

Ooo I can just imagine that becoming a meme

It is the chase that is fun.

Once you have caught your prey it gets boring.

Some girls never grow out of being drawn to poor relationships, I think it stems from them having father issues or just having a crappy childhood.CursedChamp

this,just stay clear or take advantage of them if you can,they deserve it

Kind of hard to answer since I don't know sp[ecifically what "treating someone poorly" in your context was, or "treating her better."

I guess to answer why some girls might go into a bad relationship? maybe desperation, or maybe because of growing up in a bad enviroment and getting a poor idea of what makes a good relationship.

It is the chase that is fun.

Once you have caught your prey it gets boring.

Angie7F

Not all girls are like that,so far I haven't met a girl that likes being treated badly.

They don't...

High school relationship.Zeviander

 She does have father issues and had a crappy childhood

Not mine. My wife's ex-boyfriend was a lawyer and had a pompous attitude to go with his profession....a total prick. She didn't like it one bit which is why she hooked up with me.

I can be a total prick too. But, it's usually directed at someone else and not my wife.

jun_aka_pekto

How romantic :P

Some girls never grow out of being drawn to poor relationships, I think it stems from them having father issues or just having a crappy childhood.CursedChamp

I agree. You just need to be lucky enough to find a girl with no real issues.

[QUOTE="CursedChamp"]Some girls never grow out of being drawn to poor relationships, I think it stems from them having father issues or just having a crappy childhood.johnd13

I agree. You just need to be lucky enough to find a girl with no real issues.

lulz, high school

[QUOTE="CursedChamp"]Some girls never grow out of being drawn to poor relationships, I think it stems from them having father issues or just having a crappy childhood.AFBrat77

Often times its a result of abuse (usually sexual) or having a VERY strict upbringing, these kinds of gals subconsciously seek out abusers to form unhealthy, sick relationships. It is important to find a way to break this cycle because this can go on their entire life.

See, I got something out of Abnormal Psychology class ;)

[QUOTE="AFBrat77"]

[QUOTE="CursedChamp"]Some girls never grow out of being drawn to poor relationships, I think it stems from them having father issues or just having a crappy childhood.Allicrombie

Often times its a result of abuse (usually sexual) or having a VERY strict upbringing, these kinds of gals subconsciously seek out abusers to form unhealthy, sick relationships. It is important to find a way to break this cycle because this can go on their entire life.

See, I got something out of Abnormal Psychology class ;)

:lol: a daunting task!

Most girls have no idea what they want through high school and even college. I wouldn't even say that they like being treated badly; they often don't know the difference between "good" and "bad" behavior early on. I'm not talking about sexual assault-level bad, just general teenage boy dickish behavior.

Of course, some girls/women still like bad boys even after college. Not sure why.

I had a girlfriend in highschool that was really into me when we first started dating. Then six months later i let the "i love you" slip out. About a week after that she broke up with me. What's funny to me is i wasn't into her when we first started dating and i kind of treated her not as good as i did later on, so why would she like me the most at a time when i treated her rather poorly??

 

P.s. she creeped on my facebook to see if i was talking to other girls in the begining, then 6 months later after me saying i love you she split and didn't want to have anything to do with me???

This i just don't understand. Some insight please.

luckykoopsie

Because their mothers are idiots.

any number of reasons .. she may have low self esteem , afraid of  commitment, scared that it won't last or simply it was a game for her. we will never know.
man don't think about it much , there's lotta fish in the sea .. much much prettier fish with bigger ..... tails :) 

Most girls have no idea what they want through high school and even college. I wouldn't even say that they like being treated badly; they often don't know the difference between "good" and "bad" behavior early on. I'm not talking about sexual assault-level bad, just general teenage boy dickish behavior.

Of course, some girls/women still like bad boys even after college. Not sure why.

jimkabrhel

thats true but the majority grow out of that unless they are stuck in the loop I mentioned 2 posts ago.

[QUOTE="jun_aka_pekto"]

Not mine. My wife's ex-boyfriend was a lawyer and had a pompous attitude to go with his profession....a total prick. She didn't like it one bit which is why she hooked up with me.

I can be a total prick too. But, it's usually directed at someone else and not my wife.

Kats_RK

How romantic :P

She sure is. She is the kind of woman to say, "If you're going to spend that much on roses that'll die in a few days, just skip it and give me the money." :lol:

High school relationship.Zeviander

This exactly. You can't expect a high school girl to act in a way that makes sense. You probably don't, yourself. Don't worry about it. There is literally no purpose in investing yourself, mentally and/or emotionally, in a high school relationship.

High school relationship.

Too young.

They don't, at least not the ones that aren't boy corrupted 

High school relationship.Zeviander

lulz, high school

lostrib

High school relationship.

Too young.

Cyberdot

I am not saying that this was the case here, but it is not that they like to be treated badly; some girls simply like the challenge of having a guy with some behavior problems.

They think they can be the one that will "fix" him, and that sort of difficult task is what attracts them.

Not all girls are like that,so far I haven't met a girl that likes being treated badly.

Kats_RK

Simple answer - they don't.  Or at least the non-masochists don't.  Tolerating a situation does not mean they like the situation.  Why they tolerate mistreatment is whole different can of worms, though.  There are an awful lot of reasons that a person may remain in a relationship which is clearly not working out.

Simple answer - they don't.  Or at least the non-masochists don't.  Tolerating a situation does not mean they like the situation.  Why they tolerate mistreatment is whole different can of worms, though.  There are an awful lot of reasons that a person may remain in a relationship which is clearly not working out.

pianist

I figured it out about a year ago.

Girls go after douchebags who treat them like crap because girls are taught at a young age that if a boy is mean to you, it means he likes you.

High school relationship.Zeviander

This is so true

girls dont like some clingy asshole calling constantly and bringing flour .. 

They are depraved creatures.Laihendi

I think if you met most of the girls and women out there who fit this type, you'll find they aren't depraved my most interpretation of the word. Except for your interpretation.

depraved: marked by corruption or evil

Because relationships in high school are for the most part stupid.